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Just be yourself. Your true self in all that you do.

Someday you'll attract someone who loves you for you.

But to look friendly--think about things that make you happy. You'll smile on the inside.

And you don't want to be with the ppl who are disappointed in your expressions.

You want to find people who are not disappointed in you.

Let go of what other people think. You don't need to confirm to their ideals if they don't match yours.

So if someone is disappointed in who you are, then she's not for you. It's that simple


Thanks but its sounds contradictory... Or im my really self with the possessive, scorpio moon traits or I try to change for the "better"

Im feeling lost man, seriously... classical Pisces MC

I have Pisces MC too...but I don't feel lost 😛

You're just thinking too much I say!!


Im afraid that you are right, Im really spending too much time thinking, maybe im getting paranoid
Let it all go n dance with the flow...... !!! What's the point anyway?
I just can't...I only lost my control and danced with the flow when I was heavy on weed...seriously, I became careless and was kind of happy



Ok...so what exactly is bothering you? Just not having a woman in your life or anything else too??




Im trying to figure out if there is some girl who would be happy with me and not care about my control issues. If there is, astrologically speaking, I would pay more attention on girls who look like these or try to identify them, If not I will continue my lonely life as a player while im young and then...



Look...you, me n everyone is gonna die...with or without having someone in our lives.Did you try basing your whole life around this another person? Don't you have anything else to look forward to?I never had this so called man saviour in my life. I didn't feel like I was losing out on something...ever. I have many other things to be bothered about. N nah I'm not in denial coz this is by choice. I don't worry about dying alone. I just love myself n respect life so much n I'm not even a feminist or a narcissist.I'm never bored. I can be a total loner or be completely out there.I don't need something/someone else to keep me engaged in life.Just try enjoying everything around you.Why worry about some woman who may or may not come?

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Actually, im not worried, I don`t care about being alone because i've been like this my whole life but sometimes I wonder why cant I be a normal person just like everybody else, don`t care about if the person is trustful or not, I have a lot of interests...Im doing good in my professional life, got a bachelor degree, go to the gym, party, meet people, go to places and etc...but I still feel like something is missing...

Im dating this girl right now, she is a Cancer sun/ Gemini moon/ Pisces rising...I kind of really like her but sometimes she is too superficial, naive, talk too much, only care about her and demand too much attention...This is the main reason I've asked what would be the perfect match for me.
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In this pic is a famous brazilian actor with a fan, there is no need to feel ashamed about her.

He is like Brad Pitt here but my scorpio moon dislike that behavior.

Man, I just want to marry a girl who is private about her life, doesn`t use social media too much and has depth.

Is that too much?
Sounds like a Scorpio but you don't want a Scorpio.

Find a girl in the mountains
Dude, you asked me a ton of question...you wont get away with this....


Get away with what?

You described Scorpio girls. But you don't want a Scorpio... The antisocial private girls

You want revenge, come and get it

I know you are private and hate answering questions but you need to put out SOME information in order to receive information.

I can't even see your chart.

You could try an aries moon since you're an aries sun.




I dont know if i ever met a Aries moon but i wouldn`t enjoy someone who is as competitive as me.

I thought that Cancer sun would be a perfect match, as they are low profile as f...


Why do you want someone with low profile or whatever?

You don't trust women? Or you are just jealous.

I understand the insta thinh, I don't want my man to got a likes from a bytches ?




Im low profile af, I post a pic at Instagram every month or less.

I want the people to know as little as possible of my personal life.

I just want a country girl, have kids, spend my days talking about the space with her...


This sound really good, go and find your girl

Don't you ever think you find her here, I mean you no nothing about this place 😄

But you need to find he in a real life ..a fire woman or an air with water moon will be good for you.. but I vote for a fire ...they will just understand you.

Good luck.


No, Harukka... no...



sag sun cancer moon here



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no



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Haha you are right

We sag hate Aries men tbh ?




Oh he's an Aries?

No thank you...

Aries + Scorp Moon: damn... ?

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I've never had a problem with saggs, most of my friends are saggs but for a relationship I cant deal with their " adventures ".
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Just be yourself. Your true self in all that you do.

Someday you'll attract someone who loves you for you.

But to look friendly--think about things that make you happy. You'll smile on the inside.

And you don't want to be with the ppl who are disappointed in your expressions.

You want to find people who are not disappointed in you.

Let go of what other people think. You don't need to confirm to their ideals if they don't match yours.

So if someone is disappointed in who you are, then she's not for you. It's that simple


Thanks but its sounds contradictory... Or im my really self with the possessive, scorpio moon traits or I try to change for the "better"

Im feeling lost man, seriously... classical Pisces MC

I have Pisces MC too...but I don't feel lost 😛

You're just thinking too much I say!!


Im afraid that you are right, Im really spending too much time thinking, maybe im getting paranoid
Let it all go n dance with the flow...... !!! What's the point anyway?
I just can't...I only lost my control and danced with the flow when I was heavy on weed...seriously, I became careless and was kind of happy



Ok...so what exactly is bothering you? Just not having a woman in your life or anything else too??




Im trying to figure out if there is some girl who would be happy with me and not care about my control issues. If there is, astrologically speaking, I would pay more attention on girls who look like these or try to identify them, If not I will continue my lonely life as a player while im young and then...



Look...you, me n everyone is gonna die...with or without having someone in our lives.Did you try basing your whole life around this another person? Don't you have anything else to look forward to?I never had this so called man saviour in my life. I didn't feel like I was losing out on something...ever. I have many other things to be bothered about. N nah I'm not in denial coz this is by choice. I don't worry about dying alone. I just love myself n respect life so much n I'm not even a feminist or a narcissist.I'm never bored. I can be a total loner or be completely out there.I don't need something/someone else to keep me engaged in life.Just try enjoying everything around you.Why worry about some woman who may or may not come?


Actually, im not worried, I don`t care about being alone because i've been like this my whole life but sometimes I wonder why cant I be a normal person just like everybody else, don`t care about if the person is trustful or not, I have a lot of interests...Im doing good in my professional life, got a bachelor degree, go to the gym, party, meet people, go to places and etc...but I still feel like something is missing...

Im dating this girl right now, she is a Cancer sun/ Gemini moon/ Pisces rising...I kind of really like her but sometimes she is too superficial, naive, talk too much, only care about her and demand too much attention...This is the main reason I've asked what would be the perfect match for me.
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Lol!! That's super cool then . You just didn't meet your match or actually maybe didn't fall in love.When you do, all this astrology you're worried about will be thrown in a trash!! Till then, as you said, haffun!!
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I took a look at your chart and it looks like a self fulfilling prophecy.. this fixed belief of yours that sooner or later you'll be betrayed or abandoned.

The Moon is in a sorry state. Bad childhood experiences, that's for sure. Bullying - insecurity and a negative self-image. A controlling, manipulative and authoritative mother - emotional and sexual repression. Adoption, parental death or divorce - abandonment issues. All of this could lead to unhealthy and destructive behavioural patterns that could very well influence negatively your physical health.

You're prone to depression, if you don't like to go around sharing the details of your personal life as a therapeutic release then you better learn how to find and heal all those blockages inside you because they're limiting your creativity. You can benefit from using alternative techniques like meditation.

Your energies are intense and need to be channeled appropriately to not become detrimental to you and others. Because there's an inner need to nurture, activities involving children or the elderly could be good for you. Physical therapy or rehabilitation could also be good occupations. Any emotional involvement will unnecessarily complicate your goals and only cause suffering.

The Nodal axis only reinforces the path you've choose, you want to be of service to the public because the South Node in Cancer implies selfishness and immaturity, someone who needs to learn how to care for others and develop nurturing qualities. Someone who also needs to let go of the past and stop craving what he didn't have in his childhood. Once you finally become an adult (North Node in Capricorn), you will be truly responsible and be able to form a healthy relationship.
" Any emotional involvement will unnecessarily complicate your goals and only cause suffering. " I didnt understand this.

Thanks for the deep reading, normally people are too lazy to give a detailed analysis.

My parents are divorced, I had a difficult childhood as you've said but about my mother its totally wrong, actually she was always the one who was there for me, I wouldnt say the same for my father.

I like to do social work but I can`t see myself doing this for a living. I like money, I like the idea of driving a nice car, having a nice house, wearing good clothes, expensive vacations and etc...

I thought that a Capricorn 8th House NN was about getting adult but trusting people, have deep relationships, marrying and etc. My 8th house is in a good condition, at least I believe so. Most of the things in my life related to my 8th house brings me joy, happiness, discovery, fullfillment and etc.

My moon (emotions) has challenged me my whole life, its like a big rollercoaster of emotions but my Moon trine Mars (my essence) so I guess its kind of give me the energy to keep moving foward and to fight against my demons.

Thanks again, really appreciated your answer.
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You have a fixed t-square (or an out-of-sign Grand Cross), which mean your beliefs has become ingrained and you're called to surrender your will to keep making progress, this is why fixed patterns are said to be the most difficult. Too keep doing what you're doing in your relationships is stagnating to the spirit and is not helping your purpose, you're pretty much beating a dead horse in that area of your life.

That's right, the nodes are found in the 2nd house and 8th house. You like money and you enjoy physical pleasures. This is another battle of this challenging setup. The 8th house wants you to ultimately help others to find their resources and self-worth so you need to overcome this. You're needy and are inclined to fill your void with material things, finantial prosperity, status... what you may not able to see is that you have greater (spiritual) needs (8th house) that material prosperity is never going to fulfill.

Your soul is asking for a transformation, to kill once and for all this ingrained value system but you keep stalling it because you're stubborn. Your eventual "death" will be testing because we're talking about giving up something that is important to you, this is why discipline is needed.
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I took a look at your chart and it looks like a self fulfilling prophecy.. this fixed belief of yours that sooner or later you'll be betrayed or abandoned.

The Moon is in a sorry state. Bad childhood experiences, that's for sure. Bullying - insecurity and a negative self-image. A controlling, manipulative and authoritative mother - emotional and sexual repression. Adoption, parental death or divorce - abandonment issues. All of this could lead to unhealthy and destructive behavioural patterns that could very well influence negatively your physical health.

You're prone to depression, if you don't like to go around sharing the details of your personal life as a therapeutic release then you better learn how to find and heal all those blockages inside you because they're limiting your creativity. You can benefit from using alternative techniques like meditation.

Your energies are intense and need to be channeled appropriately to not become detrimental to you and others. Because there's an inner need to nurture, activities involving children or the elderly could be good for you. Physical therapy or rehabilitation could also be good occupations. Any emotional involvement will unnecessarily complicate your goals and only cause suffering.

The Nodal axis only reinforces the path you've choose, you want to be of service to the public because the South Node in Cancer implies selfishness and immaturity, someone who needs to learn how to care for others and develop nurturing qualities. Someone who also needs to let go of the past and stop craving what he didn't have in his childhood. Once you finally become an adult (North Node in Capricorn), you will be truly responsible and be able to form a healthy relationship.
" Any emotional involvement will unnecessarily complicate your goals and only cause suffering. " I didnt understand this.

Thanks for the deep reading, normally people are too lazy to give a detailed analysis.

