Are You Attracted to the Element You Lack?

I read an article on Sasstrology about this.

Ironically, I am currently dating someone who is dominate Fire (more than five placements) and has zero Air.

I am Air dominate with only one fire placement (Sag in Uranus).

It says we search out people who have what we lack. I've never really been aware of this until reading this article.

Thoughts?

I'm water and fire void (Sag Pluto don't count). I'm mostly attracted to fire moons

No.

Posted by TheTinMan
if this the case it's true for me. it goes both ways for me. I'm attracted to fire signs (women that is) and they attracted to me. this one I'm with now I think has 4 fires in her chart. and I'm air dominant. and i ain't got but one fire too. Neptune in Sagittarius.

I just somehow need to find out what her ascendant sign is in. for someone who's fire dominant she sure as hell an emo person. I would say she's cancer rising but I don't know that for sure.

I find all of the fire placements of the dude im dating very attractive. Its like liberating. I can totally see this. I can sense that he feels refreshed by my air as well. I think its initially like "woahhhh what is this." But then you really dig it.

Yes

I have all the elements in nearly equal percentages. I'm not dominated by any element particularly..just a tad more water. I really like Air or Sag energy.

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Posted by TheTinMan
if this the case it's true for me. it goes both ways for me. I'm attracted to fire signs (women that is) and they attracted to me. this one I'm with now I think has 4 fires in her chart. and I'm air dominant. and i ain't got but one fire too. Neptune in Sagittarius.

I just somehow need to find out what her ascendant sign is in. for someone who's fire dominant she sure as hell an emo person. I would say she's cancer rising but I don't know that for sure.

I find all of the fire placements of the dude im dating very attractive. Its like liberating. I can totally see this. I can sense that he feels refreshed by my air as well. I think its initially like "woahhhh what is this." But then you really dig it.

I like fire sign women because they knows how to deliver. in the bedroom that is. and omg...their thick legs ass and all. ohh goodness. the sad thing about that is once they start aging their p**sy don't be tight anymore and it start to look ugly 😢.

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Hahahaha. WTF?!

Its the other way around in my experience

According to that Pullen astrology calculator, fire is my dominant while air is the least influential.

I have never been close to an air dominant person. I was with an Aquarius for several years but even they were fire/water dominant and acted nothing like an air sign. I think air is too aloof for me to stay interested.

I wonder if it would be more prominent in opposite signs that compliment each other. Like Fire-Air, and Water- Earth.

That you would search out the Air to your Fire, and the Water to your Earth. But if you were Earth Dominant with a lack of Fire... it wouldn't be so prominent because you don't need it to flourish and balance.

Yes and no

I have zero earth in my chart but find a lot of Caps in my life, both good and bad. They are everywhere.

I've only been involved with one Cap romantically. I even married him and we had two Cap children. But he was not my true love. Our relationship wasn't very good.

So I wouldn't say that I'm attracted to earth signs in a romantic way but my kids are Caps, I have good friends who are Caps and some Cap coworkers whom I am fond of.

Never had any relationships or friendships with Taurus or Virgo.

Posted by TheTinMan


I just somehow need to find out what her ascendant sign is in. for someone who's fire dominant she sure as hell an emo person. I would say she's cancer rising but I don't know that for sure.

That sounds about right.

Fire = High expectations (that are easily dashed)

Yes, for soul attraction

Are You Attracted to the Element You Lack?

Possibly, and I have thought about this topic. Believe I have participated in discussion on other sites.

The element I lack is earth, besides being a Cap Ascendant. I married a Virgo male. Rarely, if ever, dated one. Additionally, Virgo is the sign missing in my mutable T-squares.

I'm attracted to everyone with a nice D, except Pisces; ion fw Pisces ?