I am a Scorpio girl having a crush on a Cancer guy. There's this guy that I know since high school and Ive always found him attractive since high school (2 years ago). We have been talking as friends for a little over a month. When we started talking as friends it was about working and exercising, but last Friday I told him I wanted to see him because I was bored in my house and I dressed up nice. we went out to eat icecream on Friday night (he paid for it), but nothing happened not even a kiss, but I was a little attracted by him. When we were on our way to his car I was telling him that he should've asked for napkins and he said that wasn't going to need them and then I started to say if he was going to clean me up and he said that he will lol. I got a little bit of icecream on my chest accidentally but I didn't want him to notice because he was making a little bit of fun of me because the icecream was melting but he did noticed eventually about my chest with a little bit of icecream. Then, when I got home he was saying that I should've let him clean me up but he wanted me to tell him that and I was like "you could've tell me that too," and we talked about that for hours lol I was the one that started talking like that and he asked me via dm on ig (I don't have his number) when did I wanted to eat icecream again so he can clean me up, etc. He asked me if I had something plan for that day (Saturday night) and I said no so we met up again. Im not a girl that likes to "hookup" but I really liked the time we spent together and I was up to spending more time with him. I like serious relationships but he's the person that I'm into and I can't get him out of my mind. So, what happened the next day was that we ate icecream and sang song some songs like the day before. He likes to watch me singing and moving my body provocative when I sing. I could tell that was turning him on. We were kissing and touching but not more than that. I was in my days too, but I could tell that he wanted to be more freaky though. We had this indescribable connection/chemistry like if we were meant for each other and our bodies were melting together. He was teasing me and I was teasing him. We were together from 10:30 till 4am and he had work the next day at 12pm. But I thew something in the air by asking if he likes to be single and he said that he really haven't thought of it because he has been busy and a lot of stuff to do (he goes to the same university as me but he's not even going this semester so he can get his life together he said that on instagram like 2 weeks before we had the icecream) so I understood that part because I'm kinda like that, I have stuff to do for myself but that doesn't mean that I want to be single while I get my life together as well. I have the time and I'm very picky. So, anyways, he said that and I was saying yea with my head like agreeing and then when "summer love," by Justin Timberlake plays, I said that this is like the song, then he said, "it is" (but the song has another meaning) but then I repeated myself and said that this is like te song but I meant that it's summer and it might not happen again, just a "summer love" to see what he says. I believe he asked if that's what I wanted and I said "no, it's because of you because you're always busy." He said, "no, this can happen again whenever i get free time from work," then he said something like "I can get you back to get more icecream" or "I'll get you back to get some icecream" and he smiled but Idk exactly what he said but what I got/understood from what he said is that he wanted to see me more. He said on his Snapchat that he was deleting his Snapchat so anyone that needed his number could ask him for his number. Maybe he wanted me to ask for his number. I believe that if a guy really wants you, he will go after you. But he also seems shy and seems like he doesn't like to jump into things even though we kissed, etc. I like him so much, but I can't tell if he wants me the way I want him. He's kinda a busy guy, but what bothers me the most is that he doesn't ask me personal questions to know more about me like what's my favorite food, favorite color, Idk just to get to know me I guess. I haven't asked him anything either because I read in other sites that cancer men doesn't like to talk about their personal lives (I don't know if that's true) but also I don't want to be so obvious and sometimes I feel like I am obvious. Specially, I don't want to feel rejected. He told me he got a new job about a week ago and also he got a flat tire yesterday and he needs to fix it. But should I start to ask about his life? Should I treat him with icecream this time? Should I ask him if his talking to someone? I kinda catch feeling quick when I really like a guy and feel this kind of chemistry, but don't want to feel Clingy so in a way I need to know where this is going! What should I do? Any advise will be highly appreciated.