My parents are divorced, I had a difficult childhood as you've said but about my mother its totally wrong, actually she was always the one who was there for me, I wouldnt say the same for my father.

I like to do social work but I can`t see myself doing this for a living. I like money, I like the idea of driving a nice car, having a nice house, wearing good clothes, expensive vacations and etc...

I thought that a Capricorn 8th House NN was about getting adult but trusting people, have deep relationships, marrying and etc. My 8th house is in a good condition, at least I believe so. Most of the things in my life related to my 8th house brings me joy, happiness, discovery, fullfillment and etc.

My moon (emotions) has challenged me my whole life, its like a big rollercoaster of emotions but my Moon trine Mars (my essence) so I guess its kind of give me the energy to keep moving foward and to fight against my demons.

Thanks again, really appreciated your answer.

You have a fixed t-square (or an out-of-sign Grand Cross), which mean your beliefs has become ingrained and you're called to surrender your will to keep making progress, this is why fixed patterns are said to be the most difficult. Too keep doing what you're doing in your relationships is stagnating to the spirit and is not helping your purpose, you're pretty much beating a dead horse in that area of your life.

That's right, the nodes are found in the 2nd house and 8th house. You like money and you enjoy physical pleasures. This is another battle of this challenging setup. The 8th house wants you to ultimately help others to find their resources and self-worth so you need to overcome this. You're needy and are inclined to fill your void with material things, finantial prosperity, status... what you may not able to see is that you have greater (spiritual) needs (8th house) that material prosperity is never going to fulfill.

Your soul is asking for a transformation, to kill once and for all this ingrained value system but you keep stalling it because you're stubborn. Your eventual "death" will be testing because we're talking about giving up something that is important to you, this is why discipline is needed.
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Thanks again.

I have transformed myself so many times, passed through crysis and get really deep in my 8th house, to the point that I thought i was going too insane.

But one of the symbols of Scorpio(8th house) is power and this kind of make me confuse...How can I fulfil a Soul (North Node) that wants power without trying to control?

To simplify, I was a Taurus in my previous life (South Node) and in this life time I need to become a Scorpio, right?!

So wouldn`t make sense if I embrace my moon in Scorpio traits and let it be?

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Just be yourself. Your true self in all that you do.

Someday you'll attract someone who loves you for you.

But to look friendly--think about things that make you happy. You'll smile on the inside.

And you don't want to be with the ppl who are disappointed in your expressions.

You want to find people who are not disappointed in you.

Let go of what other people think. You don't need to confirm to their ideals if they don't match yours.

So if someone is disappointed in who you are, then she's not for you. It's that simple


Thanks but its sounds contradictory... Or im my really self with the possessive, scorpio moon traits or I try to change for the "better"

Im feeling lost man, seriously... classical Pisces MC

I have Pisces MC too...but I don't feel lost 😛

You're just thinking too much I say!!


Im afraid that you are right, Im really spending too much time thinking, maybe im getting paranoid
Let it all go n dance with the flow...... !!! What's the point anyway?
I just can't...I only lost my control and danced with the flow when I was heavy on weed...seriously, I became careless and was kind of happy



Ok...so what exactly is bothering you? Just not having a woman in your life or anything else too??




Im trying to figure out if there is some girl who would be happy with me and not care about my control issues. If there is, astrologically speaking, I would pay more attention on girls who look like these or try to identify them, If not I will continue my lonely life as a player while im young and then...



Look...you, me n everyone is gonna die...with or without having someone in our lives.Did you try basing your whole life around this another person? Don't you have anything else to look forward to?I never had this so called man saviour in my life. I didn't feel like I was losing out on something...ever. I have many other things to be bothered about. N nah I'm not in denial coz this is by choice. I don't worry about dying alone. I just love myself n respect life so much n I'm not even a feminist or a narcissist.I'm never bored. I can be a total loner or be completely out there.I don't need something/someone else to keep me engaged in life.Just try enjoying everything around you.Why worry about some woman who may or may not come?


Actually, im not worried, I don`t care about being alone because i've been like this my whole life but sometimes I wonder why cant I be a normal person just like everybody else, don`t care about if the person is trustful or not, I have a lot of interests...Im doing good in my professional life, got a bachelor degree, go to the gym, party, meet people, go to places and etc...but I still feel like something is missing...

Im dating this girl right now, she is a Cancer sun/ Gemini moon/ Pisces rising...I kind of really like her but sometimes she is too superficial, naive, talk too much, only care about her and demand too much attention...This is the main reason I've asked what would be the perfect match for me.
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You need someone who is naturally altruistic. You seem like you are turned off by someone being ugly on the inside.
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Just be yourself. Your true self in all that you do.

Someday you'll attract someone who loves you for you.

But to look friendly--think about things that make you happy. You'll smile on the inside.

And you don't want to be with the ppl who are disappointed in your expressions.

You want to find people who are not disappointed in you.

Let go of what other people think. You don't need to confirm to their ideals if they don't match yours.

So if someone is disappointed in who you are, then she's not for you. It's that simple


Thanks but its sounds contradictory... Or im my really self with the possessive, scorpio moon traits or I try to change for the "better"

Im feeling lost man, seriously... classical Pisces MC

I have Pisces MC too...but I don't feel lost 😛

You're just thinking too much I say!!


Im afraid that you are right, Im really spending too much time thinking, maybe im getting paranoid
Let it all go n dance with the flow...... !!! What's the point anyway?
I just can't...I only lost my control and danced with the flow when I was heavy on weed...seriously, I became careless and was kind of happy



Ok...so what exactly is bothering you? Just not having a woman in your life or anything else too??




Im trying to figure out if there is some girl who would be happy with me and not care about my control issues. If there is, astrologically speaking, I would pay more attention on girls who look like these or try to identify them, If not I will continue my lonely life as a player while im young and then...



Look...you, me n everyone is gonna die...with or without having someone in our lives.Did you try basing your whole life around this another person? Don't you have anything else to look forward to?I never had this so called man saviour in my life. I didn't feel like I was losing out on something...ever. I have many other things to be bothered about. N nah I'm not in denial coz this is by choice. I don't worry about dying alone. I just love myself n respect life so much n I'm not even a feminist or a narcissist.I'm never bored. I can be a total loner or be completely out there.I don't need something/someone else to keep me engaged in life.Just try enjoying everything around you.Why worry about some woman who may or may not come?


Actually, im not worried, I don`t care about being alone because i've been like this my whole life but sometimes I wonder why cant I be a normal person just like everybody else, don`t care about if the person is trustful or not, I have a lot of interests...Im doing good in my professional life, got a bachelor degree, go to the gym, party, meet people, go to places and etc...but I still feel like something is missing...

Im dating this girl right now, she is a Cancer sun/ Gemini moon/ Pisces rising...I kind of really like her but sometimes she is too superficial, naive, talk too much, only care about her and demand too much attention...This is the main reason I've asked what would be the perfect match for me.

You need someone who is naturally altruistic. You seem like you are turned off by someone being ugly on the inside.

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Actually, its not sooo important. Nobody is only good or bad in the inside but I want someone who would have a deep connection with me, feeling like that person is with me for life, no matter what, this would make me secure and less possessive.
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Just be yourself. Your true self in all that you do.

Someday you'll attract someone who loves you for you.

But to look friendly--think about things that make you happy. You'll smile on the inside.

And you don't want to be with the ppl who are disappointed in your expressions.

You want to find people who are not disappointed in you.

Let go of what other people think. You don't need to confirm to their ideals if they don't match yours.

So if someone is disappointed in who you are, then she's not for you. It's that simple


Thanks but its sounds contradictory... Or im my really self with the possessive, scorpio moon traits or I try to change for the "better"

Im feeling lost man, seriously... classical Pisces MC

I have Pisces MC too...but I don't feel lost 😛

You're just thinking too much I say!!


Im afraid that you are right, Im really spending too much time thinking, maybe im getting paranoid
Let it all go n dance with the flow...... !!! What's the point anyway?
I just can't...I only lost my control and danced with the flow when I was heavy on weed...seriously, I became careless and was kind of happy



Ok...so what exactly is bothering you? Just not having a woman in your life or anything else too??




Im trying to figure out if there is some girl who would be happy with me and not care about my control issues. If there is, astrologically speaking, I would pay more attention on girls who look like these or try to identify them, If not I will continue my lonely life as a player while im young and then...



Look...you, me n everyone is gonna die...with or without having someone in our lives.Did you try basing your whole life around this another person? Don't you have anything else to look forward to?I never had this so called man saviour in my life. I didn't feel like I was losing out on something...ever. I have many other things to be bothered about. N nah I'm not in denial coz this is by choice. I don't worry about dying alone. I just love myself n respect life so much n I'm not even a feminist or a narcissist.I'm never bored. I can be a total loner or be completely out there.I don't need something/someone else to keep me engaged in life.Just try enjoying everything around you.Why worry about some woman who may or may not come?


Actually, im not worried, I don`t care about being alone because i've been like this my whole life but sometimes I wonder why cant I be a normal person just like everybody else, don`t care about if the person is trustful or not, I have a lot of interests...Im doing good in my professional life, got a bachelor degree, go to the gym, party, meet people, go to places and etc...but I still feel like something is missing...

Im dating this girl right now, she is a Cancer sun/ Gemini moon/ Pisces rising...I kind of really like her but sometimes she is too superficial, naive, talk too much, only care about her and demand too much attention...This is the main reason I've asked what would be the perfect match for me.

You need someone who is naturally altruistic. You seem like you are turned off by someone being ugly on the inside.


Actually, its not sooo important. Nobody is only good or bad in the inside but I want someone who would have a deep connection with me, feeling like that person is with me for life, no matter what, this would make me secure and less possessive.
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I see maybe try an isfj personality. I know you're into astrology but isfjs are the most reliable loyal ppl. I feel really safe and trust them the most and I don't trust anyone lol
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Just be yourself. Your true self in all that you do.

Someday you'll attract someone who loves you for you.

But to look friendly--think about things that make you happy. You'll smile on the inside.

And you don't want to be with the ppl who are disappointed in your expressions.

You want to find people who are not disappointed in you.

Let go of what other people think. You don't need to confirm to their ideals if they don't match yours.

So if someone is disappointed in who you are, then she's not for you. It's that simple


Thanks but its sounds contradictory... Or im my really self with the possessive, scorpio moon traits or I try to change for the "better"

Im feeling lost man, seriously... classical Pisces MC

I have Pisces MC too...but I don't feel lost 😛

You're just thinking too much I say!!


Im afraid that you are right, Im really spending too much time thinking, maybe im getting paranoid
Let it all go n dance with the flow...... !!! What's the point anyway?
I just can't...I only lost my control and danced with the flow when I was heavy on weed...seriously, I became careless and was kind of happy



Ok...so what exactly is bothering you? Just not having a woman in your life or anything else too??




Im trying to figure out if there is some girl who would be happy with me and not care about my control issues. If there is, astrologically speaking, I would pay more attention on girls who look like these or try to identify them, If not I will continue my lonely life as a player while im young and then...



