Cardinal vs fixed ?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by LazyK on Saturday, May 20, 2017 and has 23 replies.

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Posted by Chance_12
Fixed. No contest. They can be stubborn to their own detriment. Most of the Cardinals aren't that masochistic (except for maybe the crabbies).

Caps cancer Aries

They are all stubborn as hell and beat themselves up for there mistakes.

Repeat this process over and over

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Posted by Chance_12
Fixed. No contest. They can be stubborn to their own detriment. Most of the Cardinals aren't that masochistic (except for maybe the crabbies).

Caps cancer Aries

They are all stubborn as hell and beat themselves up for there mistakes.

Repeat this process over and over

I don't necessarily see that as stubborn. That's among themselves and is due to high personal expectations. It generally doesn't last long and, in the end, it's often used as motivation to do better.

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Yea they think there problems only concern them, and act like they don't depend on anyone. In actuality they are needy like everyone else.

I spend countless amount of time trying to help them solve problems and they turn around do the same things over and over. I end up trying to help solve same problem a diff way. Starting to feel like they got the woe is me thing

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Posted by Rindaroo
Cardinal - Caps and Aries. My experience with fixed is they will adjust if they care about you enough.

Cancer too. They make it seem like they are really good listeners, but in actuality they think they are the total package. There theory is, "no need to fix something already good", but in actuality half assed

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I have been told many times I'm stubborn and I'm VERY mutable. Cancer Sun though. I'll say I'm reasonably stubborn.

Unreasonably stubborn?

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I'm a Virgo Moon, I don't like acting as an unreasonable dork... I have my moments, I'm not going to deny that.

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Posted by Chance_12

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fixed may not be stubborn. it's more like reeeaaaal shlllooowwwww in terms of adapting changes so it looks like stubborn lol

or they just want to spite you Stinger style lol

trust me it's not worth it lol ?

You sound like we speak from experience 🙂

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just to make sure there is no misunderstanding here (lol) - i meant, it's not worth it for him to spite me in any way or style . i only respond to sweet gelato or sweet talks lol ?

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Posted by Chance_12

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fixed may not be stubborn. it's more like reeeaaaal shlllooowwwww in terms of adapting changes so it looks like stubborn lol

or they just want to spite you Stinger style lol

trust me it's not worth it lol ?

You sound like we speak from experience 🙂

just to make sure there is no misunderstanding here (lol) - i meant, it's not worth it for him to spite me in any way or style . i only respond to sweet gelato or sweet talks lol ?

Why would he, you're a sweetheart 👋

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that's sweet thank you lol

only when i'm in a good mood tho lol happy wife happy life so true ?

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Just ran across this short clip on YouTube. Two Cardinals, Libra and Cancer. I see the stubbornness in both of them regarding the child.

See the inflexibility in the Libra male? I find that many Cardinal males have that "lay down the law" mentality.