Ignoring to cope

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by Cancan26 on Wednesday, June 7, 2017 and has 10 replies.

Why Are You Being Ignored According to Astrology

Different zodiac signs ignore for specific reasons. Aries are straightforward, Taurus need space, Gemini may forget, Cancer ignore if upset, Leo are direct about feelings, Virgo find you annoying, Libra cut off if annoyed, Scorpio ignore if hurt, Sagittarius are busy, Aquarius are preoccupied, Capricorn focus on work, and Pisces give many chances but may leave if taken advantage of.

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I notice a lot of posts on here about people being ignored by their potiental lovers or friends... So what are some of the reasons you have ignored people and what are some reasons people have ignored you.. Be honest... What was the person's sign

Aries-i have never been an ignored by an Aries.. this sign . .they are pretty straight up... If they are trying to talk to some one else they say that. If they are pissed they say that. If they aren't interested they say that

Taurus-just needs time to cool off *picture a. Cartoon bull your trying to get to move* you have 3 options you can get behind them and push ( it doesn't work) you can pissed them off enough to make them blow up or you can sweetly coax them into telling you wants wrong

Gemini-they might have forgot about you? Or

..Gemini is a cool guy/lady they got shit to do and it doesn't involve catering to your ego

Cancer -ok what did you do? Lmao I'm serious if a cancer ignoring you ..you probably pissed us off and now your getting the silent treatment *if you thought REALLY hard and you didn't do anything* they aren't interested and they are trying to let you down easy... Cancers are pretty aggressive when we want someone

Leo- real talk you probably know why they are ignoring you.. Leos are pretty point blank they believe in telling people how they feel

Virgo-your getting on their damn nerves... You call too much, you need to much, you are TOO MUCH CHILL

Libra- you pissed them off... Libra won't blow up about everything little thing that pisses them off like Aries will but if you are getting to be annoying they will cut you off -_-

Scorpio- you probably pissed them off beyond reproach.. *thank your lucky stars your. Be Ignored and they haven't decided to take action* I'm kidding scorpios are very sensitive in my experience and I have only been ignored when I hurt their feelings

Saggie-Whoops forgot about saggies they are kind of like aqua and Gemini they are busy and love to have fun... So if your being ignored you most likely can't keep up...

Aqua- your not being ignored they got shit to do... But if you are bluntly being ignored by someone you live with or something same thing their pissed *seeing a theme*

Capricorn -they are making money, you didn't show enough interest or you fell thru on plans too many times and now they are on to other things

Pisces-this sign has the best chance of coming back.. They give people so many chances I believe that this sign understands that people make mistakes

more than any other sign.. But if they feel like your taking advantage of them in ANY WAY they won't be back

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Posted by Cancan26
I notice a lot of posts on here about people being ignored by their potential lovers or friends... So what are some of the reasons you have ignored people and what are some reasons people have ignored you.. Be honest... What was the person's sign

Pisces-this sign has the best chance of coming back.. They give people so many chances I believe that this sign understands that people make mistakes

more than any other sign.. But if they feel like your taking advantage they won't be back

Sorry, Piscean here. Y'all are so into the moon, ascendant, mercury, Pluto, Venus, houses, etc, etc. To me, I won't give you a second chance. Sorry. I'm not a doormat to have a man wipe his feet on. I'm not the woman that gets to be dragged to the cave by the cave man, I'm not the woman to be pregnant, barefoot, and in the kitchen while my husband makes the monies and goes out having affairs with other women. If you've done me wrong I will swim away; never to return. I've always used the metaphor:

"Have y'all gone fishing and catch a fish? You release the hook from the fish, it wiggles outta your hands, and plops back on the water, never to be seen again." That's me.

I've been on dating sites and some men don't respond back to me. That's fine. Am I stabbing myself with a dagger deep in my heart? Nope. I don't stay where I'm not wanted. So, this isn't me. I don't post that I've been ignored/ghosted/blocked, etc.

