Based on this description and characteristics, what is the accurate, proper, & ideal Sun/Moon combo?

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Hello, I've been thinking a lot and after a multitude of failed encounters with girls that I simply realized that weren't the one for me so I kept letting go I started really questioning and wondering what kind of person would be the one for me and I have a very good idea but I wanted someone to "astrologize" it and give me a sun and moon combo (maybe Venus/Mars as well) of a person who would fit these characteristics.



To start off, I am:

Virgo Sun (11th House)

Pisces Moon (4th House)

Virgo Mercury (10th House)

Scorpio Venus (12th House)

Scorpio Mars (1st House)

Scorpio Ascendant (18 degrees)



With that being said, I hope you guys can get a decent picture of what kind of person I am. But still I will briefly describe myself so there's a clearer picture. I am very very hard worker, and I strive to be successful and prosperous and live a lavish life. However, in order for me to that I must have the proper motivation and reason to do so, as without any motivation/desire, all my "abilities and potential" to achieve great success completely dissapears and I get lost in a Pisces Moon world of depression and confusion. What I mean by this is that I need someone who gives me reason to push to great heights. If I feel like I have someone who deeply loves me and I deeply love her, I will stop at nothing to reach wherever I want/need to go. With that being said, it is my utmost priority in this life and world to succeed, be prosperous, comfortable and be at the top. But at the same time, the driving force behind my reason to succeed and live a "Virgo" life is emotion, desire, love, friendship, happiness, and comfort.

I feel MEANINGLESS in this world if I have money, success, comfort, and ease of life if I do not have a great emotional friend group, a great emotional deep relationship, and a great social life in which I can enjoy greatness with. At the same time, if I have all of that, but I do not have success, stability, comfort, money, and overall great status in life, I feel like I am failing at life and not reaching my potential which my Virgo tells me to reach and do and I fall into this Piscean world of joy and emotion and love but I leave my Virgo side behind and I feel like I'm not doing what I'm supposed to do but rather I'm just attending to and pleasing my emotional side and comfort needs. So in conclusion, I very much need the best of both worlds in order to keep me going, I need to work, I need to succeed, I need to prosper, and I need to be rich/wealthy, but the driving desire and reason and the only way that can ever happen is if I have the inner emotional comfort and security through deep connections with a lot of friends, and ESPECIALLY with a partner in a relationship.



Now that I've explained myself and my characteristics and desires in life. I will explain what I want/need/desire in a girl (ideally) and I'm hoping that someone can give me a Sun/Moon combo that would reflect a person like this. So, as I've said before, I am deeply deeply emotional and deeply deeply sexual as well. I can reach depths of emotion that honestly I can't even handle many times and it absolutely ABSURD what it can do to me. With that being said, I ABSOLUTELY need someone who can be CLOSE to or at least MATCH my emotional intensity. A lot of this comes from my dreamy pisces moon, but also my very very intense scorpio venus, mars, and ascendant. I like to be in a sense "in charge" of the relationship, I am prone to jealously, possessiveness, and deep emotional desire. At my core though, I am a person who is very hardworking and I want to provide and be happy so I want someone by my side who is not as boring as me, someone who is fun, optimistic, and will be the one to make the relationship very fun and adventurous and exciting while I do handle every other facet in life and relationship (money, careers, finances, any problems, pretty much everything) I want someone who is loyal to the core to me, loves me to death, has emotional depth and desire, but also is very fun, outgoing, (might not be the right word here) exciting, brings love, fun, and her motive behind everything to enjoy is emotion and love. I want a relationship where I will provide all the real world things and she will provide and satisfy my need for love, fun, comfort, joy, social life, adventure, excitement, vacations, trips with friends, etc etc. At the same time, I am very very EXTREMELY sensitive and can get hurt over the smallest things so I definitely cannot handle a person with a strong/aggressive/judgmental/even sarcastic joking insults type of personality. So in conclusion, I desire someone who has an optimistic attitude in life, a fun person, a joyful person, a kind person, a loyal person, a deeply emotional person, loving/caring, and exciting as well. Someone who will satisfy my needs for fun, adventure, excitement, romance, and a very happy exciting optimistic love.

I'm very very sorry for the extremely long message, I tried my best to keep it as short as I could but it's very difficult to do so. Anyways, knowing my birth chart, how I am, and what I want in a girl/relationship, what do you guys think would be the IDEAL person for me in terms of Sun/Moon signs? If you want to add in mercury/venus/mars that is fine as well, but more importantly the Sun and Moon.

Thank you very very much to anyone who can answer this for me, this is a journey and quest of discovery for me and it is very important that I sort this confusion in my mind so I know exactly what and who I want in life and what I need to do to get it! Thanks a lot, again!
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Hi! I am very new to this forum, but I hope that what I have to say may still be relevant.

