Be honest

It's easy for alot of people to get on this site & trash talk other signs/discuss what they don't like about other signs, BUT...I want to do things a little different this time.

For each of you, WHAT IS 1 THING YOU DISLIKE/WISH YOU COULD CHANGE ABOUT YOUR OWN SIGN?

Aquas: I love us too death BUT it is true sometimes that we can make even the most simplest of matters more complicated than necessary. Everything in life isn't some big complex puzzle that needs to be de-coded/solved. Sometimes things are just simple & don't require all the analyzing.

Even though I love that our abilities to over-analyze & thoroughly think through things can pay off big time, I also believe that this about us can sometimes hinder us. Sometimes we try a little too hard to be more sophisticated than need be/than we really are. Sometimes, Aquas confuse themselves over the simplest matters; they're confused not b/c the issue is complicated, BUT b/c we tried too hard to make something out of nothing.

the lazy thing is kinda true....I would change that in a minute....

nothing.

the reality is i'm not simply my sun so at times, it's not my sun that's giving me the most drama...it's those other fuckers that won't get in line and bow to the taurean superiority.

OFF TOPIC

I wish I would think more before doing things. I am too impulsive sometimes, and end up regretting what I just did. 🙂

Gemini, we need to let go all the gossip!

I have lots of Leo in my chart. I am stubborn, over sensitive, and proud to a fault.

gem.... a lot of it :/

Posted by FeistyAquarian
I would change the aloofness, hands down.

Really? Isn't that one of the best parts (For better or worse) for you Aqua's?

I love my V brothers and sisters dearly but the Virgo forum is just a constant stream of looking for validation or drawing lines (real or imaginary) for same said purpose. Perhaps its in every sign's forum and is unavoidable. It just seems prevalent in MY DAMN FORUM 😛

Agreed. 😢

Posted by VirgoHero
I love my V brothers and sisters dearly but the Virgo forum is just a constant stream of looking for validation or drawing lines (real or imaginary) for same said purpose. Perhaps its in every sign's forum and is unavoidable. It just seems prevalent in MY DAMN FORUM 😛

yeah, ego masturbation is most prevalent in the virgo and scorpio forum, thats why you guys have twice as much topics.....its fun to read

i like virgos though

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Posted by VirgoHero
I love my V brothers and sisters dearly but the Virgo forum is just a constant stream of looking for validation or drawing lines (real or imaginary) for same said purpose. Perhaps its in every sign's forum and is unavoidable. It just seems prevalent in MY DAMN FORUM 😛

yeah, ego masturbation is most prevalent in the virgo and scorpio forum, thats why you guys have twice as much topics.....its fun to read

i like virgos though

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Oh I know. I have a HUGE EGO and when I'm with a woman, I love it stroked. The forum just reads funny when the V's are expressing it.

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Posted by VirgoHero
I love my V brothers and sisters dearly but the Virgo forum is just a constant stream of looking for validation or drawing lines (real or imaginary) for same said purpose. Perhaps its in every sign's forum and is unavoidable. It just seems prevalent in MY DAMN FORUM 😛

yeah, ego masturbation is most prevalent in the virgo and scorpio forum, thats why you guys have twice as much topics.....its fun to read

i like virgos though

I have a HUGE EGO and when I'm with a woman, I love it stroked

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well, i guess that`s more of a man thing than a virgo thing

I have a lot of childish impulsiveness from my Sagittarian side, don't like that.

Most of the time I try to tap into my Cancerian self, stay cool and calm, but when I get really excited, I get REALLY excited.

