Shit! My bf is a Bisexual :O (Page 2)

Posted by ANRivas

Posted by maelstrom


To be honest with you though it actually became a source of contention towards the end of both of those relationships, when they were discovering that they might actually just be *gay* (maybe I turned them, idk)... But I think this is an issue with *some* guys who purport to be bisexual. They're really just gay and "easing" into it by claiming the bi label during limbo. Not all of course, but some for sure.

Yes!! that is the only real problem; some-not ALL- men who claim to be bi are gay and unwilling to accept it or on the down-low and using women as cover-ups.

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Yeah, that's a legitimate concern.

Esp when you consider how young they both are.

If DXP is a microcosm for the world, im afraid and embrassed

Posted by DMV
@MELLY,

I dated a tauri guy who came out to me and I didnt judge him. Instead I supported him in exploring this side of his sexuality and being there 4 him emotionally.

sorry this is 4 the OP

@sugarfood

You make me think.
I wad thinking the same too. Maybe he's insecure, and afraid that I'd be turn off if he let me know that he's bisexual before we went to date. Maybe he was afraid that I would loose interest, (which I probably would), but he told me after I'm having emotions for him.

Hmmm..... Interesting..

Posted by Maybelle
@sugarfood

You make me think.
I wad thinking the same too. Maybe he's insecure, and afraid that I'd be turn off if he let me know that he's bisexual before we went to date. Maybe he was afraid that I would loose interest, (which I probably would), but he told me after I'm having emotions for him.

Hmmm..... Interesting..

he was afraid of being judged. He trusts you. To a scorp moon to tell u that is huge.

Posted by Sugarfoot

Posted by DMV
If DXP is a microcosm for the world, im afraid and embrassed

I don't think it is a microcosm. I think most people here are way more open minded than most. Especially in the U.S

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I dont

Posted by Sugarfoot
My biggest problem would be that he kept this from me. Knowing full well that some people have a problem with dating someone who's not straight, he should have told you from the beginning.

Instead he let you invest time, emotion, and energy into him, then he told you.

I'd be afraid of what else he was keeping from me because he was afraid I might not accept him. And, I'd treat it the same way I'd treat someone who decided not to tell me that they're married, or have kids. I'd dump their azz.

he said he didn't tell her because he didn't think it should be a problem...and it shouldn't be. How does his sexuality compare to hiding a child or a marriage? He's not cheating on her or hiding a secret life, he's just attracted to men. And all of like 3 weeks was invested into him. Come on now.

@DMV

Its good to know that he trusts me. I dont judge my man. I will try to accept every way about him. Simply because I love him and I want to make him feel sastified and happy. Because he has been in alot of things, hardships. And he deserves the bestest.

Posted by Sugarfoot

Posted by DMV
If DXP is a microcosm for the world, im afraid and embrassed

I don't think it is a microcosm. I think most people here are way more open minded than most. Especially in the U.S

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I'd agree with that. i think there are more people like mr.defense in this world than there are open-minded and accepting people.

Posted by ANRivas
It's incredible how narrow-minded and immature people are even today... The fact that this man is attracted to both sexes is disgusting? Really? How, exactly? Are you disgusted by a man who has slept with other women without a condom before he slept with you? No. Bisexual men aren't the disgusting ones...it's people with these outdated and ignorant views on them who are.
And don't even get me started on that "health consequences" comment, or "he might leave you for another man"... jesus christ. horrid! stop perpetuating this ignorant, outdated crap!

+1

I can't help but to feel disgusted by some comments on here. My tolerance can only go so far.

Posted by Jynja


My first advice to the OP was to leave the man quickly before she scars him for life with her fear of the places his cock and mouth have been.

you are cracking me up with this LOL

Posted by Maybelle
@DMV

Its good to know that he trusts me. I dont judge my man. I will try to accept every way about him. Simply because I love him and I want to make him feel sastified and happy. Because he has been in alot of things, hardships. And he deserves the bestest.

How long ago did he tell you?

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Posted by ANRivas
It's incredible how narrow-minded and immature people are even today... The fact that this man is attracted to both sexes is disgusting? Really? How, exactly? Are you disgusted by a man who has slept with other women without a condom before he slept with you? No. Bisexual men aren't the disgusting ones...it's people with these outdated and ignorant views on them who are.
And don't even get me started on that "health consequences" comment, or "he might leave you for another man"... jesus christ. horrid! stop perpetuating this ignorant, outdated crap!

