My Libra guy is giving me the silent treatment

I'm a cap woman. I've been with my Libra man for 8 mths now and it's been rocky. We've been just friend before for about a year. At the beginning, of course, it was all perfect but then life happened and things got tough. I'm a single mom and have had a tough period in life - my ex left the country, so there were no more free weekend, I got into fights with my mom AND I lost my job.

So, of course, I was a litlle more tense than usual. We had fights. In some of them he would just turn around and leave. Sometimes he would call the next day and act as if nothing has happened. Once there was silence for 3 days and he called with an exuce and I smoothed things out, said that I really don't think that fight was worthy of us breaking up.

But now... We had a huge blowout. I can be pretty harsh with words, I know that a libra can't take it very well. And he left again. Called him to try to convince him to come back, he said no. The second time he said it's the last time we've talked. And then he blocked me. I haven't even tried contacting him since then and it's been 10 days.

He hasn't said anything to his friends that all know and love me, so I guess that's a sign that he's still thinking about it. But... tell me, what I should think of that situation? Is he thinking about it? Is he so pissed off and really needs all this time to calm down? Is he so hurt? Does this mean that he never had any genuine feelings? Should I let it be and see if he contacts me? Or should I contact him first? The silence treatment is killing me. And especially since we've been friends before, I'd rather see that we talk things out, even if he doesn't love me anymore. Just so we can pass eachother in a bar and normally say hi.

Otherwise, he was great, he even took care of my little one, they fell in love with each other in the first 5 mins. He only has problems with jealousy, but that's another topic.

Probably he won't come back.. But don't worry, you don't need man like him anyways, libras loving you when it's all about fun but when things get though they leave.. You need someone you can count on, they are not trustworthy.. They will leave whenever they please cause "they can't take it anymore". Hell is that.

Find someone better please. Try online dating, I can give you some advice if you decide. Best of luck dear

Aren't you the one that said this last argument got physical and he LEFT WITH BLACK EYES but that he did not hit you (although came very close) on a different thread?

You never answered whether you actually hit him or not...

Posted by pisceanloves
Probably he won't come back.. But don't worry, you don't need man like him anyways, libras loving you when it's all about fun but when things get though they leave.. You need someone you can count on, they are not trustworthy.. They will leave whenever they please cause "they can't take it anymore". Hell is that.

Find someone better please. Try online dating, I can give you some advice if you decide. Best of luck dear

Libras loving you when it's all about fun, but leave when things get tough?

All Libras?? No.

Posted by jane84

Posted by pisceanloves
Probably he won't come back.. But don't worry, you don't need man like him anyways, libras loving you when it's all about fun but when things get though they leave.. You need someone you can count on, they are not trustworthy.. They will leave whenever they please cause "they can't take it anymore". Hell is that.

Find someone better please. Try online dating, I can give you some advice if you decide. Best of luck dear

Libras loving you when it's all about fun, but leave when things get tough?

All Libras?? No.

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Please find me one Libra who sticks through thick and thin,

Find cute one for me, please 🙂

if that's possible lol

Like real knight in a shining armor. I need one

Need more info

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Posted by jane84

Posted by pisceanloves
Probably he won't come back.. But don't worry, you don't need man like him anyways, libras loving you when it's all about fun but when things get though they leave.. You need someone you can count on, they are not trustworthy.. They will leave whenever they please cause "they can't take it anymore". Hell is that.

Find someone better please. Try online dating, I can give you some advice if you decide. Best of luck dear

Libras loving you when it's all about fun, but leave when things get tough?

All Libras?? No.

Please find me one Libra who sticks through thick and thin,

Find cute one for me, please 🙂

if that's possible lol

Like real knight in a shining armor. I need one

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My cousin.

My fiance's father.

My best friend's husband.

My coworker.

But sorry honey, they are all taken. ?

All Librians need is respect and loyalty.. As you are a cappie, tell him that you value him a lot.. Justify your respect to him with your experiences with him, and he may consider you. However, on a long run, this relationship may not work as he is an air sign and you are an earth sign.. I've seen many librians in my life and i could even maintain a friendly relationship with them, only because they have no value for emotions.. And being a capricorn will find this behaviour extremely cheap.

