Posted by farrahYou should never change someone, it should be him to change self. Gemini's can be quite stubborn as well, I would know I've dated a few.
maybe coz i was ignoring him because he won't change he is so selfish ,stubborn and STINGY! 6 months trying to make him change but he refused to so i got tired of him and i ignored him for 4 weeks he kept calling and begging for forgiveness and promising me that he'll change "which is a lie".and now he disappeared and i want him back .i've never been dumped before so this is unacceptable for me! and ya iam playing the silent card back.i did sent him a text message and he ignored it
Posted by beautifuldiasterI agree.Posted by psychosis_with_scalesAgreed.Posted by farrahYou should never change someone, it should be him to change self. Gemini's can be quite stubborn as well, I would know I've dated a few.
maybe coz i was ignoring him because he won't change he is so selfish ,stubborn and STINGY! 6 months trying to make him change but he refused to so i got tired of him and i ignored him for 4 weeks he kept calling and begging for forgiveness and promising me that he'll change "which is a lie".and now he disappeared and i want him back .i've never been dumped before so this is unacceptable for me! and ya iam playing the silent card back.i did sent him a text message and he ignored it
I'm Geminis opposite.
Every now and then it pays off to allow yourself to be humbled and admit you're hurting. It wouldn't hurt either to let him know you are suffering because of this.
Hell, at least you'd be honest about it. Can walk away with your head held high. Right?click to expand
Posted by farrahHe did what you asked. Be careful what you wish for.
im a Gemini woman dating a Taurus man we've been together for 6 months now.4 weeks ago i was ignoring him and asking him to leave me alone cause i was fed up with his stubbornness and suddenly 4 days ago he stopped calling me he didn't even answer my last message! what am i suppose to do ?i really need your help ;not to mention that i'm a Gemini which means that i don't have the word "WAIT" in my dictionary.help help help
Posted by beautifuldiasterShe asked him to leave her alone.
Do you want someone who goes MIA without cause and or reason?
Could there be a reason he went MIA?
I had a Taurus man tell me he would never dissapear and make me wonder, that he would always tell me if he planned on never speaking to me again lol.
So... Have you tried to reach out to him? Or are you playing the silent card back?
Posted by farrahYour mistake was trying to change him, instead of accepting him for who he is.
maybe coz i was ignoring him because he won't change he is so selfish ,stubborn and STINGY! 6 months trying to make him change but he refused to so i got tired of him and i ignored him for 4 weeks he kept calling and begging for forgiveness and promising me that he'll change "which is a lie".and now he disappeared and i want him back .i've never been dumped before so this is unacceptable for me! and ya iam playing the silent card back.i did sent him a text message and he ignored it
Posted by sultrykittyYep. Earth signs are big on that.
Wait, you ASKED him to leave you alone. He's listening to you.
Say what you mean, and mean what you say.
Posted by farrahYou don't like who he is. You asked him to leave you alone.
.i've never been dumped before so this is unacceptable for me! and ya iam playing the silent card back.i did sent him a text message and he ignored it
Posted by farrah
maybe coz i was ignoring him because he won't change he is so selfish ,stubborn and STINGY! 6 months trying to make him change but he refused to so i got tired of him and i ignored him for 4 weeks he kept calling and begging for forgiveness and promising me that he'll change "which is a lie".and now he disappeared and i want him back .i've never been dumped before so this is unacceptable for me! and ya iam playing the silent card back.i did sent him a text message and he ignored it
Posted by truecapPosted by farrahYour mistake was trying to change him, instead of accepting him for who he is.
maybe coz i was ignoring him because he won't change he is so selfish ,stubborn and STINGY! 6 months trying to make him change but he refused to so i got tired of him and i ignored him for 4 weeks he kept calling and begging for forgiveness and promising me that he'll change "which is a lie".and now he disappeared and i want him back .i've never been dumped before so this is unacceptable for me! and ya iam playing the silent card back.i did sent him a text message and he ignored itclick to expand
Posted by truecapPosted by sultrykittyYep. Earth signs are big on that.
Wait, you ASKED him to leave you alone. He's listening to you.
Say what you mean, and mean what you say.click to expand
Posted by beautifuldiasterThanks. I am sure it comes across mean sometimes, but I intend it to be helpful.Posted by truecapShit. Meant to hit quote and liked it.. I did like it but still.Posted by beautifuldiasterShe asked him to leave her alone.
Do you want someone who goes MIA without cause and or reason?
Could there be a reason he went MIA?
I had a Taurus man tell me he would never dissapear and make me wonder, that he would always tell me if he planned on never speaking to me again lol.
So... Have you tried to reach out to him? Or are you playing the silent card back?
He could just be trying to give her what she wants and instead of seeing it, she is focused on her pride.
Damn, we should be careful what we wish for. That's what hindsight is all about.
P.s. truecap, your a true straight shooter. I respect that about you.click to expand
Posted by beautifuldiasterFreudian slip. lol!
Opps. I meant many not meany hahaha
Posted by farrahSo this really about you being pissed he gave you the boot.
maybe coz i was ignoring him because he won't change he is so selfish ,stubborn and STINGY! 6 months trying to make him change but he refused to so i got tired of him and i ignored him for 4 weeks he kept calling and begging for forgiveness and promising me that he'll change "which is a lie".and now he disappeared and i want him back .i've never been dumped before so this is unacceptable for me! and ya iam playing the silent card back.i did sent him a text message and he ignored it
Posted by beautifuldiasterPosted by IamawineloverI truly believe one person can change the life of another.Posted by farrah
maybe coz i was ignoring him because he won't change he is so selfish ,stubborn and STINGY! 6 months trying to make him change but he refused to so i got tired of him and i ignored him for 4 weeks he kept calling and begging for forgiveness and promising me that he'll change "which is a lie".and now he disappeared and i want him back .i've never been dumped before so this is unacceptable for me! and ya iam playing the silent card back.i did sent him a text message and he ignored it
Farrah, for starters you cannot change a man!!!! Period! He has to change on his own if wants to. No woman on earth can change a man. So you have to stop thinking that you can, ok? I've been dealing with a Taurus man for almost 3 years and if he is ignoring you, you have to let him be. You can't make a Taurus bull respond or talk if they don't want to. The more you try, the more he will dig his heels in and won't budge. The best thing for you to do is keep yourself busy, living your own life and he will come around when he is ready but no time before then.
But the kick is this.
It just happens.
You can't force that. And if you go in with intentions of changing someone you never will.
We lead by example.click to expand
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