I met a possessive taurus lady (Page 2)

Posted by pathfinder

Posted by AnarchoScorpio
She wants to come by again for a kiss tonight, but I made it clear that it was only a kiss this time. She also texted me "yo te amo" (I love you) this morning. I replied with "I miss you". I wonder if this woman really loves me or if she is playing with my emotions. She is pretty incredible though. She cleaned my kitchen the other day and cooked me breakfast...

Day 1 (no date, no wine and dine from Beast)

Beauty: I want to come over.

Beast: Idk, my place is messy and it's late.

Beauty: I don't care, I want to come over.

Beast: Ok

(beauty sleeps over, cleans the kitchen and cooks)

Day 2 (still no date, no wine and dine from Beast)

Beauty: I love you

Beast: I miss you. But only one kiss.

Day 13

Beast still has not said he loves Beauty back and still hasn't taken her on any dates and doesn't seem to have meaningful conversations with her (at least I haven't read it on this thread)

Beast says Beauty is out of his league, but Beauty is doing ALL the chasing, sexing, cooking, cleaning...

US citizenship?

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she has a green card. lol

Posted by butterfly30
Taurus people can be clingy..they mark there place and live in it. The shit is cute at first until you realize how unhealthy it can be. I dated a Taurus who done this to me. He went in fast . At first i was like awww he is so cute.i Like how he would break his neck to do things for me. I like that he was just so sweet and kind. Less then a month he was telling me who he don't like ..trying to take up my time. Then when I started to get irritated he became nasty. Set boundaries with fix signs or they will walk over you

she really helps so much it's easy to overlook the possessiveness. it's true. but she told me to promise her that i would not leave to jam with my friends again and i told her music was important to me and it was important for me to have a guy's night

Posted by Impulsv
She won't respect u if u do everything she tells you.

I was thinking...huh? are you sure OP is a scorpio? lol

Posted by AnarchoScorpio
she is kind of trying to pull me away from my friends. i was jamming out last night with some friends making music and drinking beers. she said she didn't like it and that i can't go again alone. i either can't go or she has to go with me. i told her there were no women. only the wife of my friend who invited us to his house for practice space and it was just us men, which is true.

she still didn't like it. lol?

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I think personally that she needs to TRUST your friends. like get to know them. get a feel of them that they aren't a bad influence.

that sounds like mommy looking after her boy though. but it's just something women, well some women do.

Something is weird about this.... I've NEVER met a Taurus female to chase a guy until after they were in a solidified relationship, and certainly not before they were wine and dined! Taurus are very clingy and possessive, but the behaviors you're describing are more Scorp or even some rare Aries men behaviors.... If everything you say is true... I agree with @OceanBoy88.... Protect yourself because she may be using you for something.

Posted by Caplunar
Something is weird about this.... I've NEVER met a Taurus female to chase a guy until after they were in a solidified relationship, and certainly not before they were wine and dined! Taurus are very clingy and possessive, but the behaviors you're describing are more Scorp or even some rare Aries men behaviors.... If everything you say is true... I agree with @OceanBoy88.... Protect yourself because she may be using you for something.

he doesn't even sound like a scorpio man, so not all of Taurus women are probably the same, and vice versa.

Nobody likes chicks who can't have fun and just enjoy that their men are having fun...

Definitely something to work on for her. Friends are muy importante so definitely balance your private life with your personal life. Keep your friends close bc they will be there for you even if she isn't in the long run. Encourage her to make friends here as well.