Suggestion to you as I'm a capricorn, try to know him more before committing to him. Because we cappies go thru heavy depression during break ups.

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Posted by pisceanloves
Probably he won't come back.. But don't worry, you don't need man like him anyways, libras loving you when it's all about fun but when things get though they leave.. You need someone you can count on, they are not trustworthy.. They will leave whenever they please cause "they can't take it anymore". Hell is that.

Find someone better please. Try online dating, I can give you some advice if you decide. Best of luck dear

Libras loving you when it's all about fun, but leave when things get tough?

All Libras?? No.

Please find me one Libra who sticks through thick and thin,

Find cute one for me, please 🙂

if that's possible lol

Like real knight in a shining armor. I need one

My cousin.

My fiance's father.

My best friend's husband.

My coworker.

But sorry honey, they are all taken. ?

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Lmao no luck huh 😄

Posted by pisceanloves
Probably he won't come back.. But don't worry, you don't need man like him anyways, libras loving you when it's all about fun but when things get though they leave.. You need someone you can count on, they are not trustworthy.. They will leave whenever they please cause "they can't take it anymore". Hell is that.

Find someone better please. Try online dating, I can give you some advice if you decide. Best of luck dear

Sorry to derail but what signs are known for sticking with you tru thick AND thin?

Posted by jane84

Posted by pisceanloves
Probably he won't come back.. But don't worry, you don't need man like him anyways, libras loving you when it's all about fun but when things get though they leave.. You need someone you can count on, they are not trustworthy.. They will leave whenever they please cause "they can't take it anymore". Hell is that.

Find someone better please. Try online dating, I can give you some advice if you decide. Best of luck dear

Libras loving you when it's all about fun, but leave when things get tough?

All Libras?? No.

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Yeah they ALL probably are! But do they ALL leave when fun ends...that is legit question?

Lol just remembered Roadrunner!

Oops! It's getting tough...I am outta here!

Swoosh...lmao

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Posted by pisceanloves

Posted by jane84

Posted by pisceanloves
Probably he won't come back.. But don't worry, you don't need man like him anyways, libras loving you when it's all about fun but when things get though they leave.. You need someone you can count on, they are not trustworthy.. They will leave whenever they please cause "they can't take it anymore". Hell is that.

Find someone better please. Try online dating, I can give you some advice if you decide. Best of luck dear

Libras loving you when it's all about fun, but leave when things get tough?

All Libras?? No.

Please find me one Libra who sticks through thick and thin,

Find cute one for me, please 🙂

if that's possible lol

Like real knight in a shining armor. I need one

My cousin.

My fiance's father.

My best friend's husband.

My coworker.

But sorry honey, they are all taken. ?

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They don't run fast enough! Lol

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Posted by pisceanloves
Probably he won't come back.. But don't worry, you don't need man like him anyways, libras loving you when it's all about fun but when things get though they leave.. You need someone you can count on, they are not trustworthy.. They will leave whenever they please cause "they can't take it anymore". Hell is that.

Find someone better please. Try online dating, I can give you some advice if you decide. Best of luck dear

Sorry to derail but what signs are known for sticking with you tru thick AND thin?

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Personally with me? scorps, caps, aquas, lately I don't date so. Right now there's no one in my life and seems I can't find right one, honestly I'm too tired of trying

Posted by halalbabe
hes not giving you the silent treatment, he's done with you and doesnt owe you an explanation or emotional support after you gave him black eye

try that petty shit with a scorpio, they like that kind of power play. you tried it with the wrong one but im sure youll find a way to manipulate the libra back into your life

I am pretty sure no Scorpio will appreciate black eye!

Honestly I didn't know pre-story but getting physical with man who loves your child - I wouldn't come back!

Unless I've grown extra tooth that needs free extraction! Lol

What ta heck woman—

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pisceanloves
Probably he won't come back.. But don't worry, you don't need man like him anyways, libras loving you when it's all about fun but when things get though they leave.. You need someone you can count on, they are not trustworthy.. They will leave whenever they please cause "they can't take it anymore". Hell is that.

