Question for Non- Aries

Hey All !

What are Ur perceptions about Aries ? Love them ? Hate them ? Are they manipulative ? Do U feel protective towards them ? What do they lack ? What do they bring ? Much more ....all the hues, if U can, Please.

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i love aries men i always fall for them in a big way,but being a leo i love them too much and want their attention too much and they run away from me after so long,on the good side i think they can be caring and romantic when the mood takes them,the sex is good,they can be generous when the mood takes them but expect to get it back,i dont believe they really want to hurt anyone ,they act without thinking sometimes selfishly,they cant stand it if someone is cleverer than them and have achieved anything more than them, even if someones personal possesions are better or more than they have,an aries man needs lots of space and if they are in a job they like they will work hard and stay loyal to their employment they expect their women to have not very much past and to hang on to their every word and idolise them then they get bored with them,the strange thing is all the aries i know men and women are boring when you get to know them they need a routine no matter how small in their life,they wont do what you want to do.
i still love aries and was seeing one for six months he said he didnt want to be tied down,but insisted that iwasnt seeing anyone else if i didnt phone he wanted to know why or would phone me , i did most of the phoning by the way but then icut down my calls and he started phoning me,i did feel special when i was with him although i had afew doubts when i wasnt with him ,then all of a sudden he started ignoring my phone calls,he said he was working i asked if he was seeing anyone else and he didnt answer then he went away for afew weeks when i phoned he said he was back with his ex im not sure i believe him i wonder if hes trying to make me jealous or to spice things up but im sure i will see him again , i forgot to say aries always mirror you as well they copy you.
this is a bit longer than i intended it to be i guess i needed to get it all out

I have Aries moon, does that matter at all? 😛

I wish I had more to add, but firebabe pretty much said it all. 🙂

Yes Gfox..perhaps obsessively? lol..

GA .. here's the first 5 from each category that crossed my mind, though, I wouldn't consider them to be the most prominant .. just what popped in my head ..


Lack:

1) self control when they get an emotional spike
2) the ability to see beyond themselves = self-centered
3) thoughtless about other people's needs
4) confidence in their abilities
5) foresight of consequences


Bring:

1) a positive attitude
2) great sense of humor
3) stamina and superb physical prowess
4) loyalty (though oftentimes, it's blind)
5) tons of courage and determination


As for loving the Ram .. I love all people ..

And I would only protect the people who are deserving, regardless of sun sign.

Scorpios don't flatter or polish any ego full stop..prolly why they don't get along so well..don't care how supreme an individual might deem themselves...

LOL..hun we get our egos polished without asking or needing..and of course we naturally know we are gods gift to earth..we don't need to be told constantly unlike some!

It looks like Scorpio's do a right fine job polishing each other's without any help from other signs. 🙂

Good job, GA .. you are brilliant !!!!!!

All this just reminds of a sentence out of the Linda Goodman description:

"Whisper something romantic that would melt another girl out of her senses, and the Scorpio girl will simply give you an intense, penetrating look that will see right straight through to your real intentions"...

But Ariens and their charms..Its true what they say, most girls are totally gargar over what they say...

::rolls eyes::

Shit isn't gonna work with us!..

But as for what we think of Aries male..To sum it up...""Alright in small doses"

They need to mature a little
Think
Listen & empathise
Endure

And they would be perfect and all will be rosy with the world..

🙂

(TRUE)

They need to mature a little
Think
Listen & empathise
Endure

Thats an awful lot like Mr.Cancer we are talking here.......

I have dated a couple of Aries men now. My best friend also had a long term relationship with an Aries man. I always find the same thing.

I find them overly sensitive and insecure. They tend to wear their hearts on their sleeves. Contrary to what everyone else has experienced, I find them really locked into the emotions of those around them and very generous with their support. Infact, they watch for emotional changes so intently, I almost feel smoothered. They usually are so sentitive to their lovers emotions that they seem to pick up on my emotions before I do. As my present bf would remind us, "it isn't always a good thing." Especially cause it takes me awhile to figure out why I feel the way I do. I feel I constantly have to reassure them.

I find they are very tender hearted and gentle, but if you do them wrong ... *poof* they are gone. I find them very generous and kind-hearted.

