Cancan
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The strength to stay calm
I think it might be the merc and moon
Gemini merc has me all over the place
Scorpio moon want to strike the fuxk back!
Lmao
Gemini merc has me all over the place
Scorpio moon want to strike the fuxk back!
Lmao
it's more like slow motion in movies. everything slowed down and i was looking at myself as a 3rd party. detached while praying that no one gets hurt
I would get far more annoyed over simply matters, such as dramatic individuals or irritations (I blame the anal part of my personality), than an emergency.
During an emergency, my ability to completely detach from my emotions and go into problem solving mode, leaves me very calm. Some find it comforting, others find it unnerving when that cool cold rational side kicks in.
During an emergency, my ability to completely detach from my emotions and go into problem solving mode, leaves me very calm. Some find it comforting, others find it unnerving when that cool cold rational side kicks in.
Well unless there is some sort of spider involved I can be as cool as a cucumber in most emergency situations.
If something sets of my anger it's a bit different.
If something sets of my anger it's a bit different.
Posted by TheLadyScorpiothis is true for my scorp too
I would get far more annoyed over simply matters, such as dramatic individuals or irritations (I blame the anal part of my personality), than an emergency.
During an emergency, my ability to completely detach from my emotions and go into problem solving mode, leaves me very calm. Some find it comforting, others find it unnerving when that cool cold rational side kicks in.
before i learned that about him, i actually sat him down and told him one time that it's critically important to me that he demonstrates his ability to stay calm and resourceful during emergency. i wouldn't feel safe otherwise
he can still get annoyed over simple matters though lol
Posted by iCloud9What was his reaction towards you, when you brought that up ?Posted by TheLadyScorpiothis is true for my scorp too
I would get far more annoyed over simply matters, such as dramatic individuals or irritations (I blame the anal part of my personality), than an emergency.
During an emergency, my ability to completely detach from my emotions and go into problem solving mode, leaves me very calm. Some find it comforting, others find it unnerving when that cool cold rational side kicks in.
before i learned that about him, i actually sat him down and told him one time that it's critically important to me that he demonstrates his ability to stay calm and resourceful during emergency. i wouldn't feel safe otherwise
he can still get annoyed over simple matters though lolclick to expand
Posted by Dreamyboy
I'm very calm in rough situations. My chart is in my pic. I don't live in a safe city, but I've been robbed at gunpoint 3 times while working at food industries, been shot at in several drive by shootings, and have been pretty calm during crisis scenarios as in witnessing a bullet wound to a friend or family member. My initial reaction is how I can help. I've been exposed to this garbage young so it's not really a shock to me. I am also an owner of two California legal "assault" rifles, a 12 gauge shotgun, and 5 pistols of various calibers.
Bloody hell - where on earth do you live, in California ?
Posted by TheLadyScorpioi described the exact words he used and actions he took during an instance that scared me. he took them seriously and reassured that he just needed to get his emotions out that he was not panicking. if he thought there was a real danger, he wouldn't have done that. he reassured that he would not let them out next time during a similar situation because now he knew that it would scare mePosted by iCloud9What was his reaction towards you, when you brought that up ?Posted by TheLadyScorpiothis is true for my scorp too
I would get far more annoyed over simply matters, such as dramatic individuals or irritations (I blame the anal part of my personality), than an emergency.
During an emergency, my ability to completely detach from my emotions and go into problem solving mode, leaves me very calm. Some find it comforting, others find it unnerving when that cool cold rational side kicks in.
before i learned that about him, i actually sat him down and told him one time that it's critically important to me that he demonstrates his ability to stay calm and resourceful during emergency. i wouldn't feel safe otherwise
he can still get annoyed over simple matters though lol
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Posted by iCloud9iCloud9, I am confused as to how my way of dealing with emergencies is in any way similar to your Stinger, because my emotions go into shut down mode during moments of crisis. Whereas, he seems to express them during said moments.Posted by TheLadyScorpioi described the exact words he used and actions he took during an instance that scared me. he took them seriously and reassured that he just needed to get his emotions out that he was not panicking. if he thought there was a real danger, he wouldn't have done that. he reassured that he would not let them out next time during a similar situation because now he knew that it would scare mePosted by iCloud9What was his reaction towards you, when you brought that up ?Posted by TheLadyScorpiothis is true for my scorp too
I would get far more annoyed over simply matters, such as dramatic individuals or irritations (I blame the anal part of my personality), than an emergency.