Find someone better please. Try online dating, I can give you some advice if you decide. Best of luck dear

Sorry to derail but what signs are known for sticking with you tru thick AND thin?

Personally with me? scorps, caps, aquas, lately I don't date so. Right now there's no one in my life and seems I can't find right one, honestly I'm too tired of trying

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Between us...what do you do when you don't date?

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Posted by pisceanloves

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pisceanloves
Probably he won't come back.. But don't worry, you don't need man like him anyways, libras loving you when it's all about fun but when things get though they leave.. You need someone you can count on, they are not trustworthy.. They will leave whenever they please cause "they can't take it anymore". Hell is that.

Find someone better please. Try online dating, I can give you some advice if you decide. Best of luck dear

Sorry to derail but what signs are known for sticking with you tru thick AND thin?

Personally with me? scorps, caps, aquas, lately I don't date so. Right now there's no one in my life and seems I can't find right one, honestly I'm too tired of trying

Between us...what do you do when you don't date?

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Nothing. Having fun and looking for this "one"

That fucker

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Posted by jane84

Posted by pisceanloves
Probably he won't come back.. But don't worry, you don't need man like him anyways, libras loving you when it's all about fun but when things get though they leave.. You need someone you can count on, they are not trustworthy.. They will leave whenever they please cause "they can't take it anymore". Hell is that.

Find someone better please. Try online dating, I can give you some advice if you decide. Best of luck dear

Libras loving you when it's all about fun, but leave when things get tough?

All Libras?? No.

Please find me one Libra who sticks through thick and thin,

Find cute one for me, please 🙂

if that's possible lol

Like real knight in a shining armor. I need one

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There's thick and thin and then there's a doormat. We're not doormats. We will give and give but take advantage of us one too many times and we'll be gone

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Posted by jane84

Posted by pisceanloves
Probably he won't come back.. But don't worry, you don't need man like him anyways, libras loving you when it's all about fun but when things get though they leave.. You need someone you can count on, they are not trustworthy.. They will leave whenever they please cause "they can't take it anymore". Hell is that.

Find someone better please. Try online dating, I can give you some advice if you decide. Best of luck dear

Libras loving you when it's all about fun, but leave when things get tough?

All Libras?? No.

Please find me one Libra who sticks through thick and thin,

Find cute one for me, please 🙂

if that's possible lol

Like real knight in a shining armor. I need one

There's thick and thin and then there's a doormat. We're not doormats. We will give and give but take advantage of us one too many times and we'll be gone

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So you won't come back for another black eye to match the first one? Lol

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Posted by jane84

Posted by pisceanloves
Probably he won't come back.. But don't worry, you don't need man like him anyways, libras loving you when it's all about fun but when things get though they leave.. You need someone you can count on, they are not trustworthy.. They will leave whenever they please cause "they can't take it anymore". Hell is that.

Find someone better please. Try online dating, I can give you some advice if you decide. Best of luck dear

Libras loving you when it's all about fun, but leave when things get tough?

All Libras?? No.

Please find me one Libra who sticks through thick and thin,

Find cute one for me, please 🙂

if that's possible lol

Like real knight in a shining armor. I need one

There's thick and thin and then there's a doormat. We're not doormats. We will give and give but take advantage of us one too many times and we'll be gone

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I never take advantage of anyone I like. But since I'm alone it doesn't matter I guess

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Posted by halalbabe
hes not giving you the silent treatment, he's done with you and doesnt owe you an explanation or emotional support after you gave him black eye

try that petty shit with a scorpio, they like that kind of power play. you tried it with the wrong one but im sure youll find a way to manipulate the libra back into your life

I am pretty sure no Scorpio will appreciate black eye!

Honestly I didn't know pre-story but getting physical with man who loves your child - I wouldn't come back!

Unless I've grown extra tooth that needs free extraction! Lol

What ta heck woman—

i know a cap f libra m couple. they are kind when youre one on one with them but its terrible to be around them when they are together/group setting. shes always fighting him about how he doesnt have her back and loyalty blahblahblah, while he tries to explain how he does have her back but also sees where the other person is coming from.

shes not overweight but her body isnt feminine. build like a man. meanwhile she always insults his looks. even said his dick is small infront of everyone lol

hes passive aggressive tho its very annoyin. he doesnt react to anything she does or say while the cap just wants a little power play every now and again

worst zodiac pairing in my experience, but theyve been together since forever. idk how long

how are things with your cap?

