Confused

Capricorn Women,

Why do some of you appear to be so hard on your person?

I've been romantically involved with a very honest, virtuous, intellectual, mature/sophisticated Capricorn Woman [Long-Distance]; and, mutually, this has been a very happy, peaceful, & rewarding relationship, even such to The extent that Ms Capricorn actually has given me her ring-size [for marriage], told her mother, siblings, and good friends good things about me, although her Father does not know I exist because I'm not from his country. [Ms. Capricorn & her Father do not get along well. She freely admits that she loves me - which is quite hard according to her, since she does not let a lot of people in. She says that she can be free around my person. [I'm a Libra Male]..

So I have just gotten my flight-hotel package set up through my Travel Agent. However, my Travel Agent has taken a long time to get back to me. So, during this interim, I ask Ms. Capricorn what she wants me to do. [Do I purchase a ticket independent of Travel Agency? She's recommend several hotels in her city.]

This is when she goes radio silence.

When I have proposed the flight-hotel package to my Queen after hearing back fro my Travel Agent, my Capricorn is still silent, although she is reading my messages on Whatsapp.

Now it'll be 6 months since we've been involved starting 5/13/2017.

Consequently, I ask her whether my person has done anything amiss to her; and if so, then my person humbly apologizes. [I haven't done anything wrong to her. I'm always respectful, rational [peaceful], serious yet playful. More importantly, she has assured my person that if I have done something wrong, then she'll let me know.]



To my astonishment, when I ask Ms. Capricorn whether she is ok, Ms. Capricorn says:



"Yeah just tired."

When I try to speak to her about she is not responding to my request to purchase the ticket, Ms. Capricorn replies:

"Hey is alright if we spoke about this tomorrow? Really not i n the position to talk about anything just going through something :

You haven't done a thing."



Huh?

*A few moments before this, I called around 9:30 p.m. her time - to confirm the tickets; and a man picks up. She lives at home with her parents - as it is customary; for she is the eldest child of 5. The man who picked up kept on saying "Hello, Hello, Hello."

I've asked her about this, remarking that some gentleman has picked up the phone; and she replies:

"What phone? What time was that? Cause I had my phone the whole day."

It is as though she hasn't known that which I have been talking about.

She lastly replies:

"Am home in the living room didn't receive any call from you." This is about 15 mins after I've actually called her."



I suspect that he father has picked up the phone and something has come up.

When asked I should buy the ticket, she replies:

"Just need to fix myself. Have a good day."

This ^^^^ is weirds to me.

But I do recognize that as I have getting closer and closer to her heart, she embraces me heavily one day but then appears to act indifferent the other day.

Ordinarily, she is very direct; she doesn't hide, except as it pertains to her feelings. [But I can read them via studying her behaviors/actions].

This may sound like an odd question but have you ever met her face to face? Have you actually met and spoke to her family and friends?

you fell for an illusion without meeting the person

i bet you that 1000% she is not who you think she is. you don't even know who picked up the phone and you couldn't understand her responses??!!

please, instead of throwing $ $ away for the trip to meet her, donate it for a more meaningful cause.

thx,

a cap woman

Posted by Deedee86
This may sound like an odd question but have you ever met her face to face? Have you actually met and spoke to her family and friends?

I have not

But we've speaking everyday for 6 months.

Her mother is aware of my presence because she has picked up an item [book] for me.

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Posted by Deedee86
This may sound like an odd question but have you ever met her face to face? Have you actually met and spoke to her family and friends?

I have not

But we've speaking everyday for 6 months.

Her mother is aware of my presence because she has picked up an item [book] for me.

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maybe she is feeling insecure and scared to finally meet you in person. She may not think that she is pretty enough for you. Maybe she stretches the truth about her looks or weight and now she is afraid that you won't like her in person.

Do you put a lot of emphasis on outer beauty?

Posted by iCloud9
you fell for an illusion without meeting the person

i bet you that 1000% she is not who you think she is. you don't even know who picked up the phone and you couldn't understand her responses??!!

please, instead of throwing $ $ away for the trip to meet her, donate it for a more meaningful cause.

thx,

a cap woman

What are you basing your opinion on?

I don't know who has picked up the phone because I don't know who has picked up the phone.



She lives in 3rd World Country.

Now I have been regularly communicating to her for 6 months. Just to yesterday morning, she has supplied with hotels. During my last conversation with her, she even asks what The Travel Agent has said.

Now Ms. Capricorn is a virtuous Woman. She has never lied to my person before.



Her brother [teenage sibling] could have picked up the phone. Her native tongue is Bemba, although she speaks English rather fluently.



Everything isn't always that which appears to be. This is why I weight things out in order, lest I run into hast conclusion.

Isn't this how a mature Capricorn behaves?

Now she does appear to be very moody.

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Posted by Deedee86
This may sound like an odd question but have you ever met her face to face? Have you actually met and spoke to her family and friends?

I have not

But we've speaking everyday for 6 months.

Her mother is aware of my presence because she has picked up an item [book] for me.

maybe she is feeling insecure and scared to finally meet you in person. She may not think that she is pretty enough for you. Maybe she stretches the truth about her looks or weight and now she is afraid that you won't like her in person.

Do you put a lot of emphasis on outer beauty?

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"maybe she is feeling insecure and scared to finally meet you in person."

I think that you may be right. I've never thought it about it like that.

Admittedly, her father seems to be the only person she has problems with in her family, even from before she has met me.

She has explained to me that her Father does not want her to be involved with a Non-Zambian. He seems to be rather controlling [traditional as she says], especially because she lives at home with her parents' [father's] house.. But her mother is a Beautiful, loving, and inviting Woman - just like Ms. Capricorn. Her Mother, Brother, and Best Friends have taken a strong liking towards me. This is why have been moving forward, even to point of preparing for a family with her [all the way up to this encounter].

But to be honest....She is extremely hard on her person. She'll change her entire disposition because of some irrational thought that she has about her being, despite her outward display of self-possession or confidence.

[I have asked to meet her family; and she has said that I will her mother and her eldest male sibling brother but that I will never meet her father.]* This is why I suspect that he has picked up the phone.

"Maybe she stretches the truth about her looks or weight and now she is afraid that you won't like her in person.

Do you put a lot of emphasis on outer beauty?"



She may not think that she is pretty enough. But she is gorgeous. She is a professional model. {Broadcast Journalist by day].

She is very blunt but very shy about her own beauty.

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Posted by Deedee86
This may sound like an odd question but have you ever met her face to face? Have you actually met and spoke to her family and friends?

I have not

But we've speaking everyday for 6 months.

Her mother is aware of my presence because she has picked up an item [book] for me.

maybe she is feeling insecure and scared to finally meet you in person. She may not think that she is pretty enough for you. Maybe she stretches the truth about her looks or weight and now she is afraid that you won't like her in person.

Do you put a lot of emphasis on outer beauty?

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Your intutions seem spot on:

'It's a mad generation where women are afraid to love and men are afraid to show their emotions.'

Guess who status that is, even after since we've last communicated.

"Isn't this how a mature Capricorn behaves?"

capricorns are cautious and can be judgmental till the day they die, you don't know that already?

are you sure she loves you more than the green card?