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I can't help but to feel disgusted by some comments on here. My tolerance can only go so far.

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Posted by ANRivas

Posted by Sugarfoot
My biggest problem would be that he kept this from me. Knowing full well that some people have a problem with dating someone who's not straight, he should have told you from the beginning.

Instead he let you invest time, emotion, and energy into him, then he told you.

I'd be afraid of what else he was keeping from me because he was afraid I might not accept him. And, I'd treat it the same way I'd treat someone who decided not to tell me that they're married, or have kids. I'd dump their azz.

he said he didn't tell her because he didn't think it should be a problem...and it shouldn't be. How does his sexuality compare to hiding a child or a marriage? He's not cheating on her or hiding a secret life, he's just attracted to men. And all of like 3 weeks was invested into him. Come on now.

Ok...it's like this. Having kids is not a bad thing. Being bi-sexual is not a bad thing. Agreed? Agreed.

However, some people (for various reasons) don't want to date people who have kids.

Some people, (for various reasons) don't want to date people who swing both ways.

IMO, people should be open and honest about themselves when they are inviting other people to share their life. Otherwise, your ability to make an informed decision about that person has been taken from you. It's not right.

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do u tell someone absolutely everything about u when u meet them? If u do, I call BS

Posted by ANRivas

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Posted by DMV
If DXP is a microcosm for the world, im afraid and embrassed

I don't think it is a microcosm. I think most people here are way more open minded than most. Especially in the U.S

I'd agree with that. i think there are more people like mr.defense in this world than there are open-minded and accepting people.

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so we as a society should just start accept every unnatural act man could commit huh?

maybe, JUST MAYBE, we should start accepting pedophiles as people who just loves kids,or rapists as people who just like having barbaric sex, or people who partake in incest as people who just like to "keep it in the family" so to speak..FUCK IT right? just,fuck it,fuck everything,lets just literally FUCK EVERYTHING

@DMV

He told me about this yesterday.
We've been together in almost a month now.

Posted by Sugarfoot

Posted by ANRivas

Posted by Sugarfoot
My biggest problem would be that he kept this from me. Knowing full well that some people have a problem with dating someone who's not straight, he should have told you from the beginning.

Instead he let you invest time, emotion, and energy into him, then he told you.

I'd be afraid of what else he was keeping from me because he was afraid I might not accept him. And, I'd treat it the same way I'd treat someone who decided not to tell me that they're married, or have kids. I'd dump their azz.

he said he didn't tell her because he didn't think it should be a problem...and it shouldn't be. How does his sexuality compare to hiding a child or a marriage? He's not cheating on her or hiding a secret life, he's just attracted to men. And all of like 3 weeks was invested into him. Come on now.

Ok...it's like this. Having kids is not a bad thing. Being bi-sexual is not a bad thing. Agreed? Agreed.

However, some people (for various reasons) don't want to date people who have kids.

Some people, (for various reasons) don't want to date people who swing both ways.

IMO, people should be open and honest about themselves when they are inviting other people to share their life. Otherwise, your ability to make an informed decision about that person has been taken from you. It's not right.

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i absolutely understand that, but you compared him to someone who HID the fact that he has kids. He didn't hide anything, he just didn't tell her for *gasp* like 3 whole weeks! And again, he may have genuinely thought that it would not be a problem because it wouldn't affect her in any way other than her own issues with it.
Kids= extra responsibilities on your partner that may be passed onto you, dealing with ex-wife/husband, being part of the child's life, possible financial issues.
Hidden marriage= cheating, lying partner and also possibly kids.
Bisexuality=....

Posted by DAMEN VI

Posted by ANRivas

Posted by Sugarfoot

Posted by DMV
If DXP is a microcosm for the world, im afraid and embrassed

I don't think it is a microcosm. I think most people here are way more open minded than most. Especially in the U.S

I'd agree with that. i think there are more people like mr.defense in this world than there are open-minded and accepting people.

so we as a society should just start accept every unnatural act man could commit huh?

maybe, JUST MAYBE, we should start accepting pedophiles as people who just loves kids,or rapists as people who just like having barbaric sex, or people who partake in incest as people who just like to "keep it in the family" so to speak..FUCK IT right? just,fuck it,fuck everything,lets just literally FUCK EVERYTHING

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This is the dumbest and most invalid argument i hear people make. Pedophiles and rapists HARM people and RUIN LIVES by having sexual relations with others AGAINST THEIR WILL. You are not harming anyone by being attracted to the opposite sex unless you actually choose to rape/molest/harm them. Gay people are not harming anyone by being attracted to the same sex. In fact, they're doing this overpopulated and half-starving planet a favor.

