Venus Uranus aspects

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I have Venus (Virgo) sextile Uranus (Scorpio) if you want to count that?

Taboo does not scare me :-)
I will try most things once to see if I like it or not.



Thanks Queen

Are you bisexual?
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Nothing more than dabbled sexually a couple of times. But if I were to choose long term partner I would pick a guy. Does not stop me from admiring beautiful woman though and wondering.....
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my virgo venus isn't supposed to be aspected with my cappy uranus, but the description of the trine do fit me :S here it goes

"The ability to get along with–and accept–people from all walks of life as friends is strong with this position"

tolerance, cordiality and discipline 🙏

"These people can readily see through insincerity in others"

well I thought it was cuz experience but whatever

"In relationships, tolerance is the most important “ingredient” to these people"

obviously

"Their sexual preferences are somewhat unconventional, and they won’t be happy with a partner who tries to limit their sexual expression"

I was bi until high school, I still fantasize with women but in love I rather guys, so that makes me gay?

in sex imma lick every spot in the others body, nothing is forbidden, and no take backs!

"They are usually quite capable of maintaining relationships that require a great deal of freedom and tolerance, such as long-distance romances or set-ups in which partners are unable to see each other consistently"

true, ldr are so simple 😄 Idk what's the deal with people that can't make them work

"Their style in love is somewhat free and breezy, and noncommittal."

I like commitment, it just, not supposed to be a total limitation

"They quite naturally accept the idea that their partner might need some personal space and freedom"

never happened 😆 but the fact that my virgo venus usually aspect my generations pluto in scorpio or the next, pluto in sagittarius is probably the reason. 😅
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Venus trine Uranus. I can relate with a lot of the stuff mentioned here:

http://astroarena12.blogspot.com/2015/04/venus-uranus-aspects-avant-garde.html

"You find pleasure in being the one who dares to be different, going against the “sheeple” in order to be an individualist. And you just trust that you’ll draw other individualistic people your way. But, the aim is more about friendship than romance. Many Venus-Uranus people are quite detached from the yearnings for romance from early on. Venus is our value system and with this planet in aspect to free, independent Uranus, you might value your independence above all else. Yet, this is something that can easily break hearts, as you can remain cool and unfazed by others’ attempts to forge a romantic connection right off the bat.

The thing is that you’d probably prefer to be friends first! People always associate Venus with romance but often forget that it defines how make friends, as well. And friendships are what those with their Venus in aspect to Uranus truly value. Friends don’t make you feel as chained down as romantic partners potentially can. So, your friends are what keep you feeling free, which is what brings you a great deal of pleasure in life. This is often why you prefer for those who you end up with romantically to start off as your friend and insist that you maintain that kind of buddy-buddy camaraderie throughout the relationship.

Therefore, the interesting thing is that being friends with someone (Uranus) is often what makes you fall in love with them the most (Venus). When a relationship goes from zero to sixty, in the romance department, it’s the kind of thing that can freak a person with a Venus-Uranus aspect out. Having one of these aspects can also make you frequently attracted to those who you’ve been friends with for a long time. Therefore, the challenge of moving things out of the friend-zone can be experienced very regularly for you. However, it all depends on how you handle these romantic feelings. If Venus is in a Water sign or in Taurus, you’re more likely to surrender to these yearnings. If not, you can end up lashing out in a defiant attempt to resist sentiment and maintain your cool.

Those with the square and the opposition can have a particularly tough time dealing with the feelings that come with starting a love affair. The conjunction can often go either way, as they might become oddly defensive and distant or they might behave more like the people with the sextile and the trine. These people tend to have a healthy grip on what it means to still be independent while maintaining some sense of closeness or connectedness in the relationship. And this might not just be an issue with lovers but also with friends. You may find yourself keeping buddies at an arm’s length when you think they’re getting too close. Sometimes, it may seem like you would just prefer to be in an exclusive relationship with yourself.

With Venus-Uranus aspects, there is usually a love of alone time that needs to be respected without making you cut off from others, either. Venus is where we can be too self-indulgent. And those with a Venus-Uranus placement can indulge themselves with too much solitary time, which eventually turns into loneliness and isolation. This can be a particular way of dealing with relationships for you if you’ve been hurt significantly. You might find yourself becoming less and less emotionally accessible, not willing to become that attached again. Generally speaking, your lack of over-attachment can be a very healthy thing. It makes you independent. Just remember that we all need people, after all. We are social beings and nobody can go at it alone for too long."