During an emergency, my ability to completely detach from my emotions and go into problem solving mode, leaves me very calm. Some find it comforting, others find it unnerving when that cool cold rational side kicks in.
before i learned that about him, i actually sat him down and told him one time that it's critically important to me that he demonstrates his ability to stay calm and resourceful during emergency. i wouldn't feel safe otherwise
he can still get annoyed over simple matters though lol
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Posted by DreamyboyWould you by any chance, have any thoughts of moving away from that city ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioStockton, California. Top 10 highest crime in USA.Posted by Dreamyboy
I'm very calm in rough situations. My chart is in my pic. I don't live in a safe city, but I've been robbed at gunpoint 3 times while working at food industries, been shot at in several drive by shootings, and have been pretty calm during crisis scenarios as in witnessing a bullet wound to a friend or family member. My initial reaction is how I can help. I've been exposed to this garbage young so it's not really a shock to me. I am also an owner of two California legal "assault" rifles, a 12 gauge shotgun, and 5 pistols of various calibers.
Bloody hell - where on earth do you live, in California ?
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You do not have to answer that, if you feel that is a breach of your privacy.
Posted by TheLadyScorpiohe didn't think that was a crisis. he took it as an irritation. you said you would get annoyed over simple matters. i don't get annoyed much over simple mattersPosted by iCloud9iCloud9, I am confused as to how my way of dealing with emergencies is in any way similar to your Stinger, because my emotions go into shut down mode during moments of crisis. Whereas, he seems to express them during said moments.Posted by TheLadyScorpioi described the exact words he used and actions he took during an instance that scared me. he took them seriously and reassured that he just needed to get his emotions out that he was not panicking. if he thought there was a real danger, he wouldn't have done that. he reassured that he would not let them out next time during a similar situation because now he knew that it would scare mePosted by iCloud9What was his reaction towards you, when you brought that up ?Posted by TheLadyScorpiothis is true for my scorp too
I would get far more annoyed over simply matters, such as dramatic individuals or irritations (I blame the anal part of my personality), than an emergency.
During an emergency, my ability to completely detach from my emotions and go into problem solving mode, leaves me very calm. Some find it comforting, others find it unnerving when that cool cold rational side kicks in.
before i learned that about him, i actually sat him down and told him one time that it's critically important to me that he demonstrates his ability to stay calm and resourceful during emergency. i wouldn't feel safe otherwise
he can still get annoyed over simple matters though lol
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Posted by iCloud9I see.Posted by TheLadyScorpiohe didn't think that was a crisis. he took it as an irritation. you said you would get annoyed over simple matters. i don't get annoyed much over simple mattersPosted by iCloud9iCloud9, I am confused as to how my way of dealing with emergencies is in any way similar to your Stinger, because my emotions go into shut down mode during moments of crisis. Whereas, he seems to express them during said moments.Posted by TheLadyScorpioi described the exact words he used and actions he took during an instance that scared me. he took them seriously and reassured that he just needed to get his emotions out that he was not panicking. if he thought there was a real danger, he wouldn't have done that. he reassured that he would not let them out next time during a similar situation because now he knew that it would scare mePosted by iCloud9What was his reaction towards you, when you brought that up ?Posted by TheLadyScorpiothis is true for my scorp too
I would get far more annoyed over simply matters, such as dramatic individuals or irritations (I blame the anal part of my personality), than an emergency.
During an emergency, my ability to completely detach from my emotions and go into problem solving mode, leaves me very calm. Some find it comforting, others find it unnerving when that cool cold rational side kicks in.
before i learned that about him, i actually sat him down and told him one time that it's critically important to me that he demonstrates his ability to stay calm and resourceful during emergency. i wouldn't feel safe otherwise
he can still get annoyed over simple matters though lol
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We do not get annoyed over every simple matter (we are not quite so sensitive, we are rather specific) but situations which carry quite a bit of drama / laziness / ignorance.
If something happens, I can stay calm and do what needs to be done. Moon conjuct saturn.
