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Can Libra Moons Become Too Emotionally Attached?
Yes. I have a Libra moon and it's true for me.
what do you mean by "from a sexuality standpoint" ?
I do believe that those with a Libra moon tend to get very emotionally attached if the sexual chemistry they have with someone is above average or better than what they expect or are used to. Libras in general tend to look at sex from 1 extreme to the other. B/c Libras are people pleasers (when it comes to their partners), they tend to do so much work & put so much of their emotions into pleasing that person sexually & naturally, at the end of it all, b/c they started off using their emotiosn & their need to please as a contribution to how great the sexual chemistry is, it's only natural that in the end, the only thing left IS their emotions.
Of course some Libras see sex as nothing more than a physical output for their frustrations or energies. And then there are the Libras that put their emotions into just pleasing someone sexually (b/c they are best at pleasing people when their emotions are into it). And when the sex is over, the only thing left standing is their emotions b/c that's what they started out with. It's very hard for a Libra to try to naturally please someone unless their emotions are in it & even if they are having sex with someone who may not want them long-term, they still can't help but to have that "pleaser" side of them that can only do it's job the best way UNLESS atleast 1% of it worked out b/c of the passion in their own emotions doing the work for them.
Of course some Libras see sex as nothing more than a physical output for their frustrations or energies. And then there are the Libras that put their emotions into just pleasing someone sexually (b/c they are best at pleasing people when their emotions are into it). And when the sex is over, the only thing left standing is their emotions b/c that's what they started out with. It's very hard for a Libra to try to naturally please someone unless their emotions are in it & even if they are having sex with someone who may not want them long-term, they still can't help but to have that "pleaser" side of them that can only do it's job the best way UNLESS atleast 1% of it worked out b/c of the passion in their own emotions doing the work for them.
Posted by xtina
what do you mean by "from a sexuality standpoint" ?
lol, sorry xtina, I should have said "from a sexual standpoint".
Now thats better.
I do believe that those with a Libra moon tend to get very emotionally attached if the sexual chemistry they have with someone is above average or better than what they expect or are used to. Libras in general tend to look at sex from 1 extreme to the other. B/c Libras are people pleasers (when it comes to their partners), they tend to do so much work & put so much of their emotions into pleasing that person sexually & naturally, at the end of it all, b/c they started off using their emotiosn & their need to please as a contribution to how great the sexual chemistry is, it's only natural that in the end, the only thing left IS their emotions.
I can definiately see this in my brother krysrenee7. With his last girlfriend and with another one he's thinking about starting a relationship with.
He's a Gemini with an Libra moon and the girl who is 'after him' is an Aquarius. I tell you, this girl is trashy, trashy is really too good for her lol. But he seem to be attracted to trashy -- his last gf (who was a saggie) was trashy BUT she wasn't AS trashy as his previous cancer gf LOL, she was just street trash LOL! He's always asking about my thoughts on the girls he chooses, which is sweet but he never listen to my advice anyway lol.
This Aqua girl is trouble, alot of trouble. I use to work with her and she was trouble. She use to go out with my cousin and she was nasty then too lol. Thats why I've shocked that my Gemini brother would want to be with her in such a way. He says she's changed but he doesn't know what I know ...
I can definiately see this in my brother krysrenee7. With his last girlfriend and with another one he's thinking about starting a relationship with.
He's a Gemini with an Libra moon and the girl who is 'after him' is an Aquarius. I tell you, this girl is trashy, trashy is really too good for her lol. But he seem to be attracted to trashy -- his last gf (who was a saggie) was trashy BUT she wasn't AS trashy as his previous cancer gf LOL, she was just street trash LOL! He's always asking about my thoughts on the girls he chooses, which is sweet but he never listen to my advice anyway lol.
This Aqua girl is trouble, alot of trouble. I use to work with her and she was trouble. She use to go out with my cousin and she was nasty then too lol. Thats why I've shocked that my Gemini brother would want to be with her in such a way. He says she's changed but he doesn't know what I know ...
"This Aqua girl is trouble, alot of trouble. I use to work with her and she was trouble. She use to go out with my cousin and she was nasty then too lol. Thats why I've shocked that my Gemini brother would want to be with her in such a way. He says she's changed but he doesn't know what I know ..."