And that's just 37% of that article... 😀
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It's not about labels, people, i am just interested whether people lean more towards same sex or opposite sex, sexual partners?

Labels to me = same sex, opposite sex, gay, bi, straight, etc.

That is what you are asking, right?

Fluid = I have no.preference between man, woman, white, black, purple, fuchsia
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Have you slept with women as well as men Elle?
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@neves I can so relate to the following from that article. Thank you

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With Venus-Uranus aspects, there is usually a love of alone time that needs to be respected without making you cut off from others, either. Venus is where we can be too self-indulgent. And those with a Venus-Uranus placement can indulge themselves with too much solitary time, which eventually turns into loneliness and isolation. This can be a particular way of dealing with relationships for you if you’ve been hurt significantly. You might find yourself becoming less and less emotionally accessible, not willing to become that attached again. Generally speaking, your lack of over-attachment can be a very healthy thing. It makes you independent. Just remember that we all need people, after all. We are social beings and nobody can go at it alone for too long."
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@neves I can so relate to the following from that article. Thank you

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With Venus-Uranus aspects, there is usually a love of alone time that needs to be respected without making you cut off from others, either. Venus is where we can be too self-indulgent. And those with a Venus-Uranus placement can indulge themselves with too much solitary time, which eventually turns into loneliness and isolation. This can be a particular way of dealing with relationships for you if you’ve been hurt significantly. You might find yourself becoming less and less emotionally accessible, not willing to become that attached again. Generally speaking, your lack of over-attachment can be a very healthy thing. It makes you independent. Just remember that we all need people, after all. We are social beings and nobody can go at it alone for too long."
This too (: i can relate to it - down to a T).
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It's not about labels, people, i am just interested whether people lean more towards same sex or opposite sex, sexual partners?



Labels to me = same sex, opposite sex, gay, bi, straight, etc.

That is what you are asking, right?

Fluid = I have no.preference between man, woman, white, black, purple, fuchsia



Have you slept with women as well as men Elle?

Yes, I have.
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Thanks for your honesty 👍
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Venus trine Uranus. I can relate with a lot of the stuff mentioned here:

http://astroarena12.blogspot.com/2015/04/venus-uranus-aspects-avant-garde.html

"You find pleasure in being the one who dares to be different, going against the “sheeple” in order to be an individualist. And you just trust that you’ll draw other individualistic people your way. But, the aim is more about friendship than romance. Many Venus-Uranus people are quite detached from the yearnings for romance from early on. Venus is our value system and with this planet in aspect to free, independent Uranus, you might value your independence above all else. Yet, this is something that can easily break hearts, as you can remain cool and unfazed by others’ attempts to forge a romantic connection right off the bat.

The thing is that you’d probably prefer to be friends first! People always associate Venus with romance but often forget that it defines how make friends, as well. And friendships are what those with their Venus in aspect to Uranus truly value. Friends don’t make you feel as chained down as romantic partners potentially can. So, your friends are what keep you feeling free, which is what brings you a great deal of pleasure in life. This is often why you prefer for those who you end up with romantically to start off as your friend and insist that you maintain that kind of buddy-buddy camaraderie throughout the relationship.

Therefore, the interesting thing is that being friends with someone (Uranus) is often what makes you fall in love with them the most (Venus). When a relationship goes from zero to sixty, in the romance department, it’s the kind of thing that can freak a person with a Venus-Uranus aspect out. Having one of these aspects can also make you frequently attracted to those who you’ve been friends with for a long time. Therefore, the challenge of moving things out of the friend-zone can be experienced very regularly for you. However, it all depends on how you handle these romantic feelings. If Venus is in a Water sign or in Taurus, you’re more likely to surrender to these yearnings. If not, you can end up lashing out in a defiant attempt to resist sentiment and maintain your cool.

Those with the square and the opposition can have a particularly tough time dealing with the feelings that come with starting a love affair. The conjunction can often go either way, as they might become oddly defensive and distant or they might behave more like the people with the sextile and the trine. These people tend to have a healthy grip on what it means to still be independent while maintaining some sense of closeness or connectedness in the relationship. And this might not just be an issue with lovers but also with friends. You may find yourself keeping buddies at an arm’s length when you think they’re getting too close. Sometimes, it may seem like you would just prefer to be in an exclusive relationship with yourself.