Posted by TheLadyScorpioi know now. it did take a while for me to be able to trust that about him and i was expressive about it lol. everyone is different and i actually find the difference fascinatingPosted by iCloud9I see.Posted by TheLadyScorpiohe didn't think that was a crisis. he took it as an irritation. you said you would get annoyed over simple matters. i don't get annoyed much over simple mattersPosted by iCloud9iCloud9, I am confused as to how my way of dealing with emergencies is in any way similar to your Stinger, because my emotions go into shut down mode during moments of crisis. Whereas, he seems to express them during said moments.Posted by TheLadyScorpioi described the exact words he used and actions he took during an instance that scared me. he took them seriously and reassured that he just needed to get his emotions out that he was not panicking. if he thought there was a real danger, he wouldn't have done that. he reassured that he would not let them out next time during a similar situation because now he knew that it would scare mePosted by iCloud9What was his reaction towards you, when you brought that up ?Posted by TheLadyScorpiothis is true for my scorp too
I would get far more annoyed over simply matters, such as dramatic individuals or irritations (I blame the anal part of my personality), than an emergency.
During an emergency, my ability to completely detach from my emotions and go into problem solving mode, leaves me very calm. Some find it comforting, others find it unnerving when that cool cold rational side kicks in.
before i learned that about him, i actually sat him down and told him one time that it's critically important to me that he demonstrates his ability to stay calm and resourceful during emergency. i wouldn't feel safe otherwise
he can still get annoyed over simple matters though lol
We do not get annoyed over every simple matter (we are not quite so sensitive, we are rather specific) but situations which carry quite a bit of drama / laziness / ignorance.click to expand
Posted by iCloud9Why do you find it hard to trust him about it prior to that conversation ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioi know now. it did take a while for me to be able to trust that about him and i was expressive about it lol. everyone is different and i actually find the difference fascinatingPosted by iCloud9I see.Posted by TheLadyScorpiohe didn't think that was a crisis. he took it as an irritation. you said you would get annoyed over simple matters. i don't get annoyed much over simple mattersPosted by iCloud9iCloud9, I am confused as to how my way of dealing with emergencies is in any way similar to your Stinger, because my emotions go into shut down mode during moments of crisis. Whereas, he seems to express them during said moments.Posted by TheLadyScorpioi described the exact words he used and actions he took during an instance that scared me. he took them seriously and reassured that he just needed to get his emotions out that he was not panicking. if he thought there was a real danger, he wouldn't have done that. he reassured that he would not let them out next time during a similar situation because now he knew that it would scare mePosted by iCloud9What was his reaction towards you, when you brought that up ?Posted by TheLadyScorpiothis is true for my scorp too
I would get far more annoyed over simply matters, such as dramatic individuals or irritations (I blame the anal part of my personality), than an emergency.
During an emergency, my ability to completely detach from my emotions and go into problem solving mode, leaves me very calm. Some find it comforting, others find it unnerving when that cool cold rational side kicks in.
before i learned that about him, i actually sat him down and told him one time that it's critically important to me that he demonstrates his ability to stay calm and resourceful during emergency. i wouldn't feel safe otherwise
he can still get annoyed over simple matters though lol
We do not get annoyed over every simple matter (we are not quite so sensitive, we are rather specific) but situations which carry quite a bit of drama / laziness / ignorance.
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Sometimes people mistake our annoyance and our at times unashamed way of expressing our opinions, as one and the same.
Also - what sign are you iCloud9 ?
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Why do you find it hard to trust him about it prior to that conversation ?
did (past tense. i DO NOT find it hard to trust hubby lol). because i'm INFJ i guess (don't trust easily). Also, i was used to non emotional people before him lol
i think the unashamed way of expressing emotions is what i find so irresistible about him lol. there are 2 sides to every coin i guess lol
Sometimes people mistake our annoyance and our at times unashamed way of expressing our opinions, as one and the same.
a sign you may have a bias against so it's not important here 😉 lol
Also - what sign are you iCloud9 ?click to expand
i'm pretty much calm. though only in the surface.
what i feel inside depends on the situation i faced.
what i feel inside depends on the situation i faced.
Posted by Cancan26People with mars-uranus aspects, supposedly people are calm/comfortable in these situations and can even seek them out. Or, I suppose the situation can seek you out if you have it.
