Cancer woman and gemini man advice

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YFN_Rosebudd
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Alright now idk what to do?Being a gemini im kinda scared of commitment. So i have been tryna get rid of her. I just met her yet shes labeled me as her nigga/man. Which is scaring me cus i didnt want a relationship. I just wanted to beat.

Soooo i have two questions...

1. Are most cancers clingy

2. How do i get drop her? Which isnt easy cus she stays RIGHT AROUND THE CORNER FROM ME!
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YFN_Rosebudd
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They'd be devastated by your story bro.

"How dare he only want sex."

You're a fuckboy"

"Women deserve better than you"



Lol you will see. I observe people.
Lmaooo well sh!t im thinkin bout deleting this thread then
Lol didn't mean to scare you though. It's just I can tell that this audience here wouldn't be able to give you the best advice.
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Yea i feel u? I kinda figured that anyways
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Lol, poor thing, she live right around the corner.

You should be upfront with her when you want to treetrunk her and thats it. Don't entertain her thought or else it will get messy. Thats the only way. Be honest and face the consequencss. Either you're screw early or later. I would choose the earliest so that her grudge wont be as deep. Be truthful though/ honest, but don't be too frank.
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YFN_Rosebudd
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Ah what!

1) Yes, cancers are the clingiest!

2) Just tell her the truth...that you will not be getting into anything serious till you are in your 40ies. The fact that she is your neighbour is an advantage.....She could see you bringing home each night/week/month another chick, so she'll know you told the truth!! It's not her, it's you. Simple.


Lol in my 40's?? Lmoo its nun like that i just feel like its too early to have sumn serious wit her
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YFN_Rosebudd
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So next time if you just want to have sex with a woman, let her know what you want. If she want the same then thats a green light. If she dont want it, then just move along. Don't waste anybody's time. Just my two cents.
I admit i didnt let her know that i just wanted to have sex and no feelings but its not my fault she jumped to conclusions. U cant just expect to have a oerson to want a relationship with u just because u had sex
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YFN_Rosebudd
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So next time if you just want to have sex with a woman, let her know what you want. If she want the same then thats a green light. If she dont want it, then just move along. Don't waste anybody's time. Just my two cents.
I admit i didnt let her know that i just wanted to have sex and no feelings but its not my fault she jumped to conclusions. U cant just expect to have a oerson to want a relationship with u just because u had sex

Did you tell her you aren't looking for a relationship?

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Noo? Yea i said that was my fault
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So next time if you just want to have sex with a woman, let her know what you want. If she want the same then thats a green light. If she dont want it, then just move along. Don't waste anybody's time. Just my two cents.
I admit i didnt let her know that i just wanted to have sex and no feelings but its not my fault she jumped to conclusions. U cant just expect to have a oerson to want a relationship with u just because u had sex
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-_- dude, sometime when a cancer woman have sex with a man, she can develop feelings more easily and faster than we she is not in bed.

For example, a kiss in general is a sign of affection from a lover to a lover. A parents to a child to show that they care. On the flip side a kiss can be a sign of greeting. However, when people see others kissing, it means something more than just simply kissing. You get my drift? If you have sex with her, then she can assume that it will eventually lead to something. To her you are not just havig sex, you are being intimate.
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YFN_Rosebudd
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Yung... Wise...Gem

I think this would be better for Twitter. You'd upset more feminists there.
Lol wym I would upset more feminists there—
Just a warning that there are some primitive feminists here who come into threads like this beating their chests. Men and women.

Translation:

"I wasn't honest with her about my intentions. I just said and did what I needed to do in order to get her comfortable enough with me to let me have sex with her. Now because I misled her, she thinks I actually care about her. Poor me, what do I do?"



"Bro, women's feelings don't matter. You got what you wanted from her and that's all that matters. Now watch people come onto this thread and rightfully defend her because you misled her. The nerve of these people acting like her feelings matter."

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Lmaoooo that what u got out of what i said—?
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YFN_Rosebudd
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LMAO- I'm a Gemini woman and I've wanted to meet a Gemini man but I don't know now... We're Gemini. Intelligent... so why the hell did you do this with a Cancer lmao? I feel so bad for her I have a Cancer friend and her boyfriend has cheated on her multiple times but she wont leave him so you think trying to ditch her will work? You'll have to use your bad twin here. Tell her the cold, Hard truth. You're just an asshole who doesn't want any kind of relationship with her. I had to do that to a guy recently. He was really nice but I got all itchy and wanted my freedom again to concentrate on college and me. I told him I'm an ass and I was sorry. He was annoyed but he went his own way. You should do the same.
Woow? Thats cray. Its seems as tho u see where im comin from?
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Did you took her virginity?
God no she has a kid. Thats why i thought she wasnt lookin for sumn serious
So because she's got a kid you assumed her legs are wide open for everyone?

You are fucked up. Grow up and be a man not a fucking boy.

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What no ur making assumptions?? wait hold did u read my comment. Ur slow . I said i didnt know she was looking for sumn serious. She has a kid so i thought she wasnt gonna get attached fast. Now she claiming me out the blue and idk what to do. U trippy if u think im in the wrong. She has always hit me up. I tried not answering her calls or texts. Im just tryna get out this situation ?
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Use. Your. Words.



Tell her straight up that it's just sex.

Tell her you don't want a relationship with her, not now...not ever.

Tell her you ARE and WILL continue to date and fuck other people.





If she still decides to fuck you after hearing all that and catches feelings, than that's entirely on her. You were straight up and told her where its at. She can't claim that you led her on or deceived her in any way. She only has herself to blame for being invested in something that doesn't exist.

Man up dude and tell her whats up. Who knows? You may get a no strings attached fuck buddy out of it....
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Use. Your. Words.



Tell her straight up that it's just sex.

Tell her you don't want a relationship with her, not now...not ever.

Tell her you ARE and WILL continue to date and fuck other people.





If she still decides to fuck you after hearing all that and catches feelings, than that's entirely on her. You were straight up and told her where its at. She can't claim that you led her on or deceived her in any way. She only has herself to blame for being invested in something that doesn't exist.

Man up dude and tell her whats up. Who knows? You may get a no strings attached fuck buddy out of it....


I see that now
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Posted by yung_wisegem
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Use. Your. Words.



Tell her straight up that it's just sex.

Tell her you don't want a relationship with her, not now...not ever.

Tell her you ARE and WILL continue to date and fuck other people.





If she still decides to fuck you after hearing all that and catches feelings, than that's entirely on her. You were straight up and told her where its at. She can't claim that you led her on or deceived her in any way. She only has herself to blame for being invested in something that doesn't exist.

Man up dude and tell her whats up. Who knows? You may get a no strings attached fuck buddy out of it....


I see that now

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I hope you do so in the future. If your transparent then your not the bad guy, ever.