With Venus-Uranus aspects, there is usually a love of alone time that needs to be respected without making you cut off from others, either. Venus is where we can be too self-indulgent. And those with a Venus-Uranus placement can indulge themselves with too much solitary time, which eventually turns into loneliness and isolation. This can be a particular way of dealing with relationships for you if you’ve been hurt significantly. You might find yourself becoming less and less emotionally accessible, not willing to become that attached again. Generally speaking, your lack of over-attachment can be a very healthy thing. It makes you independent. Just remember that we all need people, after all. We are social beings and nobody can go at it alone for too long."

And that's just 37% of that article... 😀
nice. ;p but i need to find that "connection" first .. i find plenty of "friendships" with men easily....very very easily...but no "connection"....so i need that Oooomphh... that special spark. just going by what i have experienced in the past.
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Posted by ellesbelles
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by ellesbelles
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by ellesbelles
Posted by MyStarsShine
It's not about labels, people, i am just interested whether people lean more towards same sex or opposite sex, sexual partners?



Labels to me = same sex, opposite sex, gay, bi, straight, etc.

That is what you are asking, right?

Fluid = I have no.preference between man, woman, white, black, purple, fuchsia



Have you slept with women as well as men Elle?



Yes, I have.



Thanks for your honesty 👍

I dont mean to be so cold with my answers....its just that they are both in my 12th house and these subjects make me queasy.

I have a hard time defining things.
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❤️ 'Tis okay ma'am....sorry if I was prying too much and thanks for your input 👍
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Yes, by nature of having Venus in Aquarius but more specifically, Venus trine Uranus.

I also have Venus trine Uranus in two of three Grand Trines.

Grand Trine with Ven: 21Aqu and Mar: 17Gem and Ura: 26Lib

Grand Trine with Ven: 21Aqu and Sat: 28Gem and Ura: 26Lib

As a child, I had many experiences with other girls. I was married young so not much after that. But, plenty of "requests." But, I am very passive in matters of "attraction." I have never approached anyone, male or female. And, I am rarely outwardly attracted to anyone. I basically like what likes me.
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Venus trine Uranus. I can relate with a lot of the stuff mentioned here:

http://astroarena12.blogspot.com/2015/04/venus-uranus-aspects-avant-garde.html

"You find pleasure in being the one who dares to be different, going against the “sheeple” in order to be an individualist. And you just trust that you’ll draw other individualistic people your way. But, the aim is more about friendship than romance. Many Venus-Uranus people are quite detached from the yearnings for romance from early on. Venus is our value system and with this planet in aspect to free, independent Uranus, you might value your independence above all else. Yet, this is something that can easily break hearts, as you can remain cool and unfazed by others’ attempts to forge a romantic connection right off the bat.

The thing is that you’d probably prefer to be friends first! People always associate Venus with romance but often forget that it defines how make friends, as well. And friendships are what those with their Venus in aspect to Uranus truly value. Friends don’t make you feel as chained down as romantic partners potentially can. So, your friends are what keep you feeling free, which is what brings you a great deal of pleasure in life. This is often why you prefer for those who you end up with romantically to start off as your friend and insist that you maintain that kind of buddy-buddy camaraderie throughout the relationship.

Therefore, the interesting thing is that being friends with someone (Uranus) is often what makes you fall in love with them the most (Venus). When a relationship goes from zero to sixty, in the romance department, it’s the kind of thing that can freak a person with a Venus-Uranus aspect out. Having one of these aspects can also make you frequently attracted to those who you’ve been friends with for a long time. Therefore, the challenge of moving things out of the friend-zone can be experienced very regularly for you. However, it all depends on how you handle these romantic feelings. If Venus is in a Water sign or in Taurus, you’re more likely to surrender to these yearnings. If not, you can end up lashing out in a defiant attempt to resist sentiment and maintain your cool.