Yeah, well not to say that Libras are naive, but they aren't as harsh in picking out flaws & leaving them AND that person at the door once their feelings & emotions get involved. I bet this Aqua is really sexing him & is not only blowing his mind b/c 1. he's a man & of course he'll let the best sexual partner for the moment stick around but also 2. If their sexlife is great, there's a big chance that he's channeling alot of his emotions into it, which means plenty of "overlooking" of what others see. Sometimes they purposely overlook so that they can enjoy the moment & sometimes they overlook things with the intention that things will actually change. When a Libra moon hasn't known someone for that long & is already starting to become "blind" to things that are OBVIOUS to others, it means one thing: their emotions are already in the picture. And we both know, once the emotions get involved, it's very hard to undue that & it's even harder for an outsider to get them to realize that. They like being in their own little bubbles & would rather wait until THEY (not you) can't take it any more. And one day, when all the sexual energy gets bored & he starts to seek this Aqua for pleasure in more ways than just sexual, it'll hit him & you'll be the one he calls to vent about her.
Him being attracted to trashy girls might mean he's more trouble than they are b/c trust me, his eyes and brain work just fine. He sees everything you see. But you are what you attract & if he likes those kind of women then there must be something in them that he sees in himself. The comfort in finding & sticking with these women has to come from somewhere. He'll start attracting better women when whatever is really bothering him (self-esteem, for ex.) go away
Yeah, well not to say that Libras are naive, but they aren't as harsh in picking out flaws & leaving them AND that person at the door once their feelings & emotions get involved. I bet this Aqua is really sexing him & is not only blowing his mind b/c 1. he's a man & of course he'll let the best sexual partner for the moment stick around but also 2. If their sexlife is great, there's a big chance that he's channeling alot of his emotions into it, which means plenty of "overlooking" of what others see. Sometimes they purposely overlook so that they can enjoy the moment & sometimes they overlook things with the intention that things will actually change. When a Libra moon hasn't known someone for that long & is already starting to become "blind" to things that are OBVIOUS to others, it means one thing: their emotions are already in the picture. And we both know, once the emotions get involved, it's very hard to undue that & it's even harder for an outsider to get them to realize that. They like being in their own little bubbles & would rather wait until THEY (not you) can't take it any more. And one day, when all the sexual energy gets bored & he starts to seek this Aqua for pleasure in more ways than just sexual, it'll hit him & you'll be the one he calls to vent about her.
Him being attracted to trashy girls might mean he's more trouble than they are b/c trust me, his eyes and brain work just fine. He sees everything you see. But you are what you attract & if he likes those kind of women then there must be something in them that he sees in himself. The comfort in finding & sticking with these women has to come from somewhere. He'll start attracting better women when whatever is really bothering him (self-esteem, for ex.) go away
2. If their sexlife is great, there's a big chance that he's channeling alot of his emotions into it, which means plenty of "overlooking" of what others see. Sometimes they purposely overlook so that they can enjoy the moment & sometimes they overlook things with the intention that things will actually change. When a Libra moon hasn't known someone for that long & is already starting to become "blind" to things that are OBVIOUS to others, it means one thing: their emotions are already in the picture. And we both know, once the emotions get involved, it's very hard to undue that & it's even harder for an outsider to get them to realize that. They like being in their own little bubbles & would rather wait until THEY (not you) can't take it any more. And one day, when all the sexual energy gets bored & he starts to seek this Aqua for pleasure in more ways than just sexual, it'll hit him & you'll be the one he calls to vent about her.
Yesterday, he told me that he was really getting emotionally attached ... oh dear. Its his life true, but knowing what I KNOW about her (I use to have to work with her ... so yeah, I know alot), I really don't want anything thing like her in my family.
haha, I know it sounds bad but I'm being completely honest. It was bad enough with the Saggie, she became trasher as she got older and now this thing! Oh goodness. Listen, this girl was going out with a married man and the wife came on the job looking for her. I was in the middle of the whole thing because the wife was questioning me about her husbands whereabouts along with the Aqua-chick. The husband and the Aqua run off to another building when they see her coming. It was terrible ... funny as all hell (😆) but just terrible.
Yesterday, he told me that he was really getting emotionally attached ... oh dear. Its his life true, but knowing what I KNOW about her (I use to have to work with her ... so yeah, I know alot), I really don't want anything thing like her in my family.
haha, I know it sounds bad but I'm being completely honest. It was bad enough with the Saggie, she became trasher as she got older and now this thing! Oh goodness. Listen, this girl was going out with a married man and the wife came on the job looking for her. I was in the middle of the whole thing because the wife was questioning me about her husbands whereabouts along with the Aqua-chick. The husband and the Aqua run off to another building when they see her coming. It was terrible ... funny as all hell (😆) but just terrible.
The funny thing is, most of what I know about her, I know threw merely observing her haha. She one of those who wants to know everything about everybody else but once to keep all of her stuff private.
People like that are funny 😄 She can't wait to her something about someone else.