I also find they tend to be really messy and they seem to not beable to hold onto money and be a little irresponsible with it. With them it is feast or famine.

In my experience, they have been GREAT partners if a little smoothering. Very supportive, encouraging, genuine, sincere ... The need for constant assurance is a little much and I have found this with Aries men across the board. (Sorry. I don't know many Aries females.)

One other thing my friend and I have noticed is .... you have to love them in a detached manner. If you get attached to them, they pull up stakes and head for the hills. If you can stradle the line and love, appreciate without judgement and attachment ... they adore you. The moment you cross that line ... bye, bye.

I find they really want to please and make their partners happy.

I am not sure why my experiences have been so different than everyone elses here.

* I feel we're an extraordinarily giving and surprisingly compassionate and sensitive sign...even more so than so-called emotional and sensitive water signs.

I whole-heartedly agree.

FuckingA: "It boggles me how they can't see past their own needs and aren't willing to compromise or meet someone half-way on anything"

Yeah our (Scorpio) mind boggles about the same thing with an Aries...

I am attracted towards aries men because they can be very assertive, aggressive, and tend to have a great heart... but-

they are prone to be:

selfish and
attention needy

My first real "boyfriend" was an aries, he was one of the sweetest guys I ever met...

Yes! This!

* attention needy

That is a great way to sum it up.

FuckinA, you have an un-natural obsession with Scorpio men deep inside. You are really jealous of them deep down. Anyone can be selfish and attention needy. The people who are more aggressive have those charectoristics (or however you spell that) because they have desire for control. It's not a bad thing though and is frowned upon for wrong reasons. Anyway, FuckinA, the bottom line is that you're wrong and I'm right.

The Aries women are very generous people though. I haven't met too many Aries men and don't really care to in general (there's always the good and bad). Plus Aries women are pretty hot. FuckinA, you're Aries, you sound it atleast... Isn't Mariah Carey a good example of the Aries woman? 🙂

I use needles but anyway, what are you going to do about it?

"LOL...I know...how dare anyone ever have their own needs other than those of the Scorpio! Heaven forbid!"

Haha good point

aries are good people & they can be trusted but i think they need attention cause most people tend 2 try & s*it on them cause of they good & generous nature so this is why some of them are cautious when it comes to certain things but one thing i know with april aries is that they Talk alot than more march arians. prolly cause of their decans but other than that i don't know why they feel the need 2 talk SO DAMN MUCH but notheless we love y'all.. but my Gems gotta go in 1st

Posted by Gaurav_Aries
Hey All !

What are Ur perceptions about Aries ? Love them ? Hate them ? Are they manipulative ? Do U feel protective towards them ? What do they lack ? What do they bring ? Much more ....all the hues, if U can, Please.

i have a love/hate thing going on with them. they are absolutely not manipulative in any way, shape, or form. i have a natural tendency to feel protective over any loved one but i feel the least amount toward my aries friends. they are strong, aggressive, independent types so they don't need me in that way. they can lack tact because they're so brutally honest and straight-forward but i'm ok with that. i'd much rather hear the truth no matter how harsh. this is definitely the main thing i love about them. what i don't like so much is their seeming inability to relax and their overt aggressiveness. i'm game for a good mental and physical sparring but i like to have some down time to chill and let loose. every aries i know always have to be challenging me in some way and it gets exhausting when it's constant. other than that i'm cool with them. they make awesome friends!

there is one aries guy that i just recently met that has it out for me (he wants to get with me). he's also down for a challenge but he doesn't act as hard-core of an aries like the rest i know. he's kinda hyper and super fun-loving. very affectionate. i swear he's got some strong air influence in him. he reminds me a lot of my gem and aqua friends. can't do his chart cuz i dunno where he was born.

oh! found out his location of birth and he's got a libra moon!

Posted by ninjamu
oh! found out his location of birth and he's got a libra moon!

You know I think rising plays a big part too because I have a Libra moon but I have a Virgo rising, so everyone always thinks I'm really chill, or boring, until they get to know me.

The only time I was ever like the guy you described was when I was in love, lol I was the happiest most bubbly person 😄. It can be tiring with out that help of love though to be constantly bubbly and happy like how most people describe Aries. People never do guess I am an Aries, they always guess Libra or an Earth sign 😢. *sigh* need to bring out that Aries more.

