ONE ARIES TO ANOTHER..WHAT SHOULD I DO

I have been flirting hardcore with a virgo male that works in my local grocery store. I felt him staring at me a year ago and since then I have flirted in a smnall inoocent way until a couple months ago I flirted one day wayyy too long of a stare, like 5 seconds and he stared back. My child like aries ignited..and I go insecure and I disappeared for a month. I am probobly perceived as playing games. When I saw him again, I that next month I ran out with out saying anything because I felt paralyzed with anxiety...he is soo gorgeous and there is a weird connection. He stares at me so hardcore I never felt that from someone and it has made me nervous.

So now I decided to go back and I said hello and he flirted back again and I kept staring as he did and I did so as I kept walking where my neck was turned back from keeping his stare.....

I really feel like I need to give him my phone number. I would be weird now...not doing that. You do't stare like that with people unless there is some hidden dialogue going. I am usually very very very assertive!! I just need some Arian love here people. I do know for sure there is mutual attraction...I just want to be me and be real. LIke..."hey, here is my number if you ever want to share a conversation. ...then leave it at that. I feel like it has to progress or nothing. Maybe I have a deep fear of rejection....

What's the worse that could come of it? Having to shop a different store? Plunge in!

I like your idea ariescusp 🙂 Be bold!

am I the only aries gal to dream for sometimes months about sometimes, and I am guilty of maybe fabricating in my head in the past, I admit, however, this time it just feels different. Its funny that when you have a crush, it makes you act silly. Its awfully the best uncomfortable feeling ever...lol

^^^^ I dream about a guy for an extremely long time too, I met someone last year that just now transpired, he was a shy pisces that didn't make a move until I disappeared for 4 weeks.... And yes I now feel stupid uncomfortable around him lol

@slicklildee..is your mercury in pisces like mine too??

Posted by xxnightbynight
dooooo it! 😄 - go up to him, say hi and start up conversation! - ask him out for coffee!! do SOMETHING!!

regrets are for suckers!!!

omg I need to hang around more fire signs!!

im not sure, i still need to have my chart read....but yeah I suggest just go for it or let it go with hopes of him returning.

On some real shit, don't. Just keep talking and flirting. A girl should never ask for a number unless it's thought to be business! just wait. Guys perceive girls differently. He'll know you want it now or later so just be cool.

o god i daydream and obssess over all my crushes, its really annoying now. When I was younger it was cool. Its nice for a lil while tho and I have merc in Pisces too. I can daydream the whole day away

Posted by Chachacha
On some real shit, don't. Just keep talking and flirting. A girl should never ask for a number unless it's thought to be business! just wait. Guys perceive girls differently. He'll know you want it now or later so just be cool.

I was going to give him my number. Its too hard to try and get to know him while he's working. I"m not even sure if he is interested, but it seems he is so I thought I would give him some christmas candy with my number. If he calls, then I will know, otherwise, I can stop this daydreaming...lol...

hello love..well do you believe in divine intervention?? I had a card with some candy and went to his store this morning. Went to the juicebar and when I finished paying he was right behind me. So I said hello, he said hello. Then I walked around went back to get my drink and his was in front of me so he reached with his left hand right in front of me..and yuppp.....he's MARRIED!!!!! wtf, who is married and flirts like he was. I mean he was staring at me. At first I thought maybe he's staring cuz he wants to know what the hell I" staring at, but please, we are both evolved humans and he has to know I liked him,,,right? i"m sad but relieved I can move on. The funny thing is the fear and the paralized stupid emotions I was having are gone. I"m going back and asking him where the hell the friggen cheese is...lol.