Posted by Maybelle
@DMV

Its good to know that he trusts me. I dont judge my man. I will try to accept every way about him. Simply because I love him and I want to make him feel sastified and happy. Because he has been in alot of things, hardships. And he deserves the bestest.

Well

If you're not into it, then you're not into it-- no big deal.

Ultimately, *you* are the one who will date (or not date) this guy; no one else.

But he "didn't think it was a big deal"-- and you clearly do.

Soo-- you may want to figure out what both of your expectations are from here.

Srsly. 😉

Posted by Rabbit
Just a thought from a straight guy if I found out my GF/Wife was Bi...

Logically...my brain would be saying "It shouldn't matter. She could cheat with a man just as well as a female. Her sexual orientation does not alter her ability to cheat"

Emotionally...there is going to be some conflict. There's always going to be something in the back of my mind that asks "What is a woman giving her that I can't give her?"

I don't think it's a "disgust" thing, more of an "unknown" thing.

has your virgo offered to have 3some yet?

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Posted by Maybelle
@DMV

Its good to know that he trusts me. I dont judge my man. I will try to accept every way about him. Simply because I love him and I want to make him feel sastified and happy. Because he has been in alot of things, hardships. And he deserves the bestest.

Well

If you're not into it, then you're not into it-- no big deal.

Ultimately, *you* are the one who will date (or not date) this guy; no one else.

But he "didn't think it was a big deal"-- and you clearly do.

Soo-- you may want to figure out what both of your expectations are from here.

Srsly. 😉

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I concur

Posted by ANRivas

This is the dumbest and most invalid argument i hear people make. Pedophiles and rapists HARM people and RUIN LIVES by having sexual relations with others AGAINST THEIR WILL. You are not harming anyone by being attracted to the opposite sex unless you actually choose to rape/molest/harm them. Gay people are not harming anyone by being attracted to the same sex. In fact, they're doing this overpopulated and half-starving planet a favor.

au contraire mon frere,being bisexual can definietly harm someone and ruin lives..playing both sides is not healthy nor is it a natural..its a weakness..a person that can't choose a side,be it sexually, or in anything in life is a loser,period...and a person that wants it all is someone who i'd considered greedy,which in its self is also a form of self destructive behavior

Posted by DAMEN VI

Posted by ANRivas

This is the dumbest and most invalid argument i hear people make. Pedophiles and rapists HARM people and RUIN LIVES by having sexual relations with others AGAINST THEIR WILL. You are not harming anyone by being attracted to the opposite sex unless you actually choose to rape/molest/harm them. Gay people are not harming anyone by being attracted to the same sex. In fact, they're doing this overpopulated and half-starving planet a favor.

au contraire mon frere,being bisexual can definietly harm someone and ruin lives..playing both sides is not healthy nor is it a natural..its a weakness..a person that can't choose a side,be it sexually, or in anything in life is a loser,period...and a person that wants it all is someone who i'd considered greedy,which in its self is also a form of self destructive behavior

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So is eating too many cookies.


NEXT!

Posted by Montgomery


So is eating too many cookies.


NEXT!

which is why i also despise fat people

Posted by Maybelle
It's strange for me just the thought of he's 50% gay.

I like masculine men, I dont mean the body, but the thought, the way he is. I like it manly, but as I've said the thought of he's 50% gay, kills me a little bit.

I told about this to my friend, and her reaction was ' what the heck?'
And I told my elder sister, and she said 'Ew'. So I dont think I'm not alone.

I love him, but love is love. This shit is something else -_-

Am I the only one thinking OP should be working it out with him and not running to family and friends? I get the need to talk.. But... There are personal things that should stay personal/between the two involved. If I were him, that right there would be a deal breaker.. See ya. Jmo

Also, their reaction is a bit off-putting.. "Ew". Really? Does she realize she said "ew" about the man you "love?" Smh...