During an emergency or just a shitty situation
Do you have this strength? If so what placement do you attribute it to? My first instinct during an emergency or shitty situation is to fight back or panic there is no in between
Posted by iCloud9A Goat, you are. 😈Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Why do you find it hard to trust him about it prior to that conversation ?
did (past tense. i DO NOT find it hard to trust hubby lol). i'm a INFJ i guess (don't trust easily). Also, i was used to non emotional people before him loli think the unashamed way of expressing emotions is what i find so irresistible about him lol. there are 2 sides to every coin i guess lol
Sometimes people mistake our annoyance and our at times unashamed way of expressing our opinions, as one and the same.a sign you may have a bias against so it's not important here 😉 lol
Also - what sign are you iCloud9 ?
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No, I do not have a bias against Goats at all. 😆
Posted by TheLadyScorpiowell, i don't trust easily so 😆 lolPosted by iCloud9A Goat, you are. 😈Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Why do you find it hard to trust him about it prior to that conversation ?
did (past tense. i DO NOT find it hard to trust hubby lol). i'm a INFJ i guess (don't trust easily). Also, i was used to non emotional people before him loli think the unashamed way of expressing emotions is what i find so irresistible about him lol. there are 2 sides to every coin i guess lol
Sometimes people mistake our annoyance and our at times unashamed way of expressing our opinions, as one and the same.a sign you may have a bias against so it's not important here 😉 lol
Also - what sign are you iCloud9 ?
No, I do not have a bias against Goats at all. 😆
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Posted by iCloud9That is quite alright, you have no reason to have to trust me right away anyways. 😈Posted by TheLadyScorpiowell, i don't trust easily so 😆 lolPosted by iCloud9A Goat, you are. 😈Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Why do you find it hard to trust him about it prior to that conversation ?
did (past tense. i DO NOT find it hard to trust hubby lol). i'm a INFJ i guess (don't trust easily). Also, i was used to non emotional people before him loli think the unashamed way of expressing emotions is what i find so irresistible about him lol. there are 2 sides to every coin i guess lol
Sometimes people mistake our annoyance and our at times unashamed way of expressing our opinions, as one and the same.a sign you may have a bias against so it's not important here 😉 lol
Also - what sign are you iCloud9 ?
No, I do not have a bias against Goats at all. 😆
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I'm calm af.
But that has more to do with being trained in first aid and being exposed to situations during my 12 year stint as a lifeguard.
But that has more to do with being trained in first aid and being exposed to situations during my 12 year stint as a lifeguard.
Posted by TheTinManI can. But would I...? LolPosted by LadyNeptuneoh so you a lifeguard aye. I wonder if you can save my life if I'm about to drown.
I'm calm af.
But that has more to do with being trained in first aid and being exposed to situations during my 12 year stint as a lifeguard.
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Wow. You guys are really impressive. I have been in dangerous situations but I recognized that I have act poorly in them
I might be able to be reasoned with if I feel like someone else is depending on me
I might be able to be reasoned with if I feel like someone else is depending on me
Posted by MaxPowerI have been robbed at gun point I fought the robber and ended up getting hurt.. Which I should thank my lucky stars I wasnt shotPosted by Cancan26Have you ever been in any really tough situations? Severe trauma? Near-death experience? Almost lost a child or did? Have you ever worked with people who needed you to be calm because they were mentally unstable and might punch you in the face or try to commit suicide at any moment? Have you ever been in a war zone?
Wow. You guys are really impressive. I have been in dangerous situations but I recognized that I have act poorly in them
I might be able to be reasoned with if I feel like someone else is depending on me
I'm not saying everyone here has experienced those things, but I'm noticing that the people who stay calm are mostly older posters. Once you've experience real trauma, the other stuff gets much easier to handle.
Edit: Jeez, that made it sound like I wish trauma on you. I don't. It's just, with life, we all unfortunately, get a little.click to expand
I have been in car accident where the car was crushed on one side and I had to help a child out of the crush side.. Lots of screaming and crying on my end..
