Why's he keep asking if he's a fcukbuddy?

Like its about the 3rd time time? Possible that's all he wants to be and he's tryna plant that seed?

Gonna need context? Anytime a guy says "fuckbuddy" though...pretty much sets off the "fuckboy" radar for me.

What else is he doing that makes you question him since it's pretty obvious you have some reservations about this guy.

maybe he wants to know where you are at - like are you serious or are you just having sex ... I would call him out on it but you need to know what you want and tell him and see

Posted by Capri-sun
Is that how you're treating him?

Not in my opinion no. I do go out alot though, without him but I do invite him. He works all the time and if not working is at home. Im more sociable...

I'll figure out whats going on next time its brought up. I don't really want to have "The talk" yet about where we are going i'm just enjoying how it is right now.

Posted by nyxxee
Gonna need context? Anytime a guy says "fuckbuddy" though...pretty much sets off the "fuckboy" radar for me.

What else is he doing that makes you question him since it's pretty obvious you have some reservations about this guy.

Actions wise nothing, hes been really amazing. But this talk confuses me like hell!

Posted by Koniuchaa
What is your answer? My immediate feeling is that is what he wants, since he keeps asking.

Ask him why he is asking so much?

First time I responded, "if thats what you want to be" he replied "wow'

Last time he said "am I just your slam piece, I can be that guy" I said "I bet you can"

I did call him around 3am 😕 I missed him and didn't want to go home after night out.

I just dont want to label it anything yet but I guess i'll just ask him outright if now since it is bugging me. I don't need to know what it is but at least to know what it's not...

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Posted by Capri-sun
Is that how you're treating him?

Not in my opinion no. I do go out alot though, without him but I do invite him. He works all the time and if not working is at home. Im more sociable...

I'll figure out whats going on next time its brought up. I don't really want to have "The talk" yet about where we are going i'm just enjoying how it is right now.

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Ahhhh. He wants more "label". Up to you. 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

And for "male" responder....PFT! Wrong again (you're a man). 😡

MEN are from MARS, WOMEN are from VENUS

Do all of your interactions involve a Netflix and chill vibe. Or do you guys go out to eat around other people...?

Posted by LadyNeptune
Do all of your interactions involve a Netflix and chill vibe. Or do you guys go out to eat around other people...?

No not at all, we do other things together. Go to cinema, go out for dinner, went to dinner party of his colleagues last week. Now my feeling is we possibly moved too fast, he said no he doesnt like FWB situation because "itsnot fair" He wants to be friends and see where it goes but i'm a little emotionally invested so its going to be tough. And he also acts kinda jealous n stuff. Just plain confusing. Difficult to fulfill the friends thing when he showing me that we are more like a couple. Dunno how to proceed. I dont do blurred lines-if I am your friend treat me as such. This to me means no we shouldn't be kissing n stuff.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Do all of your interactions involve a Netflix and chill vibe. Or do you guys go out to eat around other people...?

No not at all, we do other things together. Go to cinema, go out for dinner, went to dinner party of his colleagues last week. Now my feeling is we possibly moved too fast, he said no he doesnt like FWB situation because "itsnot fair" He wants to be friends and see where it goes but i'm a little emotionally invested so its going to be tough. And he also acts kinda jealous n stuff. Just plain confusing. Difficult to fulfill the friends thing when he showing me that we are more like a couple. Dunno how to proceed. I dont do blurred lines-if I am your friend treat me as such. This to me means no we shouldn't be kissing n stuff.

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Next time he brings it up have a honest mature conversation. Talk about what end game is for both of you.

Let him know that you are getting emotionally attached and would like to enter/or not enter a relationship with him, whichever it is.

Have you had the 'were exclusive talk' with him yet?

Basically he is saying he wants to be friends and that we still have alot to learn about each other but his actions show more than friends...and I dont mean he wants to have sex with me he's actually very gentlemanly. I guess this is just a way of taking it easy and also just not wanting to label it? Or could it be a test?

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Do all of your interactions involve a Netflix and chill vibe. Or do you guys go out to eat around other people...?

No not at all, we do other things together. Go to cinema, go out for dinner, went to dinner party of his colleagues last week. Now my feeling is we possibly moved too fast, he said no he doesnt like FWB situation because "itsnot fair" He wants to be friends and see where it goes but i'm a little emotionally invested so its going to be tough. And he also acts kinda jealous n stuff. Just plain confusing. Difficult to fulfill the friends thing when he showing me that we are more like a couple. Dunno how to proceed. I dont do blurred lines-if I am your friend treat me as such. This to me means no we shouldn't be kissing n stuff.

Next time he brings it up have a honest mature conversation. Talk about what end game is for both of you.

Let him know that you are getting emotionally attached and would like to enter/or not enter a relationship with him, whichever it is.

Have you had the 'were exclusive talk' with him yet?

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No its still early I think...and we are both very cautious coming from our last relationships.

This is confusing .. He asked u if u were his slam piece which I think is a hysterical way to put it lol your response was if u want me to be.. But then you're a little emotionally invested. Your thoughts & words don't match up.. I get u want to take things slow cuz u both are coming out of relationships, understandable, but your thoughts have to match your words otherwise u are confusing him. This goes for him as well. He's saying friends lets get to know each other but is doing couple things. It's obvious u both want more. U will have to have the annoying talk or continue with the dumb blurred lines (which I don't like either)