Suggestions.

I have this journal I've been keeping sporatically since I met my fishy. So. I've been thinking, since I've been such an a** to him lately, I need to do something grand and spectaculor to sway him my way, again.

Should I let him read it?

Also I have this little momento box of him. I've got a card I never gave him, Movie stubs, That poem on my profile is about him, etc.

Would Pisces be flattered by this? Or...not.

Blah.

The poem.......why not leave it under his pillow - when he's not around, perhaps bound nicely and make sure you spray your favourite scent on it..........and let him find it later......who wouldn't be blown away and flattered by having a poem written about them—?

Woulden't be too inclined to show him your journal.....that's your own private world mysticfire....your own secret sancturary:-) - never reveal all your thoughts and feelings to your lover, keep an air of mystery:-)

Anyway, over to you my lovely...

A x

I'm so not good at being romantic. I'm likely to think of something sweet and lovely. But then I'd just plop it down in front of him and say, "Here. This. For you...Me Ram. Have horns."

Ah, man.

I'm getting really excited. Sometimes being apart is more important than being together, no?

d'fish are always tied into emotions---let her know how you FEEL---she'll feel like you understand her.

My best friend is a pisces male and he can be a little complex at times but I'll share a story with you that he did for his girlfriend maybe that will give you some tips ?we r very romantic?

He was driving me home one day and I seen an envelope on the passenger seat and asked him what it was. He handed it to me so I started to read it?On the cover of the envelope it said to: the most beautiful women in the world and fr: shhhhhh it's a secret. I opened the envelope and there was this poem he had wrote inside of a heart he drew?.it was the sweetest thing ever, something you don't expect from a 32 yr old man?anyways I was so taken away by how deep he was it was cute?so I think your poem idea is a good one?

My pisces friend also likes deep conversations and home cooked meals maybe you can combined all three?.

awww thats so sweet... see i want that 😢 and Feb 14 is near geesh i think me and my friend Mr Carbohydrate are gonna have a date LOL!! he never lets me down lol

"Here. This. For you...Me Ram. Have horns."

ROFL!

I tend to agree with Alana about your journal being your private sanctuary. But, Pisces are supposed to be sentimental, so perhaps you suggestion of sharing the momento box would work. Seeing as he was there for the events, it would be too private and he might appreciate that you cared enough to save them. It would give you a chance to show you romantic side without have to venture too far out of the comfort zone...

I have also read that they appreciate the efoort and time put into things. So, perhaps decorating the box and / or wrapping it very nicely would add to the sentimental value. And maybe a home cooked meal, or take out elborately dressed up if you do not cook, would be a good accompaniment (as heidil suggested).

"I'm so not good at being romantic."

I would disagree... The fact that you saved all the momentos would be indicative of being very romantic. Romance doesn't have to be in the form of poetry. Find the outlet that fits for you, and I have little doubts you will stop questioning your romantic-ness.

Good luck!

* it wouldn't be too private

Please just disregard all the other horrid typos...

Ur right we do like the though of the idea of the time people spent on us.. here is an etc?

I was with a Capricorn male who could even say romance let along do it?anyways he asked me what I wanted for xmas?..i said I want u to make me some little coupons like one for a back rub. One for a foot rub etc?I didn't want him spending money as I like gifts fr the heart..yes I am a hopeless romantic?anyways I got a car with two coupons one for a back rub and another for a foot rub?it was sooooo funny cause nothing was original but it was the best gift ever??

The best advise I can give is?u know ur man better then us, just sit down and think of all the endless possibilities u have and take charge..smile tho when u take charge?maybe wear something sexy?.but

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CARD!! i am giving up on typing OMG I SUCK!! sorry people

do something over the top.

like the way you see guys in the movies sit outside their woman's window and serendade...except not exactly that of course.

try to be more feminine about it, but certainly passionate! 😉

He's very impressionable, as I've noticed most Pisceans are. If you seem to understand them and have their best interests at heart, they'll take your advice. Even though they don't acknowledge a word you say, minutes, hours or even days later, they'll randomly say they should do - whatever it was you suggested. 😉

So I know in order for things to change, I have to stop asking him if he wants to be with me all official-like. And I have to start suggesting it SUBTLEY.

He starts freaking out b.c. he's a freedom nazi. The mention of anything together-ness makes this boy run for the hills.

As an Aries, it's very difficult to not know what he is to me. I know it sounds stupid, but I have "key players" in my life. Mom, dad, sister, 2-3 buddies. And that's it. Everyone else are just people. I don't do casual or acqaintance, anything.

And I think he doesn't understand this. He seems to just know without acknowledging anything.

I def. think I'll show him my journal. There are some suggestive things in there such as, "I think I could really end up with him, etc." But being the brutally honest person I am, I'd rather he run away based on truth than fiction.

Thanks for the suggestions.

Guess I'll just have to bite the bullet on this one. And hope I land on my feet when I fall. . .

A Leo friend of mine (female) showed her love interest (male, sounded like a Capricorn---BORING!) her journal just to get him more motivated. It worked!

It sounds like you're pretty set on this idea, so I guess you just ask yourself, "What could go wrong?"

Yeah. I'm pretty fearless, sometimes. This is what gets us into trouble, no?

haha. Think I will, though. Only if I think it's salvagable. Things have been on a downhill decline as of late.

Well, didn't quite make it to the journal. But I did give him this poem (writing helps me vent, sometimes) as well as a few momentos. Yeah. Still dunno. Doing my own thing these days. Tootles.

MysticFire .. here's a suggestion coming from what turns a Pisces on when it comes to being insanely attracted to somebody ..

The whole momento thing is close to the right tract .. only, it's more about people who are passed and have made us happy, but, we are now unable to rejoice in them .. so, if you have something from like a grandmother who is deceased, or a parent, or really good friend ... if you've kept something from a person to whom you will never have communication with again, deceased or not, the Fish will find this endearing .. our hearts will turn all sappy because to us, it means you will go to your grave embracing their memory through an item that you hold in high regard .. it could be a button, or a marble, it doesn't matter what the item is, so long as it is cherished BECAUSE of the love you held for another.

Try that with him .. watch him melt .. have your loving arms ready to comfort him, because his heart will wrench.

We are about death, MysticFire .. the end .. if a person is still there as we venture along the path .. they will be dimmer to us than the ones who have past before us .. them, we see very clearly. This may sound like a contridiction since we can "feel" our environment .. but, what I mean is .. since we feel everything, absorb everything, we've learned to numb-out too much of the sensations we get from other people shining into us .. it's sort of like with the Aries .. new sensations are so overwhelming to do now, now, now, now .. you learn how to handle this without tearing the world apart trying to get it fast enough.

He senses you, and everybody else in his world as being there .. you become dimmer to us, not as important as those to whom we can never touch again. That didn't come out right .. I didn't mean "not important" .. it's not pressing, not an urgency.

I think it's about our senses .. we feel you, we know you're still there because your flame still burns inside of us ..

We can't sense flames that have been distinguished (not physically, anyway), so to them, we have an affinity.

When you said something about how he knows without hearing, he follows without really understanding (paraphrasing) .. we "feel" our way through life .. if someone is dead, or gone from us in some way .. our soul pines away and attempts to continueously reach out to them to try and grasp the warmth of their spirit that might still be with us.

You might be able to find your way to his heart down this path.

Good luck and keep us posted. 🙂