What's next ? Is he done with me for good or he just busy ?
What's next ? Is he done with me for good or he just busy ?
So i met this guys about 2 month ago, hes aries, I'm a Sag.
we been seeing each other at least once a week for a month(one on one date),sometime 2-3 time a week.One time hes was really nice took me to a really expensive place for dinner, he said because he wanna do something nice for me. And i know he doesn't make that much money can afford that place.everything single time we had so much fun together and he told me couple times he likes me a lot,.Last time we hangout we talked a lot about our past, both of us really opened up i feel like. Also Sex getting better each time.
So since after last time we hang he been distant himself from me, didnt reach out , we haven't seen each other for 2 weeks now. First week he was sick, so reach out check on him why not see how is he doing,but he never ask to hangout. Second week i didnt reach out to him the whole time until thur ( but all week he been liking my stuff on fb and commenting things, but instead of txting me) afternoon see hows he doing and if he will have time to do something next week.And still hes making exscuess avoiding seeing me. He's saying he have a lot of work stuff going on, been busy,and also starting a new job next week,not sure how open he will be, but "he will keep me posted "
So after that day i txt him wanna ask him straight up ,like whats up? and he was like" I start have feelings and i have a feeling that this is going down "that route", I'm not looking for anything serious right now,and i didnt want to keep hangout with you ledding you on, i dont know whats your intentions are.
So i agree to be FWB with him for now because i didnt want to lose him, and i feel like this is not a situation for me.😢 Also we both talked about it we arent talking or hooking up with anyone else, which i trust him , hes a really good honest guy.And he said we are cool.
We have couple txt back and force this past Sat night, and after that i txt him as how was work last night? he never responded back. Never happened like this before, he will always respond maybe just take little longer.
So whats going on ? is he done with me ? or should i give him space let him reach back ? Will he reach back ? I just feel like after that talk he acting little weird. Not like before.......I'm afraid hes gone.
we been seeing each other at least once a week for a month(one on one date),sometime 2-3 time a week.One time hes was really nice took me to a really expensive place for dinner, he said because he wanna do something nice for me. And i know he doesn't make that much money can afford that place.everything single time we had so much fun together and he told me couple times he likes me a lot,.Last time we hangout we talked a lot about our past, both of us really opened up i feel like. Also Sex getting better each time.
So since after last time we hang he been distant himself from me, didnt reach out , we haven't seen each other for 2 weeks now. First week he was sick, so reach out check on him why not see how is he doing,but he never ask to hangout. Second week i didnt reach out to him the whole time until thur ( but all week he been liking my stuff on fb and commenting things, but instead of txting me) afternoon see hows he doing and if he will have time to do something next week.And still hes making exscuess avoiding seeing me. He's saying he have a lot of work stuff going on, been busy,and also starting a new job next week,not sure how open he will be, but "he will keep me posted "
So after that day i txt him wanna ask him straight up ,like whats up? and he was like" I start have feelings and i have a feeling that this is going down "that route", I'm not looking for anything serious right now,and i didnt want to keep hangout with you ledding you on, i dont know whats your intentions are.
So i agree to be FWB with him for now because i didnt want to lose him, and i feel like this is not a situation for me.😢 Also we both talked about it we arent talking or hooking up with anyone else, which i trust him , hes a really good honest guy.And he said we are cool.
We have couple txt back and force this past Sat night, and after that i txt him as how was work last night? he never responded back. Never happened like this before, he will always respond maybe just take little longer.
So whats going on ? is he done with me ? or should i give him space let him reach back ? Will he reach back ? I just feel like after that talk he acting little weird. Not like before.......I'm afraid hes gone.
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