Posted by DAMEN VI

Posted by ANRivas

This is the dumbest and most invalid argument i hear people make. Pedophiles and rapists HARM people and RUIN LIVES by having sexual relations with others AGAINST THEIR WILL. You are not harming anyone by being attracted to the opposite sex unless you actually choose to rape/molest/harm them. Gay people are not harming anyone by being attracted to the same sex. In fact, they're doing this overpopulated and half-starving planet a favor.

au contraire mon frere,being bisexual can definietly harm someone and ruin lives..playing both sides is not healthy nor is it a natural..its a weakness..a person that can't choose a side,be it sexually, or in anything in life is a loser,period...and a person that wants it all is someone who i'd considered greedy,which in its self is also a form of self destructive behavior

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So because a bi man is attracted to men and women, he wants every man and woman in the world? In that case, i want every man on the planet and you want every woman on the planet, because being attracted to them means "wanting them all" and we can't be attracted to a whole sex but just choose one to love and be faithful to, right?
Sexuality is not a game of dodgeball. There aren't "sides" to choose, there is what you are attracted to and what you aren't. Did you have to choose to be straight? A person who thinks everything in life is two sides, black and white, no gray areas, is narrow-minded loser and needs to get out more, period.

Posted by scorchedearth
why was he "supposed" to tell her a month ago? do you tell the new person you're dating about everyone you've fucked within the first few days of knowing them? i doubt it. stuff like that comes up when it comes up. she's not "in love" because she's known him for less than a month. that's ridiculous. she's infatuated with him. she's just now seeing that he's not completely ideal for her and his little bubble of perfection has burst. that's not his problem. more and more people are coming out now than ever before. people need to get used to the fact bisexuals exist. people that like the same gender don't have to hide in the shadows anymore to avoid getting lynched. it's a different world now than it was in the 50s which is where some of you guys seem to have your mindsets from. lol

all. of. this. 'nough said.

I have lots and lots of questions. Let's start with this one first. Is he in the closet or is this common knowledge among his friends and family? 2. Are you ok with this being common knowledge with your friends and family? 3. If this doesnt work out are you going to disclose this to future boyfriends...like FYI my ex man use to sleep with men and yes I knew and was ok with it? 4. Why can't you walk away after 30 days, 4 weeks, a month? 5. Why do I even care?

Posted by PVAF
I don't know why she's being treated like a villain for her feelings. Honestly I think he purposely waited to tell her because he had a feeling that she wouldn't be okay with it. I find that misleading. He was probably hoping once feelings got invested she would just look past this little admission. Not cool.

I'm not trying to vilify her, and if he really was trying to mislead her, i could understand that...but he may genuinely have just thought she'd be accepting of it because it wouldn't affect her. Also, if that were the only problem i think she would've gotten a different reaction, but some of the "eww, gross" comments make this look worse on her side.

i meant i could understand her being hurt, not him misleading her, by the way!

A persons' sexual preference should be disclosed immediately and certainly before they sleep with you. You have a right to not accept it and by not disclosing it that right is subsequently taken from you. This is not a little omission. He did not say, I got drunk this one time and me and my boy got it in. He said I am bisexual. Is I smoke crack every now and then a little omission also? These are things you MUST tell. You simply have to. There is no wiggle room.

Posted by ANRivas

So because a bi man is attracted to men and women, he wants every man and woman in the world? In that case, i want every man on the planet and you want every woman on the planet, because being attracted to them means "wanting them all" and we can't be attracted to a whole sex but just choose one to love and be faithful to, right?
Sexuality is not a game of dodgeball. There aren't "sides" to choose, there is what you are attracted to and what you aren't. Did you have to choose to be straight? A person who thinks everything in life is two sides, black and white, no gray areas, is narrow-minded loser and needs to get out more, period.

here's some stats for these so called "winners" you speak of:

?? Bisexuals are at the bottom of tolerance levels, just above intravenous drug users, according to a survey of 1,334 heteros

?? Bi men are five times more likely to have used crystal meth than the general population—UC San Francisco, 1998

?? People who said they were abused as children are six times more likely to become bi than anyone else (Johnson & Shrier, 1985)

?? A 2002 survey of heterosexuals at University of Iowa's nursing school, 61% found bi men unacceptable and 50% found bi women unacceptable. For gays and lesbians, the number was 40%

?? A Suicide Prevention study in Australia found that self-labeled bi women and bi men were the highest percentages of suicide attempts. (35% and 29% )

