Aries Male -Libra Female: Will it Work ?

Frankly ...Libran qualities can frighten a primitive Aries like me.
Was wondering how the relationship will be rated ?

What qualities frighten you?

I find the relationship blows hot/cold. I usually find it one sided but it could be just bad timing, not right person.

Well...they are refined ...sophisticated...diplomatic...etc. 😉

Hmmm..Watz that one sided concept ?

Why would that frighten you?

One-sided means someone feels something and the other doesn't. Only one person in the relationship is in love at any one time. That has been my experience. I have only dated two aries though. Looking back, I probably should have married one of them but I was in a bad place when we dated. I was completely rebounding.

Perhaps had I been in a better place .... however, if I was in a better place he may not have felt the same about me. Some men like to chase dreams.

Hmmmm...Yeah possibly. But the whole thing sounds discouraging.

What sounds discouraging?

This has only been my experience. Astro compatibility isn't just about sun signs.

O yeah ...I said the astro thing sounds discouraging...Of course therez life beyond that 😉

what I meant is astro compatibilty is also dependent on moon, venus, mars, saturn. there is a lot more too it than sun sign compatibility.

Hmmmm....that makes it too complex. My guess is that sun signs play a major role.

there is no hope. do yourself a favor and abandon every last shadow of a thought you have regarding this libra.

nah, just kidding. as with any pairing of opposites, it will probably be that you two complement one another and are able to learn a lot from the relationship, or you will clash constantly (or perhaps varying times when you are very happy together, and times when you can't stand one another). there is usually not much of an in-between, "ok" feeling in opposite matches.

but if you like this person, go for it, of course.

No. It is only a small part. Any two sun signs can get along as long as the others match up.

Here is a compatibility site:

http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/comp2f

you will clash constantly

This was kind of my experience.

sun signs do play a major role because of the certain aspects of the personality they influence, but yes, there are definitely other factors as well.

all human relationships are complex. some of the most complicating factors are non-astrology related.

"but if you like this person, go for it, of course"

O ....I was talkin of a phantom personality. 😛

Well, ask me about it!!! My bf is Aries and Im Libra...

I have to agree with little_sparrow. The relationship can be very love/hate, hot/cold. Your Aries hot temper and jealousy does really put me off sometimes... Being aggressive and ruthless isnt very charming traits of you really...

But Aries is sexually and Libra is sensually so the bedroom scene is always full of fun and Aries appreciates physical attraction which us Libra have!! and us Libra love the sexiness and spontaneous mind of you in bed! I think Libra is the only sign that can cope up with Aries needs for sexual... (my bf says so)

Aries is like a baby and Libra will always try to understand you in any situation. Aries likes to push and Libra keeps giving... It doesnt sound fair really... Unless you really make us know that we are being loved and treat us like gold... We will always be with you but if you keep manipulate us with emotional blackmail or whatever untill we have come to the point that we have enough of it. We will know just how to back off politely and still remain good friends with you alto relationship is not going to work...

I think it can work if you care enough. if you are willing to compromise and give in from time to time. If libra learns to stand up when aries is being an arse. I once read on a website and have seen many successful marriage couples between Aries/Libra... They rule each other house which effects in marriage and family part... I hope mine will work as well... so Good luck to you 🙂

Libran Girly ...Gud luk to U too in fact ..mine is in a different realm 🙂

I would rate Aries/Libra = 8/10 and Leo/Libra = 9.5/10

Probably because i have too many leo's in my chart 🙂

Oooh I love me some Leos.

yummmm.

some of the longest term relationships I know ... we are talking over 15 yrs are Leo/Libra Kris.

I don't know any Libra/Aries or Libra/Sag. (I have actually never met a Sag male other than my friend's brother and there is NO way I would EVER date him.) I meet Leos and Aries all the time. I prefer Leos. My oldest friend of 18 yrs is a leo male.

High school isn't a good place to be judging this by the way. High school relationships rarely make it out of high school. Minus two leo/libras couples that I know. 😉