
Sankha90
@Sankha90
8 Years
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Well Firstly a little bit of introduction, My name is Subhra and I am a Scorpio, I am from India and a Data Scientist.
Now the problem:
So it began with Tinder ( I am not even ashamed), We matched on tinder while I was in Kolkata(Calcutta, My hometown) and we started talking over text/messages. The interesting part is she does not use a smartphone so our primary medium was Instagram and Allo. With time we started opening up and we felt a really strong connection which was scary. So we decided to meet up but that did not happen as she caught the flu right after that. After that I moved to a different city for work and she moved to Delhi (her hometown), but we stayed in touch, we talked every day at night after my office hours and it was probably my best conversation over the phone (her mother's phone), in ages. Eventually, we both realized that we are falling for each other and we decided to give it a shot. She is a textile designer and made shirts for me(which is amazing).It went on for two months but since it's a long distance sometimes she would freak out about the fact that this is not even a real relationship ( hangout sessions are not considered) so we decided to meet in Mumbai on 25.07.2017, which is two days from today while I am writing this post. She came to Mumbai and it was my turn to show up.
Everything was going well but after coming to Mumbai, I felt certain changes in the attitude towards me, off course, she is with her friends and having fun but she said she is not feeling excited about me coming and she does not know whether she is ready for a REAL relationship and I thought is choking her.(There is no third person involved) Now please note I am not a demanding person at all. I give her space, a lot of it which is required I think and yesterday she texted me that she can't do it anymore. She is not ready for a relationship, I asked her about the last two months and was sorry about the fact that she did not clear her stance earlier. She asked me to leave her alone for sometimes and it has been 17 hours of silence since then.
I am leaving for Mumbai on Thursday night and I really really hope to see her there because that's all I've been wanted to do all this while and now that it is not happening, I am heartbroken. What do I do? Am I doing something wrong??How do I convince this Cancer Girl—?
Please advise.
Cheers,
Subhra