NOW, the reasons why I've ignored SO? He chastised my 8 year old son. Yeah, I gave him chances, and my 6th sense told me, "This guy isn't for me". Straw that broke the camel's back was as stated above. Before he did this to my son, my ex-bf (Saggy) came over with his cute doggie. His dog snapped and growled at my dog (Cheddar). My ex-bf grabbed his dog (Sooner) yelled at him and threw him about a foot away. I was in shock! I saw my future flash before my eyes! He doing to the same to my 8 yr old; that's when the final straw was the final straw (again, as indicated above). Another reason? My ex-husband. He cheated on me. My divorce decree shows "Alienation of affection and adultery". I've blocked on cell, FB, and POF. I'm the one that got away. You know I am communicating with a Taurus man. If he ghosts me, then I will let him go as I know, "He's not that into me". I will move on the next man. I have, and will continue to do so until I find the "one". He may be the one. What does my strong 6th sense tell me? He is.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by Cancan26
I notice a lot of posts on here about people being ignored by their potential lovers or friends... So what are some of the reasons you have ignored people and what are some reasons people have ignored you.. Be honest... What was the person's sign

Pisces-this sign has the best chance of coming back.. They give people so many chances I believe that this sign understands that people make mistakes

more than any other sign.. But if they feel like your taking advantage they won't be back

Sorry, Piscean here. Y'all are so into the moon, ascendant, mercury, Pluto, Venus, houses, etc, etc. To me, I won't give you a second chance. Sorry. I'm not a doormat to have a man wipe his feet on. I'm not the woman that gets to be dragged to the cave by the cave man, I'm not the woman to be pregnant, barefoot, and in the kitchen while my husband makes the monies and goes out having affairs with other women. If you've done me wrong I will swim away; never to return. I've always used the metaphor:

"Have y'all gone fishing and catch a fish? You release the hook from the fish, it wiggles outta your hands, and plops back on the water, never to be seen again." That's me.

I've been on dating sites and some men don't respond back to me. That's fine. Am I stabbing myself with a dagger deep in my heart? Nope. I don't stay where I'm not wanted. So, this isn't me. I don't post that I've been ignored/ghosted/blocked, etc.

NOW, the reasons why I've ignored SO? He chastised my 8 year old son. Yeah, I gave him chances, and my 6th sense told me, "This guy isn't for me". Straw that broke the camel's back was as stated above. Before he did this to my son, my ex-bf (Saggy) came over with his cute doggie. His dogged snapped and growled at my dog (Cheddar). My ex-bf grabbed his dog (Sooner) yelled at him and threw him about a foot away. I was in shock! I saw my future flash before my eyes! He doing to the same to my 8 yr old; that's when the final straw was the final straw (again, as indicated above). Another reason? My ex-husband. He cheated on me. My divorce decree shows "Alienation of affection and adultery". I've blocked on cell, FB, and POF. I'm the one that got away. You know I am communicating with a Taurus man. If I find out he's not that into me; then I will let him go. If he ignores me then I know, "He's not that into me".

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Yikes! You have been thru a lot and rightly so should have ignored these people... the Pisces that I know were simply from a friendship level and the "mistakes" that I was referring to were things like "forgetting her birthday" ??

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Posted by blackphase
I ignore people for different reasons.

I ignore a lot of males as I don't like to create an illusion of interest when I am not in fact interested. So if I notice a guy is giving me too much attention I will ignore him to draw a line and make it apparent that I am uninterested. Or often times if a guy msgs me out of the blue, I don't respond. I only really keep in contact with close friends, so if they don't fall in that category, I won't pay them much attention.

I also ignore people when I am feeling overwhelmed. Either by circumstances in my personal life or often times too many people trying to stay in contact with me at once and I have a hard time keeping up unless things are calm and relaxed in my personal life.

Gemini 🙂

This is super helpful thank you. 🙂

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Posted by tiziani
I'd say looking at past experiences, reasons were:

1. I'm pissed off/upset/took it too personally

2. Just me being controlling

or in rare cases

3. Something awkward happened that I now instinctively take a step back at the sight of their face/voice/sound of their name - can't fake that one

This is really helpful too... I don't have much insight on the air signs

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Posted by Fafa
I am a libra if you annoy me, piss me off i will eventually be gone.. Life too short i need peace.

