To Women

What are the qualities you want in your man?

Which sun/moon you are?

Funny but not in a douchey way.
Someone who thinks for himself, an open mind.
Passionate and curious about something and the little things in life, not lazy.
Having a goal in life, however ambitious and vague, I want to help him get there but if he's happy with routine and complacency it's a deal breaker.
Accepting of human flaws and quirks.

Sagittarius sun, Scorpio moon, venus in cap
I'm extremely picky but I think it goes around those lines. Understanding and tolerance is a huge thing for me.

Someone who inspires me and I inspire them.

A genuine good person.

Humor/Banter.

I can't narrow it down more than that, I know it when I see it.

Virgo sun/ Aries moon

Posted by PV&Jellay

Posted by Infinite8
PV&J'd dream man:

Physically: Height not important but he needs to be built, have meat on him. He hugs her - she needs to feel enveloped by him. I see him tanned or dark as well.

This guy NEEDS to be balanced between conservative and open-minded. Conservative looking in public - a freak in bed. This guy loves the stability of having a partner, household, normal paying job/security but he also LOVES to let loose in bed and be super creative and explore.

He is the initiator and likes to lead but sensitive enough to know when she is not in agreement and flexible enough to come up with another plan.

He is a home body but also a social person and pushed her a bit out of her comfort zone.

He is consistent, reliable, serious but has an AWESOME sense of humor.

He has a better memory that her and remembers everything about her.

He is a perfectionist sometimes too - so really appreciates her Virgo moon 😛

He's sensual and gives the best massages.

That's what I want. 😄

Pisces sun/Virgo moon

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Yeah, what she told me really matches me. Then again, I doubt it comes in human form so yolo, cats.

I need a friend, oh, I need friend
To make me happy
Not so alone

Sagittarius/Pisces

Witty
Intelligent
Open-minded
Good conversationalist
Handsome/cute face
Emotionally mature
Good father
General life stability
Responsible
Flexible nature
Kind
Playful
Compassionate
Sexually compatible
Devoted to our relationship
Taller than me

I listed 16 and my husb checks every box. Good men exist!

Posted by wecarealot
For me, I would like to have someone who is in good health, communicative, and interested in travel/trying different activities. It would be nice if they also looked like Keanu Reeves, lol, but it's difficult to imagine a real life person because my life is somewhat unstable right now. It would be stupid for me to have a serious partner when I'm not even sure I want to live in just one city within the next year. I really want a vagabond lifestyle right now, and that tends to not be conducive to a strong relationship.

Your sun/moon?

Libra Sun, Gemini Moon

Posted by duchesslibro
Witty
Intelligent
Open-minded
Good conversationalist
Handsome/cute face
Emotionally mature
Good father
General life stability
Responsible
Flexible nature
Kind
Playful
Compassionate
Sexually compatible
Devoted to our relationship
Taller than me

Your sun/moon?

Posted my sun/moon five seconds prior to you asking, haha.

Posted by duchesslibro
Posted my sun/moon five seconds prior to you asking, haha.

Oh, ok. 🙂

calm, thoughtful, honest/open/no games, self-control/no addiction problems, not completely lazy, not whiny/not super sensitive, adventurous/active would be a nice bonus.

pisces/pisces

Loyal
Mature
Funny
Seductive
Wise
Honest
Patient
Dominating
Well groomed
Chill
Versatile
Intelligent

Ect. Ect.

Aries sun/Sag moon

Posted by duchesslibro
Witty
Intelligent
Open-minded
Good conversationalist
Handsome/cute face
Emotionally mature
Good father
General life stability
Responsible
Flexible nature
Kind
Playful
Compassionate
Sexually compatible
Devoted to our relationship
Taller than me

Pretty much this! Add:
Supportive,
Intuitive
Emotive
Chivalrous
Feminist

The perfect blend of sanity and insanity.

lol

Who knows?

LEO Sun-Pisces Moon

Posted by LittleStar
Honest/Open
Witty
Hard-working
Respectful to me

This &

Blunt/ upfront
Quietly masculine
Confident
Compassionate towards animals

Sag sun/Leo moon

Posted by brianafay

Posted by LittleStar
Honest/Open
Witty
Hard-working
Respectful to me

This &

Blunt/ upfront
Quietly masculine
Confident
Compassionate towards animals

Sag sun/Leo moon

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+1

You can tell a lot about a person by the way they treat animals.

You can find what appears to be the nicest person in the world,

but if they aren't good or at least respectful to animals, they are

probably not nearly as nice as they appear to be.

Posted by MsFisk
That was a joke. Should any of you clowns flood my inbox with your vienna sausage, I will post them.

LMFAO!

Sensitive, loyal, adventurous. Cancer Sun/Sag Moon

Emotionally capable of vulnerability
Mentally strong
Reliable
Financially grounded / good job
Persistent in his approaches on life
Funny goofball
Wants to marry and start a family
Faithful
Holds the door for me and smacks my ass as I walk through
Very cuddly
Very smart and open for the weirdest topics
Possessive/protective (not in a psycho way)

Physical:
Much taller than me
Dark eyes
Dark hair
Charismatic aura

Sun aqua / cap moon

Btw my bf is a cap sun / libra moon with scorp venus - bingo!

Feminist/Progressive
Tall (5'9 - 6'1)
Educated
Loving
Dark
Considerate
Nice jawline
Mysterious
Spontaneous
Willing to try new things
Attentive
Mildly romantic (not too much PDA)
Big dick and knows how to use it

Ah yes.

Also Loyal and assertive are nice

Pisces sun/Virgo moon

Posted by Binota

Oh my god

Neither one of them has lips :O

Until I met my bf.. I had these qualities in mind..