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Posted by FeistyAquarian
I would change the aloofness, hands down. I would want to be able to connect better with people and all that.

i wouldnt...i love being vague and predictably unpredictable...and i love that i can get over a break-up in a flash 😛

a friend of mine worded it quite brilliantly for me "i love with my head...not my heart"

but that's only true when it comes to men...i love my babies with ALL my heart 🙂

wow. that's beautiful. reserve the heart for the babies. (just like Uma Thurman role in Kill Bill: Kill the man and get the baby back, and love the baby forever and forever. R.I.P Bill.)

my boyfriends love to tell me how unpredictable i am. this is my favorite one from my scorp/sag lover: "you're so unpredictable it's predictable. I don't know what you are one day but when i know how you are acting you're so predictable. i do not know how you'll act or be tomorrow, but when i know how you'll be that very day, then that's when you're predictably unpredictable.' Yes, incredibly confusing. It confused me too. but i love how they all assume so much about me, like i'm a puzzle to unravel. Humphf. Men like their women like possessions to be honest.

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Hey! Val's back 😛 Yay for Avatar a Day.

Omgods! Welcome back!

@Little: I agree. It's amazing how sometimes we can be the most articulate creatures when we're expressing things from a logical point of view. BUT, once we get to the EMOTIONAL, it's like we crash, we stall, we get stuck & we literally get tongue-tied. Maybe it's b/c we lack practice in dealing with our emotions vs. Cancers, who are always living in their emotions & which is why they are very good at immediately putting their thoughts into words.

When something is really bothering me, the Aries in me comes out & this allows me to atleast be blunt & outspoken with WHATEVER it is that I'm saying. BUT even still, the Aqua in me makes it so that I easily confuse myself. And it's b/c Aquas are actually EXTREMELY emotional; But like with anything else, when you suppress a side for so long, you eventually forget how to use/show it.

I've always been good at writing and/or putting my thoughts onto paper, no matter what the subject. BUT I'm only good at this when I'm disconnected from whatever it is I'm writing about. That's why Aquas are generally good advice givers; our minds at this time are open & all thoughts flow smoothly. BUT, the minute we are connected/attached to something, it's like our arteries get clogged up. It's so hard for me to put my emotions into words, vs. logic. And when I notice that it's taking me too long/it's too hard for me to put my thoughts into words that can be easily understood by someone else, I either shut down alltogether OR I notice the other person struggling to understand me, which only further makes me want to shut down.

It's weird. I don't mind people thinking my mind is complex & "deep" when I'm talking logic, BUT it bugs the hell out of me when people see my emotions as complex. Maybe it bothers me b/c I can't stand it for others to be so emotional that they literally don't even understand themselves. If I can't even understand my damn self, then it's damn near impossible to get someone else to understand UNLESS they are the same way I am..and figures..every time I catch myself getting tongue-tied, it just so happens that I'm PROBABLY around someone the complete OPPOSITE of how I am. Aquas understand this & when they see me struggling, they'll back off & let me come back to earth when I'm ready. But others...ugh

Posted by eirelav87

you virgos. it's a love/love thing i have for you guys. but i have no idea who you are talking about.

Shit oops! lol

Posted by VirgoHero

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you virgos. it's a love/love thing i have for you guys. but i have no idea who you are talking about.

Shit oops! lol

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She doesnt feel like Val(eria) though, their write style is different, I also think Val wouldnt write her year of birth..

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you virgos. it's a love/love thing i have for you guys. but i have no idea who you are talking about.

Shit oops! lol

She doesnt feel like Val(eria) though, their write style is different, I also think Val wouldnt write her year of birth..

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True!

Regardless, welcome Valerie87!

Woops.. its really Valeria! rawr!

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you virgos. it's a love/love thing i have for you guys. but i have no idea who you are talking about.

Shit oops! lol

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hahaha

um My scatter brain i wish i could concentrate on one thing at one time but its impossible 😢 lol I know it sounds bad but sometimes i wish i could care a little less about other people and just go without a care in the world but i cant once there hurt i have to stay until im 100% sure there okay.. i have to learn to understand im not xena warrior princess lol xD

Well, as for my sign.

I wish we didn't carry the ability to make others hate us so easily lol! I mean, we are really nice people but sometimes we just don't like people ... but it doesn't mean we aren't nice.

Posted by caligula
nothing.

the reality is i'm not simply my sun so at times, it's not my sun that's giving me the most drama...it's those other fuckers that won't get in line and bow to the taurean superiority.

