Sex with an aries guy with virgo mars?

My aspects: Aqua sun, aries moon, gemini rising. Aqua mercury, capricorn venus and mars.

His aspects: Aries sun. Pisces/aries moon (don't know his birth time yet). Taurus mercury, aries venus, virgo mars.

Ok, so I've been dating this aries guy for two months now. I was the one that asked him out in the first place and I was also the one that initiated the first kiss. I'm a couple of years older than him. I instantly noticed that he really wasn't the typical aries. His venus is in aries too, but his mercury is in taurus and, more important, his mars is in virgo.Things are going slowly but great, we see each other steadily once or twice a week and speak literally every day. I'm pretty much fine with the pace things are going because I'm a capricorn mars and venus myself, and my sun is in aquarius, so I'm really enjoying the fact that we take our time to really get to know each other.

The thing is, we're both SO painfully shy. First time we made out in a room alone it took him literally hours to get the courage to touch my boob. We both live with our parents so having sex is REALLY difficult, since we haven't met each other's families yet. I'm a very sexual person, and yet in two months we only had sex twice. I'm pretty sure he was a virgin when we met. Kissing and PDA have been really getting better and better since the first time we went out and I'd like to think that there's a lot of chemistry, but sex, these two times, has been just plain awkward. For the first (and second) time in my life I couldn't reach an orgasm. I touched myself but still, I didn't have enough time to finish. He doesn't know how to touch me and I surely don't know how to "teach" him stuff. Like, I don't want him to feel bad if I ask him for something. The first time we hook up (a month ago) he had a premature ejaculation. The second time (yesterday) I noticed him getting a little more aggressive and confident and we got to the next step but he finished a little fast and stopped moving, and I didn't know what to do. Also, I'm beginning to think that my moves aren't the best.

Does this happen often? What would you do in my place? I feel sooooo awkward, but I really like him, and I don't want him to get bored

" it took him literally hours to get the courage to touch my boob" Lol how old are you?

Things never said Libra and awkward sex.

If it's awkward now and he doesn't know how to be taught. You clearly don't know what chemistry/sparks are all about. Good luck with getting off.

Posted by Sag898

" it took him literally hours to get the courage to touch my boob" Lol how old are you?

LOL, I'm 26 and he's 21

Posted by LibraSupreme

Things never said Libra and awkward sex.

If it's awkward now and he doesn't know how to be taught. You clearly don't know what chemistry/sparks are all about. Good luck with getting off.

Oooooooook chill, dude

Virgo Mars are kind of bashful.... but once going good luck stopping them. FREAKS.

are you sure he's 21 ?

Posted by HeartofTopazz

Need more detailz.

this is what I picture when you ask for more details LOL

Posted by HeartofTopazz

Need more detailz.

We know each other from college. We shared some classes but started talking via instagram, every day now since August. I invited him to the movies and eventually kissed him, then we kind of started taking turns to invite each other to things, generally the movies or to a bar. A month ago I told him to join me later since I had to clean up my grandmother's house that we're renting (she passed away last year), watched a movie and then made out for HOURS. Expressing my emotions physically is kind of difficult for me, and it appears to be an issue for him too. When we were watching the movie, for example, he put his hand close to mine and it wasn't til several minutes later that he held it (it was the fourth time we went out together). After the movie we made out a lot, I didn't want to be extremely forward because I wasn't sure that he wanted to have sex, and eventually, literally two hours later and after a premature ejaculation while we were kissing, he asked me if I wanted him to bring a condom, so we had sex. It was in a weird position and since I thought he was going to last a bit more I didn't have time to take the lead. When I did, he finished a few minutes later so we stopped. It was really late in the morning and I could tell that he had been nervous at the beginning, so I didn't want to ask him for anything since (I suspect) it was his first time and I didn't want him to feel bad.

