8th House

IDK how to put this...but do you know anyone who has their personal planets in your 8th house?? Especially in synastries where THEY are your love interest or crush??

What's your 8th house and what are their planets?

Share your views...obsessions...madness over them.

Or if they obsessed over you?

Ohhhh either way, either way! 😄

So I guess this aspect is good then🙂

Posted by Jahlia

Posted by RumiL
IDK how to put this...but do you know anyone who has their personal planets in your 8th house?? Especially in synastries where THEY are your love interest or crush??

What's your 8th house and what are their planets?

Share your views...obsessions...madness over them.

Or if they obsessed over you?

Actually it's the reverse. My moon is in the 8th house of both my sag besties 😄

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Your sun is in my 8th house Jahlia...beware 😐

I know one guy who has his Sun in my 8th house and two guys who host my Sun in their 8th... I have my moon in this house

But if I have the exact birth time of a guy, it means I don't have a crush on them...

The first guy used to be obsessed with me for 2 years. I had no idea... I got to know that few months ago when we talked candidly. Although I didn't have strong feelings for him, I always felt inexplicable tension between us... as if I was on the edge to fall in love

My sun and pluto are in my husband's 8th house. His venus is in mine. Some crazy obsessional fixation definitely occurred earlier on in our relationship. At the time I was still new to astrology and simply thought it was my scorpio bits that were the culprit.

Learning more about the 8th house and our synastry and relationship have given me a lot of uh oh thoughts... I'll probably inherit a lot of his money later on. Or vice versa, since we have a double whammy. But that's oversimplifying it of course.

Posted by Fragrance
I know one guy who has his Sun in my 8th house and two guys who host my Sun in their 8th... I have my moon in this house

But if I have the exact birth time of a guy, it means I don't have a crush on them...

The first guy used to be obsessed with me for 2 years. I had no idea... I got to know that few months ago when we talked candidly. Although I didn't have strong feelings for him, I always felt inexplicable tension between us... as if I was on the edge to fall in love

Fragrance!! 😄

I see I see.

By first guy you mean the guy who had Aries in 8th house or the Cancer sun guy??

I agree with the feelings of discomfort. The fixation can be overwhelming, particularly in romantic/sexual relationships. For some people, they may not like these uncomfortable feelings. Others may actually enjoy it and don't think a relationship is worth pursuing unless you have these crazy roller-coaster emotions. So affinity for 8th house relationships would strongly depend on the natal chart as well I would presume.

There was definitely a push/pull thing between my husband and I prior to us dating, when we were getting to know each other as platonic friends. I remember being sometimes turned on by him one minute and being repulsed the next. WTF was that?? Those feelings and thoughts definitely confused me and partially made me hesitant to start anything romantic with him although he had clearly indicated his interest in me way back then.

Posted by capriaquagirl
My 8th house is Taurus. This is probably why I attract all Venus is Taurus men. Yes, it gets to the point of obsession real quick. Initially i find them too pushy & intrusive. I behave rudely in order to send a message, but they stick around. And after some time I find myself falling for them & getting obsessed. The connection is too deep and sexual with anyone who touches my 8th house...uncomfortable for me.

Gemini falls on the cusp though, which might explain why i get along with them so well?

Hmm..so Gemini is in your 8th house??

And yes . I agree with everything you said! I had somewhat similar experience...

Posted by champranger

Posted by RumiL
IDK how to put this...but do you know anyone who has their personal planets in your 8th house?? Especially in synastries where THEY are your love interest or crush??

What's your 8th house and what are their planets?

Share your views...obsessions...madness over them.

Or if they obsessed over you?

Could explain why I like Aqua Venus ... most of them would fall into my 8th house 😕

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Chaaaamp 😄 *waves* :p

Champ... I thought you had Capricorn in 8th house like me? 😕

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Posted by Fragrance
I know one guy who has his Sun in my 8th house and two guys who host my Sun in their 8th... I have my moon in this house

But if I have the exact birth time of a guy, it means I don't have a crush on them...