Posted by MaxPowerThank you. Even though I didn't act the best in those situations I did the best I could at the time. I hope the strength to be calm comes as I get older.Posted by Cancan26I'm so sorry you went through those things! You reacted absolutely appropriately in both situations, especially the robbery. Good for you!Posted by MaxPowerI have been robbed at gun point I fought the robber and ended up getting hurt.. Which I should think my lucky stars I wasnt shotPosted by Cancan26Have you ever been in any really tough situations? Severe trauma? Near-death experience? Almost lost a child or did? Have you ever worked with people who needed you to be calm because they were mentally unstable and might punch you in the face or try to commit suicide at any moment? Have you ever been in a war zone?
Wow. You guys are really impressive. I have been in dangerous situations but I recognized that I have act poorly in them
I might be able to be reasoned with if I feel like someone else is depending on me
I'm not saying everyone here has experienced those things, but I'm noticing that the people who stay calm are mostly older posters. Once you've experience real trauma, the other stuff gets much easier to handle.
Edit: Jeez, that made it sound like I wish trauma on you. I don't. It's just, with life, we all unfortunately, get a little.
I have been in car accident where the car was crushed on one side and I had to help a child out of the crush side.. Lots of screaming and crying on my end..
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Posted by MaxPowerI don't know why I reacted the way I did.. Especially over the robbery.. I have always said I would never risk my life or something as stupid as money or possessions...
Cancan, did you have what you consider overly emotional reactions before those traumatic events you described? Trauma can work the other way too. It can really fuck you up. And then it has to be dealt with. What a mess human minds can be. :/
Posted by tizianiIts weird that you say that in both of those situations i remember that my fingers tips and my tongue went numb, and I was shaking so hard when emergency officals arrived on the scene of the robbery.
Yeah those situations are tough, no bueno.
When it comes to trauma, I've read that there's a re-thought on how we deal with it and that it is much better to let our body do the natural thing - shake, cry, scream. It's just the physical way of processing it. Whereas if you stay isolated or someone holds you down in one place to stop you shaking, it's thought maybe this can keep the trauma inside over years for longer than need be.
Calmest person in the room, always. I think its because my moon is in the 12th.
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a friend of mine have this aspect and I didn't found any description of it.
What is the dumbest sign/placement in your experience.
I go with Capricorn, they have good discipline and work ethic but cannot think, IMO.
Would you agree that someone's aura intertwines with yours and can affect your energy because of your sexual encounters with them.
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Does anyone else feel this way?
As a person who only has fire, earth, and air placements (in that order) .. I lack a lot of water. I'm not really able to process emotions as well as others which is strange because most of my friends have a lot of water
It couldn't be said better:
Do you agree —
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Some people just can't help but create their own drama if their life doesn't seem fascinating enough.
Youngali answered a thing that had nothing to do with it. So i asked her if she was aware of the pluto cap gen, so she loads off a concise text describing it very precisely, like a copy and paste. That's just pure spite, there's a lot of people like that
Some times being out of romantic relationships feels really good ... would you agree ?
Physically and emotionally
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If they explained the misunderstanding even if it was something awful. Would they be forgiven ?
Placements or aspects would make a person fully aware of someone else was attracted to them?
Look at the interp clearly, excess(and other things, luck, knowledge etc but mainly excess, expansion), in the area of childhood. If you really had to sum it up, that's it. Cancer is childhood.
Now l find that all these people have a shyness about them
I keep hearing that there are many forms of cheating
From thinking of someone else and having sexual fantasies of someone you may or may not even know Then there's the watching pornography type of cheating where some may or may disagree it's cheating
Men want commitment. They really are not that confusing but will only commit to a woman who is not out to control him with man-management. Men do not need someone to control and mother them and when this happens it is an instant turn-off. Nor do men want
meet frane
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the luckiest or unluckiest man that has ever lived depending on how you luck at it
Frane Selak is called the world’s luckiest man. The Croatian
ok i got this crazy idea again. lol so could a belly button tell you what sign a person is. Maybe. lets test it. say your sign and what kind of belly button you have.
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Hello,
i just wanted to ask based on an astrology, why didnt it work out between us?
I am Aries, he is a Virgo,
Detailed dates and chart in the attachement.
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Do you have this strength? If so what placement do you attribute it to? My first instinct during an emergency or shitty situation is to fight back or panic there is no in between