Look...you, me n everyone is gonna die...with or without having someone in our lives.Did you try basing your whole life around this another person? Don't you have anything else to look forward to?I never had this so called man saviour in my life. I didn't feel like I was losing out on something...ever. I have many other things to be bothered about. N nah I'm not in denial coz this is by choice. I don't worry about dying alone. I just love myself n respect life so much n I'm not even a feminist or a narcissist.I'm never bored. I can be a total loner or be completely out there.I don't need something/someone else to keep me engaged in life.Just try enjoying everything around you.Why worry about some woman who may or may not come?


Actually, im not worried, I don`t care about being alone because i've been like this my whole life but sometimes I wonder why cant I be a normal person just like everybody else, don`t care about if the person is trustful or not, I have a lot of interests...Im doing good in my professional life, got a bachelor degree, go to the gym, party, meet people, go to places and etc...but I still feel like something is missing...

Im dating this girl right now, she is a Cancer sun/ Gemini moon/ Pisces rising...I kind of really like her but sometimes she is too superficial, naive, talk too much, only care about her and demand too much attention...This is the main reason I've asked what would be the perfect match for me.

You need someone who is naturally altruistic. You seem like you are turned off by someone being ugly on the inside.


Actually, its not sooo important. Nobody is only good or bad in the inside but I want someone who would have a deep connection with me, feeling like that person is with me for life, no matter what, this would make me secure and less possessive.
I see maybe try an isfj personality. I know you're into astrology but isfjs are the most reliable loyal ppl. I feel really safe and trust them the most and I don't trust anyone lol
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Just be yourself. Your true self in all that you do.

Someday you'll attract someone who loves you for you.

But to look friendly--think about things that make you happy. You'll smile on the inside.

And you don't want to be with the ppl who are disappointed in your expressions.

You want to find people who are not disappointed in you.

Let go of what other people think. You don't need to confirm to their ideals if they don't match yours.

So if someone is disappointed in who you are, then she's not for you. It's that simple


Thanks but its sounds contradictory... Or im my really self with the possessive, scorpio moon traits or I try to change for the "better"

Im feeling lost man, seriously... classical Pisces MC

I have Pisces MC too...but I don't feel lost 😛

You're just thinking too much I say!!


Im afraid that you are right, Im really spending too much time thinking, maybe im getting paranoid
Let it all go n dance with the flow...... !!! What's the point anyway?
I just can't...I only lost my control and danced with the flow when I was heavy on weed...seriously, I became careless and was kind of happy



Ok...so what exactly is bothering you? Just not having a woman in your life or anything else too??




Im trying to figure out if there is some girl who would be happy with me and not care about my control issues. If there is, astrologically speaking, I would pay more attention on girls who look like these or try to identify them, If not I will continue my lonely life as a player while im young and then...



Look...you, me n everyone is gonna die...with or without having someone in our lives.Did you try basing your whole life around this another person? Don't you have anything else to look forward to?I never had this so called man saviour in my life. I didn't feel like I was losing out on something...ever. I have many other things to be bothered about. N nah I'm not in denial coz this is by choice. I don't worry about dying alone. I just love myself n respect life so much n I'm not even a feminist or a narcissist.I'm never bored. I can be a total loner or be completely out there.I don't need something/someone else to keep me engaged in life.Just try enjoying everything around you.Why worry about some woman who may or may not come?


Actually, im not worried, I don`t care about being alone because i've been like this my whole life but sometimes I wonder why cant I be a normal person just like everybody else, don`t care about if the person is trustful or not, I have a lot of interests...Im doing good in my professional life, got a bachelor degree, go to the gym, party, meet people, go to places and etc...but I still feel like something is missing...

Im dating this girl right now, she is a Cancer sun/ Gemini moon/ Pisces rising...I kind of really like her but sometimes she is too superficial, naive, talk too much, only care about her and demand too much attention...This is the main reason I've asked what would be the perfect match for me.

You need someone who is naturally altruistic. You seem like you are turned off by someone being ugly on the inside.


Actually, its not sooo important. Nobody is only good or bad in the inside but I want someone who would have a deep connection with me, feeling like that person is with me for life, no matter what, this would make me secure and less possessive.
I see maybe try an isfj personality. I know you're into astrology but isfjs are the most reliable loyal ppl. I feel really safe and trust them the most and I don't trust anyone lol
What placements in Astrology would indicate a ISFJ? Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces?

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I've noticed a lot of cancers and Pisces placements
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I took a look at your chart and it looks like a self fulfilling prophecy.. this fixed belief of yours that sooner or later you'll be betrayed or abandoned.

The Moon is in a sorry state. Bad childhood experiences, that's for sure. Bullying - insecurity and a negative self-image. A controlling, manipulative and authoritative mother - emotional and sexual repression. Adoption, parental death or divorce - abandonment issues. All of this could lead to unhealthy and destructive behavioural patterns that could very well influence negatively your physical health.

You're prone to depression, if you don't like to go around sharing the details of your personal life as a therapeutic release then you better learn how to find and heal all those blockages inside you because they're limiting your creativity. You can benefit from using alternative techniques like meditation.

Your energies are intense and need to be channeled appropriately to not become detrimental to you and others. Because there's an inner need to nurture, activities involving children or the elderly could be good for you. Physical therapy or rehabilitation could also be good occupations. Any emotional involvement will unnecessarily complicate your goals and only cause suffering.

The Nodal axis only reinforces the path you've choose, you want to be of service to the public because the South Node in Cancer implies selfishness and immaturity, someone who needs to learn how to care for others and develop nurturing qualities. Someone who also needs to let go of the past and stop craving what he didn't have in his childhood. Once you finally become an adult (North Node in Capricorn), you will be truly responsible and be able to form a healthy relationship.
" Any emotional involvement will unnecessarily complicate your goals and only cause suffering. " I didnt understand this.

Thanks for the deep reading, normally people are too lazy to give a detailed analysis.

My parents are divorced, I had a difficult childhood as you've said but about my mother its totally wrong, actually she was always the one who was there for me, I wouldnt say the same for my father.

I like to do social work but I can`t see myself doing this for a living. I like money, I like the idea of driving a nice car, having a nice house, wearing good clothes, expensive vacations and etc...

I thought that a Capricorn 8th House NN was about getting adult but trusting people, have deep relationships, marrying and etc. My 8th house is in a good condition, at least I believe so. Most of the things in my life related to my 8th house brings me joy, happiness, discovery, fullfillment and etc.

My moon (emotions) has challenged me my whole life, its like a big rollercoaster of emotions but my Moon trine Mars (my essence) so I guess its kind of give me the energy to keep moving foward and to fight against my demons.

Thanks again, really appreciated your answer.

You have a fixed t-square (or an out-of-sign Grand Cross), which mean your beliefs has become ingrained and you're called to surrender your will to keep making progress, this is why fixed patterns are said to be the most difficult. Too keep doing what you're doing in your relationships is stagnating to the spirit and is not helping your purpose, you're pretty much beating a dead horse in that area of your life.

That's right, the nodes are found in the 2nd house and 8th house. You like money and you enjoy physical pleasures. This is another battle of this challenging setup. The 8th house wants you to ultimately help others to find their resources and self-worth so you need to overcome this. You're needy and are inclined to fill your void with material things, finantial prosperity, status... what you may not able to see is that you have greater (spiritual) needs (8th house) that material prosperity is never going to fulfill.

Your soul is asking for a transformation, to kill once and for all this ingrained value system but you keep stalling it because you're stubborn. Your eventual "death" will be testing because we're talking about giving up something that is important to you, this is why discipline is needed.


Thanks again.

I have transformed myself so many times, passed through crysis and get really deep in my 8th house, to the point that I thought i was going too insane.

But one of the symbols of Scorpio(8th house) is power and this kind of make me confuse...How can I fulfil a Soul (North Node) that wants power without trying to control?

To simplify, I was a Taurus in my previous life (South Node) and in this life time I need to become a Scorpio, right?!

So wouldn`t make sense if I embrace my moon in Scorpio traits and let it be?




You're embracing the negative traits of Scorpio.

Stop being stubborn and embrace rebirth/transformation. Become new. Become the Phoenix.

You're just not listening. You're taking what the other user explained and only keeping the parts that suit you so as to remain the same by doing the same things over and over.

You enjoy your misery, don't you?

I used to enjoy misery---now I don't.

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What would be the positive traits them?

Like I said, I've transformed myself so many times that a few people from my past think that Im fake or crazy.
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:-/

Just be yourself. Your true self in all that you do.

Someday you'll attract someone who loves you for you.

But to look friendly--think about things that make you happy. You'll smile on the inside.

And you don't want to be with the ppl who are disappointed in your expressions.

You want to find people who are not disappointed in you.

Let go of what other people think. You don't need to confirm to their ideals if they don't match yours.

So if someone is disappointed in who you are, then she's not for you. It's that simple


Thanks but its sounds contradictory... Or im my really self with the possessive, scorpio moon traits or I try to change for the "better"

Im feeling lost man, seriously... classical Pisces MC

I have Pisces MC too...but I don't feel lost 😛

You're just thinking too much I say!!


Im afraid that you are right, Im really spending too much time thinking, maybe im getting paranoid
Let it all go n dance with the flow...... !!! What's the point anyway?
I just can't...I only lost my control and danced with the flow when I was heavy on weed...seriously, I became careless and was kind of happy



Ok...so what exactly is bothering you? Just not having a woman in your life or anything else too??




Im trying to figure out if there is some girl who would be happy with me and not care about my control issues. If there is, astrologically speaking, I would pay more attention on girls who look like these or try to identify them, If not I will continue my lonely life as a player while im young and then...



Look...you, me n everyone is gonna die...with or without having someone in our lives.Did you try basing your whole life around this another person? Don't you have anything else to look forward to?I never had this so called man saviour in my life. I didn't feel like I was losing out on something...ever. I have many other things to be bothered about. N nah I'm not in denial coz this is by choice. I don't worry about dying alone. I just love myself n respect life so much n I'm not even a feminist or a narcissist.I'm never bored. I can be a total loner or be completely out there.I don't need something/someone else to keep me engaged in life.Just try enjoying everything around you.Why worry about some woman who may or may not come?


Actually, im not worried, I don`t care about being alone because i've been like this my whole life but sometimes I wonder why cant I be a normal person just like everybody else, don`t care about if the person is trustful or not, I have a lot of interests...Im doing good in my professional life, got a bachelor degree, go to the gym, party, meet people, go to places and etc...but I still feel like something is missing...

Im dating this girl right now, she is a Cancer sun/ Gemini moon/ Pisces rising...I kind of really like her but sometimes she is too superficial, naive, talk too much, only care about her and demand too much attention...This is the main reason I've asked what would be the perfect match for me.

You need someone who is naturally altruistic. You seem like you are turned off by someone being ugly on the inside.


Actually, its not sooo important. Nobody is only good or bad in the inside but I want someone who would have a deep connection with me, feeling like that person is with me for life, no matter what, this would make me secure and less possessive.
Your vertex is in pisces. Your north node in capricorn.

When planets conjunct these points, it feels like destiny/fate.

Find somebody whose planets touch these points in your chart. It'll feel like an insta connection.

That's why I said a pisces sun with Capricorn moon... You could also do a capricorn sun with pisces moon too.

With a Sagittarius rising your sun would fall in her 5th house most likely. Fun romance creativity and children
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I wish it was that simple...Im enjoying this girl, her jupiter conjuct my Vertex, what about this?