The first guy used to be obsessed with me for 2 years. I had no idea... I got to know that few months ago when we talked candidly. Although I didn't have strong feelings for him, I always felt inexplicable tension between us... as if I was on the edge to fall in love

Fragrance!! 😄

I see I see.

By first guy you mean the guy who had Aries in 8th house or the Cancer sun guy??

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Hey Rums 🙂

Damn, I think I've been doing the synastry chart wrong all this time : D So in the first case, he's the planet person (his Sun) and I'm the house person (in my 8th). He's a Gemini. In the second case I'm the planet person...

I think in both cases at least one side is strongly infatuated if not madly in love

What's your personal impression? 🙂

What's this 8th house stuff... how do you know if someone planets fall in your 8th house?

I thought you can only tell what planets you have in the houses.

Posted by Greentea
What's this 8th house stuff... how do you know if someone planets fall in your 8th house?

I thought you can only tell what planets you have in the houses.

You can use grupovenus if you don't know how to use charts.

The house overlays will be at the bottom of the synastry/relationship interpretation.

i have experinced it and it's intense.

His Cancer sun and merc in my 8th..

and his moon is conjuct my sun.

when i first meet him it felt like the ground dropped out from under my feet, never had that happen with anyone else.

Posted by MiZLeo
So who obsesses with who? Does the house person obsess with the planet person or does the planet person obsess over the house person?

I think it depends on the planet involved... I've read about the moon that the house person might become emotionally dependent on their partner. Is it like that in your case?

The house person is more like the "prey" maybe, they're the recipient of the planet person's impact on you

Thankyou for replies everyone! 🙂

Posted by Fragrance

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Posted by Fragrance
I know one guy who has his Sun in my 8th house and two guys who host my Sun in their 8th... I have my moon in this house

But if I have the exact birth time of a guy, it means I don't have a crush on them...

The first guy used to be obsessed with me for 2 years. I had no idea... I got to know that few months ago when we talked candidly. Although I didn't have strong feelings for him, I always felt inexplicable tension between us... as if I was on the edge to fall in love

Fragrance!! 😄

I see I see.

By first guy you mean the guy who had Aries in 8th house or the Cancer sun guy??

Hey Rums 🙂

Damn, I think I've been doing the synastry chart wrong all this time : D So in the first case, he's the planet person (his Sun) and I'm the house person (in my 8th). He's a Gemini. In the second case I'm the planet person...

I think in both cases at least one side is strongly infatuated if not madly in love

What's your personal impression? 🙂

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Hmm, I see..

IDK Fragrance, I have Capricorn in my 8th and 7th house as well..so... I'm confused..

Personal impression is....those crushes, (especially one crush) are out of this world! Eye contact itself was too much.

Regarding who obsessed over who...hmmmm... I can't speak for him, if one sees him, it looks he was very much into it..actively pursuing, actions, behaviour etc. And people thought I merely blushed. He knew very well I crushed on him. It's been 4 years since we last saw each other!

Posted by champranger

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Posted by champranger

Posted by RumiL
IDK how to put this...but do you know anyone who has their personal planets in your 8th house?? Especially in synastries where THEY are your love interest or crush??

What's your 8th house and what are their planets?

Share your views...obsessions...madness over them.

Or if they obsessed over you?

Could explain why I like Aqua Venus ... most of them would fall into my 8th house 😕

Chaaaamp 😄 *waves* :p

Champ... I thought you had Capricorn in 8th house like me? 😕

*waves* 😄
I have Cap duplicated in 7th and 8th, but it is 29 degrees on the cusp of 7th and 8th. So a lot of Aqua would be in my 8th. 🙂

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Ohhh, same for me..! I don't know the degrees, but.. I think we both have same kind of degrees 😄 .. my cancer rising is at 4 degrees and if I remember correctly, so is yours? 🙂

But I never really liked any Aqua...maybe Aqua venus/mercury did crush on me and I did too, but none worth remembering 😕

Posted by champranger
Particularly a Cap I had really liked a while ago ... has Aqua Venus at 1 degree ... my moon hits his South Node and his moon might also aspects with mine.

😐

I heard south node-moon aspect is very good?

SOULMATE connection 😄 ?