Silent Treatment?

Why do Aries men, ok maybe not (all of them but some)go silent or weird after the date the night before? We had great fun last night & nothing today!! he has done this a few times but then always comes back after a day or so..... I kinda get the feeling he gets overwelmed by the situation, Because he says such endearing things the night before........

Yea i know what u mean... but he gets in contact everyday, other than the times wee date :s

Sounds like you got it good.

What you may not know, again this might not be happening but I am sure it could, he could be sweating bullets if he is coming on too strong, wondering if contacting you would be a turn off, etc etc.

We Aries are rather forward and direct and fear scaring off those we care about with the same energy.

We are eager when in dating situations and guess it would be easier for us all if we understood what we wanted, about others, etc.

Life is "funny" that way, total driving without a manual kinda deal.

Best of luck

We are constantly being told to back off, back off (and this x100 if we are dealing with a Gemini) we are too forward.
Read: we are honest and don't play games

Apparently your heads will blow off if we tell you how much we care about you (or so I am told over in the Gem forum)and we mustn't talk to you about feelings. You are too delicate to handle it.

Just relax - I didn't think Geminis cared so much, but certainly glad to see it.

Best wishes for your Aries/Gemini thing - it SHOULD be one of the best matches in the galaxy.
xReally

Gemini enquiring about an aries. You wont have to question if he likes you. I had an aries chasing me for about to months and we went on severall dates.. I guess you could say we were seeing each other. He ran HOT HOT HOT and pursued me relentlessly. Theres no need to chase aries man. From this experience, if they want you, they'll chase YOU down and big time. They seem to be very confident and dont ever think they will get a NO for a response.

Thing is that I played games and acted maybe too hard to get which in turn made him think I was either 1. disinterested or 2. playing with him and he has slowed down on the chasing A LOT. So much so that I barely see him anymore, where as when he was chasing me and I was seeing him on a regular basis, I was like number 1 priority in his life, and now, his friends are his number 1 priority and im on the back burner. I only played games and acted "hard to get" because he was wayyy to forward and that was my way of slowing him down.

Although im slowly trying to get back into number 1 position. Working my charm 😉 he is definately giving me the silent treatment and im the one chasing.

REALLY NICE ARIES PERSON: I noticeed you said "We are constantly being told to back off, back off (and this x100 if we are dealing with a Gemini) we are too forward". Why did you specifically say "specially when dealing with a gemini" lol what about us makes you guys chase at 200 km/h?

lol I think my aries man feels like his being led up the gemini path hahahaha i like the way you put it. And also because his 9 years my senior, I havent given up any of my goodies and his bang up for it i keep putting it off but now im thinkig his friends are probably telling him to stop being stupid, taking me out etc etc if im not giving up some goodies. Might have to open up shop for a night then see if the dynamics change!

When he says to tell him what you want to dow ith him... i take it this is in a purely sexual context? As in what sexual things you want to do with him? lol well as a female gem... id only EVER ask that if 1. im comfortable enough with the person and 2. if i was genuinley interested in them and 3. i've already fucked them in my mind 🙂 and i want them to tell me what they wanna do to me so I can get a fuck fest going on in my mind and thoughts once again therefore its a win win situation for everyone because it means the person can mentally sexually stimualte me and thats a BIGGGGG PLUS and the fact that its a big plus means the person and i have that mental connection established.

this gem your writing about. gem 2. how long have you known him for? because I know gem guys differ to gem girls and they tend to be the whores... im going by a female perspective and depending on the time you've known him for and the level of your friendship you can take on board my advice in paragraph 2 😉

what do aries love about gemini so much?

let me rephrase when I said genuinely interested... i mean if i genuinley LIKED the person, had FEELINGS for them.

what do aries love about gemini so much?

the outstanding mindblowing awesome sexual chemistry?

lol i dont have chemistry with my aries man... sucks though!