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:-/

Just be yourself. Your true self in all that you do.

Someday you'll attract someone who loves you for you.

But to look friendly--think about things that make you happy. You'll smile on the inside.

And you don't want to be with the ppl who are disappointed in your expressions.

You want to find people who are not disappointed in you.

Let go of what other people think. You don't need to confirm to their ideals if they don't match yours.

So if someone is disappointed in who you are, then she's not for you. It's that simple


Thanks but its sounds contradictory... Or im my really self with the possessive, scorpio moon traits or I try to change for the "better"

Im feeling lost man, seriously... classical Pisces MC

I have Pisces MC too...but I don't feel lost 😛

You're just thinking too much I say!!


Im afraid that you are right, Im really spending too much time thinking, maybe im getting paranoid
Let it all go n dance with the flow...... !!! What's the point anyway?
I just can't...I only lost my control and danced with the flow when I was heavy on weed...seriously, I became careless and was kind of happy



Ok...so what exactly is bothering you? Just not having a woman in your life or anything else too??




Im trying to figure out if there is some girl who would be happy with me and not care about my control issues. If there is, astrologically speaking, I would pay more attention on girls who look like these or try to identify them, If not I will continue my lonely life as a player while im young and then...



Look...you, me n everyone is gonna die...with or without having someone in our lives.Did you try basing your whole life around this another person? Don't you have anything else to look forward to?I never had this so called man saviour in my life. I didn't feel like I was losing out on something...ever. I have many other things to be bothered about. N nah I'm not in denial coz this is by choice. I don't worry about dying alone. I just love myself n respect life so much n I'm not even a feminist or a narcissist.I'm never bored. I can be a total loner or be completely out there.I don't need something/someone else to keep me engaged in life.Just try enjoying everything around you.Why worry about some woman who may or may not come?


Actually, im not worried, I don`t care about being alone because i've been like this my whole life but sometimes I wonder why cant I be a normal person just like everybody else, don`t care about if the person is trustful or not, I have a lot of interests...Im doing good in my professional life, got a bachelor degree, go to the gym, party, meet people, go to places and etc...but I still feel like something is missing...

Im dating this girl right now, she is a Cancer sun/ Gemini moon/ Pisces rising...I kind of really like her but sometimes she is too superficial, naive, talk too much, only care about her and demand too much attention...This is the main reason I've asked what would be the perfect match for me.

You need someone who is naturally altruistic. You seem like you are turned off by someone being ugly on the inside.


Actually, its not sooo important. Nobody is only good or bad in the inside but I want someone who would have a deep connection with me, feeling like that person is with me for life, no matter what, this would make me secure and less possessive.
I see maybe try an isfj personality. I know you're into astrology but isfjs are the most reliable loyal ppl. I feel really safe and trust them the most and I don't trust anyone lol
What placements in Astrology would indicate a ISFJ? Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces?

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They are really soothing ppl to me. Very transparent and no false pretenses
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Just be yourself. Your true self in all that you do.

Someday you'll attract someone who loves you for you.

But to look friendly--think about things that make you happy. You'll smile on the inside.

And you don't want to be with the ppl who are disappointed in your expressions.

You want to find people who are not disappointed in you.

Let go of what other people think. You don't need to confirm to their ideals if they don't match yours.

So if someone is disappointed in who you are, then she's not for you. It's that simple


Thanks but its sounds contradictory... Or im my really self with the possessive, scorpio moon traits or I try to change for the "better"

Im feeling lost man, seriously... classical Pisces MC

I have Pisces MC too...but I don't feel lost 😛

You're just thinking too much I say!!


Im afraid that you are right, Im really spending too much time thinking, maybe im getting paranoid
Let it all go n dance with the flow...... !!! What's the point anyway?
I just can't...I only lost my control and danced with the flow when I was heavy on weed...seriously, I became careless and was kind of happy



Ok...so what exactly is bothering you? Just not having a woman in your life or anything else too??




Im trying to figure out if there is some girl who would be happy with me and not care about my control issues. If there is, astrologically speaking, I would pay more attention on girls who look like these or try to identify them, If not I will continue my lonely life as a player while im young and then...



Look...you, me n everyone is gonna die...with or without having someone in our lives.Did you try basing your whole life around this another person? Don't you have anything else to look forward to?I never had this so called man saviour in my life. I didn't feel like I was losing out on something...ever. I have many other things to be bothered about. N nah I'm not in denial coz this is by choice. I don't worry about dying alone. I just love myself n respect life so much n I'm not even a feminist or a narcissist.I'm never bored. I can be a total loner or be completely out there.I don't need something/someone else to keep me engaged in life.Just try enjoying everything around you.Why worry about some woman who may or may not come?


Actually, im not worried, I don`t care about being alone because i've been like this my whole life but sometimes I wonder why cant I be a normal person just like everybody else, don`t care about if the person is trustful or not, I have a lot of interests...Im doing good in my professional life, got a bachelor degree, go to the gym, party, meet people, go to places and etc...but I still feel like something is missing...

Im dating this girl right now, she is a Cancer sun/ Gemini moon/ Pisces rising...I kind of really like her but sometimes she is too superficial, naive, talk too much, only care about her and demand too much attention...This is the main reason I've asked what would be the perfect match for me.

You need someone who is naturally altruistic. You seem like you are turned off by someone being ugly on the inside.


Actually, its not sooo important. Nobody is only good or bad in the inside but I want someone who would have a deep connection with me, feeling like that person is with me for life, no matter what, this would make me secure and less possessive.
I see maybe try an isfj personality. I know you're into astrology but isfjs are the most reliable loyal ppl. I feel really safe and trust them the most and I don't trust anyone lol
What placements in Astrology would indicate a ISFJ? Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces?



They are really soothing ppl to me. Very transparent and no false pretenses

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I like them too but I find Cancer to be unbelieveable selfish, Pisces daydream too much and Scorpio isnt that trustful. I had more than one sample of these signs
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I took a look at your chart and it looks like a self fulfilling prophecy.. this fixed belief of yours that sooner or later you'll be betrayed or abandoned.

The Moon is in a sorry state. Bad childhood experiences, that's for sure. Bullying - insecurity and a negative self-image. A controlling, manipulative and authoritative mother - emotional and sexual repression. Adoption, parental death or divorce - abandonment issues. All of this could lead to unhealthy and destructive behavioural patterns that could very well influence negatively your physical health.

You're prone to depression, if you don't like to go around sharing the details of your personal life as a therapeutic release then you better learn how to find and heal all those blockages inside you because they're limiting your creativity. You can benefit from using alternative techniques like meditation.

Your energies are intense and need to be channeled appropriately to not become detrimental to you and others. Because there's an inner need to nurture, activities involving children or the elderly could be good for you. Physical therapy or rehabilitation could also be good occupations. Any emotional involvement will unnecessarily complicate your goals and only cause suffering.

The Nodal axis only reinforces the path you've choose, you want to be of service to the public because the South Node in Cancer implies selfishness and immaturity, someone who needs to learn how to care for others and develop nurturing qualities. Someone who also needs to let go of the past and stop craving what he didn't have in his childhood. Once you finally become an adult (North Node in Capricorn), you will be truly responsible and be able to form a healthy relationship.
" Any emotional involvement will unnecessarily complicate your goals and only cause suffering. " I didnt understand this.

Thanks for the deep reading, normally people are too lazy to give a detailed analysis.

My parents are divorced, I had a difficult childhood as you've said but about my mother its totally wrong, actually she was always the one who was there for me, I wouldnt say the same for my father.

I like to do social work but I can`t see myself doing this for a living. I like money, I like the idea of driving a nice car, having a nice house, wearing good clothes, expensive vacations and etc...

I thought that a Capricorn 8th House NN was about getting adult but trusting people, have deep relationships, marrying and etc. My 8th house is in a good condition, at least I believe so. Most of the things in my life related to my 8th house brings me joy, happiness, discovery, fullfillment and etc.

My moon (emotions) has challenged me my whole life, its like a big rollercoaster of emotions but my Moon trine Mars (my essence) so I guess its kind of give me the energy to keep moving foward and to fight against my demons.

Thanks again, really appreciated your answer.

You have a fixed t-square (or an out-of-sign Grand Cross), which mean your beliefs has become ingrained and you're called to surrender your will to keep making progress, this is why fixed patterns are said to be the most difficult. Too keep doing what you're doing in your relationships is stagnating to the spirit and is not helping your purpose, you're pretty much beating a dead horse in that area of your life.

That's right, the nodes are found in the 2nd house and 8th house. You like money and you enjoy physical pleasures. This is another battle of this challenging setup. The 8th house wants you to ultimately help others to find their resources and self-worth so you need to overcome this. You're needy and are inclined to fill your void with material things, finantial prosperity, status... what you may not able to see is that you have greater (spiritual) needs (8th house) that material prosperity is never going to fulfill.

Your soul is asking for a transformation, to kill once and for all this ingrained value system but you keep stalling it because you're stubborn. Your eventual "death" will be testing because we're talking about giving up something that is important to you, this is why discipline is needed.


Thanks again.

I have transformed myself so many times, passed through crysis and get really deep in my 8th house, to the point that I thought i was going too insane.

But one of the symbols of Scorpio(8th house) is power and this kind of make me confuse...How can I fulfil a Soul (North Node) that wants power without trying to control?

To simplify, I was a Taurus in my previous life (South Node) and in this life time I need to become a Scorpio, right?!

So wouldn`t make sense if I embrace my moon in Scorpio traits and let it be?




You're embracing the negative traits of Scorpio.

Stop being stubborn and embrace rebirth/transformation. Become new. Become the Phoenix.

You're just not listening. You're taking what the other user explained and only keeping the parts that suit you so as to remain the same by doing the same things over and over.

You enjoy your misery, don't you?

I used to enjoy misery---now I don't.


What would be the positive traits them?

Like I said, I've transformed myself so many times that a few people from my past think that Im fake or crazy.


Scorpio transforms ALL his life until death.

I'm always changing. I get depressed stagnant if I don't.

Positive traits of Scorpio

Emotional--cares deeply

Trustworthy

Loyal

Will protect other ppls secrets

Changes and grows and gets better and WISER

Knows how to handle power wisely/is not abusive

Smart enough to see what is happening before it happens

Intuitive

Can read people/understands their motives
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Maybe you dont believe in me but I have a lot of these traits except for caring deeply, im too selfish for that.
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Just be yourself. Your true self in all that you do.

Someday you'll attract someone who loves you for you.

But to look friendly--think about things that make you happy. You'll smile on the inside.

And you don't want to be with the ppl who are disappointed in your expressions.

You want to find people who are not disappointed in you.

Let go of what other people think. You don't need to confirm to their ideals if they don't match yours.

So if someone is disappointed in who you are, then she's not for you. It's that simple


Thanks but its sounds contradictory... Or im my really self with the possessive, scorpio moon traits or I try to change for the "better"

Im feeling lost man, seriously... classical Pisces MC

I have Pisces MC too...but I don't feel lost 😛

You're just thinking too much I say!!