?? Bi youth between 14 and 21 are more likely to be suicidal than any other sexually identified group—University of Minnesota

?? "Women who have sex with women and men are at significantly increased risk of bacterial vaginosis, breast cancer and ovarian cancer than are heterosexual women."—Dr. L.A. Valleroy, PhD, an affiliate of the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention

?? "If the same pattern of mortality were to continue, we estimate that nearly half of gay and bisexual men currently aged 20 years will not reach their 65th birthday"—Medical Institute of Sexual Health, 1999

?? A study of about 3,500 gay and bi men 15 to 22 years old in seven cities showed that one-in-six guys had sex with women recently, and one-fourth of them had unprotected sex with men and women, confirming young bi men as a bridge for HIV transmission to hetero women. (Nothing like emphasizing a stereotype.

True story ... My friend met a dude at a bar. They decided to go back to his place and have sex. She said they got back to his apartment and sat on the couch to have a drink. He then said you should know that I also sleep with men. She thanked him for being honest and told him she was no longer interested. He said he understood. They finished drinking talked a little while and she left. This is what an adult does. A grown ass man. He tells you before not after.

And if a persons sexual preference is not a deciding factor then what is?

Posted by Nala13
If you are hetero then why would you want to be with someone who is not? At 20 why even consider this.

I told my girl I'm straight,
there's plenty fish in the sea and I'm bait.
~Little Wayne

YOU DO NOT LOVE HIM AFTER 1 MONTH. If you want to stay cool but you do not love him. You just made a whole thread about checking his phone and him flirting with other women.

What about then men that come after him? I think they would have a problem with knowing this.

that she dated a bisexual? why should she even consider what men she hasnt even met think and why is it there business?

Posted by Maybelle
@aurora

Well he sucked a cock.

Attraction is something else, i like to look at girls,feel the beauty and the shape but I cant lick her pussy.

Sorry for my bad language, but this is what I had in my mind.

didnt you suck cock too tho?

and did he even tell you he did that yet? he is still young

Posted by Maybelle
It's strange for me just the thought of he's 50% gay.

I like masculine men, I dont mean the body, but the thought, the way he is. I like it manly, but as I've said the thought of he's 50% gay, kills me a little bit.

I told about this to my friend, and her reaction was ' what the heck?'
And I told my elder sister, and she said 'Ew'. So I dont think I'm not alone.

I love him, but love is love. This shit is something else -_-

so now he isnt masculine?

Masculinity and homosexuality do not go hand in hand. What about all those super manly men on the down low?

Damien VI, the list of stats you've compiled here is full of biased information and half-truths. First of all, yes, gay and bi people are more inclined to abuse drugs and commit suicide because of people like you who alienate them exist in the world. Did you look into the reasons behind any of these things when you were collecting info on all the reasons gays are inferior? Emotional and physical abuse against them because of their orientation, etc? Of course not. Not to mention, most "statistics" like this are studies performed by anti-gay doctors/scientists/institutions for people like you to seek out and use in nonsense arguments against non-heterosexuality, and much of it is correlational, some just plain false i.e. "half of gay men won't reach age 65." If you are looking for negative information about any group, you will find it, and it still won't make you right.

Posted by Mr. Defense
Rule of thumb. Gay people NEVER do anything wrong. And if you ever mention them doing something wrong, then you're regressive and bigoted.

I personally wouldn't be with a bi woman, just not my thing.

False. Gay people who are rapists, murderers, liars, manipulators, etc. are bad people just like the straight people who do the same thing. Thinking gay people are doing something wrong just because they are gay is regressive and bigoted.

Posted by Mr. Defense

Yep, I'm bigoted. I have good friends of all different races, and I have a good gay friend. He would agree with nearly everything I've said in this thread. He also dislikes bisexuals, feeling like they're indecisive and their sexual preference is irresponsible. I'm inclined to agree. Choose one of the other, you can't be both. I have no problem with people who are completely gay or completely straight. At least they can bite the bullet and be with one gender. Bisexuals are just idiots.

And how is NOT agreeing with interracial dating racist?

Seems like anyone who won't take things to the extreme is considered bigoted in your book. I have no issues with gays, but I also have to like every gay agenda and bisexuals according to you, or else I'm a bigot. News Flash, I don't agree with every gay agenda. There are gay people who don't agree with every gay agenda. Just the way it is.