Those with the square and the opposition can have a particularly tough time dealing with the feelings that come with starting a love affair. The conjunction can often go either way, as they might become oddly defensive and distant or they might behave more like the people with the sextile and the trine. These people tend to have a healthy grip on what it means to still be independent while maintaining some sense of closeness or connectedness in the relationship. And this might not just be an issue with lovers but also with friends. You may find yourself keeping buddies at an arm’s length when you think they’re getting too close. Sometimes, it may seem like you would just prefer to be in an exclusive relationship with yourself.

With Venus-Uranus aspects, there is usually a love of alone time that needs to be respected without making you cut off from others, either. Venus is where we can be too self-indulgent. And those with a Venus-Uranus placement can indulge themselves with too much solitary time, which eventually turns into loneliness and isolation. This can be a particular way of dealing with relationships for you if you’ve been hurt significantly. You might find yourself becoming less and less emotionally accessible, not willing to become that attached again. Generally speaking, your lack of over-attachment can be a very healthy thing. It makes you independent. Just remember that we all need people, after all. We are social beings and nobody can go at it alone for too long."

And that's just 37% of that article... 😀

nice. ;p but i need to find that "connection" first .. i find plenty of "friendships" with men easily....very very easily...but no "connection"....so i need that Oooomphh... that special spark. just going by what i have experienced in the past.
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On a romantic level - that spark is necessary OFC (: i have to feel something - quite intense too... to want something more / or at least that's how it went in the past... there was something about them - they really stood out in a special/unique way - so to speak) - but if there's no room for friendship - it tends to fade away.
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Venus trine Uranus. I can relate with a lot of the stuff mentioned here:

http://astroarena12.blogspot.com/2015/04/venus-uranus-aspects-avant-garde.html

"You find pleasure in being the one who dares to be different, going against the “sheeple” in order to be an individualist. And you just trust that you’ll draw other individualistic people your way. But, the aim is more about friendship than romance. Many Venus-Uranus people are quite detached from the yearnings for romance from early on. Venus is our value system and with this planet in aspect to free, independent Uranus, you might value your independence above all else. Yet, this is something that can easily break hearts, as you can remain cool and unfazed by others’ attempts to forge a romantic connection right off the bat.

The thing is that you’d probably prefer to be friends first! People always associate Venus with romance but often forget that it defines how make friends, as well. And friendships are what those with their Venus in aspect to Uranus truly value. Friends don’t make you feel as chained down as romantic partners potentially can. So, your friends are what keep you feeling free, which is what brings you a great deal of pleasure in life. This is often why you prefer for those who you end up with romantically to start off as your friend and insist that you maintain that kind of buddy-buddy camaraderie throughout the relationship.

Therefore, the interesting thing is that being friends with someone (Uranus) is often what makes you fall in love with them the most (Venus). When a relationship goes from zero to sixty, in the romance department, it’s the kind of thing that can freak a person with a Venus-Uranus aspect out. Having one of these aspects can also make you frequently attracted to those who you’ve been friends with for a long time. Therefore, the challenge of moving things out of the friend-zone can be experienced very regularly for you. However, it all depends on how you handle these romantic feelings. If Venus is in a Water sign or in Taurus, you’re more likely to surrender to these yearnings. If not, you can end up lashing out in a defiant attempt to resist sentiment and maintain your cool.

Those with the square and the opposition can have a particularly tough time dealing with the feelings that come with starting a love affair. The conjunction can often go either way, as they might become oddly defensive and distant or they might behave more like the people with the sextile and the trine. These people tend to have a healthy grip on what it means to still be independent while maintaining some sense of closeness or connectedness in the relationship. And this might not just be an issue with lovers but also with friends. You may find yourself keeping buddies at an arm’s length when you think they’re getting too close. Sometimes, it may seem like you would just prefer to be in an exclusive relationship with yourself.

With Venus-Uranus aspects, there is usually a love of alone time that needs to be respected without making you cut off from others, either. Venus is where we can be too self-indulgent. And those with a Venus-Uranus placement can indulge themselves with too much solitary time, which eventually turns into loneliness and isolation. This can be a particular way of dealing with relationships for you if you’ve been hurt significantly. You might find yourself becoming less and less emotionally accessible, not willing to become that attached again. Generally speaking, your lack of over-attachment can be a very healthy thing. It makes you independent. Just remember that we all need people, after all. We are social beings and nobody can go at it alone for too long."