Im afraid that you are right, Im really spending too much time thinking, maybe im getting paranoid
Let it all go n dance with the flow...... !!! What's the point anyway?
I just can't...I only lost my control and danced with the flow when I was heavy on weed...seriously, I became careless and was kind of happy



Ok...so what exactly is bothering you? Just not having a woman in your life or anything else too??




Im trying to figure out if there is some girl who would be happy with me and not care about my control issues. If there is, astrologically speaking, I would pay more attention on girls who look like these or try to identify them, If not I will continue my lonely life as a player while im young and then...



Look...you, me n everyone is gonna die...with or without having someone in our lives.Did you try basing your whole life around this another person? Don't you have anything else to look forward to?I never had this so called man saviour in my life. I didn't feel like I was losing out on something...ever. I have many other things to be bothered about. N nah I'm not in denial coz this is by choice. I don't worry about dying alone. I just love myself n respect life so much n I'm not even a feminist or a narcissist.I'm never bored. I can be a total loner or be completely out there.I don't need something/someone else to keep me engaged in life.Just try enjoying everything around you.Why worry about some woman who may or may not come?


Actually, im not worried, I don`t care about being alone because i've been like this my whole life but sometimes I wonder why cant I be a normal person just like everybody else, don`t care about if the person is trustful or not, I have a lot of interests...Im doing good in my professional life, got a bachelor degree, go to the gym, party, meet people, go to places and etc...but I still feel like something is missing...

Im dating this girl right now, she is a Cancer sun/ Gemini moon/ Pisces rising...I kind of really like her but sometimes she is too superficial, naive, talk too much, only care about her and demand too much attention...This is the main reason I've asked what would be the perfect match for me.

You need someone who is naturally altruistic. You seem like you are turned off by someone being ugly on the inside.


Actually, its not sooo important. Nobody is only good or bad in the inside but I want someone who would have a deep connection with me, feeling like that person is with me for life, no matter what, this would make me secure and less possessive.
I see maybe try an isfj personality. I know you're into astrology but isfjs are the most reliable loyal ppl. I feel really safe and trust them the most and I don't trust anyone lol
What placements in Astrology would indicate a ISFJ? Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces?



They are really soothing ppl to me. Very transparent and no false pretenses


I like them too but I find Cancer to be unbelieveable selfish, Pisces daydream too much and Scorpio isnt that trustful. I had more than one sample of these signs

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True I find cancers combative and almost fiery and Pisces soothe me. I love them and other scorpios ew I think they are usually weird and basically I was saying it might be more helpful to base your search on Myers Briggs instead of astrology kind of what worked for me. Maybe you should try Like a libra sun and Pisces moon they are cool ppl
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Just be yourself. Your true self in all that you do.

Someday you'll attract someone who loves you for you.

But to look friendly--think about things that make you happy. You'll smile on the inside.

And you don't want to be with the ppl who are disappointed in your expressions.

You want to find people who are not disappointed in you.

Let go of what other people think. You don't need to confirm to their ideals if they don't match yours.

So if someone is disappointed in who you are, then she's not for you. It's that simple


Thanks but its sounds contradictory... Or im my really self with the possessive, scorpio moon traits or I try to change for the "better"

Im feeling lost man, seriously... classical Pisces MC

I have Pisces MC too...but I don't feel lost 😛

You're just thinking too much I say!!


Im afraid that you are right, Im really spending too much time thinking, maybe im getting paranoid
Let it all go n dance with the flow...... !!! What's the point anyway?
I just can't...I only lost my control and danced with the flow when I was heavy on weed...seriously, I became careless and was kind of happy



Ok...so what exactly is bothering you? Just not having a woman in your life or anything else too??




Im trying to figure out if there is some girl who would be happy with me and not care about my control issues. If there is, astrologically speaking, I would pay more attention on girls who look like these or try to identify them, If not I will continue my lonely life as a player while im young and then...



Look...you, me n everyone is gonna die...with or without having someone in our lives.Did you try basing your whole life around this another person? Don't you have anything else to look forward to?I never had this so called man saviour in my life. I didn't feel like I was losing out on something...ever. I have many other things to be bothered about. N nah I'm not in denial coz this is by choice. I don't worry about dying alone. I just love myself n respect life so much n I'm not even a feminist or a narcissist.I'm never bored. I can be a total loner or be completely out there.I don't need something/someone else to keep me engaged in life.Just try enjoying everything around you.Why worry about some woman who may or may not come?


Actually, im not worried, I don`t care about being alone because i've been like this my whole life but sometimes I wonder why cant I be a normal person just like everybody else, don`t care about if the person is trustful or not, I have a lot of interests...Im doing good in my professional life, got a bachelor degree, go to the gym, party, meet people, go to places and etc...but I still feel like something is missing...

Im dating this girl right now, she is a Cancer sun/ Gemini moon/ Pisces rising...I kind of really like her but sometimes she is too superficial, naive, talk too much, only care about her and demand too much attention...This is the main reason I've asked what would be the perfect match for me.

You need someone who is naturally altruistic. You seem like you are turned off by someone being ugly on the inside.


Actually, its not sooo important. Nobody is only good or bad in the inside but I want someone who would have a deep connection with me, feeling like that person is with me for life, no matter what, this would make me secure and less possessive.
Your vertex is in pisces. Your north node in capricorn.

When planets conjunct these points, it feels like destiny/fate.

Find somebody whose planets touch these points in your chart. It'll feel like an insta connection.

That's why I said a pisces sun with Capricorn moon... You could also do a capricorn sun with pisces moon too.

With a Sagittarius rising your sun would fall in her 5th house most likely. Fun romance creativity and children
I wish it was that simple...Im enjoying this girl, her jupiter conjuct my Vertex, what about this?


She is probably meant to help you GROW and EXPAND

Let go of control and be open to what she can teach you
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I checked now, it doesnt conjuct...My vertex is at the begin of Pisces her Jupiter is near the end of Pisces.
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:-/

Just be yourself. Your true self in all that you do.

Someday you'll attract someone who loves you for you.

But to look friendly--think about things that make you happy. You'll smile on the inside.

And you don't want to be with the ppl who are disappointed in your expressions.

You want to find people who are not disappointed in you.

Let go of what other people think. You don't need to confirm to their ideals if they don't match yours.

So if someone is disappointed in who you are, then she's not for you. It's that simple


Thanks but its sounds contradictory... Or im my really self with the possessive, scorpio moon traits or I try to change for the "better"

Im feeling lost man, seriously... classical Pisces MC

I have Pisces MC too...but I don't feel lost 😛

You're just thinking too much I say!!


Im afraid that you are right, Im really spending too much time thinking, maybe im getting paranoid
Let it all go n dance with the flow...... !!! What's the point anyway?
I just can't...I only lost my control and danced with the flow when I was heavy on weed...seriously, I became careless and was kind of happy



Ok...so what exactly is bothering you? Just not having a woman in your life or anything else too??




Im trying to figure out if there is some girl who would be happy with me and not care about my control issues. If there is, astrologically speaking, I would pay more attention on girls who look like these or try to identify them, If not I will continue my lonely life as a player while im young and then...



Look...you, me n everyone is gonna die...with or without having someone in our lives.Did you try basing your whole life around this another person? Don't you have anything else to look forward to?I never had this so called man saviour in my life. I didn't feel like I was losing out on something...ever. I have many other things to be bothered about. N nah I'm not in denial coz this is by choice. I don't worry about dying alone. I just love myself n respect life so much n I'm not even a feminist or a narcissist.I'm never bored. I can be a total loner or be completely out there.I don't need something/someone else to keep me engaged in life.Just try enjoying everything around you.Why worry about some woman who may or may not come?


Actually, im not worried, I don`t care about being alone because i've been like this my whole life but sometimes I wonder why cant I be a normal person just like everybody else, don`t care about if the person is trustful or not, I have a lot of interests...Im doing good in my professional life, got a bachelor degree, go to the gym, party, meet people, go to places and etc...but I still feel like something is missing...

Im dating this girl right now, she is a Cancer sun/ Gemini moon/ Pisces rising...I kind of really like her but sometimes she is too superficial, naive, talk too much, only care about her and demand too much attention...This is the main reason I've asked what would be the perfect match for me.

You need someone who is naturally altruistic. You seem like you are turned off by someone being ugly on the inside.


Actually, its not sooo important. Nobody is only good or bad in the inside but I want someone who would have a deep connection with me, feeling like that person is with me for life, no matter what, this would make me secure and less possessive.
I see maybe try an isfj personality. I know you're into astrology but isfjs are the most reliable loyal ppl. I feel really safe and trust them the most and I don't trust anyone lol
What placements in Astrology would indicate a ISFJ? Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces?



They are really soothing ppl to me. Very transparent and no false pretenses


I like them too but I find Cancer to be unbelieveable selfish, Pisces daydream too much and Scorpio isnt that trustful. I had more than one sample of these signs



True I find cancers combative and almost fiery and Pisces soothe me. I love them and other scorpios ew I think they are usually weird and basically I was saying it might be more helpful to base your search on Myers Briggs instead of astrology kind of what worked for me. Maybe you should try Like a libra sun and Pisces moon they are cool ppl

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Thanks for the tip. I will ask this girl to take a personality test.

I had a Libra GF, she was great but too superficial for me, i dont know her moon but I guess a Pisces moon would provide some depth.

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I took a look at your chart and it looks like a self fulfilling prophecy.. this fixed belief of yours that sooner or later you'll be betrayed or abandoned.

The Moon is in a sorry state. Bad childhood experiences, that's for sure. Bullying - insecurity and a negative self-image. A controlling, manipulative and authoritative mother - emotional and sexual repression. Adoption, parental death or divorce - abandonment issues. All of this could lead to unhealthy and destructive behavioural patterns that could very well influence negatively your physical health.

You're prone to depression, if you don't like to go around sharing the details of your personal life as a therapeutic release then you better learn how to find and heal all those blockages inside you because they're limiting your creativity. You can benefit from using alternative techniques like meditation.

Your energies are intense and need to be channeled appropriately to not become detrimental to you and others. Because there's an inner need to nurture, activities involving children or the elderly could be good for you. Physical therapy or rehabilitation could also be good occupations. Any emotional involvement will unnecessarily complicate your goals and only cause suffering.

The Nodal axis only reinforces the path you've choose, you want to be of service to the public because the South Node in Cancer implies selfishness and immaturity, someone who needs to learn how to care for others and develop nurturing qualities. Someone who also needs to let go of the past and stop craving what he didn't have in his childhood. Once you finally become an adult (North Node in Capricorn), you will be truly responsible and be able to form a healthy relationship.
" Any emotional involvement will unnecessarily complicate your goals and only cause suffering. " I didnt understand this.

Thanks for the deep reading, normally people are too lazy to give a detailed analysis.

My parents are divorced, I had a difficult childhood as you've said but about my mother its totally wrong, actually she was always the one who was there for me, I wouldnt say the same for my father.

I like to do social work but I can`t see myself doing this for a living. I like money, I like the idea of driving a nice car, having a nice house, wearing good clothes, expensive vacations and etc...

I thought that a Capricorn 8th House NN was about getting adult but trusting people, have deep relationships, marrying and etc. My 8th house is in a good condition, at least I believe so. Most of the things in my life related to my 8th house brings me joy, happiness, discovery, fullfillment and etc.

