She drives me so crazy

Im a scorpio but this is like a moth to a flame...I just give up. Ill be her friend and talk when she calls but im not telling this girl how I feel about anything anymore. She's gonna start getting a whole new me. Done with this!

Care to share more details??

I would say at this point she knows how you feel...tell her that you want to be with her when she figures out her situation...but that until then you'd rather she not contact you...she knows you're available and taking her sweet time...it's not worth being a part of her complicated life right now...just move on and leave the rest up to her...you've done enough...

Angel1177, are you an aries?

I would like to talk to her about this without giving her the upper hand....i just dont know how....

this story doesn't add up imo.

I find it hilarious how scorpios get aries all wrong. Apparently you guys are supposed to be intuitive.

Well! I will have all of you know that starting from I "overthink" things....that would have been correct. I went ahead and spoke to her. I can say I am glad that we have cleared the air so to speak. Its always been a problem as a scorpio to walk away when hurt. I am really trying to change this. I like to learn and adapt if I can cuz we can be a little crazy in our minds. Assumptions and such. I wish I could think less with my emotions and more with my head. I feel like maybe thats the issue between scorpios and Aries, but scorpios LOVE Aries....virgos too, but these Aries, its like i said, a moth to a flame...and champranger would be right, we do worry more about tasks and jobs versus people, but since we only let a select few close to us, we REALLY do worry about that relationship if we have let that person close enough....sometimes I wish I could care less. Although I can be a cold as a cucumber. I mean we are either cold or hot...no gray areas with us. We are either all in or not at all. Kind of like people either like us or they hate us....

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I find it hilarious how scorpios get aries all wrong. Apparently you guys are supposed to be intuitive.

I suspect intuition might be a thing for both Aries and Scorpio.

BUT, the difference lies in how we handle it. For us Aries we think something is not right, we ask questions, feel around, get an answer, then call out whatever BS we find.

Scorpios tend to be not so confrontational and this works against them. Intuition could actually be bad for them lol.

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Not exactly. I ask questions... But o know an aries who doesn't. I think it could go both ways.

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Scorps do admit when they're wrong. when I'm wrong, I apologize. But I just don't base something just off intuition, I also base if off of facts. All scorpios dont think the same.

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Scorps do admit when they're wrong. when I'm wrong, I apologize. But I just don't base something just off intuition, I also base if off of facts. All scorpios dont think the same.

No doubt you are right.

Some of my Scorpio friends ask questions first.

My answer was based on my own experience. I may be an Aries but I prefer to ask questions first and feel around before I have an answer. If something is off, I will dig deeper until I find something or not. I suspect it's cos of my Mercury in Taurus. But I do know of Aries who love making assumptions without finding out the facts.

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not knowing the facts was the problem between me and a aries. He never tried to find out the truth. He just placed a lot of the blame on me. I understood why he felt the way that he did, but he was wrong. The biggest problem between aries and Scorps is miscommunication. We want to get our point across, but we never really listen to each other. It's sad because I loved him.

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Scorps do admit when they're wrong. when I'm wrong, I apologize. But I just don't base something just off intuition, I also base if off of facts. All scorpios dont think the same.

No doubt you are right.

Some of my Scorpio friends ask questions first.

My answer was based on my own experience. I may be an Aries but I prefer to ask questions first and feel around before I have an answer. If something is off, I will dig deeper until I find something or not. I suspect it's cos of my Mercury in Taurus. But I do know of Aries who love making assumptions without finding out the facts.

not knowing the facts was the problem between me and a aries. He never tried to find out the truth. He just placed a lot of the blame on me. I understood why he felt the way that he did, but he was wrong. The biggest problem between aries and Scorps is miscommunication. We want to get our point across, but we never really listen to each other. It's sad because I loved him.

A LOT of male Aries are like that...smdh.

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Why? What's the reason for not trying to find out the truth about anything?