Interested in the pros and cons

of all the men in the zodiac if anyone has the time..

Aries
Taurus
Gemini
Cancer
Leo
Virgo
Libra
Scorpio
Sagittarius
Capricorn
Aquarius
Pisces

Haha, go for it and enjoy 🙂

Nah, I wander around the boards and read other signs but I particularly am drawn to Virgo, Capricorn, Cancer and Aries for no particular reason but the stories there are interesting.

There seems to be a lot of the guys that run the hot/cold treatment, whether that is just a guy thing or part of a star sign thing, I'm not entirely sure. And because I'm a lazy Libra I don't know the pros and cons of each sign...unless I date them all like you say lol...think it might be easier to steal someone else's knowledge 😛

You are a Libra so I would recommend to go for either Aquarius or Gemini for a long term relationship. And pros and cons of both of these signs are almost the same.
Pros : they both always gives u good mind stimulation, good in sex specially Gemini 😉, Aquarius takes the lead most of the time because you are a lazy bum, they both are good travel partners for u, they both likes variety, they both wont be clingy jealous or possessive, you will have your personal space and freedom from them and more importantly they both are great lovers.
Cons: They both lacks (or dont show) emotions, they are flighty, Aquarius are a bit stubborn, Geminis are indecisive, They both get easily bored if you lack good communication, They are more concerned to save the world rather than to talk about your shoes, There will be load of arguments involved at the beginning specially with the Geminis but when the time passes you will realise he is the one for you who knows you in and out.

There will be an attraction towards your opposite signs but in long term you will get easily bored with other signs.

Were pretty lame.
You probably would like something more interesting.

thanks Gemdude,

Aquarius sounds intriguing...not sure about a gem. Aren't we too similar? I'm as stubborn as hell and but not indecisive...not if it's an important decision. I like to plan things out way in advance and then live day to day chasing those goals.

What are Pisces or Caps like? And which actually wear their emotions on their sleeves?? Mmmm thinking about that one, not sure I'd deal.

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Were pretty lame.
You probably would like something more interesting.

that's quite negative...My glass is always half full and negativity is not something I could handle being around..but then you're notyouraverageaquarius 😉

Hmm I don't wine. WELL actually I suppose I to do my fair share of anything. Umm sorry for that then ^.^?

Was not really trying to be negative... but then again it's pretty classic to be misunderstood as fixed sign so w/e.

Do even know what you are looking for?

Do you*

LOL, S4nd!

Most importantly, someone that has goals and doesn't have a problem chasing them. Someone respectful and yes in touch with their emotions. I have a competitive streak...but I hate losing, I get sooky lol

Yes, someone that challenges me, I love a good fight...makeup sex is so worth it!! But of course you have to let me win most of the time 😛

I'm still interested in learning about all the other signs though.

Oh and I have Taurus rising and all my close friends are Taurus...think I'll keep clear of that one. No offence but I know how I am with them, there are 5 of them in my life regularly :/

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Posted by sweethearts
Most importantly, someone that has goals and doesn't have a problem chasing them. Someone respectful and yes in touch with their emotions. I have a competitive streak...but I hate losing, I get sooky lol

Yes, someone that challenges me, I love a good fight...makeup sex is so worth it!! But of course you have to let me win most of the time 😛

I'm still interested in learning about all the other signs though.

Oh and I have Taurus rising and all my close friends are Taurus...think I'll keep clear of that one. No offence but I know how I am with them, there are 5 of them in my life regularly :/

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Well, that's nice. I'm not sure why you would be intrigued by the EMOTIONLESS Aquarius. You seem like your turning your back on the Tauri who are probably the more in touch ones with their feelings. IJS

The moon is dignified in Taurus.
😉

Excuse me I meant the moon is exalted in Taurus.

Obviously Taurus and I have a strong attraction to one another...however i haven't' met a Taurus man yet but will take note when I do 😉

Funnily I have only ever come across, Cancer, Sagittarius, Libra. Long term and brief liaisons with Scorp, Aqua and Pisces oh and Leo!

Your moon is your emotions then is it?

Haha, I'm old. Was married to the Sag for near 20 years. Cancer 1st bf, Libra last relationship 😉

My moon is in Leo so how does that make me?

Posted by s4nd
your 7th house is scorp.

Yep, how did you know that?

haha, ok you got me. I really know very little about astrology 😛

And I hate being outed in a crowd so being an attention seeker is not necessarily me. I like attention as most but quietly. Couldn't even have a big wedding because it that type of situation I'd faint! Can't speak to a group of people, even a handful unless I'm in a social situation then I will enjoy it and be out spoken...

Nobodies perfect hey? I'm stoked with who I am as a person, done a lot of work on me 🙂

So what about Pisces and Caps what are their pros and cons?

haha, I'm also part asian we may definitely hit it off! What sign are you? Cougars are in you know 😉

well anyone that wastes time on playstation is a huge huge turnoff for me. That alone would drive me insane...I live in Australia where the sun shines near all year round and the last thing I want to have is a man sitting around playing that thing!!

Why do you have a doorman?