Last week he invited me to his house to watch a movie but then his parents showed up early so we decided to go to a bar. I think he honestly wanted to watch a movie but also I'm sure that the idea was to have sex too, so I got confident and yesterday, after we went to the movies (yeah we like movies, a lot), I decided to invite him to my house. I didn't know how to ask, but it was easy because he offered to walk me home. My parents were sleeping but my room is really close to theirs, so I told him we could go to the roof, where we have two deposits that look like little houses. We made room inside of one of the deposits and improvised a mattress. Now, hours later, I'm thinking that yeah maybe that wasn't the greatest idea. It was because I reaaally wanted to be with him, but the context wasn't ideal. This time I think he was nervous again but he appeared much more aggressive and confident. It was clear that there was this complicity and that we both wanted to have sex. Kissing and petting were sooooo good, and then when we finally got to have sex I was enjoying myself too, but some minutes later he didn't feel so hard and stopped moving, so I think he came but honestly IDK because he's not vocal. And I didn't ask because I'm so fucking shy. And he didn't say a thing about that either. He held me in his arms and eventually started talking about random stuff while we cuddled or whatever. And that was pretty much it

Posted by tctaap

are you sure he's 21 ?

OMG lol, yes. He had a girlfriend in high school when he was around 15/16, but that's pretty much all the experience I know he had. Also, he told me that last summer he watched about 100 films and lots of tv series. Yeah he's a freak (but I'm really crushing ❤️)

Posted by sabrinaquarius

Posted by HeartofTopazz

Need more detailz.

We know each other from college. We shared some classes but started talking via instagram, every day now since August. I invited him to the movies and eventually kissed him, then we kind of started taking turns to invite each other to things, generally the movies or to a bar. A month ago I told him to join me later since I had to clean up my grandmother's house that we're renting (she passed away last year), watched a movie and then made out for HOURS. Expressing my emotions physically is kind of difficult for me, and it appears to be an issue for him too. When we were watching the movie, for example, he put his hand close to mine and it wasn't til several minutes later that he held it (it was the fourth time we went out together). After the movie we made out a lot, I didn't want to be extremely forward because I wasn't sure that he wanted to have sex, and eventually, literally two hours later and after a premature ejaculation while we were kissing, he asked me if I wanted him to bring a condom, so we had sex. It was in a weird position and since I thought he was going to last a bit more I didn't have time to take the lead. When I did, he finished a few minutes later so we stopped. It was really late in the morning and I could tell that he had been nervous at the beginning, so I didn't want to ask him for anything since (I suspect) it was his first time and I didn't want him to feel bad.

Last week he invited me to his house to watch a movie but then his parents showed up early so we decided to go to a bar. I think he honestly wanted to watch a movie but also I'm sure that the idea was to have sex too, so I got confident and yesterday, after we went to the movies (yeah we like movies, a lot), I decided to invite him to my house. I didn't know how to ask, but it was easy because he offered to walk me home. My parents were sleeping but my room is really close to theirs, so I told him we could go to the roof, where we have two deposits that look like little houses. We made room inside of one of the deposits and improvised a mattress. Now, hours later, I'm thinking that yeah maybe that wasn't the greatest idea. It was because I reaaally wanted to be with him, but the context wasn't ideal. This time I think he was nervous again but he appeared much more aggressive and confident. It was clear that there was this complicity and that we both wanted to have sex. Kissing and petting were sooooo good, and then when we finally got to have sex I was enjoying myself too, but some minutes later he didn't feel so hard and stopped moving, so I think he came but honestly IDK because he's not vocal. And I didn't ask because I'm so fucking shy. And he didn't say a thing about that either. He held me in his arms and eventually started talking about random stuff while we cuddled or whatever. And that was pretty much it

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Loooool.

The nervousness will likely lessen with practice. But stop being so shy! You're 26 years old, you deserve at least good sex. Tell him what you like, maybe make it into a kinky game so it takes off the pressure and he doesn't feel like he's doing something wrong. Guide him, teach him a bit, and praise him when he does something you really enjoy.

So many straight couples don't talk enough about their wants during sex. It's a shame cause it leads to better sex and bonding.

They ALL fuck the same exact way. Cause astrology.

Spoiler alert. 7 pumps and facial.

Posted by sabrinaquarius

Posted by Sag898

" it took him literally hours to get the courage to touch my boob" Lol how old are you?

LOL, I'm 26 and he's 21

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Maybe someone will more sexual experience would be better for you? Lol I don’t blame you at all

that sound kinda boring, ahhh shy people problems.

but some say cappy mars have a lot of endurance, are you sure he came too fast 😆 maybe you want too much?

lmao, sorry my mind started thinking something else 😛