@Alana
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Rules of Disengagement
How to Disengage from a Relationship Effectively
Disengaging from a relationship involves setting clear boundaries, prioritizing self-care, and allowing yourself time to heal. Focus on your emotional well-being and avoid contact that may rekindle feelings. Remember that ending a relationship takes time and patience. Seek support from friends or professionals if needed to help you move forward healthily.
Sorry should have put this on the misc. board!! Have my eye on a new aries guy....perhaps it was a freudian slip!!
A x
The best revenge is to be happy.
My ex of 16 years is an Aries, my new one is Scorpio, well we must continue I do declare!!!! Life is to be lived. Get along little doggie!!
sometimes you can not disengage, if you could leave and not see each outher great but sometime you must see the outher person on an on going bases like if you share a child or something. then what?
Then it is time to hone in on your skills of accepting the situation and learning how to deal/cope with whatever is presented to you. Maybe this situation is presented to one so that they have an opportunity to learn how to forgive....we may not always forget..but we can forgive. Then life becomes easier.
What we resist will persist...confront the issue and you find yourself moving through it and then it doesn't bother you anymore *wink*
Anyway...that is my nickels worth for the day....I remember when advice used to be 2 cents 😉
Love to you,
Freebird
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Hi guys, now I need some practical hints and tips on how to "disengage" from a relationship. Mr. Virgo returns from his country back home after a month next week and it is my plan to leave him - he has hurt me much. Anyway, I have done a few of the usual things...i.e. made a list of his bad points, failings, of the times he made me cry, thrown out some of his junk jewellery he gave me (but her has kept his good stuff - oh my monetary heart!!), have deleted his photos from my cell phone, and have a plan of revenge for the eventual ending....but sometimes the lovely, good times come back to my mind and I find myself waning a little and perhaps-ing!!! but I will not go there....so any more tips for heart-ousting!! would be appreciated. Probably sound like a cold-hearted b.i.t.c.h. - but deep down I'm not - just hurt to the core.
Alana x