the chase

i caught this aries guys attention at our prom (we used to go to the same school but never used to speak to eachother) and ever since then he's been keeping in contact with me by phone. he's made it no secret to me, that he would like to be with me at some point, but so far i've been making him wait one year. i also haven't seen him in person for one year so i guess i'm one big mystery to him.

he told me he likes a challenge and that's why he keeps running back to me whenever he's single...he wants me, but i'm not giving it up just yet. i cant believe he's not even bored yet...its been a friggin year for christ sake!

i really really really really really really really really really like this guy though, he's the first guy i could actually see myself being in a relationship with (i've never been in a relationship before) and i'm so frightented of rejection and it would break my heart to be rejected by him of all people (y'know when the relationship begins to get sour and loose it's sparkle). that's why i keep making him chase me. part of me wants to be with him now, but another part of me thinks i should keep him waiting so he'll stick around cos once he'll have me, that'll be it, won't it.

any aries people out there, what should i do?

be with him now and try to keep things exciting in the relationship by going on extravagant dates and being freaky in the bedroom so he won't stray or should i keep him waiting a little longer?

Wow...so your expecting this relationship to fail before its even started? Good going!..hows that for positive mental attitude..he'll surely love you for that..NOT!...Wake up and smell the coffee..either go get him like a warrior princess, or leave the poor guy alone..

def give him something... a little thing. because as much as we love the chase (talking as an aries female) if we dont eventually get SOMETHING we'll get bored and move on...