How to get over a Virgo man

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Yoctapra on Friday, January 20, 2017 and has 9 replies.

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@Yoctapra
9 Years

I left him two days ago bcz he treated me with his coldness n never had times for me n ignored me.but i cant stop thinking about him n checking out if he is online.i really wondering if he miss me

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@Yoctapra
9 Years

Actually we spent so much times together.he was sweet n funny guy when he was with me alone.he acts cold when theres ppl around.but even colder when we are away.he seemed not interested to text me.he said he was busy working but he was often online when he was done but he didnt text me.if i texted him first mostly took long times n very short answer.he was pretty fine in the beginning in texting but after we spent times together he got worse n distant.we wud not talk or meet if he didnt want it so i just had to wait n wait.i wanted us to know each other better but cud it possible if we had lack of communication?in the end i told him i had to stop seeing him n i explained how i felt n he just answer "i feel sorry". I answered he wud be fine without me n he didnt give answer.its been 2 days we not talking n i miss him..

Wondering how is he feeling now..maybe he doesnt give a shit

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@Already-use
9 Years

What is important to learn and I think that I have somehow learned that at a pretty young age - I m 23 . Is that NO ONE is worth stressing over . If he is giving you headaches , anxiety , makes you worry . If you have to do extra just keep his attention . He is not WORTH IT .

People who plays with other people's feelings ? Not for me , Ain't got time for that go play with someone else . If you want me , you say it , you show it and that's it . You stay . If you don't , then just go and leave me alone .

People don't realize what they have until it's gone . However don't waste more of your time on this . Certain things are not meant to happen . It's not because of you and you are not responsible of it . However you are responsible of making yourself miserable and worried and sad . I am sure you don't like the situation you are in , but you can stop it . Things will get better with time . Yes time , that's the one thing you can never get back , don't look back and wondered why you spent that much time thinking about someone who does not consider you ?

I am sure you are an awesome person , please learn how to let it go 🙂

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@Yoctapra
9 Years

Thats exactly what happened to me..yes thats what im doing now,let him go.its only 2 days since i left him so im still feeling broken,sad,misearable n missing him.but im sure time will heal me..i just have to be strong now n not looking back..its my first time to be with a Virgo man n never thought he wud make my life like a rollercoaster.seriously a Virgo man is an unique n mysterious personality! He is the best n the worst!

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@Yoctapra
9 Years

@tnmnt : omg u just read my mind! Honestly ive been thinking to text him but im sure he wud not answer so i keep telling myself to not doing that!

Thanks! X

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@Already-use
9 Years

Don't text hiiiim ! You will want to do that . You will convince yourself there is no harm in that . But don't . I can't tell you that you will be ok by tomorrow or in a week / month / year from now . But only time will help . Nothing else . And once you no longer feeling the pain someone has caused you . It's FREEEEEEEDOM . It feels so good 🙂

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@Yoctapra
9 Years

Alrite i will not text him.i promise

Yeah i know i been reading these forum everyday.i shud stop.

CASE CLOSED!

Thank you guys!! Good luck! Xxx