Fearless, Confident, someone who makes me happy, loves me and cares for me.. and these are the qualities I told him..

But after being with him, I came to value much more important qualities to me now.. that I admire about my bf

Smart, Good listener, Patient, Responsible and ofcourse loves and cares for me lol..

Taurus Sun/Scorpio Moon

Independent, Confident, Spontaneous, Romantic, Optimistic

Libra/Capri moon

Posted by starlover

Posted by AquaNextDoor
Emotionally capable of vulnerability
Mentally strong
Reliable
Financially grounded / good job
Persistent in his approaches on life
Funny goofball
Wants to marry and start a family
Faithful
Holds the door for me and smacks my ass as I walk through
Very cuddly
Very smart and open for the weirdest topics
Possessive/protective (not in a psycho way)

Physical:
Much taller than me
Dark eyes
Dark hair
Charismatic aura

Sun aqua / cap moon

Btw my bf is a cap sun / libra moon with scorp venus - bingo!

Strong Neptune? 😛

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Me? How do I find out if I have a strong neptune? 🙂

Posted by Gobshite
What a fucking stupid thread!

I know you all want me...

Oh, really?

Have you just finished your "alpha" class with DonJohnson? LORL.

What a pity! 😢

scorp/Virgo. though I think Mars and Venus are more relevant on this subject.... plus ascendant too probably (Libra for me). Mars in Sag, Venus in Scorp. I like the rugged man. I'm pretty particular honestly. I definitely tend to lean towards black hair, pale or tan skin, dark eyes, gaunt even. I tend to like men that women normally don't find attractive. I like them to be very intellectual and hold deep conversations with me. that's what really touches me. I HATE clingers. I can't stand dependency. He has to be free and allow me to be free. I love a man who argues with me and debates with me

Mars in Sag:
"If a woman's Mars is in Sagittarius, she is most impressed with a man who is playful, fun, intelligent, and honest. An energetic, happy aura in a man is often most appealing. Joking around is a must, and a huge turn-on for these women! They want to have a good time, and to have long conversations with their men as well. They are not especially attracted to men who are overly groomed, generally don't like too much "decoration" or men who put on airs. A tousled, casual appearance is just fine with these women--in fact, it's preferred. A man's status is not of huge interest to these women--they are looking for honest guys whose egos aren't tied up in what they do for a living or how they look."

source: cafeastrology

very true for me🙂 and my scorp in Venus also makes the mysterious men of interest. a touch of darkness in their personality. daunting. idk. I know I'm not a norm. I accept it.

Wellll my boyfriend is exactly what I need instead of maybe what I would seek in my relationships at their onset. I'm just lucky enough to be dating my best friend. I would seek prolly someone with very rational intellectual energy (Gemini Capricorn Virgo) who is very ambitious. Due to a lot of Virgo and sag in my own chart I am already pretty analytical and am always in my head and learning. I also love to control my environment. My boyfriend is go with the flow hedonist pleasure seeker who is very very grounded and a creature of routine. He's brilliant but slower to process things.

Me: Leo sun 8th Pisces moon 3rd venus conjunction Mercury and Mars in Virgo 9th sag rising.
Him: libra sun 11th Taurus moon 6th libra Mercury in 11th Venus in Leo in 10th Mars in Virgo in 11th and Scorpio rising.

Posted by exo
loyal
kind/respectful
trustworthy
reliable
intelligent/sharp
humorous
emotionally strong/stable
well put together
confident
sexually uninhibited

scorp sun/cap moon

Wow! Heyy !! ...We share Scorp sun/ Cap moon :p

Posted by Nemilicious
anything under the sun, just not a leo moon.

lol ;P

Strong
Mysterious
Good Sex Appeal
Kind
Loyal
Cheeky
Open Minded
Spontaneous
A certain matureness to them
A little deep - I hate shallow men.

Leo sun/Scorp Moon

Goodness here is my perfect man
protective over me
Has a sick sense of humor and checks out girls with me
But won't dare wanna have a threesome because he's not
Bored of me.
Loves food and alcohol as much as I do.
Plays video games, even without me.
Loves to be spontaneous, plans are dumb.
Likes to try a thousand different things in bed
Can hermit with me at least once a week.
Won't blow my phone up or accuse me of cheating
That's it.
I'm an aqua sun, Pisces moon, sag mars and cap venus

Posted by downstairsmixup
Goodness here is my perfect man
protective over me
Has a sick sense of humor and checks out girls with me
But won't dare wanna have a threesome because he's not
Bored of me.
Loves food and alcohol as much as I do.
Plays video games, even without me.
Loves to be spontaneous, plans are dumb.
Likes to try a thousand different things in bed
Can hermit with me at least once a week.
Won't blow my phone up or accuse me of cheating
That's it.
I'm an aqua sun, Pisces moon, sag mars and cap venus

funny how women think that it works out in the long run

thats like saying : oh look at all that pizza, the burgers and the lasagna but don't you dare to bite of a bit! never (!) ever(!) awake the sexual appetit of a man for other women on purpose. I promise you.. he'll cheat sooner or later.

but the rest +1 😛 we are much a like sun aqua, mars sag and cap venus haha

Posted by AquaNextDoor
but the rest +1 😛 we are much a like sun aqua, mars sag and cap venus haha

I'll check girls out on my own then 😢 lol

»»» someone who is committed and wants talk out our issues to solve them, to work on the relationship so it can be as ideal as possible. Funny, and likes to do jokes and pranks on others, and generally cause chaos with me. Ambitious and has his own goals but doesn't inhibit me from completing mine. A best friend.

Found it with a sagittarius/Libra moon. I'm a Capricorn w/ Aries moon.