I annoy people i think by disappearing and not returning calls.

Yes my leeb friend told me that once that she only cut people off that had a consistent negative energy

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Posted by blackphase
I ignore people for different reasons.

I ignore a lot of males as I don't like to create an illusion of interest when I am not in fact interested. So if I notice a guy is giving me too much attention I will ignore him to draw a line and make it apparent that I am uninterested. Or often times if a guy msgs me out of the blue, I don't respond. I only really keep in contact with close friends, so if they don't fall in that category, I won't pay them much attention.

I also ignore people when I am feeling overwhelmed. Either by circumstances in my personal life or often times too many people trying to stay in contact with me at once and I have a hard time keeping up unless things are calm and relaxed in my personal life.

Gemini 🙂

I kind of get like that. If I feel so overwhelmed with personal circumstances I shut down to nearly everyone around me. General overall silence. Once I've sorted my head around it all I'm back.

Though I can shut the door on someone for good if they betrayed me.

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Posted by d0s3r
a scorpio used to ignore me

because i kept hanging up on him when he tried to tell me what to do

but this time the signal went and the call cut off, but he thought i hung up again. that's the last time we ever spoke

lol does it really even matter at that point

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I don't remember anyone ignoring me. But I have a really poor memory?

N I don't ignore people because of something they did. But when I do ignore, I think of the things they did so that I won't feel guilty about ignoring them?

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I've never been ignored - but I have ignored a few - when they have pissed me off to the point of no end - too much is too much - my ex-husband, my ex-friend ... I don't care. It's over, they just don't want to let it go. There's nothing I can do about that but give them time to accept it. LOL - you won't force me to do anything ha especially when you don't exist to me.

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Posted by Cancan26
I notice a lot of posts on here about people being ignored by their potiental lovers or friends... So what are some of the reasons you have ignored people and what are some reasons people have ignored you.. Be honest... What was the person's sign

Aries-i have never been an ignored by an Aries.. this sign . .they are pretty straight up... If they are trying to talk to some one else they say that. If they are pissed they say that. If they aren't interested they say that

Taurus-just needs time to cool off *picture a. Cartoon bull your trying to get to move* you have 3 options you can get behind them and push ( it doesn't work) you can pissed them off enough to make them blow up or you can sweetly coax them into telling you wants wrong

Gemini-they might have forgot about you? Or

..Gemini is a cool guy/lady they got shit to do and it doesn't involve catering to your ego

Cancer -ok what did you do? Lmao I'm serious if a cancer ignoring you ..you probably pissed us off and now your getting the silent treatment *if you thought REALLY hard and you didn't do anything* they aren't interested and they are trying to let you down easy... Cancers are pretty aggressive when we want someone

Leo- real talk you probably know why they are ignoring you.. Leos are pretty point blank they believe in telling people how they feel

Virgo-your getting on their damn nerves... You call too much, you need to much, you are TOO MUCH CHILL

Libra- you pissed them off... Libra won't blow up about everything little thing that pisses them off like Aries will but if you are getting to be annoying they will cut you off -_-

Scorpio- you probably pissed them off beyond reproach.. *thank your lucky stars your. Be Ignored and they haven't decided to take action* I'm kidding scorpios are very sensitive in my experience and I have only been ignored when I hurt their feelings

Saggie-Whoops forgot about saggies they are kind of like aqua and Gemini they are busy and love to have fun... So if your being ignored you most likely can't keep up...

Aqua- your not being ignored they got shit to do... But if you are bluntly being ignored by someone you live with or something same thing their pissed *seeing a theme*

Capricorn -they are making money, you didn't show enough interest or you fell thru on plans too many times and now they are on to other things

Pisces-this sign has the best chance of coming back.. They give people so many chances I believe that this sign understands that people make mistakes

more than any other sign.. But if they feel like your taking advantage of them in ANY WAY they won't be back

sometimes i ignore cause they ignore me first.