So far, I'm on the lookout for an Aqua, Gem or Taurus...or maybe all three 😉

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Posted by sweethearts
So far, I'm on the lookout for an Aqua, Gem or Taurus...or maybe all three 😉

gems could work. your 8th hose of sex.

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Oh I thought you were saying hoes of sex 😛

And i want a man not a boy that plays those stupid games. Only games I;m interested in is competitive sports and I'd much prefer to sail somewhere or fish!

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So far, I'm on the lookout for an Aqua, Gem or Taurus...or maybe all three 😉

gems could work. your 8th hose of sex.

Oh I thought you were saying hoes of sex 😛

And i want a man not a boy that plays those stupid games. Only games I;m interested in is competitive sports and I'd much prefer to sail somewhere or fish!

u lost me there i only like sex games.

i do like motorboats. literally.

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Now that is HOT!!!

Looking at getting a boat next year...how much would this one sting me for?

Oh well dreams are free 🙂

Will get something but obviously not that one!

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lulz i didn't catch my own mispelling wondering what u 2 are talking about... hoes... panty hose!

That's what I thought you were alluding too! PLus, you did just mention sex games lololol!

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Yeah I'm with you E...hose....hoes?? In fact I thought he was insulting me at one point...but then I thought nah

aquarius = most interesting sign for a guy.

sagittarius = i think double whammy because they're fire+mutable.

Sorry a bit put off by Saggy's..was married to one not that he was bad but recently had an experience with one that has turned me off for life!!!

sagitarius is the most surprising/unpredictable sign IMO. it's "anything goes" for them. @_@

Like Dr Jekyl and Mr Hyde—

Posted by everevolvingepithet
That kinda makes them cool for a shag but prob not much else outside of pals and suchlike!

Haha, my ex wasn't that way...but this other guy was and they had the same birth dates! Can only say he made my ex look good again in my eyes. At least I can see the good in him now.

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Like Dr Jekyl and Mr Hyde—

not sure. the sag girl i met in high school was the life of the party. she was very funny and has lots of friends. but she can be really weird to the point of actually planning to ruin other people's lives. she's living in paradise right now as she married a very wealthy businessman but it's very weird of her to stop texting and calling her friends. she's the first ever b*tch i met. she ruined my life by turning cold all of a sudden for no reason. kept me hanging until graduation. and she's soooo confusing like she would sometimes tempt/seduce me on some days. and on other days, she wouldn't even talk to me or avoid me. i know disappearing acts is quite common but hers was even worse than the ones i read on here.

Oh yes please on the 2nd one!!!

I want something I can fish on and cruise around the islands here off the coast. Just to picnic and swim for the day. would be great to have a room downstairs but I need it to be big enough for 6-8 people

cookiemonster? LOL 🙂

2 Firebunny...

and you say a Sag will be good for me— Thanks exactly the type of person I need!! No, I'll pass on that, once bitten twice shy!

oh no... didn't say that a sag will be good for you. I was implying that you should stay away from them if you're easily hurt and if you don't like surprises and sudden twists and turns...

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Posted by sweethearts
Like Dr Jekyl and Mr Hyde—

not sure. the sag girl i met in high school was the life of the party. she was very funny and has lots of friends. but she can be really weird to the point of actually planning to ruin other people's lives. she's living in paradise right now as she married a very wealthy businessman but it's very weird of her to stop texting and calling her friends. she's the first ever b*tch i met. she ruined my life by turning cold all of a sudden for no reason. kept me hanging until graduation. and she's soooo confusing like she would sometimes tempt/seduce me on some days. and on other days, she wouldn't even talk to me or avoid me. i know disappearing acts is quite common but hers was even worse than the ones i read on here.

It all comes around, not in a cheesy Karmic (not real in this day and age, imo) way, but it eerily does, or at least I like to think like that.

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oh well, i have moved on from the rut. my life is completely independent of hers. i'm happy with the way i am and how i am doing with my life...

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That kinda makes them cool for a shag but prob not much else outside of pals and suchlike!

Haha, my ex wasn't that way...but this other guy was and they had the same birth dates! Can only say he made my ex look good again in my eyes. At least I can see the good in him now.

:-? Nicely worded with that last part lol

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OOoops, never shagged the other guy....arg think I'm dyslexic sometimes...I read things backwards or the wong way!! lol

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oh no... didn't say that a sag will be good for you. I was implying that you should stay away from them if you're easily hurt and if you don't like surprises and sudden twists and turns...

oh cool, cos I intend running if someone says they are a Sag 😛

I'd love an Italian...is that a star sign?? lol

Posted by BalmyTigress
I'm kind of turned off by Sags as well, though I'm not sure why. I can't take them seriously.

Though there's a Cap man with Cap rising whom I'm fond of and he's got Venus in Sag. It worries me more than any other placement he has :-) Though I'm not even sure what it would mean! Except that everywhere it says that those like tomboy girls with small boobs. That's not me! Stupid astrology...

Bet the next guy I meet that turns my head will be a bloody Sag!

Should you be worried with Venus in Sag? Think the Cap Cap placements would be more dominant wouldn't they?