My moon (emotions) has challenged me my whole life, its like a big rollercoaster of emotions but my Moon trine Mars (my essence) so I guess its kind of give me the energy to keep moving foward and to fight against my demons.

Thanks again, really appreciated your answer.

You have a fixed t-square (or an out-of-sign Grand Cross), which mean your beliefs has become ingrained and you're called to surrender your will to keep making progress, this is why fixed patterns are said to be the most difficult. Too keep doing what you're doing in your relationships is stagnating to the spirit and is not helping your purpose, you're pretty much beating a dead horse in that area of your life.

That's right, the nodes are found in the 2nd house and 8th house. You like money and you enjoy physical pleasures. This is another battle of this challenging setup. The 8th house wants you to ultimately help others to find their resources and self-worth so you need to overcome this. You're needy and are inclined to fill your void with material things, finantial prosperity, status... what you may not able to see is that you have greater (spiritual) needs (8th house) that material prosperity is never going to fulfill.

Your soul is asking for a transformation, to kill once and for all this ingrained value system but you keep stalling it because you're stubborn. Your eventual "death" will be testing because we're talking about giving up something that is important to you, this is why discipline is needed.


Thanks again.

I have transformed myself so many times, passed through crysis and get really deep in my 8th house, to the point that I thought i was going too insane.

But one of the symbols of Scorpio(8th house) is power and this kind of make me confuse...How can I fulfil a Soul (North Node) that wants power without trying to control?

To simplify, I was a Taurus in my previous life (South Node) and in this life time I need to become a Scorpio, right?!

So wouldn`t make sense if I embrace my moon in Scorpio traits and let it be?




You're embracing the negative traits of Scorpio.

Stop being stubborn and embrace rebirth/transformation. Become new. Become the Phoenix.

You're just not listening. You're taking what the other user explained and only keeping the parts that suit you so as to remain the same by doing the same things over and over.

You enjoy your misery, don't you?

I used to enjoy misery---now I don't.


What would be the positive traits them?

Like I said, I've transformed myself so many times that a few people from my past think that Im fake or crazy.


Scorpio transforms ALL his life until death.

I'm always changing. I get depressed stagnant if I don't.

Positive traits of Scorpio

Emotional--cares deeply

Trustworthy

Loyal

Will protect other ppls secrets

Changes and grows and gets better and WISER

Knows how to handle power wisely/is not abusive

Smart enough to see what is happening before it happens

Intuitive

Can read people/understands their motives
Maybe you dont believe in me but I have a lot of these traits except for caring deeply, im too selfish for that.
i never said I didn't believe you but you are not open to believing OTHER people can be loyal and trustworthy too. You need to give others a chance.

also, you said you want a Deep connection? how are you not able to care deeply?

You need to learn to care deeply IF you want something deep.

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I dont care deeply about people near me, like cousins and people like this but for my lover and family, Im really caring and loving.

I want to believe that people can be loyal and trustworthy but I need a real demonstration of that, a situation that wouldnt let any doubt.

Its not that I dont believe in people, but I feel deep man, really deep and it hurts like hell so I automatically try to avoid this feeling of being betrayed.
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lol you're going to have your GF take the myers briggs test? Are YOU going to take the test too? Are you actually going to tell her your results or just get her results and NOT tell her your results?
Of course, Im a real person. When I checked her natal chart, I let her check mine together.

If I ask for her to take the test, I will share the results of mine with her. Im okay with that, she wouldnt use these infos for anything, she is a good person.
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I took a look at your chart and it looks like a self fulfilling prophecy.. this fixed belief of yours that sooner or later you'll be betrayed or abandoned.

The Moon is in a sorry state. Bad childhood experiences, that's for sure. Bullying - insecurity and a negative self-image. A controlling, manipulative and authoritative mother - emotional and sexual repression. Adoption, parental death or divorce - abandonment issues. All of this could lead to unhealthy and destructive behavioural patterns that could very well influence negatively your physical health.

You're prone to depression, if you don't like to go around sharing the details of your personal life as a therapeutic release then you better learn how to find and heal all those blockages inside you because they're limiting your creativity. You can benefit from using alternative techniques like meditation.

Your energies are intense and need to be channeled appropriately to not become detrimental to you and others. Because there's an inner need to nurture, activities involving children or the elderly could be good for you. Physical therapy or rehabilitation could also be good occupations. Any emotional involvement will unnecessarily complicate your goals and only cause suffering.

The Nodal axis only reinforces the path you've choose, you want to be of service to the public because the South Node in Cancer implies selfishness and immaturity, someone who needs to learn how to care for others and develop nurturing qualities. Someone who also needs to let go of the past and stop craving what he didn't have in his childhood. Once you finally become an adult (North Node in Capricorn), you will be truly responsible and be able to form a healthy relationship.
" Any emotional involvement will unnecessarily complicate your goals and only cause suffering. " I didnt understand this.

Thanks for the deep reading, normally people are too lazy to give a detailed analysis.

My parents are divorced, I had a difficult childhood as you've said but about my mother its totally wrong, actually she was always the one who was there for me, I wouldnt say the same for my father.

I like to do social work but I can`t see myself doing this for a living. I like money, I like the idea of driving a nice car, having a nice house, wearing good clothes, expensive vacations and etc...

I thought that a Capricorn 8th House NN was about getting adult but trusting people, have deep relationships, marrying and etc. My 8th house is in a good condition, at least I believe so. Most of the things in my life related to my 8th house brings me joy, happiness, discovery, fullfillment and etc.

My moon (emotions) has challenged me my whole life, its like a big rollercoaster of emotions but my Moon trine Mars (my essence) so I guess its kind of give me the energy to keep moving foward and to fight against my demons.

Thanks again, really appreciated your answer.

You have a fixed t-square (or an out-of-sign Grand Cross), which mean your beliefs has become ingrained and you're called to surrender your will to keep making progress, this is why fixed patterns are said to be the most difficult. Too keep doing what you're doing in your relationships is stagnating to the spirit and is not helping your purpose, you're pretty much beating a dead horse in that area of your life.

That's right, the nodes are found in the 2nd house and 8th house. You like money and you enjoy physical pleasures. This is another battle of this challenging setup. The 8th house wants you to ultimately help others to find their resources and self-worth so you need to overcome this. You're needy and are inclined to fill your void with material things, finantial prosperity, status... what you may not able to see is that you have greater (spiritual) needs (8th house) that material prosperity is never going to fulfill.

Your soul is asking for a transformation, to kill once and for all this ingrained value system but you keep stalling it because you're stubborn. Your eventual "death" will be testing because we're talking about giving up something that is important to you, this is why discipline is needed.


Thanks again.

I have transformed myself so many times, passed through crysis and get really deep in my 8th house, to the point that I thought i was going too insane.

But one of the symbols of Scorpio(8th house) is power and this kind of make me confuse...How can I fulfil a Soul (North Node) that wants power without trying to control?

To simplify, I was a Taurus in my previous life (South Node) and in this life time I need to become a Scorpio, right?!

So wouldn`t make sense if I embrace my moon in Scorpio traits and let it be?




You're embracing the negative traits of Scorpio.

Stop being stubborn and embrace rebirth/transformation. Become new. Become the Phoenix.

You're just not listening. You're taking what the other user explained and only keeping the parts that suit you so as to remain the same by doing the same things over and over.

You enjoy your misery, don't you?

I used to enjoy misery---now I don't.


What would be the positive traits them?

Like I said, I've transformed myself so many times that a few people from my past think that Im fake or crazy.


Scorpio transforms ALL his life until death.

I'm always changing. I get depressed stagnant if I don't.

Positive traits of Scorpio

Emotional--cares deeply

Trustworthy

Loyal

Will protect other ppls secrets

Changes and grows and gets better and WISER

Knows how to handle power wisely/is not abusive

Smart enough to see what is happening before it happens

Intuitive

Can read people/understands their motives
Maybe you dont believe in me but I have a lot of these traits except for caring deeply, im too selfish for that.
i never said I didn't believe you but you are not open to believing OTHER people can be loyal and trustworthy too. You need to give others a chance.

also, you said you want a Deep connection? how are you not able to care deeply?

You need to learn to care deeply IF you want something deep.


I dont care deeply about people near me, like cousins and people like this but for my lover and family, Im really caring and loving.

I want to believe that people can be loyal and trustworthy but I need a real demonstration of that, a situation that wouldnt let any doubt.

Its not that I dont believe in people, but I feel deep man, really deep and it hurts like hell so I automatically try to avoid this feeling of being betrayed.
I know how you feel. when I'm in emotional pain, I'm also in physical pain. I prefer physical pain over emotional pain.

But you can't HIDE yourself forever. You can't Protect your heart forever by keeping it closed. You've got to learn a new way of being. Pretend you are a Sagittarius. Try to be Sagittarius. they are so optimistic, open and adventurous. Just pretend to think like one for a short time. It's helpful.

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If I could turn down my emotions like that and pretend to feel things different...I would have done that a long time before.

Yeah, physical pain doesnt last forever, maybe a scar that will look cool but emotional messes with your mind, with your being, just like me now...One of those broken toys
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And when I said Care deeply--I was talking about how Scorpios only care deeply about the important ppl in their lives. We're not Pisces who care about everyone. We care about specific people. we don't waste our energy on just anybody.
So, I have all of those positive traits but I have the negatives too.

I dont know if life keep pushing me towards my 8th house but everyday I feel like more a Scorpio and less like an Aries.
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I took a look at your chart and it looks like a self fulfilling prophecy.. this fixed belief of yours that sooner or later you'll be betrayed or abandoned.

The Moon is in a sorry state. Bad childhood experiences, that's for sure. Bullying - insecurity and a negative self-image. A controlling, manipulative and authoritative mother - emotional and sexual repression. Adoption, parental death or divorce - abandonment issues. All of this could lead to unhealthy and destructive behavioural patterns that could very well influence negatively your physical health.

You're prone to depression, if you don't like to go around sharing the details of your personal life as a therapeutic release then you better learn how to find and heal all those blockages inside you because they're limiting your creativity. You can benefit from using alternative techniques like meditation.

Your energies are intense and need to be channeled appropriately to not become detrimental to you and others. Because there's an inner need to nurture, activities involving children or the elderly could be good for you. Physical therapy or rehabilitation could also be good occupations. Any emotional involvement will unnecessarily complicate your goals and only cause suffering.

The Nodal axis only reinforces the path you've choose, you want to be of service to the public because the South Node in Cancer implies selfishness and immaturity, someone who needs to learn how to care for others and develop nurturing qualities. Someone who also needs to let go of the past and stop craving what he didn't have in his childhood. Once you finally become an adult (North Node in Capricorn), you will be truly responsible and be able to form a healthy relationship.
" Any emotional involvement will unnecessarily complicate your goals and only cause suffering. " I didnt understand this.

Thanks for the deep reading, normally people are too lazy to give a detailed analysis.

My parents are divorced, I had a difficult childhood as you've said but about my mother its totally wrong, actually she was always the one who was there for me, I wouldnt say the same for my father.

I like to do social work but I can`t see myself doing this for a living. I like money, I like the idea of driving a nice car, having a nice house, wearing good clothes, expensive vacations and etc...

