1st house Neptunians and/or peeps with Sun aspecting Neptune

What are your specific relationship boundaries?

By that I don't mean "I look for honesty, loyalty, respect, etc" aka values. I mean as specific as you can muster, in terms of behavior mainly.

"If they do _____ then I will feel ______"

If they do joke about me then i will feel fooled

It seems honest to me to say this even joking but without any respect.
Done!

Posted by starwars
if they make assumption as if they know

This forum is full of assumptions

This is an assumption as if I know 😄

Posted by starwars
if they make assumption as if they know what my intentions are i feel misunderstood and that they are not wroth knowing me. so i let them believe it and dwell in their own false misery.

if they played mind games to get me to react, like if they pull the "i will leave" or made an attempt to make me jealous so id react. i dont feel bothered but i do think its childish therefor i just dont react. so they dont think that their method is working or i straight up tell them to change their ways its no use.

if they preceive me in a negative way (after i established bonds with them) i become beyond done I feel like i wasted my time "knowing" this person. i either prove them right or i just scratch them off of my life.

if they try to manipulate me to do something, i feel annoyed because i cant believe they think id buy it. in my head im like "do you really think im that dumb?" i straight up tell them thats its no use either

gosh girl, yes this.

Also what Elle shared too.

I will post more later of my own words, gotta get ready for work.