I definitely think that you should find a girl with strong Scorpio placements to match your intensity. I definitely feel that, out of all the water signs that may feel as deeply as you do, Scorpio is most equipped to understand your need for emotional motivation.

Since you mention that you cannot handle a person who is judgmental or aggressive, I would suggest a Libra Sun. I think finding someone with a Libra Sun and a Scorpio Moon exactly will be a hard bill to fit, but this lady sounds almost ideal to what you are looking for (not including the other placements in her chart). She will be as focused on partnership and togetherness as you are, but also have a seething emotional intensity that can satisfy yours.

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LIBRA SUN, SCORPIO MOON

This lady is something of a novelty. She's a very different sort of woman. Normally sweet tempered and calm, she's very affected by her Moon and can be one of the most irascible or the Zodiac. Her temper is memorable, mostly, because she's usually so nice. It seems odd for her to screech about. She's many a man's delight as she is very focused on romance and sex. She has a sexuality that can take over even the most logical and temperate of men. This sexual expression of hers is the combination of a spiritual union and the force and energy of a tidal wave. She's pure fantasy, romance, and candlelight. And then, raw and earthy passion. Never quite sure of what you mean to her, you'll keep coming back for more. Is it physical or cosmic? Are you the only one that makes her feel that way, or would telephone sex work as well? I'm going to let you figure that one out for yourself. It's not fair for me to tell all her secrets. She's also talented, but not in the usual business ways. She's a researcher, an investigator, a soldier or a spy. I told you right up front she was a novelty, so if you're expecting a lover in the general sense look elsewhere. She'll be a baffling co-partner; she'll barely notice you one day and put you under the microscope the next. The children will receive the same sort of treatment. She's consistent about this: she's never dull, always exciting, exotic and alluring. If she pursues you, you'll find yourself in her fragile spider's web. It's going to take some doing to get yourself out. If you're a Scorpio, Cancer or Taurus, you'll like the weaving. The Virgos think she's the perfect answer to counterbalance an ordered day, but don't have the stamina for her long term. She's usually attracted to the Sagittarius and they aren't good for each other."
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That's weird, I cannot get along with Aries people at all. They're too harsh for my Pisces moon and it results in me getting upset and inevitbly going rage mode on them as a result. I also feel like cap moons aren't really that emotional?? They seem more held in/repressed emotionally and I never thought I could ever get that emotional depth from them... cancer though def. Has the emotional depth as I have experience with a cancer moon
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Correct me if I'm wrong but I always thought that a Pisces Sun would be a really really good match for me, because Pisces really satisfies my Pisces Moon and I feel like without my Moon being satisfied my existence is kind of meaningless and a waste tbh, personally I thought that maybe a more energetic/outgoing Pisces would be ideal, I don't know what would make that though.
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Correct me if I'm wrong but I always thought that a Pisces Sun would be a really really good match for me, because Pisces really satisfies my Pisces Moon and I feel like without my Moon being satisfied my existence is kind of meaningless and a waste tbh, personally I thought that maybe a more energetic/outgoing Pisces would be ideal, I don't know what would make that though.
I feel that, in your mind, you only want a water sign ( sun or moon ) so you'll turn down any suggestion so why ask ?

Also you're only 19, you'll see with experience what suits you the most
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No definitely not, I am open to everything I love to learn and see, the standpoint I'm coming from is that from my personal experience in life just generally I am a very sensitive individual but at the same time I have a pretty strong ego so I'm *GUESSING* that I wouldn't really get along too well with fire signs for example, I am not ruling anything out. That's why I wanted other people's opinions and suggestions. As for the age, yes I'm only 19 but this has become a focal point of my life and pretty much all I care about going forward because I feel that I have everything else I could ask for in my life which is why I am putting my energy into acquiring knowledge. Experience is great and has helped me a great amount and will continue to do so I will never put that away, my stance is just that the more I know the better off I am. I also don't like to put too much into astrology it's just really accurate so it's a good tool to use and it's definitely interesting to learn and discover which is why I am here.
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Posted by wongboyui
Hi! I am very new to this forum, but I hope that what I have to say may still be relevant.

I definitely think that you should find a girl with strong Scorpio placements to match your intensity. I definitely feel that, out of all the water signs that may feel as deeply as you do, Scorpio is most equipped to understand your need for emotional motivation.

Since you mention that you cannot handle a person who is judgmental or aggressive, I would suggest a Libra Sun. I think finding someone with a Libra Sun and a Scorpio Moon exactly will be a hard bill to fit, but this lady sounds almost ideal to what you are looking for (not including the other placements in her chart). She will be as focused on partnership and togetherness as you are, but also have a seething emotional intensity that can satisfy yours.