I thought that a Capricorn 8th House NN was about getting adult but trusting people, have deep relationships, marrying and etc. My 8th house is in a good condition, at least I believe so. Most of the things in my life related to my 8th house brings me joy, happiness, discovery, fullfillment and etc.

My moon (emotions) has challenged me my whole life, its like a big rollercoaster of emotions but my Moon trine Mars (my essence) so I guess its kind of give me the energy to keep moving foward and to fight against my demons.

Thanks again, really appreciated your answer.

You have a fixed t-square (or an out-of-sign Grand Cross), which mean your beliefs has become ingrained and you're called to surrender your will to keep making progress, this is why fixed patterns are said to be the most difficult. Too keep doing what you're doing in your relationships is stagnating to the spirit and is not helping your purpose, you're pretty much beating a dead horse in that area of your life.

That's right, the nodes are found in the 2nd house and 8th house. You like money and you enjoy physical pleasures. This is another battle of this challenging setup. The 8th house wants you to ultimately help others to find their resources and self-worth so you need to overcome this. You're needy and are inclined to fill your void with material things, finantial prosperity, status... what you may not able to see is that you have greater (spiritual) needs (8th house) that material prosperity is never going to fulfill.

Your soul is asking for a transformation, to kill once and for all this ingrained value system but you keep stalling it because you're stubborn. Your eventual "death" will be testing because we're talking about giving up something that is important to you, this is why discipline is needed.


Thanks again.

I have transformed myself so many times, passed through crysis and get really deep in my 8th house, to the point that I thought i was going too insane.

But one of the symbols of Scorpio(8th house) is power and this kind of make me confuse...How can I fulfil a Soul (North Node) that wants power without trying to control?

To simplify, I was a Taurus in my previous life (South Node) and in this life time I need to become a Scorpio, right?!

So wouldn`t make sense if I embrace my moon in Scorpio traits and let it be?




You're embracing the negative traits of Scorpio.

Stop being stubborn and embrace rebirth/transformation. Become new. Become the Phoenix.

You're just not listening. You're taking what the other user explained and only keeping the parts that suit you so as to remain the same by doing the same things over and over.

You enjoy your misery, don't you?

I used to enjoy misery---now I don't.


What would be the positive traits them?

Like I said, I've transformed myself so many times that a few people from my past think that Im fake or crazy.


Scorpio transforms ALL his life until death.

I'm always changing. I get depressed stagnant if I don't.

Positive traits of Scorpio

Emotional--cares deeply

Trustworthy

Loyal

Will protect other ppls secrets

Changes and grows and gets better and WISER

Knows how to handle power wisely/is not abusive

Smart enough to see what is happening before it happens

Intuitive

Can read people/understands their motives
Maybe you dont believe in me but I have a lot of these traits except for caring deeply, im too selfish for that.
i never said I didn't believe you but you are not open to believing OTHER people can be loyal and trustworthy too. You need to give others a chance.

also, you said you want a Deep connection? how are you not able to care deeply?

You need to learn to care deeply IF you want something deep.


I dont care deeply about people near me, like cousins and people like this but for my lover and family, Im really caring and loving.

I want to believe that people can be loyal and trustworthy but I need a real demonstration of that, a situation that wouldnt let any doubt.

Its not that I dont believe in people, but I feel deep man, really deep and it hurts like hell so I automatically try to avoid this feeling of being betrayed.

I feel that dude! A lot of what you are saying really hits home. You need a watery one for sure.

But about that not caring cause you're too selfish bit, sort of contradicting and you'll have to get over that to find what you desire, or say you desire.

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I choose the wrong words...I care but only for the ones I love.

Cancer? Maybe im with the right girl now...

i just hate her gemini moon...

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:-/

Just be yourself. Your true self in all that you do.

Someday you'll attract someone who loves you for you.

But to look friendly--think about things that make you happy. You'll smile on the inside.

And you don't want to be with the ppl who are disappointed in your expressions.

You want to find people who are not disappointed in you.

Let go of what other people think. You don't need to confirm to their ideals if they don't match yours.

So if someone is disappointed in who you are, then she's not for you. It's that simple


Thanks but its sounds contradictory... Or im my really self with the possessive, scorpio moon traits or I try to change for the "better"

Im feeling lost man, seriously... classical Pisces MC

I have Pisces MC too...but I don't feel lost 😛

You're just thinking too much I say!!


Im afraid that you are right, Im really spending too much time thinking, maybe im getting paranoid
Let it all go n dance with the flow...... !!! What's the point anyway?
I just can't...I only lost my control and danced with the flow when I was heavy on weed...seriously, I became careless and was kind of happy



Ok...so what exactly is bothering you? Just not having a woman in your life or anything else too??




Im trying to figure out if there is some girl who would be happy with me and not care about my control issues. If there is, astrologically speaking, I would pay more attention on girls who look like these or try to identify them, If not I will continue my lonely life as a player while im young and then...



Look...you, me n everyone is gonna die...with or without having someone in our lives.Did you try basing your whole life around this another person? Don't you have anything else to look forward to?I never had this so called man saviour in my life. I didn't feel like I was losing out on something...ever. I have many other things to be bothered about. N nah I'm not in denial coz this is by choice. I don't worry about dying alone. I just love myself n respect life so much n I'm not even a feminist or a narcissist.I'm never bored. I can be a total loner or be completely out there.I don't need something/someone else to keep me engaged in life.Just try enjoying everything around you.Why worry about some woman who may or may not come?


Actually, im not worried, I don`t care about being alone because i've been like this my whole life but sometimes I wonder why cant I be a normal person just like everybody else, don`t care about if the person is trustful or not, I have a lot of interests...Im doing good in my professional life, got a bachelor degree, go to the gym, party, meet people, go to places and etc...but I still feel like something is missing...

Im dating this girl right now, she is a Cancer sun/ Gemini moon/ Pisces rising...I kind of really like her but sometimes she is too superficial, naive, talk too much, only care about her and demand too much attention...This is the main reason I've asked what would be the perfect match for me.

You need someone who is naturally altruistic. You seem like you are turned off by someone being ugly on the inside.


Actually, its not sooo important. Nobody is only good or bad in the inside but I want someone who would have a deep connection with me, feeling like that person is with me for life, no matter what, this would make me secure and less possessive.
I see maybe try an isfj personality. I know you're into astrology but isfjs are the most reliable loyal ppl. I feel really safe and trust them the most and I don't trust anyone lol
What placements in Astrology would indicate a ISFJ? Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces?



They are really soothing ppl to me. Very transparent and no false pretenses


I like them too but I find Cancer to be unbelieveable selfish, Pisces daydream too much and Scorpio isnt that trustful. I had more than one sample of these signs



True I find cancers combative and almost fiery and Pisces soothe me. I love them and other scorpios ew I think they are usually weird and basically I was saying it might be more helpful to base your search on Myers Briggs instead of astrology kind of what worked for me. Maybe you should try Like a libra sun and Pisces moon they are cool ppl


Thanks for the tip. I will ask this girl to take a personality test.

I had a Libra GF, she was great but too superficial for me, i dont know her moon but I guess a Pisces moon would provide some depth.

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Libra w Pisces is really deep I think u would like them
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I took a look at your chart and it looks like a self fulfilling prophecy.. this fixed belief of yours that sooner or later you'll be betrayed or abandoned.

The Moon is in a sorry state. Bad childhood experiences, that's for sure. Bullying - insecurity and a negative self-image. A controlling, manipulative and authoritative mother - emotional and sexual repression. Adoption, parental death or divorce - abandonment issues. All of this could lead to unhealthy and destructive behavioural patterns that could very well influence negatively your physical health.

You're prone to depression, if you don't like to go around sharing the details of your personal life as a therapeutic release then you better learn how to find and heal all those blockages inside you because they're limiting your creativity. You can benefit from using alternative techniques like meditation.

Your energies are intense and need to be channeled appropriately to not become detrimental to you and others. Because there's an inner need to nurture, activities involving children or the elderly could be good for you. Physical therapy or rehabilitation could also be good occupations. Any emotional involvement will unnecessarily complicate your goals and only cause suffering.

The Nodal axis only reinforces the path you've choose, you want to be of service to the public because the South Node in Cancer implies selfishness and immaturity, someone who needs to learn how to care for others and develop nurturing qualities. Someone who also needs to let go of the past and stop craving what he didn't have in his childhood. Once you finally become an adult (North Node in Capricorn), you will be truly responsible and be able to form a healthy relationship.
" Any emotional involvement will unnecessarily complicate your goals and only cause suffering. " I didnt understand this.

Thanks for the deep reading, normally people are too lazy to give a detailed analysis.

My parents are divorced, I had a difficult childhood as you've said but about my mother its totally wrong, actually she was always the one who was there for me, I wouldnt say the same for my father.

I like to do social work but I can`t see myself doing this for a living. I like money, I like the idea of driving a nice car, having a nice house, wearing good clothes, expensive vacations and etc...

I thought that a Capricorn 8th House NN was about getting adult but trusting people, have deep relationships, marrying and etc. My 8th house is in a good condition, at least I believe so. Most of the things in my life related to my 8th house brings me joy, happiness, discovery, fullfillment and etc.

My moon (emotions) has challenged me my whole life, its like a big rollercoaster of emotions but my Moon trine Mars (my essence) so I guess its kind of give me the energy to keep moving foward and to fight against my demons.

Thanks again, really appreciated your answer.

You have a fixed t-square (or an out-of-sign Grand Cross), which mean your beliefs has become ingrained and you're called to surrender your will to keep making progress, this is why fixed patterns are said to be the most difficult. Too keep doing what you're doing in your relationships is stagnating to the spirit and is not helping your purpose, you're pretty much beating a dead horse in that area of your life.

That's right, the nodes are found in the 2nd house and 8th house. You like money and you enjoy physical pleasures. This is another battle of this challenging setup. The 8th house wants you to ultimately help others to find their resources and self-worth so you need to overcome this. You're needy and are inclined to fill your void with material things, finantial prosperity, status... what you may not able to see is that you have greater (spiritual) needs (8th house) that material prosperity is never going to fulfill.

Your soul is asking for a transformation, to kill once and for all this ingrained value system but you keep stalling it because you're stubborn. Your eventual "death" will be testing because we're talking about giving up something that is important to you, this is why discipline is needed.


Thanks again.

I have transformed myself so many times, passed through crysis and get really deep in my 8th house, to the point that I thought i was going too insane.

But one of the symbols of Scorpio(8th house) is power and this kind of make me confuse...How can I fulfil a Soul (North Node) that wants power without trying to control?

To simplify, I was a Taurus in my previous life (South Node) and in this life time I need to become a Scorpio, right?!

So wouldn`t make sense if I embrace my moon in Scorpio traits and let it be?




You're embracing the negative traits of Scorpio.

Stop being stubborn and embrace rebirth/transformation. Become new. Become the Phoenix.

You're just not listening. You're taking what the other user explained and only keeping the parts that suit you so as to remain the same by doing the same things over and over.

You enjoy your misery, don't you?

I used to enjoy misery---now I don't.


What would be the positive traits them?

Like I said, I've transformed myself so many times that a few people from my past think that Im fake or crazy.