I love them, they have blunt honesty which I admire so much and no mind games and such, just clear messages with no bs.

My whole family and extended family are aries, all strong, smart individuals. I also like how they can get over disagreements easily, a trait I would want for myself.

But I will say this, sometimes their inpatience do annoy me, when situations calls for patience and they don't have it.

As far as I'm concerned Aries brings its peculiar fire essence to the table, to me this is unique.

To me if Gemini is neutral, Libra is sensual, Aquarius is breezy then Aries I would consider as being spicy.

I was involved with an Aries-and it was intense. He was very considerate and thoughtful-but he analyzed everything that I said and always assumed everything was about him! LOL. The chemistry was incredible-but he was even more sensitive than I am.

Where do I begin!! lol - I'm cancer he's aries and this is from MY experience.

GOOD THINGS:
Loving
Caring
Comical
Helpful to others
Fun

BAD THINGS:
Have hard time letting go of past loves (notice the plural)
Spiteful
Double Standard
Insecure
Bad with money
Temper
Jealous

I agree with little_sparrow - you have to love them in a detached way - showin them you're attached i think goes to their egos and suddenly they don't try as hard.

Good Qualities:
Loving
Romantic
Passionate
Sexual "in a romantic and yet perverted way!"
Negotiater -cant spell (he could talk anyone into anything... or me outta my clothes i swear!)
Rational
Smart
FUNNY as HELL!
BLUNT and Honest!
Great Listener
Easy to talk to
Understanding, sees things for what they really are

Bad Qualities:
Over Thinks things
Can make any situation about him
Wants what he wants,. when he wants it!
Insecure
Jealous
Possessive "whats his is HIS"



I been dating my aries for awhile. When we first dated we dated a month an i wasnt ready for sex, he actually told me he may be going away for awhile and it would be our only chance than afterwards he told me he was kidding he really wanted me, and if i told him no before sex, he would of told me he was kidding, silly me! But DAMN it was good! Were talking all night and Aries pulls out all the stops, They are like animals! They love making love and it is awesome! My new saying in regards to Aries men, "Try it, You'll like it!!!!!!!!!!" *wink*

Posted by CancerianGoddess
Good Qualities:
Loving
Romantic
Passionate
Sexual "in a romantic and yet perverted way!"
Negotiater -cant spell (he could talk anyone into anything... or me outta my clothes i swear!)
Rational
Smart
FUNNY as HELL!
BLUNT and Honest!
Great Listener
Easy to talk to
Understanding, sees things for what they really are

Bad Qualities:
Over Thinks things
Can make any situation about him
Wants what he wants,. when he wants it!
Insecure
Jealous
Possessive "whats his is HIS"



I been dating my aries for awhile. When we first dated we dated a month an i wasnt ready for sex, he actually told me he may be going away for awhile and it would be our only chance than afterwards he told me he was kidding he really wanted me, and if i told him no before sex, he would of told me he was kidding, silly me! But DAMN it was good! Were talking all night and Aries pulls out all the stops, They are like animals! They love making love and it is awesome! My new saying in regards to Aries men, "Try it, You'll like it!!!!!!!!!!" *wink*

ok CancerianGoddess

and who says bad is bad thats an opinion babycakes
and yes his is HIS
if he says he loves you he means it
we can be almost anything we are of course the first sign and all fire and ram
some times we dont thin first so what poeple of all signs do that

heres some things about us aries youshould know we feel things u being fire an all we are random people
we like to make the oe we love happy in every way we can that could be sex or a grat cup of coffe first thingin the morning
and al most never is it all aout us we tend to do for others then in turn getours most of us aries want to get ours after our
girl gets theirs thatdoes nt just apply to sex i cant say for other aries butfor e i have had alotof bad relations and it makes
trust and ssue but always try to judge a woan on her own because the past needs to be left behind becaus it was shut out


im very ucky to have a god woman to spendmy ime with i think she will intime understand me more and where
i come from

i wish for a great 2010 with mine and wish you all a gat new year let 11:59 12/31/2009
end and a fresh new yar begin wih your hearts wish you all well

and last but not least "Fear The Mouse Penis"