*LONG SIGH* just let it awight

I Wish i could open up more,but i cant, i just cant!!!!!!!!!!!! waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

i dont like people. if i had to change one thing for capricorn is the pessimestic state i fall into sometimes. sometimes i dont feel self worth anymore. usually happens when i dissapoint people.

Scorp here...wish I could change the moodiness.

I would go with the aloofness as well.

Posted by caligula
nothing.

the reality is i'm not simply my sun so at times, it's not my sun that's giving me the most drama...it's those other fuckers that won't get in line and bow to the taurean superiority.

LMAO Cali.

Seriously though I would change that I take things so literally at times.

Sagittarius. 😄

It's annoying how preachy we get sometimes. (You know what I'm talking about.)
It's hard for us not to preach. It's our nature. But I know people's eyeballs can only roll so far back into their heads before they just implode. 😛

Also, wish we weren't such nervous wrecks.

Posted by brianafay
Sagittarius. 😄

It's annoying how preachy we get sometimes. (You know what I'm talking about.)
It's hard for us not to preach. It's our nature. But I know people's eyeballs can only roll so far back into their heads before they just implode. 😛

Also, wish we weren't such nervous wrecks.

I know what you're saying!
I try to stop myself, but my Cappy moon doesn't help.
I also think that us Saggy's tend to tread over tender feet. Hehe.
Too impulsive too.... I find myself pondering something for months and then I'll make the decision in a few seconds! (Not even the option I was pondering either.)
Alsoooo, I really don't seem to get along with other Saggy females.

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Posted by brianafay
Sagittarius. 😄

It's annoying how preachy we get sometimes. (You know what I'm talking about.)
It's hard for us not to preach. It's our nature. But I know people's eyeballs can only roll so far back into their heads before they just implode. 😛

Also, wish we weren't such nervous wrecks.

I know what you're saying!
I try to stop myself, but my Cappy moon doesn't help.
I also think that us Saggy's tend to tread over tender feet. Hehe.
Too impulsive too.... I find myself pondering something for months and then I'll make the decision in a few seconds! (Not even the option I was pondering either.)
Alsoooo, I really don't seem to get along with other Saggy females.

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Omg I just loveeee them. Every time I meet one, it's like love at first sight... instantaneous bffls. 🙂
It's probably your moon that makes you feel that way honestly. Do you have any other fire in your chart? Or just your sun?

I wish I had more patience! Also I have a short attention span as my mind starts moving on before it should...I have to stop myself in group conversations from staring into space in boredom...

I wish I could tell my brain to shut the fuck up for once. There's just so much chatter. You guys ever tried going to bed with ocean sounds playing in the background at night? Well I've tried that, but every time I close my eyes and I end up taking a walk on the beach I have "Inner Me" talking incessantly for the next 4-6 hours going off on tangents doing whatever for the sake of doing it. I went to bed last night and ended up riding a rhinoceros while doing taxes in the middle of a renaissance fair killing 3 birds and injuring several members of a mariachi band. Who does that?

Posted by DK09
I wish I could tell my brain to shut the fuck up for once. There's just so much chatter. You guys ever tried going to bed with ocean sounds playing in the background at night? Well I've tried that, but every time I close my eyes and I end up taking a walk on the beach I have "Inner Me" talking incessantly for the next 4-6 hours going off on tangents doing whatever for the sake of doing it. I went to bed last night and ended up riding a rhinoceros while doing taxes in the middle of a renaissance fair killing 3 birds and injuring several members of a mariachi band. Who does that?

Lol

Posted by VirgoHero
I love my V brothers and sisters dearly but the Virgo forum is just a constant stream of looking for validation or drawing lines (real or imaginary) for same said purpose. Perhaps its in every sign's forum and is unavoidable. It just seems prevalent in MY DAMN FORUM 😛

lol the virgo forum IS a ball of mess sometimes.

But honestly, I wish I could stop being/thinking so critically sometimes. My roommate the other day was cooking chicken and pasta and I felt she was doing it wrong, and I literally had to stop myself multiple times because I wanted go to "YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG!" and pass of tips. Sigh...