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I took this except from hubpages.com -

LIBRA SUN, SCORPIO MOON

This lady is something of a novelty. She's a very different sort of woman. Normally sweet tempered and calm, she's very affected by her Moon and can be one of the most irascible or the Zodiac. Her temper is memorable, mostly, because she's usually so nice. It seems odd for her to screech about. She's many a man's delight as she is very focused on romance and sex. She has a sexuality that can take over even the most logical and temperate of men. This sexual expression of hers is the combination of a spiritual union and the force and energy of a tidal wave. She's pure fantasy, romance, and candlelight. And then, raw and earthy passion. Never quite sure of what you mean to her, you'll keep coming back for more. Is it physical or cosmic? Are you the only one that makes her feel that way, or would telephone sex work as well? I'm going to let you figure that one out for yourself. It's not fair for me to tell all her secrets. She's also talented, but not in the usual business ways. She's a researcher, an investigator, a soldier or a spy. I told you right up front she was a novelty, so if you're expecting a lover in the general sense look elsewhere. She'll be a baffling co-partner; she'll barely notice you one day and put you under the microscope the next. The children will receive the same sort of treatment. She's consistent about this: she's never dull, always exciting, exotic and alluring. If she pursues you, you'll find yourself in her fragile spider's web. It's going to take some doing to get yourself out. If you're a Scorpio, Cancer or Taurus, you'll like the weaving. The Virgos think she's the perfect answer to counterbalance an ordered day, but don't have the stamina for her long term. She's usually attracted to the Sagittarius and they aren't good for each other."
Thanks a lot, I will definitely keep this in mind, very informative.
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How old are you?
Too young to be into this shit. 19.
I got deep into synastry at 17
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I got into astrology at 17 as well, it was during the summer and I remember to this day how upset I was that I had a pisces moon that I literally thought I was going to be depressed or something for the rest of my life because it revealed so much truth about me and I hated the fact that I was so sensitive and emotional etc etc because prior to astrology I thought everyone was the same but people just developed differently but after astrology I realized that oh I was actually born this way and this is who I am. Its taken off ever since but I like to limit my astrology knowledge to Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, and Ascendant because the more I dig into astrology the crazier and crazier I get and my Virgo Sun absolutely does not want me to dive into that territory lol.
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Posted by Sp17
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Posted by tiziani
How old are you?
Too young to be into this shit. 19.
I got deep into synastry at 17
I got into astrology at 17 as well, it was during the summer and I remember to this day how upset I was that I had a pisces moon that I literally thought I was going to be depressed or something for the rest of my life because it revealed so much truth about me and I hated the fact that I was so sensitive and emotional etc etc because prior to astrology I thought everyone was the same but people just developed differently but after astrology I realized that oh I was actually born this way and this is who I am. Its taken off ever since but I like to limit my astrology knowledge to Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, and Ascendant because the more I dig into astrology the crazier and crazier I get and my Virgo Sun absolutely does not want me to dive into that territory lol.
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Lol that's such a pisces moon thing to do. It does help put a box on people because it helps sort out life, and my Virgo sun appreciates that. Lol.

I got wayyyy deeper than just those planets. I got into houses, midpoints, asteroids, persona charts, the whole nine yards. It became something I'd stay up all night until 4 am for. I read birthday analysis, I would spend my free time on my phone checking Lindaland for planet info, read and reread up to maybe 3 or 5 pages on Google about a planet or aspect. I would go through an entire forum about a planet. Every. Single. Fucking. Day. I just wanted to learn as much as i could so I could find out what makes them tick. I was obsessed for years, until maybe recently. I had relationships that were good on paper not work out. I had people who couldn't be defined by their chart. Couples defied their synastries. I realized knowing everything about someone didn't mean anything if you didn't do anything about it. Knowledge could only arm you so much. So now, occasionally I'll dabble in astrology because i know so much about it. But not as much as before. Before, no stone was left unturned. I'd hunt down sites for more and more info.
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The Moon rules the emotional self, so when the Moon is in Aries, watch out! Aries Moon is not known for restraint. They are impulsive and enthusiastic. If an idea strikes them, they are the first on the bandwagon to make it reality, without stopping to think about any obstacles that may be in the way. Spontaneous and determined, they let their heart rule their head.

Moon Sign Aries is happy, optimistic, and impatient. They live for the moment, forgetting all else. Instant gratification is their middle name. They are passionate and have no qualms about sharing how they feel. At the same time, they can be very independent. They don't like to take no for an answer. They have the self-confidence to put themselves out there and they want to make a strong impression. Subtle does not describe this Sign. They are well-suited to meeting challenges that may destroy lesser people. They are clever and often approach their situations with a novel angle. Occasionally there are the few who may blame everything on other people.

Aries Moon takes everything personally, but they don't hold grudges. If they feel slighted they will burst out angrily and let those responsible know about it. Their emotions can rapidly change, and they can throw some spectacular tantrums. These emotional outbursts are usually over as quickly as they started. They don't normally take any time to consider the consequences of their actions. They seem to be able to just shrug off anything that goes wrong and keep going. They tend to calm down as they get older.