And that's just 37% of that article... 😀



nice. ;p but i need to find that "connection" first .. i find plenty of "friendships" with men easily....very very easily...but no "connection"....so i need that Oooomphh... that special spark. just going by what i have experienced in the past.

On a romantic level - that spark is necessary OFC (: i have to feel something - quite intense too... to want something more / or at least that's how it went in the past... there was something about them - they really stood out in a special/unique way - so to speak) - but if there's no room for friendship - it tends to fade away.
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you are AIR after all...

you need communication and friendship.



and things in common.

especially if ur a woman, because its Sun and Mars that determine (mainly & houses) how we acquire want a love interest.

Ur ideal is someone u can talk to, share many similar interests.
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Venus trine Uranus. I can relate with a lot of the stuff mentioned here:

http://astroarena12.blogspot.com/2015/04/venus-uranus-aspects-avant-garde.html

"You find pleasure in being the one who dares to be different, going against the “sheeple” in order to be an individualist. And you just trust that you’ll draw other individualistic people your way. But, the aim is more about friendship than romance. Many Venus-Uranus people are quite detached from the yearnings for romance from early on. Venus is our value system and with this planet in aspect to free, independent Uranus, you might value your independence above all else. Yet, this is something that can easily break hearts, as you can remain cool and unfazed by others’ attempts to forge a romantic connection right off the bat.

The thing is that you’d probably prefer to be friends first! People always associate Venus with romance but often forget that it defines how make friends, as well. And friendships are what those with their Venus in aspect to Uranus truly value. Friends don’t make you feel as chained down as romantic partners potentially can. So, your friends are what keep you feeling free, which is what brings you a great deal of pleasure in life. This is often why you prefer for those who you end up with romantically to start off as your friend and insist that you maintain that kind of buddy-buddy camaraderie throughout the relationship.

Therefore, the interesting thing is that being friends with someone (Uranus) is often what makes you fall in love with them the most (Venus). When a relationship goes from zero to sixty, in the romance department, it’s the kind of thing that can freak a person with a Venus-Uranus aspect out. Having one of these aspects can also make you frequently attracted to those who you’ve been friends with for a long time. Therefore, the challenge of moving things out of the friend-zone can be experienced very regularly for you. However, it all depends on how you handle these romantic feelings. If Venus is in a Water sign or in Taurus, you’re more likely to surrender to these yearnings. If not, you can end up lashing out in a defiant attempt to resist sentiment and maintain your cool.

Those with the square and the opposition can have a particularly tough time dealing with the feelings that come with starting a love affair. The conjunction can often go either way, as they might become oddly defensive and distant or they might behave more like the people with the sextile and the trine. These people tend to have a healthy grip on what it means to still be independent while maintaining some sense of closeness or connectedness in the relationship. And this might not just be an issue with lovers but also with friends. You may find yourself keeping buddies at an arm’s length when you think they’re getting too close. Sometimes, it may seem like you would just prefer to be in an exclusive relationship with yourself.

With Venus-Uranus aspects, there is usually a love of alone time that needs to be respected without making you cut off from others, either. Venus is where we can be too self-indulgent. And those with a Venus-Uranus placement can indulge themselves with too much solitary time, which eventually turns into loneliness and isolation. This can be a particular way of dealing with relationships for you if you’ve been hurt significantly. You might find yourself becoming less and less emotionally accessible, not willing to become that attached again. Generally speaking, your lack of over-attachment can be a very healthy thing. It makes you independent. Just remember that we all need people, after all. We are social beings and nobody can go at it alone for too long."

And that's just 37% of that article... 😀



nice. ;p but i need to find that "connection" first .. i find plenty of "friendships" with men easily....very very easily...but no "connection"....so i need that Oooomphh... that special spark. just going by what i have experienced in the past.



On a romantic level - that spark is necessary OFC (: i have to feel something - quite intense too... to want something more / or at least that's how it went in the past... there was something about them - they really stood out in a special/unique way - so to speak) - but if there's no room for friendship - it tends to fade away.


you are AIR after all...

you need communication and friendship.


and things in common.

especially if ur a woman, because its Sun and Mars that determine (mainly & houses) how we acquire want a love interest.