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Posted by VirgoHero
I love my V brothers and sisters dearly but the Virgo forum is just a constant stream of looking for validation or drawing lines (real or imaginary) for same said purpose. Perhaps its in every sign's forum and is unavoidable. It just seems prevalent in MY DAMN FORUM 😛

lol the virgo forum IS a ball of mess sometimes.

But honestly, I wish I could stop being/thinking so critically sometimes. My roommate the other day was cooking chicken and pasta and I felt she was doing it wrong, and I literally had to stop myself multiple times because I wanted go to "YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG!" and pass of tips. Sigh...

If she's doing the chicken wrong, because there IS such a thing as doing it wrong when you like things done right, I would of HAD to say something. If that's chicken you were going to eat, then imo, NO, you would not have been critical. However, if she is a sensitive person, she would have gotten highly upset. Me, I would look at myself and say you know what, you got a point, and then asked you to show me how to do it right. But then again, I'm not that one who's comfortable with fuck-ups, I'm that one who likes things DONE RIGHT!!

Next time, when it comes to matters of the kitchen, speak up and if she takes it as being critical, that's just too bad because the FACT of the matter is you were merely being HELPFUL because you happened to know better.

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It wasn't so much that she was cooking the chicken improperly. I just saw it as being done inefficiently I guess is the best way to put it. My roommate is more of a baker and I do more of the cooking, so a part of me wanted to say, "You know, if you just did this, you wouldn't have to hover over the chicken every second and you could sit down for a moment." But, I sort of looked at it from and outside view and figured I'd just be nagging and let her do it her way. I know that she wouldn't come up to me and say, "you should do this" when I"m cooking because it's something I'm better at and she didn't directly ask for my help. I noticed it was a very virgo thing for me to want to go to her and give her tips, but there are times to do that. It's just a matter of catching oneself? lol

Capricorn with Sagittarius on the cusp 😉 -- yes one huge Bi-Polar disorder coming your way, here's why ...

Things I dislike about my cusp

#1: Capricorn part (side that stays OUT of trouble) -- not being able to express myself when I really should. It sucks what I want one thing to come up, but something else takes it's place and it's not really what I wanted. Almost like I go with what's safe rather than what's the best.

#2: Sagittarius part(side that GETS in trouble) -- I tend to express myself to readily and at times I shouldn't be bought up at that given time. However, sometimes whatever pops into my head comes out into reality (via my big mouth) and then I think after the fact, "That's was the wrong time to bring that up", but it's already out there. I have tactfulness down really well, but my timing is not always the best.

Can you imagine how screw this all gets when it comes to relationships ... oy

And just in general, we can be unnecessarily anti-social which can give people the wrong impression & the nonchalant attitude can be a bit off-putting to some as well.

I like all of my Libra (Sun, Rising, Mercury, Saturn, Pluto) & Sag (Mars, Uranus, Neptune) placements but really dislike my Pisces Moon. It makes me way too sensitive, think about love all the damn time, somewhat naive to the evil in people, & gives me somewhat of a messiah complex.

Gemini. Would definately have to be the over analyzation and over thinking of EVERYTHING. Even more when it comes to matters of the heart. Umm also the constant obsessing over the person i like in my head.

And probably being so impatient.

The abrasive intensity. Just calm down a bit now and then.

Aries

I think I'd change my Libra indecisiveness. Or maybe not... no, I would. Probably.

😛

Posted by ScorpioDreamer
I wish I could change my intensity. Not always come on so strong. I also wish I could be more realistic instead of letting my emotions rule me. Would be nice too if I wasn't always so stubborn.

No freakin' kidding. And I wish I wasn't so confusing to other signs (misunderstood). I wish that the 'games' we play would be seen the way they are in OUR heads, as a way to confirm what we think we see in the other person.

And from my Sagg side, I wish I wasn't so naive. I wish I wasn't so trusting. I wish I wasn't so impulsive.