I Must say Mr. Ceribdis, you are hot, very very hot. I Feel like a school girl looking at your pic. Wnt me to be your naughty school girl? LOL

mmmmmmmmmmaaaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnnnn

i fuccs wit aries, the women are warm aggresive but i notice that with them they are not overly aggresive but they are their own women and i love that, its alot i love about aries women and they are very protective, no. 1 sign to tell if they care about is if they will fight 4 u, best women you could have by your side, and never boring always on their toes and they take care of their bodies i aboslutely luv that

i get alongwith the fellas too cuz they expect honesty, but you better not come across as weak to them cuz they will bully and pick on you until you challenge them. But they make great friends, they share just as muich as any sign and are honest down to a tee. You ever bored, call up an aries i promise you they gon have something to do and they will push you to the fuccin limit when you do go out, and as selfish as they can be, they will look out for you b4 they bring you along anywhere

Aries moon ppl are the same way, l;ike i said i fuccs wit aries ppl,

I've met many Aries, from one spectrum to the other.. I think much of course depends on the moon and other significant elements. My mother's an Aries/my brother a Lunar Arien which i find STRONGLY modifies his virgoan sun..lol

Great qualites:
GET-UP and go! It's really hard to find a LAZY ram!..lol
Protective
Courageous
Loyal
Hardworking, ambitious..
Intelligent/quick-minded (especially merc/ariens..)
Great initiators! (you won't find too many wallflowers here, either.)
Their daring, playful, challenging nature wakes up mine, as do ALL the fire signs!
Physically strong/agile (double that for those with an aries or taurus asc!)
Nice, expressive, often prominant eyebrows.. (i think one of their nicest features!)
A refreshing childlike wonder to them. I love watching a Ram open a gift..lol

Challenging qualities:
At times overly honest/blunt to a fault (GREAT for politics, injustice or the world at-large, etc; other than that, a tad more diplomacy/tact socially in some instances..)
Can be somewhat bossy/singleminded, or closeminded on others viewpoints or wishes.
When they get really angry, it can be scary. (..though thankfully, they don't stay angry or bitter for long.)
Possessive/jealous (moresoe if a marked taurean influence is present)
Impatient or bored easily ..
Hates the piddly-ass, needle in a haystack stuff; more funny then anything..lol
Seems to catche headcolds/headaches easily or feels them THAT much worse..
(Dangers for ARIES: accidents with fire, or sharp instruments; head trauma-likely may have at least one facial scar. Also, excessive arguments with other people.) For those with Saturn in Aries, the same applies..
Elective medical treament or surgery to the head or face region (for anyone) while moody, unstable Luna is transiting Aries is also not recommended.

I love this quote on the Arien/Libran Cardinality: (same cardinal traits, expressed so differently for a similar outcome..)

"Aries is said to be the IRON FIST; but Libra is the iron fist in the velvet glove.."

Posted by CancerianGoddess
I Must say Mr. Ceribdis, you are hot, very very hot. I Feel like a school girl looking at your pic. Wnt me to be your naughty school girl? LOL

ok for one you are you are my gurl so yes CancerianGoddess you can be my school gurl
lol

Aries is one sign I can smell from 1000 KM. Last weekend I was in Milan where I ran into a foreigner. We talked about 30 minutes. The next day again one hour. There I knew it. He had to be an Aries. HE IS AN ARIES SUN people.

Born on 2nd April he has three planets in Pisces. But I did not see the Pisces part. I found him pushy but nice. Brave, not a rat. Thankful. smiling out of a simple mind. footballer thus athletic. He was about to become pushy but I had to brake him. I did it well. He was dominant and I was waiting for supressing his dominant behaviour but it stayed in limits. Well I guess because it was our first encounter. Men are nice at first.


My Aqua girl friend, she has many planets and plantoids in Aries. She is 70 years old and can walk all day long. Everywhere she takes the stairs and not the elevator or escalator. In September she was my guest and we argued several times. With those Aries planets I was sure she would be smiling again if she knew that I do not disrespect her. I was right. We could start new things together. She forgot always yesterday's arguments. Now I do not know what her Pisces part (Venus) think about those yesterdays. A few times she mentioned she would visit me any time again if I were ready to meet her again. Maybe Aqua positivity?


