Venus opposition pluto

I have a question found interesting

My partner pluto is opposition my venus

However we have also my moon trine her venus. My moon is opposition pluto

So is this considered as some sort of double whammy?

Anyone here in relationship or past relationship with venus pluto contact in synastry?

Would be nice to share insights

Posted by Shadowcat
No. A double whammy would be if your pluto aspected her venus in addition to the already existing venus pluto contact.

I'm currently in a relationship that has a venus pluto double whammy in synastry. What do you want to know?

Hmm that interesting .. Do you both experience obsession and controlling tendency in the relationship?

How's pluto placed in your individual natals? What's your moon both

Posted by Senorita_LL
Venus-Pluto = Disaster for me, being the venus person. Period.

You still in the relationship? If yes how long? Did you get obsessed? Does he playing power mindfuck? I am the Venus too.

Lol.

On the contrary I have 4 of mine pluto against her sun, mercury, jupiter, saturn two square two conjunction, and her pluto against my ascendant trine also her pluto against my north node.also my pluto against her chiron and uranus 🙂

On the other hand my sun trine her moon, my moon trine her venus, my chiron trine her MC

Whats your moon?

Posted by Senorita_LL

Posted by Sheever

Posted by Senorita_LL
Venus-Pluto = Disaster for me, being the venus person. Period.

You still in the relationship? If yes how long? Did you get obsessed? Does he playing power mindfuck? I am the Venus too.

Lol.

On the contrary I have 4 of mine pluto against her sun, mercury, jupiter, saturn two square two conjunction, and her pluto against my ascendant trine.

Whats your moon?

Nope, it's over. We lasted for 5 years and yes, that was what he did! He fucked and mindfuck me as well. LOL

http://theastrologyplacemembership.com/2011/03/venus-pluto-synastry/

This article might helps. It's crazy but he was the hardest for me to let go and he did said the same thing too, but it's for our sanity, the rs has got to end. It doesn't help that we were the opposite sign and he's an Aries moon while I'm a Leo moon.

I hope you won't have to go through the same thing I did. 🙂

click to expand

Well, not sure.. it's been told you have remain the passion for one another for life no matter how long been no contact.

Going through yep. She is playing power play and I am more than good to spot any form of manipulation and emotional blackmail. It's pissest me off even more as she dare to even try to pull it off. Making distance and see how am I taking it, she is better and smarter than anyone I knew. Then we get close again, she asks - did you miss me, how much did you miss me? - slap my face, awesome sex, mind blowing unity, 2days later back to square one, also I try to explain to her what's going on, she obviously rebell and says I am the crazy and stop fuck her brain with this crap. I kept my sanity as came back from the obsession and Researched the signature of the relationship that's how I found out what is this all about. She is stubborn to admit her issues to face, and it makes it even more difficult. I know she could hand it great with self monitoring what I do too, I learned to switch off and on my emotional involvement based on the distance stretches or tighten. Extremely intense stuff, kinda get used to it now and the thing is about the obsession part is that

The obsession coming from the fact you are able to connect so deep and honest way like with no other. Not because you can't control but because the other person have the emotional capability to feel you so deep and vica versa. Even you both get hurt the connection is unique compared to anyone else you met in your life, and brings up your all deepest feelings and addicted to that state, and your partner appears to be the one respond the way is within you. That makes it so addictive and dangerous. You just can't help it. You just feel as her personality the one you have as opposite sex. Even two of our beauty spot is in the same place on neck and face only mirror side of our faces. Crazy shit

Posted by Koniuchaa
I always have Venus - Pluto in close relationships. I have Venus square Pluto with my guy and I am Pluto. We also have moon square Pluto. I'd say we are obsessed with each other.

That's the one, can't help it

After time you distance away, as for keep your sanity for a time period also to create vacuum and one pull the other in. Then keep flowing like on

Problem is the dynamics of this power play is so intense it's continuously changing based on the projection. It features the mirroring scenario where all of each individual issues get the hardest and nastiest response as mirroring backwards you yo eat it. If you don't realise that, it can turn into abuse and domestic violence because everyone capable to trace the others notices psychic way and can't basically hide. While projecting as innocent and the other is the crazy one. In the same time it result some incredible boost in your sensing and reception of the both part involvement and issues reflected in the same time. I have lots of pluto and good to handle emotional roller-coaster but she is do advanced like no one I even knew. You feel sometimes you get challenged by your own level in your partner and you humiliate each other in many sense. In the same time the connection is so close and deep you do not lie and you actually completely understand where the other coming from, and you actually not judging the behaviour but just letting know you aware of even the other party denies. That's pulls your fuse because it could be over and sign the pact for good, so you know you wasting time on fighting you want to cut off the crap and leave the good part pure.