You can tell alot about someone by merely watching what goes on around them, yes.
People like that are funny 😄 She can't wait to her something about someone else.
You can tell alot about someone by merely watching what goes on around them, yes.
The comfort in finding & sticking with these women has to come from somewhere.
This is true, and I think I know where ...
My brother and I are quite the pair, he's attracted to trashy girls and I'm attracted to father-figures LOL!!!!!
This is true, and I think I know where ...
My brother and I are quite the pair, he's attracted to trashy girls and I'm attracted to father-figures LOL!!!!!
cappy my boyfriend is a gemini sun libra moon 😄
i'm a libra moon as well and i think it softens my personality because i have a tendency to be a little harsh without realizing it. what i've noticed about his personality is that he wanted to know everything under the sun about me. the curiosity is so cute and there is literally nothing about me that he could find out that would change his mind. I find that comforting but I see your standpoint because you can see through the girl he is currently dating. with geminis i think the libra moon is more enhanced in terms of the people pleasing and accepting nature but in my case, i think the aries sun trumps the libra moon. maybe this girl really has changed though. I know i went through a rough patch and one of my biggest fears is that people only remember me in that way even though it was a while ago.
i'm a libra moon as well and i think it softens my personality because i have a tendency to be a little harsh without realizing it. what i've noticed about his personality is that he wanted to know everything under the sun about me. the curiosity is so cute and there is literally nothing about me that he could find out that would change his mind. I find that comforting but I see your standpoint because you can see through the girl he is currently dating. with geminis i think the libra moon is more enhanced in terms of the people pleasing and accepting nature but in my case, i think the aries sun trumps the libra moon. maybe this girl really has changed though. I know i went through a rough patch and one of my biggest fears is that people only remember me in that way even though it was a while ago.
I think every girl gets emotionally attached when it comes to sex... http://www.nbcsandiego.com/health/women/Can_women_have_sex_like_men_.html<BR>
But I think Libra moons are in general, strive for relationships and tend to be a bit needy. I know I feel that way sometimes. My Aries sun hates it! So it tend to just boil inside me. I try to hold it back as much as I can.
But I think Libra moons are in general, strive for relationships and tend to be a bit needy. I know I feel that way sometimes. My Aries sun hates it! So it tend to just boil inside me. I try to hold it back as much as I can.
Posted by i love ewe
cappy my boyfriend is a gemini sun libra moon 😄
i'm a libra moon as well and i think it softens my personality because i have a tendency to be a little harsh without realizing it. what i've noticed about his personality is that he wanted to know everything under the sun about me. the curiosity is so cute and there is literally nothing about me that he could find out that would change his mind. I find that comforting but I see your standpoint because you can see through the girl he is currently dating. with geminis i think the libra moon is more enhanced in terms of the people pleasing and accepting nature but in my case, i think the aries sun trumps the libra moon. maybe this girl really has changed though. I know i went through a rough patch and one of my biggest fears is that people only remember me in that way even though it was a while ago.
Oh, so you know what I'm talking about because your boyfriend has the same sun and moon placements as my brother 😄
I don't know, if he gets serious with her, I will be sooooo disappointed but thats his life. However, if he asks my opinion again I will totally avoid talking to him about her.
Maybe she has changed ... but I know the guy she was living with just last month -- he's a capricorn. You know the guy knows me and my brother. Her ex-bf comes to me all upset because he thinks she is screwing my brother :O I have nothing to do with that, but he knows that I've worked with the Aqua chick in the past. Keep in mind, he told me this two weeks ago ... my mouth swung open lol .... because I knew she was still with the Capricorn dude at the time.
For Pete's Sake, I'm starting to think none of my brothers have commonsense. The only one that does is other gemini brother -- he's a year younger than me and two years younger then this Gemini brother.
So yeah, its not really pretty. If she's changed at all, she's done it in a few week span. The girl is trash and to think that she may be in MY family makes my head spin.
Posted by irishlibraiskatie
i am a libra sun/gemini moon....and i am beginning to think that the 'pleaser' part of being a libra sun, moon, venus whatever, is what leads to being emotionally attached
Oh, you are the opposite! you know, my brother would probably be so attracted to you because your sun and moon signs are opposite. Thats cool 😄
Posted by xtina
I think every girl gets emotionally attached when it comes to sex... http://www.nbcsandiego.com/health/women/Can_women_have_sex_like_men_.html<BR>
But I think Libra moons are in general, strive for relationships and tend to be a bit needy. I know I feel that way sometimes. My Aries sun hates it! So it tend to just boil inside me. I try to hold it back as much as I can.
No no Xtina. I was talking about my brother being emotionally attached when it comes to sex, not that Aqua chick lol.