LOL...sorry to laugh but you didn't check the ring finger right away?? That's usually the first thing I do when I see an attractive chick, saves a lot of time and trouble. Well atleast you will know next time 😛

Posted by incandescentcancer
LOL...sorry to laugh but you didn't check the ring finger right away?? That's usually the first thing I do when I see an attractive chick, saves a lot of time and trouble. Well atleast you will know next time 😛

ok, but I am still curious as to what he was staring at. When I think about it, I would say something and we would lock eyes and I would keep walking so I turned my neck and we both stare. What is that though?? Was he just looking at me to see what I was doing? I would think that he would know, its obvious I would think. And why would a MARRIED man flirt with someone like that. Flirting and staring like that are for single people, I would think

Posted by ariescuspbaby1212
ok, but I am still curious as to what he was staring at. When I think about it, I would say something and we would lock eyes and I would keep walking so I turned my neck and we both stare. What is that though?? Was he just looking at me to see what I was doing? I would think that he would know, its obvious I would think. And why would a MARRIED man flirt with someone like that. Flirting and staring like that are for single people, I would think

We all stare, I see a sexy chick I look. If she gives me eye contact even better. It's not that I am going to act on it when I am married but a lovely little wank to my ego is always welcome. It's not that he proposed a dinner or something to you. He was just lookin', you built up all this magical story in your head about it. Frankly, I didn't know aries chicks did that (some eyeopener that).

Men!!!! What a bunch of Low Life Scumbags!!!!!

I was going to say Virgo moon. Fess up, what is your moon....

Posted by dofacc
Men!!!! What a bunch of Low Life Scumbags!!!!!

I was going to say Virgo moon. Fess up, what is your moon....

LOL....what're you talking about? Are you asking me?

I don't think I said anything to deserve being called a scumbag...lol.

Hey, being a male myself, I have the inside track on insight of the male psyche. We ain't nothin' but a bunch of testosterone poisoned low lives!!!

Now hand me my bottle of rum. Feel free to help yourself while doing so....

Posted by dofacc
Hey, being a male myself, I have the inside track on insight of the male psyche. We ain't nothin' but a bunch of testosterone poisoned low lives!!!

Now hand me my bottle of rum. Feel free to help yourself while doing so....

Alright, I agree on the larger point that we let our self interest govern us a lot but looking isn't evil. If he had propositioned her I would agree that the guy was a douchebag. Aqua moon btw.

*Takes a massive swig of rum and passes it along to dofacc* 😉.

Posted by dofacc
Men!!!! What a bunch of Low Life Scumbags!!!!!

I was going to say Virgo moon. Fess up, what is your moon....

YES I'M A VIRGO MOON..HOW DID YOU KNOW?
PISCES IN MERCURY ALSO....

HI all, thanks for your support and honesty. I"m feeling really down right now. And irritated,,,,,,my virgo moon will have me analyzing this. lol...Merc in pisces maybe will help keep it together..or it will be the opposite and have drama..lol. Life is good, I will never make this mistake again...also I think that every guy I chased never worked out. It was the ones who chased me that it lasted the longest....

Posted by ariescuspbaby1212
HI all, thanks for your support and honesty. I"m feeling really down right now. And irritated,,,,,,my virgo moon will have me analyzing this. lol...Merc in pisces maybe will help keep it together..or it will be the opposite and have drama..lol. Life is good, I will never make this mistake again...also I think that every guy I chased never worked out. It was the ones who chased me that it lasted the longest....

A little truth in there even if it sounds silly sometimes, you can only love a man who wants and needs YOU, the other way around it rarely works.

Here ariescupsbaby2121, have a round of this rum incandesentcancer and I are sharing. The universal pain killer for the broken hearted, and all that.

Ha, I guessed your moon right!!!! How did I do that, well, I have a Virgo moon,and the way you described your feelings and actions is exactly how I act when I am truly taken by someone. Just plain dead, spot on, actually.


As for "just looking," gotta' agree incandesentcancer. Just cause I am on a diet doesn't mean I can't look at the menu....

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/moon-signs/virgo-moons-what-r-u-like-in-relationships-3416396/
Have a look see about what I have said before about my Virgo moon.