Squares - Should you try to fix it or Is it a important part of your personality?

Squares represents challenges, tensions between the energy of two planets, its considered to be a hard aspect. Astrologers says this tension provides motivation to the person improve both energies and learn how to make them work together but How one should approach this aspect...Acknowledging and being ok with it or trying to fix this tension?

I always think that it was my Mars Square Pluto that got me into astrology. Growing up I had a somewhat explosive temper. Which for the most part is fine, however when it did rear it's head it would turn a little violent. I would throw things and so on. I have learned to control my temper now a lot more, however I still have a limit as does everyone and when that limit is reached. It's not a pretty sight. at all.

It's an important part of your personality. Most successful people have a lot of squares or/and oppositions actually cause it creates tension. Once you learn to harness the energy it really keeps you going tbh

Posted by cvurko
#AppreciatingSquares

Can't change the tension, it will always be there, imho. You can change only the direction of all the energy. Understanding its nature and how to use it seems the right thing to do to me.

And if you dont fight it, you wont feel it so strongly, right?

I agree with you...The tension will always be there, I think its more to learn how to make it productive and avoid the destructive side.

I have Sun square Uranus, I feel good when Im perceived as original, eccentric or a little bit weird... Some people dislike and find me rebellious. Im trying to learn to be original without playing the devil's lawyer.

Posted by LuckyLibra979
You have to accept it first. In the beginning the main issue is denial. Mars Neptune square I would often deny the fact that situations got me heated. Took awhile to change my approach but in reality my problem was being raised to step away from the fire and be nice to ppl so it stuck with me especially after my paw paws death.



As I grew I learned that anger doesn't have to destroy things. Anger changes things. Anger is motivation to stand up and go forward. Just like passion. You should never run from your inner flame. And I learned that the hard way.



Now mars square Neptune is my favorite aspect. Neptune teaches you to explore in totality the planets it touches with out limitations. Now I see the spiritual reasons for assertions and the respect and knowledge one gets from following the flame.

I cant picture how a Mars/Neptune square work...I only think about taking drugs or fighting against its own spirituality or fearing the unknown...