I see your point above. Yes libra moons do strive for relationships. If they aren't in one, they feel as if something work with them ...
I'm with xtina on this one, am also aries sun libra moon girl
But I don't think it makes me attached, don't confuse adaptability with neediness. If I like you, I just want to make your world a happier place in the PRESENT, I make no promises for the future. Others would perceive that as giving too much of myself, or not being true to myself...but I've never lost sight of who I am by accommodating others. My Aries sun makes sure of that...if it doesn't work out, there is always someone else around the corner.
But I don't think it makes me attached, don't confuse adaptability with neediness. If I like you, I just want to make your world a happier place in the PRESENT, I make no promises for the future. Others would perceive that as giving too much of myself, or not being true to myself...but I've never lost sight of who I am by accommodating others. My Aries sun makes sure of that...if it doesn't work out, there is always someone else around the corner.
cappy you have the right attitude about the whole situation.
perhaps it wouldn't hurt to try and steer his focus on somebody else more to your liking hehehe. hook him up with a cute chickie you like
perhaps it wouldn't hurt to try and steer his focus on somebody else more to your liking hehehe. hook him up with a cute chickie you like
Posted by i love ewe
cappy you have the right attitude about the whole situation.
perhaps it wouldn't hurt to try and steer his focus on somebody else more to your liking hehehe. hook him up with a cute chickie you like
LOL! I'm seriously thinking about this. Because .... I'm sorry, I know its my brothers life and all, but he wrecked put of his younger life with a girl that just wanted him for material reasons, you know? When she saw that he wasn't going to be who she THOUGHT he was going to be, well ... things changed. They have a daughter together but theres soooo much chaos concerning her. I haven't seen my neice in like, I don't know, almost 2 years.
Its like, I don't want him to make the same mistake with this "trash can" of a woman. I know nearly every guy she's been with and they have not been the same since being with her lol. The only reason I know them is because we worked at the same place you see -- and for some odd reason the ALL talk to me about her :O Like I'm suppose to give them some insight on what the hell her deal is. I can't do that. Plus, after having conversations with her, I would NOT NOT NOT!!! want her with my brother.
Once, right in front of me, the married guy she was going out with put his hands underneath her shirt and started feeling her breasts :O I was like, "GUY! WE'RE WORKING HERE!!!" Also,she took her capricorn boyfriend out to her car and gave him a blow-job so he would, 'feel better'. I was there for that one too.
Also, she might give him some kind of infection or something. She not the cleaniest girl, and she really should be, only because she has sex alot.
Posted by ArianMilWifePosted by cappysweetie
He's always asking about my thoughts on the girls he chooses, which is sweet but he never listen to my advice anyway lol.
This Aqua girl is trouble, alot of trouble. I use to work with her and she was trouble. She use to go out with my cousin and she was nasty then too lol. Thats why I've shocked that my Gemini brother would want to be with her in such a way. He says she's changed but he doesn't know what I know ...
Two things: brothers never take sisterly advice, even if they ask for it. Give it and let it go. They don't care if you got it on tape or if the girl is blatantly admitting 'faults', they will make their own decision about a woman. Trashy is a matter of personal opinion; obviously he thinks they are great women for him. You can see the end point in the relationships, but he has to get there on his own. And maybe she has changed or she is exactly what he desires right now hehehe.
Secondly, on libra moons:
Posted by xtina
But I think Libra moons are in general, strive for relationships and tend to be a bit needy. I know I feel that way sometimes. My Aries sun hates it! So it tend to just boil inside me. I try to hold it back as much as I can.
I concur xtina.
I think you brother's issue is not in his moon sign though. I think he just needs room to find out his needs and if the woman is 'trashy' in the end then its his desire.click to expand
Hi AMW 😄
You are right, its what he desires ... 😢 But he and I were so very close ... until recently because he and I have made very different choices on our 'life' paths. However, he still tries to stay in touch and asks questions.
I know this girl is messed and theres no way she's changed in the course of a few weeks -- no effing way.
Posted by xonsie
I'm with xtina on this one, am also aries sun libra moon girl
But I don't think it makes me attached, don't confuse adaptability with neediness. If I like you, I just want to make your world a happier place in the PRESENT, I make no promises for the future. Others would perceive that as giving too much of myself, or not being true to myself...but I've never lost sight of who I am by accommodating others. My Aries sun makes sure of that...if it doesn't work out, there is always someone else around the corner.
Xonsie, its definitely your Aries sun. My brother lose who he was completely with that Saggie ex
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Libra Moons seem to become emotionally Attached from a sexuality standpoint.
Is this true?