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Sign that confuses lust with love most ?
Signs That Confuse Lust with Love
People often mistake intense physical attraction for love, especially when they feel a strong desire for intimacy without emotional connection. Recognizing the difference involves understanding whether feelings are based on genuine care or just physical chemistry. True love develops over time and includes emotional intimacy, while lust is usually fleeting and driven by desire.
As in, in love with love
Cancer
Posted by peachy06
Fire placements, mainly : sun/moon/venus and perhaps mars.
Well then i have triple fire moon ascendant and venus lol i used to be in love for 2 weeks then already fall out of love
I am more inclined to say that fire signs are faster to fall in and out of lust, but not actually confuse it with love.
Cancer can become deeply infatuated that is for sure. Those with a partner will likely confess to wanting him/her for a very long time. However, the water signs being governed by emotion does not mean they confuse one with another.
I think pretty much all signs that are unevolved can and will confuse love and lust.
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Cancer2nd this - having in mind one specific cancer girl who "loved" everyone she sleeps with lol
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same but a male Cancer lol
Posted by peachy06
Fire placements, mainly : sun/moon/venus and perhaps mars.
That's a negative for me.
Could be though because of my sun or retro venus kicks in...
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Cancer2nd this - having in mind one specific cancer girl who "loved" everyone she sleeps with lol
same but a male Cancer lol
hm from males never hard the love word yet but I guess it's pretty similar lol in mean time I remembered few more female Cancers who are exactly like that lol I always found it amazing how they so strongly believe they love those people...
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Oh yeah...I had an ex bff FC and she would ditch me all the time because she always found the "love of her life" and needed to be with them. I would just roll my eyes.... lol
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Cancer2nd this - having in mind one specific cancer girl who "loved" everyone she sleeps with lol
same but a male Cancer lol
hm from males never hard the love word yet but I guess it's pretty similar lol in mean time I remembered few more female Cancers who are exactly like that lol I always found it amazing how they so strongly believe they love those people...
Oh yeah...I had an ex bff FC and she would ditch me all the time because she always found the "love of her life" and needed to be with them. I would just roll my eyes.... lol
sounds correct lol finding love means complete devotion and ditching everyone and everything else coming from them lol
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Pretty much! And there is no talking any kind of sense or reason in them either. And they wonder why they are always "heartbroken". lol
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Lot’s of Cancer answers. I was going to say Taurus but maybe it’s my Cancer moon? 🤔
Its your cancer moon lol
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Lot’s of Cancer answers. I was going to say Taurus but maybe it’s my Cancer moon? 🤔Its your cancer moon lol
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"It is easy to confuse lust and love though, especially if things get physical." (had to fix it lol)
It depends on where you are at in the relationship. Is this a one or two night stand or have you been dating for a while and finally bumped uglies and caught some feels?
Either way real love takes time ...its shouldn't happen over night.
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Cancer2nd this - having in mind one specific cancer girl who "loved" everyone she sleeps with lol
same but a male Cancer lol
hm from males never hard the love word yet but I guess it's pretty similar lol in mean time I remembered few more female Cancers who are exactly like that lol I always found it amazing how they so strongly believe they love those people...
Oh yeah...I had an ex bff FC and she would ditch me all the time because she always found the "love of her life" and needed to be with them. I would just roll my eyes.... lol
sounds correct lol finding love means complete devotion and ditching everyone and everything else coming from them lol
Pretty much! And there is no talking any kind of sense or reason in them either. And they wonder why they are always "heartbroken". lol
yes exactly! I don't get it how it works for them really...they always get with someone who hurts them. And those few were actually called sluts by many guys simply cause they're all the time with someone who they claim they love and guy just uses them for sex cause they're also mostly good looking women too...but they just keep thinking everyone is the one
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I would be so exhausted trying to do all that non sense (its exhausting me just thinking about it). I would rather wait for something real and you would think they would want the same since that is their goal per se...but then again thats probably why I'll die alone hahaha.
Honestly, I think it stems from insecurities/low self esteem and just not knowing how to handle their emotions...especially at a younger age.
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Cancer2nd this - having in mind one specific cancer girl who "loved" everyone she sleeps with lol
same but a male Cancer lol
hm from males never hard the love word yet but I guess it's pretty similar lol in mean time I remembered few more female Cancers who are exactly like that lol I always found it amazing how they so strongly believe they love those people...
Oh yeah...I had an ex bff FC and she would ditch me all the time because she always found the "love of her life" and needed to be with them. I would just roll my eyes.... lol
sounds correct lol finding love means complete devotion and ditching everyone and everything else coming from them lol
Pretty much! And there is no talking any kind of sense or reason in them either. And they wonder why they are always "heartbroken". lol
yes exactly! I don't get it how it works for them really...they always get with someone who hurts them. And those few were actually called sluts by many guys simply cause they're all the time with someone who they claim they love and guy just uses them for sex cause they're also mostly good looking women too...but they just keep thinking everyone is the one
I would be so exhausted trying to do all that non sense (its exhausting me just thinking about it). I would rather wait for something real and you would think they would want the same since that is their goal per se...but then again thats probably why I'll die alone hahaha.
Honestly, I think it stems from insecurities/low self esteem and just not knowing how to handle their emotions...especially at a younger age.
yes exactly. low self esteem and not knowing how to handle their emotions. They want love so badly that they fall even for most obvious lies someone tells them in order to get what they want from them. I think they jump in cause they always think it's the right person, can't take the time to analyze them on deeper level
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it would save them a lot of heart ache if they could just take two steps back for a sec. but then again they would probably still jump in. lol
I love Cancers though...they are good peeps with big hearts.
