Synastry! Venus conjunct pluto..

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Could be, we aren't in a relationship or dating, haven't even touched each other. I wrote him a note sauing he's driving me crazy with wwant/need, and he wrote back.that he just didn't feel the same way. But he continued to flirt and still stares ate sometimes like he feels.some kind of attraction.

I feel like I'm in high school but I'm almost 45 and he's 34. We work together pretty closely and are both in long term relationships with other people. It's actually quite uncomfortable sometimes.
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My crush and I have

Venus trine venus
Sun sextile pluto
Moon conjunct mercury
Venus conjunct mercury
Moon square pluto
His moon conjunct my south node
My sun conjunct his north node

Our composite chart is equally impressive. I haven't had the guts to talk to him seriously about whatever feelings we might have for each other. The fear of making a fool out of myself, that we are co-workers, and the fact that I basically have a "husband" makes it incredibly difficult to even bring the subject up.
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Posted by nazasif
I have venus conjunct pluto
Moon trine pluto
Ans sun conjunct mars
With him, who will feel it stronger pluto or venus and moon
I am venus and moon, I feel like a fish out of water if I don't see him, but restless if I do see him. I want more of him may be..
Does pluto feels the same way?



It depends on both your natal charts. The one who has pluto aspecting personal planets (i.e. the plutonian one) will feel the obsession. If you're both plutonian, you both feel it.

If neither of you is plutonian, you're not familiar with pluto's energy so you won't get any crazy obsessive feelings.
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Try sun conj Pluto. Pluto will always find it easier to walk away anyway.

In any case, because his sun is likely to be in harmony with your Pluto, he is more able to handle the shake up.

Look at your transits too.

I realized Pluto was trying to get me to be more of my sun, but Uranus opp Saturn transit won't allow it. My life is headed into more harmony not something more dramatic.

Just know Pluto finds it easier to leave and get ready for it.
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Posted by nazasif
So does pluto eventually walk away.



In my experience, it's the Venus that's the least invested and has the easiest time stepping out. They may get curious and peak their head back in on occasion, but they're not ate up with us in the same way that we are them.



Respectfully disagree.



You got me looking up old charts. Dangerous territory. Sagman and I are complicated because we go both ways. Another guy I went both ways with, we had no problem keeping things platonic. The guy I had Venus (me) conj Pluto with, and that alone, fucked me over for 2yrs. I withdraw my earlier statement.
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I didn't mean to make you retract, but I'm glad you looked just the same ๐Ÿ˜‰