Virgo woman with crush on younger Aries

So, I find myself in a situation and I don't have a plan. I don't want to proceed without a plan.

I am a 27yrs old Virgo /woman and have a crush on an aries guy who turns 20 on April 9th. I want to get to know him through casual dating not asking for anything but an opportunity to maybe have dinner at times, see a movie or whatever you know; but I don't know how to proceed. We work together. I love the way he dresses...he's fine and he has a look of innocence that's appealing and when he laughs...it's absolutely refreshing. I know I like him...it's been about a week.

A week isn't very long, this is a co-worker, so this week isn't even in a private setting .. that might not set well with an Aries, who has a need inside to charm you first .. to jump out there and ask him out, without him properly swaying you over to his side with his natural charm .. might send him a signal that you are easy and desperate .. which will pretty much secure your failure at getting him.

They just work that way .. they have to win you over, first, virgo79. A week of working with somebody probably isn't suffecient for him to have chased you into adoring him, through his eyes .. so, if I were you, I wouldn't ask him out, rather, try to get a group of people to go out and invite him. This would make him feel more comfortable, it would give everybody a chance to mingle outside of work and mainly, it would give you the opportunity to see if he is actually attracted to you, or, if he's just being his natural and normals Aries self .. they love to be adored and admired, that doesn't necessarily mean they want to go out with every woman who notices .. so, to save yourself from rejection, you need to find out if he is trying to "get you", or just trying to all eyes upon him .. Good Luck

Oh, with his birthday coming up, that might be a great opportunity for you to do something special for him .. that could work in your favor .. they like being the center of attention .. so, maybe wait until then.

Also make sure you put your best clothes on when he's around!! Look HOT!!! then that way he may do most of the chasing!! but whatever you do, don't pounce on him and be all "foward" he'll run a mile! aries males like vunerable and fragile girls.

I forgot to metion that he has been working at my job for 1 month and a week. I did not notice him the first month. I remember actually one day he said hi and asked me my name. I told him and introduced myself of course but that was it. Then two weeks ago he saw me and asked me a stupid question and I answered him back the same...(I'm sorry...but at time I did not know I would later have a crush on him...) he said, do you work here and I said...dahh...you forgot you asked me the same thing last week...and pretty much brushed him off. So last week I just started getting little small butterflies when I see him. I spoke with him you know...about the job, how long I've worked here and work stuff. We cracked a few jokes and that was that. I had the butterflies and felt uneasy too just scared I was overdoing it and that he was realize I liked him. And "tight ass" today I look really hot...no kidding. I am getting compliments from everyone and they say I'm glowing in a great mood...what's wrong? Little do they know, I have a crush on a guy here. I told one guy I had a crush on him and he told me today he jokingly told him a girl here has an eye on him yesterday. Now I'm scared he'll know it's me. Oh Gosh...