Ur ideal is someone u can talk to, share many similar interests.
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Mutuality yes (mutual understanding and such), but i'm not that talkative. My Mercury is in Taurus, and... people who talk a lot on daily basis (or to often / or in constant need of attention) - can turn me off (it's quite draining - to say the least). Despite of being a Gemini.
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Posted by neves
Venus trine Uranus. I can relate with a lot of the stuff mentioned here:

http://astroarena12.blogspot.com/2015/04/venus-uranus-aspects-avant-garde.html

"You find pleasure in being the one who dares to be different, going against the “sheeple” in order to be an individualist. And you just trust that you’ll draw other individualistic people your way. But, the aim is more about friendship than romance. Many Venus-Uranus people are quite detached from the yearnings for romance from early on. Venus is our value system and with this planet in aspect to free, independent Uranus, you might value your independence above all else. Yet, this is something that can easily break hearts, as you can remain cool and unfazed by others’ attempts to forge a romantic connection right off the bat.

The thing is that you’d probably prefer to be friends first! People always associate Venus with romance but often forget that it defines how make friends, as well. And friendships are what those with their Venus in aspect to Uranus truly value. Friends don’t make you feel as chained down as romantic partners potentially can. So, your friends are what keep you feeling free, which is what brings you a great deal of pleasure in life. This is often why you prefer for those who you end up with romantically to start off as your friend and insist that you maintain that kind of buddy-buddy camaraderie throughout the relationship.

Therefore, the interesting thing is that being friends with someone (Uranus) is often what makes you fall in love with them the most (Venus). When a relationship goes from zero to sixty, in the romance department, it’s the kind of thing that can freak a person with a Venus-Uranus aspect out. Having one of these aspects can also make you frequently attracted to those who you’ve been friends with for a long time. Therefore, the challenge of moving things out of the friend-zone can be experienced very regularly for you. However, it all depends on how you handle these romantic feelings. If Venus is in a Water sign or in Taurus, you’re more likely to surrender to these yearnings. If not, you can end up lashing out in a defiant attempt to resist sentiment and maintain your cool.

Those with the square and the opposition can have a particularly tough time dealing with the feelings that come with starting a love affair. The conjunction can often go either way, as they might become oddly defensive and distant or they might behave more like the people with the sextile and the trine. These people tend to have a healthy grip on what it means to still be independent while maintaining some sense of closeness or connectedness in the relationship. And this might not just be an issue with lovers but also with friends. You may find yourself keeping buddies at an arm’s length when you think they’re getting too close. Sometimes, it may seem like you would just prefer to be in an exclusive relationship with yourself.

With Venus-Uranus aspects, there is usually a love of alone time that needs to be respected without making you cut off from others, either. Venus is where we can be too self-indulgent. And those with a Venus-Uranus placement can indulge themselves with too much solitary time, which eventually turns into loneliness and isolation. This can be a particular way of dealing with relationships for you if you’ve been hurt significantly. You might find yourself becoming less and less emotionally accessible, not willing to become that attached again. Generally speaking, your lack of over-attachment can be a very healthy thing. It makes you independent. Just remember that we all need people, after all. We are social beings and nobody can go at it alone for too long."

And that's just 37% of that article... 😀



nice. ;p but i need to find that "connection" first .. i find plenty of "friendships" with men easily....very very easily...but no "connection"....so i need that Oooomphh... that special spark. just going by what i have experienced in the past.



On a romantic level - that spark is necessary OFC (: i have to feel something - quite intense too... to want something more / or at least that's how it went in the past... there was something about them - they really stood out in a special/unique way - so to speak) - but if there's no room for friendship - it tends to fade away.
you are AIR after all...

you need communication and friendship.


and things in common.

especially if ur a woman, because its Sun and Mars that determine (mainly & houses) how we acquire want a love interest.

Ur ideal is someone u can talk to, share many similar interests.

Mutuality yes (mutual understanding and such), but i'm not that talkative. My Mercury is in Taurus, and... people who talk a lot on daily basis (or to often / or in constant need of attention) - can turn me off (it's quite draining - to say the least). Despite of being a Gemini.
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taurus is good energy. 😉

they are good at "reading people" really really well. one of their beaitiful traits.

but when they fall in love (well love can make us crazy)this is for anyone.
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Venus trine Uranus. I can relate with a lot of the stuff mentioned here:

http://astroarena12.blogspot.com/2015/04/venus-uranus-aspects-avant-garde.html

"You find pleasure in being the one who dares to be different, going against the “sheeple” in order to be an individualist. And you just trust that you’ll draw other individualistic people your way. But, the aim is more about friendship than romance. Many Venus-Uranus people are quite detached from the yearnings for romance from early on. Venus is our value system and with this planet in aspect to free, independent Uranus, you might value your independence above all else. Yet, this is something that can easily break hearts, as you can remain cool and unfazed by others’ attempts to forge a romantic connection right off the bat.

