CHEATERS?!?!

Which Aspects/Placements Indicate a cheater? Cheating is a choice but what aspect/placement is prone to cheating or unfaithfulness

I admit I cheated in past relationships a couple times I regret but it happened, I think it's cause my gemini moon & gemini Mars in my 7th house?

Wonder if Don has numbers on this?

-sighs-

Gemini Venus/Mars.
Mars/Uranus and/or Venus/Uranus aspects.
Uranus in 7th house.

Note: Uranus = erratic/spontaneous, hence why it's aspects can be seen as "indicator".

To be honest people cheat if they want to, natal chart or not.

venus n sag, usually the men..

Posted by Jahlia
Moon, Mars, Venus in Gemini
Moon, Venus in sagittarius.

^This.

But usually on non Gemini or Saggy Suns. The natives handle these placements better.

For example, A Cancer Sun with a Gemini Venus (or vice versa - Gem sun with Cancer Venus) worries me more than a Gemini Sun with a Gemini Venus.

Because the driving force of those two signs are completely different. One craves security, the other craves novelty. IME, Gem/Gem or Sag/Sag can be a bit promiscuous outside of relationships, but are usually pretty damn commited once inside them.

Venus in Gemini and Moon in Sagittarius are the most common placements found in the people I know who have cheated.

Posted by Koniucha

Posted by vesperlynd83
Venus in Gemini and Moon in Sagittarius are the most common placements found in the people I know who have cheated.

Met a guy recently with moon in Sag and Venus in Gemini. Yeah, I'm gonna have to pass on that, haha.

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Yup that would be a wise decision 🙂

Posted by xy
Uranus in 7th house
Triple Virgo
Venus in Scorpio
Venus opposition Pluto
Sun square Neptune
Mars opposition Neptune

Venus opposition Pluto? really?

Posted by GG

These men walk around like they belong to a secret fraternity, every man wants to be in this club but only the best pedigree can be a member.

I also know of an older Pisces man in his 60's that's been married 6 times and he cheated on all of his ex-wives.

I don't agree. I won't lie, I've cheated in the past, but I'm not proud of that. I was very young and stupid. The best pedigree of man are the men that can stay loyal to their partner and fulfill their needs. Emotionally, spiritually, and sexually. THAT is the highest pedigree of man.

I'm a Venus in Gemini. I have never cheated. I don't plan on it either. It has happened to me and it was so awful. I don't want to put someone through that. I'll dump them first if it's not working out.

I have Venus in Gemini, have been cheated on many times, but never cheated. I feel its more of a mental placement. I feel the pull to connect mentally with a lot of people, and need a lot of stimulation, but I never feel like I actually want to sleep with anyone else when in a relationship. Maybe it predisposes people to more fluid mental/emotional boundaries, which makes physical cheating more likely for some.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I have Venus in Gemini, have been cheated on many times, but never cheated. I feel its more of a mental placement. I feel the pull to connect mentally with a lot of people, and need a lot of stimulation, but I never feel like I actually want to sleep with anyone else when in a relationship. Maybe it predisposes people to more fluid mental/emotional boundaries, which makes physical cheating more likely for some.

seems like the Taurus Loyalty took over 😄 way to go!

Surprised to see Venus in Scorpio mentioned as I've read that this is the most loyal placement.

Talk about generalizing ... I do have friends with this placement, but seriously come on.. the forum is supposed to help us understand astrology NOT "labelling people"!

Posted by DMV
venus n sag, usually the men..

😭

I've known a lot of Sag cheaters myself. And honestly, the kind of cheating most of them have done has not been about uncontrollable lust or wandering eyes so much as it has been related to feeling neglected or emotionally unfulfilled, and often seems to be a kind of passive-aggressive revenge. I've also noticed that they usually confess it to their partner soon after.

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Posted by TxOgal
Talk about generalizing ... I do have friends with this placement, but seriously come on.. the forum is supposed to help us understand astrology NOT "labelling people"!

Yes, but astrology is largely centered around the practice of spotting correlations among individuals of various astrological placements & generalizing based on said observations. While it should be noted that generalizations are never meant to absolute & for every rule there are exceptions; generalizing isn't obsolete in this respect. It's about measuring consistency, rather than applying them to each and every specimen born of a given placement.