Fact is you ran more often into Aries with Pisces or Taurus in them. Another girl I guessed to be Aries was born on 29th of Feburary. I took her for Aries because she has a good heart. As friend of my another Aqua friend I found her often at the right place with my friend. Either helping to solve problems or enjoying life with sport, such as hiking and swimming.


My mother was on the Cusp of Aries and Taurus. She was a classy lady. She had a heart for everyone. Everybody knew they can ask her for help. She took our education for serious. She read our school books and learned to write and read and continued until university.... brave smart witty ... sunny ... dominant

Posted by Pr0vs
My gf is an Aries. We recently celebrated our 1st year anniversary. Yeah, I don't know how we've survived the turmoil of power struggle. The following were the traits that I've observed on her.

Good Traits
1. Loving and affectionate to her family
2. Physical Energy
3. Sense of Humor (She makes me laugh!)
4. Motivator
5. Confident
6. Rich stamina in Sex
7. Positive outlook
8. Independent
9. Helpful
10. Compassionate (Suprisingly!)
11. Forgetful of monthly anniversary. Yeah it's good because I'm also forgetful of monthly anniversary.
12. Generous
13. Loyal (Suprisingly!)
14. A believer of GOD, prayerful.
15. Very very very Sweet and Cuddly.
16. Honest and truthful in giving out opinion.

Bad Traits
1. She panics when pressured in unexpected circumstances.
2. Her confidence shrinks and becomes indecisive in unknown territory.
3. She tend to follow the crowd.
4. Hates details of any kind. No patience in reading the details.
5. Dogmatic. Imposing too many rules.
6. She doesn't like to watch DVDs, TV shows and Movies.
7. She doesn't want me to read books, watch TV, used my PC, nor do any kind of activity especially if she's at my place - My eyes and attention should only be fixed on her. That's her rule.
8. No initiatives for future planning. She lives in the moment.
9. Politician, she is still talking to friends/acquaintance/ex-lovers who have offended her many times. She doesn't like closing her door of communication even to undeserving friends.
10. Poor choices in giving gifts. If you are with a Leo, gifts should be grand.
11. Need guidance in using diplomatic, polite words especially during job interviews or when asking favor to other people.

wow...great assessment...fits my aries interest to a "T". very interesting!

Posted by Pr0vs
My gf is an Aries...

5. Confident ...
7. Positive outlook ...
9. Helpful ...
12. Generous
13. Loyal (Suprisingly!) ...


Bad Traits
1. She panics when pressured in unexpected circumstances.
2. Her confidence shrinks and becomes indecisive in unknown territory.
3. She tend to follow the crowd.

9. Politician, she is still talking to friends/acquaintance/ex-lovers who have offended her many times. She doesn't like closing her door of communication even to undeserving friends.

As the reason for 9 one could look to +5,7,9,12 and -13.

Due to -1,2,3 and 9 the reason could also come from the fact that she has Taurus or Pisces in Mercury or Venus. Would you please check this for us?

BTW this is very Aries like in my experience:
"4. Hates details of any kind. No patience in reading the details."

BTW this is very Aries like in my experience:

"4. Hates details of any kind. No patience in reading the details."

I agree 100% with that. Specially when playing board games my philosophy is: the heck with the instructions, let's play with what we have and I'll make my own! -it also applies to assembling stuff- 😄

*my first post! woohoo✨

i'm a cancer with libra rising and libra moon. opposite and square to aries which is a very intense and amazing match.
there's always some type of attraction to them.

Posted by Pr0vs
Due to -1,2,3 and 9 the reason could also come from the fact that she has Taurus or Pisces in Mercury or Venus. Would you please check this for us?

>>> Her chart;
Moon/Virgo (Unknown Time of Birth)
Venus/Taurus
Mercury/Pisces
Mars/Leo

Thank you for the information. Let's see once again what 9 was:
"9. Politician, she is still talking to friends/acquaintance/ex-lovers who have offended her many times. She doesn't like closing her door of communication even to undeserving friends.

Besides the fact that Aries cannot be mad at someone for a long time (with next nice try they are nice to you again), here I see how Pisces Mercury gives her nostalgic feelings, her Virgo and Taurus parts collect and keep but throw seldom away. And Leo wants to shine so if the old friends look for her, she enjoys that audience too.

I dare to guess with Cap, Cancer or Scorpio in these places she would throw some of those offending people away.