Posted by Arkansassy
Venus in Water
for VIS , lust is love.
Posted by Crabra
I am more inclined to say that fire signs are faster to fall in and out of lust, but not actually confuse it with love.Cancer can become deeply infatuated that is for sure. Those with a partner will likely confess to wanting him/her for a very long time. However, the water signs being governed by emotion does not mean they confuse one with another.
I think pretty much all signs that are unevolved can and will confuse love and lust.
idk I more want to say cancer become codependent , to the person they love..
and sometime they say they are in love when they are codependent , not necessary lust.. but they love
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Cancer2nd this - having in mind one specific cancer girl who "loved" everyone she sleeps with lol
same but a male Cancer lol
hm from males never hard the love word yet but I guess it's pretty similar lol in mean time I remembered few more female Cancers who are exactly like that lol I always found it amazing how they so strongly believe they love those people...
Oh yeah...I had an ex bff FC and she would ditch me all the time because she always found the "love of her life" and needed to be with them. I would just roll my eyes.... lol
sounds correct lol finding love means complete devotion and ditching everyone and everything else coming from them lol
Pretty much! And there is no talking any kind of sense or reason in them either. And they wonder why they are always "heartbroken". lol
yes exactly! I don't get it how it works for them really...they always get with someone who hurts them. And those few were actually called sluts by many guys simply cause they're all the time with someone who they claim they love and guy just uses them for sex cause they're also mostly good looking women too...but they just keep thinking everyone is the one
I would be so exhausted trying to do all that non sense (its exhausting me just thinking about it). I would rather wait for something real and you would think they would want the same since that is their goal per se...but then again thats probably why I'll die alone hahaha.
Honestly, I think it stems from insecurities/low self esteem and just not knowing how to handle their emotions...especially at a younger age.
yes exactly. low self esteem and not knowing how to handle their emotions. They want love so badly that they fall even for most obvious lies someone tells them in order to get what they want from them. I think they jump in cause they always think it's the right person, can't take the time to analyze them on deeper level
I love Cancers though...they are good peeps with big hearts.
Thank you ...we are 🙂 That's a wonderful thing to say 🙂
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Nothing but ❤️ for ya!
Posted by peachy06
Fire placements, mainly : sun/moon/venus and perhaps mars.Well then i have triple fire moon ascendant and venus lol i used to be in love for 2 weeks then already fall out of love
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Your describing infatuation, not love.
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Cancer2nd this - having in mind one specific cancer girl who "loved" everyone she sleeps with lol
same but a male Cancer lol
hm from males never hard the love word yet but I guess it's pretty similar lol in mean time I remembered few more female Cancers who are exactly like that lol I always found it amazing how they so strongly believe they love those people...
Oh yeah...I had an ex bff FC and she would ditch me all the time because she always found the "love of her life" and needed to be with them. I would just roll my eyes.... lol
sounds correct lol finding love means complete devotion and ditching everyone and everything else coming from them lol
Pretty much! And there is no talking any kind of sense or reason in them either. And they wonder why they are always "heartbroken". lol
yes exactly! I don't get it how it works for them really...they always get with someone who hurts them. And those few were actually called sluts by many guys simply cause they're all the time with someone who they claim they love and guy just uses them for sex cause they're also mostly good looking women too...but they just keep thinking everyone is the one
I would be so exhausted trying to do all that non sense (its exhausting me just thinking about it). I would rather wait for something real and you would think they would want the same since that is their goal per se...but then again thats probably why I'll die alone hahaha.
Honestly, I think it stems from insecurities/low self esteem and just not knowing how to handle their emotions...especially at a younger age.
yes exactly. low self esteem and not knowing how to handle their emotions. They want love so badly that they fall even for most obvious lies someone tells them in order to get what they want from them. I think they jump in cause they always think it's the right person, can't take the time to analyze them on deeper level
I love Cancers though...they are good peeps with big hearts.
Thank you ...we are 🙂 That's a wonderful thing to say 🙂
Nothing but ❤️ for ya!
I love virgos too ..you guys give real love..long lasting
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awww thank you!....now come here you mushy cancer 🤗🤗 lol
side note: you may need to dab a few spots of oil on the corner of my eyes so they dont rust. #virgosarenotrobots haha
Posted by Crabra
I am more inclined to say that fire signs are faster to fall in and out of lust, but not actually confuse it with love.Cancer can become deeply infatuated that is for sure. Those with a partner will likely confess to wanting him/her for a very long time. However, the water signs being governed by emotion does not mean they confuse one with another.
I think pretty much all signs that are unevolved can and will confuse love and lust.
idk I more want to say cancer become codependent , to the person they love..
and sometime they say they are in love when they are codependent , not necessary lust.. but they love
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Crabs can be very push/pull with their partners and highly manipulative. A crab using the word love to do so is not out of the question by any means. Single Cancers are usually very self sufficient, so the codependency is often just a projected illusion due to how strongly they can emotionally attach. If their partner leaves them, or by some miracle they actually leave while attached, it hurts like hell but they typically go right back to being independent once they can contain the tears.
Strong Neptune
Posted by Arielle83
Yuck
lol
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Sign that confuses lust with love most ?