I have been seeing a Gemini man on and off for three months. One minute he is all over me telling me he loves me and I'm perfect the next I don't hear from him for weeks. He admitted after two months of 'dating' that he had a girlfriend but he would be devastated if I left him. I told him that i can't take all the hot and cold behaviour and he said he has struggles and he needs time to clear his head. I know I should move on but I have developed strong feelings for him and it is very hard. Does the I need time mean a polite way of saying it's over. He has disappeared before and come back. I am a Libran and he says we have a great sexual chemistry but I just need to understand. Does he love me? Is he struggling or is he just saying what he thinks I want to hear. Is it really over this time?