TL;DR version: generalization is vital to astrology. If not for generalizing, astrology likely wouldn't exist at all.

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If you read my post again you'll realize I made myself clear about "labelling people", I do not mind that astrology makes us notice the consistency in people's behaviour, thus understanding them. However, when it comes to judging a group of people over some behaviour that is not even absolute can definitely cause harm more than good. And this is were I find astrology not a so -great contribution, as in this case specially, it will raise doubts rather than solve misunderstandings. I see this absolutely unfair to people who have these placements.

Posted by CluelessCancer
LEO VENUS

Nope..😉

Posted by conyo622
gemini moon

Posted by DMV
venus n sag

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Well I guess this means I'm double f*cked then 😆.

Especially if this is the case.

Posted by Andalusia

But usually on non Gemini or Saggy Suns. The natives handle these placements better.

Posted by peritwinkle

For Gemini and Sagittarius placements especially.... they don't need to hang onto a dead relationship....

Whereas people who need the security of having that relationship still there and still want to have fun are more likely to cheat.

And I am of the belief that there isn't any indicator of faithfulness because there has been a cheater for every placement or aspect.

Posted by TxOgal

Posted by size zero superhero

Posted by TxOgal
Talk about generalizing ... I do have friends with this placement, but seriously come on.. the forum is supposed to help us understand astrology NOT "labelling people"!

Yes, but astrology is largely centered around the practice of spotting correlations among individuals of various astrological placements & generalizing based on said observations. While it should be noted that generalizations are never meant to absolute & for every rule there are exceptions; generalizing isn't obsolete in this respect. It's about measuring consistency, rather than applying them to each and every specimen born of a given placement.

TL;DR version: generalization is vital to astrology. If not for generalizing, astrology likely wouldn't exist at all.

If you read my post again you'll realize I made myself clear about "labelling people", I do not mind that astrology makes us notice the consistency in people's behaviour, thus understanding them. However, when it comes to judging a group of people over some behaviour that is not even absolute can definitely cause harm more than good. And this is were I find astrology not a so -great contribution, as in this case specially, it will raise doubts rather than solve misunderstandings. I see this absolutely unfair to people who have these placements.

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i agree with you. I see where zero's point is, but to be honest it is too far removed, and doesnt leave room for much empathy of the rest of the human race. astrology is more human. It's NOT a text book of science labeling a species. Because each human being has an upbringing, they have secrets, deep dark secrets of abuse and suffering, and different environments. Even twins or triplets are so different from eachother too. People are too far removed when they study astrology. they take out the "human" element of it, making it feel really cold.

Thank you! It is actually funny that twins/triplets are so different, it didnt cross my mind, but its SO true though!

Posted by TxOgal
Thank you! It is actually funny that twins/triplets are so different, it didnt cross my mind, but its SO true though!

youre welcome. I have learned alot through astrology why people are who they are. And why air, for example is COLD.
i have witnessed in real life stellium air...more than 3 in air in personal planets are very cold. But that doesnt necessarily mean they are bad people. Just not fulfilling. Fire stellium is good, as I'm married to one,but his fire stellium and water placements, some are situated in air houses. He understands enough to equate air and fire together. But not too much.

Alot of people don't want to know the TRUTH about stuff, i notice.

I have all three water houses filled, with water placements, and i need water in my relationships. (i've been with a stellium air and stellium fire and he was very cruel, violent, and very cold -- no empathy) But i also am dominant earth, so i also need a partner who has a "connection" and understands structure and grounding.
When they say Earth is boring...that is so true. More planets, like a stellium in earth, is really boring. I've witnessed it in my relatives in my life, but i love them lots cause theyre my family and they are with me through thick and thin. (i am dominant earth so i am a huge homebody and sit still at home doing alot of work and caretaking at home alot)

Also, just because i've had these experiences, it's still limited. Because when i do research....there are even stellium earths and stellium water people who are cruel and sadistic and evil too. So you never know....you just never know....

that's why it's never good to niche astrology like that.

* I mean if you have a conscience... you wouldn't do that, because it is in truth very cruel.