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Not sure what you referring to? Public humiliation? No!

I'm a libra, my brother, two ex's... I don't think any of us run from relationships. If anything, we stay in shitty ones way too long. He's simply not feeling it.

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Posted by pisceanloves
Probably he won't come back.. But don't worry, you don't need man like him anyways, libras loving you when it's all about fun but when things get though they leave.. You need someone you can count on, they are not trustworthy.. They will leave whenever they please cause "they can't take it anymore". Hell is that.

Find someone better please. Try online dating, I can give you some advice if you decide. Best of luck dear

Libras loving you when it's all about fun, but leave when things get tough?

All Libras?? No.

Please find me one Libra who sticks through thick and thin,

Find cute one for me, please 🙂

if that's possible lol

Like real knight in a shining armor. I need one

There's thick and thin and then there's a doormat. We're not doormats. We will give and give but take advantage of us one too many times and we'll be gone

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Agree.

I'll stay and stay. When I'm pushed too far though, you're never entering my head or heart space again.

I read an article called "the signs as exs" it described Libra well "the extremist ex". After a breakup we are either fighting like hell to find a way to repair it. Or we are completely indifferent to you. I agree with this.

Posted by jane84
Aren't you the one that said this last argument got physical and he LEFT WITH BLACK EYES but that he did not hit you (although came very close) on a different thread?

You never answered whether you actually hit him or not...

WTF— It surely wasn't me that wrote anything like that! No black eyes, no fist fiting, OMG...

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Posted by Laurea
I'm a cap woman. I've been with my Libra man for 8 mths too long.

But now... We had a huge blowout. I can be pretty harsh with fists, I know that a libra nor any sane man can't take it very well. And he left again. Called him to try to convince him to come back, he said no.

Do i need meds? Am I a loonbag?

Yes you do. Yes you are.

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Holy sh**, I never wrote that! I'm not a psycho, come on!

Please find me one Libra who sticks through thick and thin,

Find cute one for me, please 🙂

if that's possible lol

Like real knight in a shining armor. I need one

I'm a libra married to a Cap for 29yrs....Trust me, I've been there through the thick and thin, and still here

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Posted by jane84
Aren't you the one that said this last argument got physical and he LEFT WITH BLACK EYES but that he did not hit you (although came very close) on a different thread?

You never answered whether you actually hit him or not...

WTF— It surely wasn't me that wrote anything like that! No black eyes, no fist fiting, OMG...

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Offline, the two couples I know personally are a Libra female and Cap female - engaged and seem to be doing wonderfully. The other is a married couple, Libra male and Cap female - they've been together a few years, one daughter (a Pisces) and they're great together.

CuddleBug88, can you tell me their secret? I'm a cap woman in a very challenging relationship with a libra man. Communication seems to be the biggest problem - me trying to talk things out, him always sweeping it under the rug. AND as a cap I can be very harsh with words and libras are... wel... overly sensitive. Hoe did they deal with that? Any tips?

LOL you gatta be like, very gentle with them.. and it's worth it.. the thing is, you can destroy them with choice words alone when you have that rare one off argument with them.. which is rare.. in my experience at least.. I think they hide a lot of what they feel, like, they don't wanna disappoint.. or something

Danny MC, yes, I'm well aware that you have to be gentle with them. But it doesn't prevent him from being harsh with me. I can't stand double standards. 10 days ago, we had a big fight. I can't even remember what about and what I said, because it was so trivial to me. But he turned around and left (as he did a few times before). Called him twice to try and convince him to come back, he said that's the last time we're talking. I called once again and he has blocked my number. The fight was rough though, he got black eyes and it got phisycal. He didn't hit me, but it was pretty damn close.

I haven't called him since. And he hasn't either. So tell me... is this love? Is this over? If it would be, he would say something to his friends probably, who all know and love me. And not to forget - I'm a single mom and the little one is completely in love with him. I get that you need a day or 2 to cool off. But 10 days and counting— Come on!