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@gemini88....After these dates have you tired calling him, or you leave it up to him to call you? I mean if he isn't calling you then maybe he is waiting for you to call. Maybe give him a compliment like I had a great time, thank you. Something simple like that. I was just wondering because you wrote he doesn't call you.

I concur - just let him know you are a Gemini that is comfortable with him talking about stuff. I am sure he will be happy to oblige🙂

^^Best to stay that way babe. For the sake of your sanity.

I could say ive never been sexually attracted to aries either.

Met 3 of them well 3 males. first one was obsessed at first which turned me off then later we became super good friends almost like brother and sister but there was always that element of "flirting" between us but we never took it further.

second one was a friend of the taurus i was seeing. he used to flirt with me but id distance myself since it was my guy's friend but i never felt anything for this particular aries.

and third one which is the one i have at the momment, no sexual or physical chemistry from MY side but from his side there is LOTS and it is possible to have one sided chemistry i believe. He said that even talking to me about nothing in particular makes him horny and wanting to ravage me at any chance he gets. lol.

Then I've met a few aries females but only one caught my attention and we'd flirt back and forth, the mental rapport was super good with her it was almost a match for me but she was just a friend from college and nothing ever happened. She was hot though. I just didnt like it how she was so ME ME ME centered and was so loud everyone just HAD TO listen to her. Got irritating.

So yes.. no sexual chemistry from here.

I haven't run across too many attractions to anyone who was a gemini, though last year I chased one until the whole world knew I was not gonna stop.

I loved talking and hanging out, but man it was like all I got was sexy smiles that didn't go further in response to my forwardness. I guess I will try the prescribed Sag or Leo next time?

My s/o is an aries and he never did that. he worked nights back then and the first thing he would do after getting out of work is talk to me. He said it was the first thing he thought of every day after work. if he didn't get in touch with me as usual, it was because he had something he had to do that morning. (this was before cell phones mind you)

I never chased him..always let him come to me pretty much. But if you feel neglected by him..call him. They like to feel wanted 🙂

Yea I have phoned him a few times, and yea I know what u mean.... when u read stuff on Gemini it kinda makes u think wee are aloof & I am in a kinda way until I meet someone I really like lol maybe because I have the moon in Libra it makes me more romantic 😄

Its been like this though since december 2009 and I am sort of thinking is it ever gonna change? what does he want? O and another thing is : He chats daily to other woman in a kind of flirty way, online 1 in particular a capricorn lady... and if I am being honest it hurts me, because if the shoe was on the other foot he goes mad even if i look at another man never mind talk to one.

An example of this is I asked him if his best friend (mr Libra) could come paint and decorate one of the rooms in my house as he is good at it, and i offered to pay. But he (aries man) was cross and was like Noo everything goes through me first and I would have to be there. He is March 21st Aries & I am May 28th Gemini.



Wee have amazing sexual chemistry when wee are together !! but maybe is that all?? He told me the other night that I was hot, great personality and a peachy arse!!!

But the BIG QUESTION is—? Is he telling this to Capricorn lady aswell—

Yea wee have been since december 2009, but wee briefly split in march 2010 until mid april 2010 due to jealousy issues on his behalf. Its jus a constant rollercoaster ride :S but I do really like him :S its always like one step forward two steps back every time ...........

I'm a Gemini whose always felt very excited when a certain aries man is near me!
I cannot speak for other Gem's but Aries has the mental & physical attraction
like no one else in fact Aries is the only guy I ever felt it with both things
at once mental & physical attraction & it's sooooo passionate!

The Jealousy thing can be hard sometimes but removing things that make his
jealousy worse may help & giving him more attention & just hugging him &
spending time cuddled in bed watching DVD's & thinking about the good times
together & being playful.

oh & bubble baths together with the lights out & a candle burning.
Yes an aries man will take a bubble bath with you & it's also nice
to lay naked in bed together after you get out of the tub & dry off
and play soft music on low in the background & drift off to sleep
this is great in spring and summer.