Why is it irresponsible? who said that you have to choose? between the sexes
? if you are attracted to both then you just are..thats just the way it is.

Posted by Mr. Defense

Yep, I'm bigoted. I have good friends of all different races, and I have a good gay friend. He would agree with nearly everything I've said in this thread. He also dislikes bisexuals, feeling like they're indecisive and their sexual preference is irresponsible. I'm inclined to agree. Choose one of the other, you can't be both. I have no problem with people who are completely gay or completely straight. At least they can bite the bullet and be with one gender. Bisexuals are just idiots.

And how is NOT agreeing with interracial dating racist?

Seems like anyone who won't take things to the extreme is considered bigoted in your book. I have no issues with gays, but I also have to like every gay agenda and bisexuals according to you, or else I'm a bigot. News Flash, I don't agree with every gay agenda. There are gay people who don't agree with every gay agenda. Just the way it is.

Ah, the old "one of my best friends is *insert group i just discriminated again here*." ...No.
I don't even want to know your views on interracial dating, but what on earth is a gay agenda?!

Posted by scorchedearth
... most of you girls have sex with men that will fuck whoever will let them. most men will stick their dick into whoever will allow it. he's not any more likely to carry STDs than the guys you're all fucking. no man discriminates sexually the way a woman does. and it doesn't matter whos ass he's sticking his dick in. bisexuals aren't "dirty" and most of them are STD free the same as the rest of humanity.

Posted by scorchedearth
none of these bitches will own it but they're all afraid he's gonna give her aids because obviously every man that has sex with a man does so indiscriminately and without bothering to use condoms.

they all became very silent when i asked them why they thought he should have told her sooner.

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Well-- which is it?

According to you, most men DO have sex indiscriminately.

You're totally contradicting yourself.

yeah prince pisces, good on you for having a sense of humor about "the whole gay thing" hahahahaha

Posted by Rabbit
Couldn't you tell by the funny taste on his dick?

So uncalled for...

I think he's a totally asshole for not telling you in the first place. That would have given you the option to stay with someone who sleeps with boys/girls or leave. Maybe he hoped you fall in love with him and it'd be hard to do. The positive thing about this is that you know now. Make your decision what you're going to do and move on. It's only been a month...you'll be fine.


Now I'm wondering if it would be politically correct to ask...—??

i have friends from every walk of life, but that "one of my friends is ____" card is used far, far too often and means absolutely nothing. I don't agree with only allowing one kind of person to be friends with me, or only keeping around people who don't challenge my views, but bigotry is bigotry no matter how many kinds of friends you have. Even knowing someone like you in real life, i wouldn't even necessarily dislike you, but i would tell you that your views are narrow-minded and outdated just as i would expect a friend of mine to do the same.

Posted by Maybelle
@jynja

You got the point there! And I do agree.

I didnt complain about him, I was telling about my "strange" feeling. It's easy for you to say, but you'll fully understand what I meant when/if you get a lover who is attracted to the same sex.

I do not blame him. I do not complain about his attration and I do not judge him. I'm just analysing my feelings, and sharing it with you guys.

Actually you are judging him and are doing a huge diservice to him and yourself because you said it in your first post.. your thought was eww. If you loved him it wouldn't matter, you aren't accepting him for who he is period. Being bi, gay, straight or whatever label one places on it isn't a decision, it's part of who people are. My 2 cents. Walk away so he can find someone who DOES accept him for him fully. I know this is mean and I truly don't mean it to be but I am tend to be blunt especially with stuff like this.

You guys are over doing now.

Posted by Maybelle
I dont understand what the heck Bisexuality is standing for. You either like girls or boys, you cant like both, romantically speaking. It's either black or white, there's no grey.

Are his Venus and Mars in aspect with Mercury, Uranus? Is his 8th house placed in Gemini and Aquarius? Because these two signs are most likely to have sexual experiments of this sort. They govern everything bisexual, transsexual, polyamorous, etc.

well someone mentioned that you'd always be thinking in the back of your head if he's/she's going to be attracted to that other ...

it don't matter. Same scenerio. If your heterosexual man is a full blooded highly sexual man, and he sees beautiful gorgeous women who are his "type", whatcha gonna do? Lock him up? Tear a new hole into the other women?

Lol

Same thing.