Sag fell for an Aries player. Should I tell him?

This topic was created in the Aries forum by nothingnow on Tuesday, September 9, 2014 and has 4 replies.

Posted by nothingnow
I started working a seasonal job on the other side of the country this summer. I had a coworker who I found to be quite annoying when I first met him. The more we talked though, the more I realized we were very similar.

He's known for being a bit of a man whore. He's slept with many women, although not many this summer. I ended up pursuing him for a FWB/hookup situation one night. He was hesitant because he thought I didn't like him. Anyway, we've hooked up a handful of times, but both still do our own thing and see other people. No exclusivity whatsoever.

I've been in 2 LTR and I never felt this strongly about someone, so it's really throwing me off guard. I know he cares about me to some extent, due to his actions and things he's said. He's very attentive when I speak, almost to the point of eavesdropping. But, I don't think he has feelings for me. I know that Aries pursue what they want, so I feel like he would've already pursued a relationship, or at the very least, said something. And to make me feel worse about the situation, I met his parents at a birthday party we were having for him last night. His mom was a little intoxicated and she kept telling him I was really pretty and gave us her blessing haha (she had no idea we slept together)

Regardless, the season is over in a month and we will most likely part ways, depending on where we both move. I don't want to make things awkward since we do work together. I'm not sure if I should just leave well enough alone. Any advice?

If you dont tell him you'll have regrets cause you'll never know. Yes we Aries like to chase our victims of love, But sometimes we hold back with our feelings/emotion to gage where your at first. If you tell him atleast you'll know, if they are not the same feelings back, you have a great someone and wont look back and say "what if". Good Luck 😉

@nothingnow

11 Years

Posted by RainDancer88
At the end of the season you'll both be in separate places, correct?

I'd let it be. But that's just me.

What are the chances you will keep in touch once you figure out your location? Could you both stay in the same place or are you in school?

Neither of us are in school anymore, and we both applied at similar places so there's a small chance we'll end up at the same location