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I'd love an Italian...is that a star sign?? lol

italy is a taurus. :p

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haha, you're cute 🙂

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I'm kind of turned off by Sags as well, though I'm not sure why. I can't take them seriously.

Though there's a Cap man with Cap rising whom I'm fond of and he's got Venus in Sag. It worries me more than any other placement he has :-) Though I'm not even sure what it would mean! Except that everywhere it says that those like tomboy girls with small boobs. That's not me! Stupid astrology...

Bet the next guy I meet that turns my head will be a bloody Sag!

Should you be worried with Venus in Sag? Think the Cap Cap placements would be more dominant wouldn't they?

Well they are when it comes to my attraction to him :-) I've got Venus in Cap and I fell for him immediately. I'm not worried about that. I'm worried about what he finds attractive!

Yet again I fail at being confident when it comes to looks. I mean the man has shown to be interested and at the very least likes me a lot, but I still keep thinking that I've got the wrong look for him. Even if he himself said that I look gorgeous! Grr... Stupid stupid stupid.

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Listen to your gut instinct firstly and make sure HE is worthy of you. Don't put him up on a pedestal because thats where you belong!

But to make sure this guy is genuine, you have to have a high opinion of yourself worth...or he'll trick you and sex you and then be done!!

In that case tread carefully...potentially a friendship could be ruined..but still be cautious.

I had a similar scenario a few years back and I thought this guy would never do me wrong...how wrong was I? Have never been treated with such disrespect in my life...and most of it he wooed me over the internet because we were in different countries. We went home to spend time together and in a few short days, I left with my tail between my legs. I can honestly say this is truly the only person I have ever wished ill upon!!! I am still close with his family because we grew up together and one day I will have to face him again and still after 3 years...I don't know what I will do but he will feel it!!

Take Care with this one and don't be too vulnerable because you know him...maybe your experience turns out better than mine but keep your eyes wide open and listen to your gut!

Oh and listen to what your friend are NOT saying!

I believe that's your heart saying all those nice things, your desire to find love and a partner...we all want that. Your gut tells you it's too good to be true and gives you the doubts.

In hindsight, what I realised was when I talked to my closest friends, they tried to be positive but as I kept talking through the months they had nothing much to say...their silence was a red flag and they weren't surprised when it didn't work out.

So just take things slow and when you start thinking too far ahead in your fantasies pull yourself back, even if he is the one feeding those fantasies...it never hurts to slow things right down 😉

Cool you'll be alright then, wish you luck.

Posted by sweethearts
of all the men in the zodiac if anyone has the time..

Aries
Taurus
Gemini
Cancer
Leo
Virgo
Libra
Scorpio
Sagittarius
Capricorn
Aquarius
Pisces

Men:
Aries Pros: FUN, high energy, great sex Cons: React before thinking
Taurus Pros: Passionate, giving, stable Cons: STUBBORN shits
Gemini Pros: Funny, great conversationalists Cons: Get bored easily, and mentally scattered
Cancer Pros: Very caring, loving and hug like there's no tomorrow Cons: Sensitive, assuming and pouters
Leo Pros: Extremely positive person to be around, lively and passionate Cons: ME, ME, ME attention hos
Virgo Pros: Eye contact, can talk for hours, LOYAL, sex maps not needed Cons: overly worry/analyze & test
Libra Pros: Sweet, sensitive in a good way, always trying to keep the peace Cons: Can't make their damn minds up
Scorpio Pros: Passionate, giving, LOYAL (most), EYE CONTACT Cons: Possessive, jealous, anger management issues (some)
Sag Pros: LOTS OF FUN, can find humor in negative things, forgiving Cons: Younger ones tend to stray, get bored quick, needs constant excitement
Capricorn Pros: Clever businessmen, stable & loyal Cons: Icey, snobby, my shit don't stink attitudes
Aquarius: Pros: Different approach and thoughts that are interesting, always exploring (in bed too) Cons: Some like their freedom a bit too much, have no idea what passion is, and are true air heads
Pisces Pros: Sweet, that EYE CONTACT again, great kissers, very calming person Cons: assuming, sometimes too quiet, and can disappear in a ~poof~

Aries - haven't dated one.
Taurus - haven't dated one.

Gemini - Pro: fun, talkative, exciting
Con: Flighty, easily bored, argumentative

Cancer - Pro: Will treat you special and are very sweet.
Con: Clingy, needy, insecure.

Leo - Pro: Fun, charismatic, will take you to the coolest places
Con: Flirty, you'll always be wondering about those other girls throwing themselves at him.
Virgo - Pro: Interesting, funny, will treat you like a lady, will fix things for you
Con: Hard to open up, tends to run disappearing acts

Libra - haven't dated one
Scorpio - haven't dated one
Sagittarius - haven't dated one
Capricorn - haven't dated one

Aquarius - Pro: Interesting, sweet, will do nice things for you, amazing sex life
Con: Frustrating, nonromantic, won't tell you how he feels, can pull disappearing acts

Pisces - Pro: Sweet, will cook for you,
Con: Needs alcohol to open up, wishy washy (well the one I dated was)