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Posted by TrueFantasy
MY DC!!!!!

What are some of your biggest fears? Worries?
People thinking im weak. Walk all over me. Take me for granted.

My tolerance for bad treatment has decreased over the years. I will leave but.ive learned to give closure.
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Yeah I'm learning that too but lots of patience but tolerance level is slightly higher on the spectrum of what's tolerable nowadays.
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I'm a cancer rising...

How empathic are you?
Depends on the audience.
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I have a long accurate memory. If i hear someone in trouble, i think about who they are, how theyve acted towards me and within miliseconds ive decided whether to empathize or not.

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I hate that sometimes just want to wash it away and start all over. My memories are there and it stays dormant until I recognize it before and it's starts me ponder afterwards. Like oh no been there done that.
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When you were a child, were you moody? Are you now?


I am equally balanced I think in moods. Except on retrogrades Haha. Now that I encountered some moody, detached behavior in myself. It works. As a child I wasn't moody.

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That's good! A relative of mine has Cancer rising and she was moody as a child, but not now.

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When you were a child, were you moody? Are you now?


Very much so until about 24ish I saw how much I needed to practice consistency and mellow out.
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That's similar to a relative of mine with Cancer rising. At about that age there was quite a change. She also became more aware and respectful of other people's needs rather than focusing mostly on her own.
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When you were a child, were you moody? Are you now?


Very much so until about 24ish I saw how much I needed to practice consistency and mellow out.
That's similar to a relative of mine with Cancer rising. At about that age there was quite a change. She also became more aware and respectful of other people's needs rather than focusing mostly on her own.


Yeah it was really throwing a spanner into my relationships. People liked me and my presence but they felt they couldn't set their watch by me or felt unsupported at times. I don't know hoe I eventually bridged those two things together. For me I think it just came with experience of failing and noticing the world doesn't end either way.

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It's good that you did bridge it. I don't quite now how my relative did, but part of the change happened after she was laid off from a rather prestigious job, and she was manipulated by someone in the company before that. Until then she usually had gotten what she wanted with her ambitions. I think she had more sympathy for people after she lost that job.

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When you were a child, were you moody? Are you now?


Very much so until about 24ish I saw how much I needed to practice consistency and mellow out.
That's similar to a relative of mine with Cancer rising. At about that age there was quite a change. She also became more aware and respectful of other people's needs rather than focusing mostly on her own.




I also remember though around that age - very similar to what you said in another thread about your thirties - that going out the house was a big challenge for me after some losses. Even just taking regular walks around the park was learning how to experience very basic things for me again. So I just became very calm when I realised things that look small to me can be huge challenges for someone else in their world.

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That's a huge thing, and I relate for sure. And I can look back to a few years ago to a trauma I went through, and remember how hard it was for me to do things that now are very simple, small things like shopping at the grocery store. I had to make myself go out back then, now it just feels natural to go because I want to.

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I didn't know you're a Cancer rising, RumiL! Hey!

Do you like to wash dishes?
Hii Alpha! 🙂

Lol! Yes..I enjoy it whenever I get the chance to do the dishes 🙂 .. I have Virgo in 4th house...so... It gives me a relaxation I cannot describe in words :p

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Heck yeah must be clean dishes at home or if I go out to eat.
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