Posted by Koniuchaa
I prefer it honestly. I really only seek deep relationships, even in friends. I am not good at casual.

In an intimate relationship, I need that intenseness or it is boring

Same here, that's why most of my relationship were scorpio moon woman. I just found out lately by checking their natals. Exactly like you said. Casual is boring. this is hardcore, but love her to pieces. I am actually curious if we give up at one point or if not the transformation must take place. No other alternative

Posted by Senorita_LL

Posted by Sheever

Posted by Senorita_LL

Posted by Sheever

Posted by Senorita_LL
Venus-Pluto = Disaster for me, being the venus person. Period.

You still in the relationship? If yes how long? Did you get obsessed? Does he playing power mindfuck? I am the Venus too.

Lol.

On the contrary I have 4 of mine pluto against her sun, mercury, jupiter, saturn two square two conjunction, and her pluto against my ascendant trine.

Whats your moon?

Nope, it's over. We lasted for 5 years and yes, that was what he did! He fucked and mindfuck me as well. LOL

http://theastrologyplacemembership.com/2011/03/venus-pluto-synastry/

This article might helps. It's crazy but he was the hardest for me to let go and he did said the same thing too, but it's for our sanity, the rs has got to end. It doesn't help that we were the opposite sign and he's an Aries moon while I'm a Leo moon.

I hope you won't have to go through the same thing I did. 🙂

Well, not sure.. it's been told you have remain the passion for one another for life no matter how long been no contact.

Going through yep. She is playing power play and I am more than good to spot any form of manipulation and emotional blackmail. It's pissest me off even more as she dare to even try to pull it off. Making distance and see how am I taking it, she is better and smarter than anyone I knew. Then we get close again, she asks - did you miss me, how much did you miss me? - slap my face, awesome sex, mind blowing unity, 2days later back to square one, also I try to explain to her what's going on, she obviously rebell and says I am the crazy and stop fuck her brain with this crap. I kept my sanity as came back from the obsession and Researched the signature of the relationship that's how I found out what is this all about. She is stubborn to admit her issues to face, and it makes it even more difficult. I know she could hand it great with self monitoring what I do too, I learned to switch off and on my emotional involvement based on the distance stretches or tighten. Extremely intense stuff, kinda get used to it now and the thing is about the obsession part is that

The obsession coming from the fact you are able to connect so deep and honest way like with no other. Not because you can't control but because the other person have the emotional capability to feel you so deep and vica versa. Even you both get hurt the connection is unique compared to anyone else you met in your life, and brings up your all deepest feelings and addicted to that state, and your partner appears to be the one respond the way is within you. That makes it so addictive and dangerous. You just can't help it.

Right! That was exactly what I've been through. Silent treatment was also what he did to me and I don't even know what the fuck did I do. It's like me having to walk on eggshell everyday. The pain was crazy and I felt like I am living in a prison. He holds the key.

But on the positive side, he knew me so well. I am so comfortable being around him! The obsession is crazy. No one else can be like how he was like. Idk, it is hard to explain.

But honestly, it was painful. Really painful. 😢

click to expand

Yes exactly same here.you knew each other like your own mom will never and you comfortable to the fullest with him. There is no other like that person. That's why is so difficult. You either go through together not giving up or you get your lesson at the end but either way. I am not giving up easy so will see.

Posted by Senorita_LL
Can I be the pluto person next time? I don't think so eh. 😆

I guess it about your chart, I think to be the Venus is awesome expecially the intimacy sex thing, but yes awful from the other side to experience. On the other hand dont worry it's not easier for pluto because it's under pressure because of they control need also they get the response from you and if wise I enough can understand why the hell they get this response all the time. It makes them aware. Also you being venus allows you to get more detached and completely new alternative not to ending up with codependency issues which is straight way to psychiatric clinic. So you win either way happens. I can let her go, what rather Pissest me off is to understand the situation and it could be resolved easily with cuting the ego to minimum. That's makes frustration because both if you know you are unique to each other and fighting harder even to change one another to fulfill the picture.