The thing is that you’d probably prefer to be friends first! People always associate Venus with romance but often forget that it defines how make friends, as well. And friendships are what those with their Venus in aspect to Uranus truly value. Friends don’t make you feel as chained down as romantic partners potentially can. So, your friends are what keep you feeling free, which is what brings you a great deal of pleasure in life. This is often why you prefer for those who you end up with romantically to start off as your friend and insist that you maintain that kind of buddy-buddy camaraderie throughout the relationship.

Therefore, the interesting thing is that being friends with someone (Uranus) is often what makes you fall in love with them the most (Venus). When a relationship goes from zero to sixty, in the romance department, it’s the kind of thing that can freak a person with a Venus-Uranus aspect out. Having one of these aspects can also make you frequently attracted to those who you’ve been friends with for a long time. Therefore, the challenge of moving things out of the friend-zone can be experienced very regularly for you. However, it all depends on how you handle these romantic feelings. If Venus is in a Water sign or in Taurus, you’re more likely to surrender to these yearnings. If not, you can end up lashing out in a defiant attempt to resist sentiment and maintain your cool.

Those with the square and the opposition can have a particularly tough time dealing with the feelings that come with starting a love affair. The conjunction can often go either way, as they might become oddly defensive and distant or they might behave more like the people with the sextile and the trine. These people tend to have a healthy grip on what it means to still be independent while maintaining some sense of closeness or connectedness in the relationship. And this might not just be an issue with lovers but also with friends. You may find yourself keeping buddies at an arm’s length when you think they’re getting too close. Sometimes, it may seem like you would just prefer to be in an exclusive relationship with yourself.

With Venus-Uranus aspects, there is usually a love of alone time that needs to be respected without making you cut off from others, either. Venus is where we can be too self-indulgent. And those with a Venus-Uranus placement can indulge themselves with too much solitary time, which eventually turns into loneliness and isolation. This can be a particular way of dealing with relationships for you if you’ve been hurt significantly. You might find yourself becoming less and less emotionally accessible, not willing to become that attached again. Generally speaking, your lack of over-attachment can be a very healthy thing. It makes you independent. Just remember that we all need people, after all. We are social beings and nobody can go at it alone for too long."

And that's just 37% of that article... 😀



nice. ;p but i need to find that "connection" first .. i find plenty of "friendships" with men easily....very very easily...but no "connection"....so i need that Oooomphh... that special spark. just going by what i have experienced in the past.



On a romantic level - that spark is necessary OFC (: i have to feel something - quite intense too... to want something more / or at least that's how it went in the past... there was something about them - they really stood out in a special/unique way - so to speak) - but if there's no room for friendship - it tends to fade away.




you are AIR after all...

you need communication and friendship.


and things in common.

especially if ur a woman, because its Sun and Mars that determine (mainly & houses) how we acquire want a love interest.

Ur ideal is someone u can talk to, share many similar interests.



Mutuality yes (mutual understanding and such), but i'm not that talkative. My Mercury is in Taurus, and... people who talk a lot on daily basis (or to often / or in constant need of attention) - can turn me off (it's quite draining - to say the least). Despite of being a Gemini.

taurus is good energy.

they are good at "reading people" really really well. one of their beaitiful traits.
but when they fall in love (well love can make us crazy)this is for anyone.
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There's positive traits and negative (a down side an up side) - same as with everything else. Though, it doesn't mix so well with my Aries Moon (can go from 0 to 100 in 2 seconds - Aries being the most impulsive energy and also the most impatient) and my Gemini Sun/Mars (the jack of all trades - the multitasker - since it gets bored more easily - the Gemini energy keeps shifting from one thing to another). This two being the least compatible for Taurus (slow, methodical, practical, unwilling to move/change at times and quite suborn about it - to say the least / after all - it's a fixed earth sign).