Scorpio transforms ALL his life until death.

I'm always changing. I get depressed stagnant if I don't.

Positive traits of Scorpio

Emotional--cares deeply

Trustworthy

Loyal

Will protect other ppls secrets

Changes and grows and gets better and WISER

Knows how to handle power wisely/is not abusive

Smart enough to see what is happening before it happens

Intuitive

Can read people/understands their motives
Maybe you dont believe in me but I have a lot of these traits except for caring deeply, im too selfish for that.
i never said I didn't believe you but you are not open to believing OTHER people can be loyal and trustworthy too. You need to give others a chance.

also, you said you want a Deep connection? how are you not able to care deeply?

You need to learn to care deeply IF you want something deep.


I dont care deeply about people near me, like cousins and people like this but for my lover and family, Im really caring and loving.

I want to believe that people can be loyal and trustworthy but I need a real demonstration of that, a situation that wouldnt let any doubt.

Its not that I dont believe in people, but I feel deep man, really deep and it hurts like hell so I automatically try to avoid this feeling of being betrayed.

I feel that dude! A lot of what you are saying really hits home. You need a watery one for sure.

But about that not caring cause you're too selfish bit, sort of contradicting and you'll have to get over that to find what you desire, or say you desire.


I choose the wrong words...I care but only for the ones I love.

Cancer? Maybe im with the right girl now...

i just hate her gemini moon...


Surprisingly enough, my best relationship was with a Gemini Moon! I am however a Gem Sun.

A Sun sign can't tell you if you are with the right person, a chart can't even, it's a feeling. You know.
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Take a look at this thread, Do I look like a person who would know?

And its almost impossible to find someone who would be totally perfect. I hate her moon traits but I love a lot of things about her...
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And when I said Care deeply--I was talking about how Scorpios only care deeply about the important ppl in their lives. We're not Pisces who care about everyone. We care about specific people. we don't waste our energy on just anybody.
So, I have all of those positive traits but I have the negatives too.

I dont know if life keep pushing me towards my 8th house but everyday I feel like more a Scorpio and less like an Aries.
I think it's more like your Aries and Scorpio energies combine. You seem quite Aries though. Mars in first house etc. and Mars rules both aries and scorpio.
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I like this combo but its sad, challenging and...lonely.
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And when I said Care deeply--I was talking about how Scorpios only care deeply about the important ppl in their lives. We're not Pisces who care about everyone. We care about specific people. we don't waste our energy on just anybody.
So, I have all of those positive traits but I have the negatives too.

I dont know if life keep pushing me towards my 8th house but everyday I feel like more a Scorpio and less like an Aries.
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You say you've transformed many times, but I don't think you understand fully how transformation works.

It's a process that happens over a course of a lifetime and is mostly subconscious. If you're noticing it, then you're barely transforming lmao. The process is very subtle and takes a long time.

Instead of looking for perfection outside of yourself, you should be looking for a balance within yourself. Once you have that, you can start looking for a complement, not perfection. You tweak your expectations according to the reality that you find yourself in, so that it fits everyone's agenda, NOT ONLY YOURS.

The negative traits of your Scorpio bits are calling the shots now and causing you a lot of grief - you need to learn to tame and/or dispel those traits, otherwise you will constantly be held at its mercy like a slave. People around you will barely see the positive traits, and even your optimistic Aries sun traits will be overwhelmed. THAT is why you feel more Scorpio than Aries everyday that passes.

Whining on dxp about your "burning intensity" and how people are scared of/intimidated by you is going to do zilch for you, as long as you continue to embrace the negativity, and stubbornly so.

You create threads to ask questions, but don't seem open to suggestions at all. I don't know why you even bother, if you're not interested in the suggestions you receive.

Also, your 12th house placements are whacked and out of control!
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I took a look at your chart and it looks like a self fulfilling prophecy.. this fixed belief of yours that sooner or later you'll be betrayed or abandoned.

The Moon is in a sorry state. Bad childhood experiences, that's for sure. Bullying - insecurity and a negative self-image. A controlling, manipulative and authoritative mother - emotional and sexual repression. Adoption, parental death or divorce - abandonment issues. All of this could lead to unhealthy and destructive behavioural patterns that could very well influence negatively your physical health.

You're prone to depression, if you don't like to go around sharing the details of your personal life as a therapeutic release then you better learn how to find and heal all those blockages inside you because they're limiting your creativity. You can benefit from using alternative techniques like meditation.

Your energies are intense and need to be channeled appropriately to not become detrimental to you and others. Because there's an inner need to nurture, activities involving children or the elderly could be good for you. Physical therapy or rehabilitation could also be good occupations. Any emotional involvement will unnecessarily complicate your goals and only cause suffering.

The Nodal axis only reinforces the path you've choose, you want to be of service to the public because the South Node in Cancer implies selfishness and immaturity, someone who needs to learn how to care for others and develop nurturing qualities. Someone who also needs to let go of the past and stop craving what he didn't have in his childhood. Once you finally become an adult (North Node in Capricorn), you will be truly responsible and be able to form a healthy relationship.
" Any emotional involvement will unnecessarily complicate your goals and only cause suffering. " I didnt understand this.

Thanks for the deep reading, normally people are too lazy to give a detailed analysis.

My parents are divorced, I had a difficult childhood as you've said but about my mother its totally wrong, actually she was always the one who was there for me, I wouldnt say the same for my father.

I like to do social work but I can`t see myself doing this for a living. I like money, I like the idea of driving a nice car, having a nice house, wearing good clothes, expensive vacations and etc...

I thought that a Capricorn 8th House NN was about getting adult but trusting people, have deep relationships, marrying and etc. My 8th house is in a good condition, at least I believe so. Most of the things in my life related to my 8th house brings me joy, happiness, discovery, fullfillment and etc.

My moon (emotions) has challenged me my whole life, its like a big rollercoaster of emotions but my Moon trine Mars (my essence) so I guess its kind of give me the energy to keep moving foward and to fight against my demons.

Thanks again, really appreciated your answer.

You have a fixed t-square (or an out-of-sign Grand Cross), which mean your beliefs has become ingrained and you're called to surrender your will to keep making progress, this is why fixed patterns are said to be the most difficult. Too keep doing what you're doing in your relationships is stagnating to the spirit and is not helping your purpose, you're pretty much beating a dead horse in that area of your life.

That's right, the nodes are found in the 2nd house and 8th house. You like money and you enjoy physical pleasures. This is another battle of this challenging setup. The 8th house wants you to ultimately help others to find their resources and self-worth so you need to overcome this. You're needy and are inclined to fill your void with material things, finantial prosperity, status... what you may not able to see is that you have greater (spiritual) needs (8th house) that material prosperity is never going to fulfill.

Your soul is asking for a transformation, to kill once and for all this ingrained value system but you keep stalling it because you're stubborn. Your eventual "death" will be testing because we're talking about giving up something that is important to you, this is why discipline is needed.


Thanks again.

I have transformed myself so many times, passed through crysis and get really deep in my 8th house, to the point that I thought i was going too insane.

But one of the symbols of Scorpio(8th house) is power and this kind of make me confuse...How can I fulfil a Soul (North Node) that wants power without trying to control?

To simplify, I was a Taurus in my previous life (South Node) and in this life time I need to become a Scorpio, right?!

So wouldn`t make sense if I embrace my moon in Scorpio traits and let it be?




You're embracing the negative traits of Scorpio.

Stop being stubborn and embrace rebirth/transformation. Become new. Become the Phoenix.

You're just not listening. You're taking what the other user explained and only keeping the parts that suit you so as to remain the same by doing the same things over and over.

You enjoy your misery, don't you?

I used to enjoy misery---now I don't.


What would be the positive traits them?

Like I said, I've transformed myself so many times that a few people from my past think that Im fake or crazy.


Scorpio transforms ALL his life until death.

I'm always changing. I get depressed stagnant if I don't.

Positive traits of Scorpio

Emotional--cares deeply

Trustworthy

Loyal

Will protect other ppls secrets

Changes and grows and gets better and WISER

Knows how to handle power wisely/is not abusive

Smart enough to see what is happening before it happens

Intuitive

Can read people/understands their motives
Maybe you dont believe in me but I have a lot of these traits except for caring deeply, im too selfish for that.
i never said I didn't believe you but you are not open to believing OTHER people can be loyal and trustworthy too. You need to give others a chance.

also, you said you want a Deep connection? how are you not able to care deeply?

You need to learn to care deeply IF you want something deep.


I dont care deeply about people near me, like cousins and people like this but for my lover and family, Im really caring and loving.

I want to believe that people can be loyal and trustworthy but I need a real demonstration of that, a situation that wouldnt let any doubt.

Its not that I dont believe in people, but I feel deep man, really deep and it hurts like hell so I automatically try to avoid this feeling of being betrayed.

I feel that dude! A lot of what you are saying really hits home. You need a watery one for sure.

But about that not caring cause you're too selfish bit, sort of contradicting and you'll have to get over that to find what you desire, or say you desire.


I choose the wrong words...I care but only for the ones I love.

Cancer? Maybe im with the right girl now...

i just hate her gemini moon...


Surprisingly enough, my best relationship was with a Gemini Moon! I am however a Gem Sun.

A Sun sign can't tell you if you are with the right person, a chart can't even, it's a feeling. You know.
Take a look at this thread, Do I look like a person who would know?

And its almost impossible to find someone who would be totally perfect. I hate her moon traits but I love a lot of things about her...


Haha. No one is perfect, there are just people who get you easier than others and vice versa. People whose weird mojo clicks with your weird mojo. nawhaimsayin? lol

There will be pros and cons with everyone, even the near perfect ones. It's all about how you feel, and if you don't know, that just means that you haven't gotten in touch with yourself on a deep enough level yet. The Gemini moon can be fickle and although they can stick it through, a paranoid Scorp moon like ourselves will or could have that fear of their flight. Everyone is different though and relates to their placements in their own way.

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Are we really paranoid or can we see what others cant?

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And when I said Care deeply--I was talking about how Scorpios only care deeply about the important ppl in their lives. We're not Pisces who care about everyone. We care about specific people. we don't waste our energy on just anybody.
So, I have all of those positive traits but I have the negatives too.

I dont know if life keep pushing me towards my 8th house but everyday I feel like more a Scorpio and less like an Aries.
I think it's more like your Aries and Scorpio energies combine. You seem quite Aries though. Mars in first house etc. and Mars rules both aries and scorpio.
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It's his Scorpio bits overtaking the Aries bits. Doesn't help that his sun and Venus are in a mutable water house too.

I've been in a similar situation more than a decade ago.
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And when I said Care deeply--I was talking about how Scorpios only care deeply about the important ppl in their lives. We're not Pisces who care about everyone. We care about specific people. we don't waste our energy on just anybody.
So, I have all of those positive traits but I have the negatives too.

I dont know if life keep pushing me towards my 8th house but everyday I feel like more a Scorpio and less like an Aries.
You say you've transformed many times, but I don't think you understand fully how transformation works.

It's a process that happens over a course of a lifetime and is mostly subconscious. If you're noticing it, then you're barely transforming lmao. The process is very subtle and takes a long time.

Instead of looking for perfection outside of yourself, you should be looking for a balance within yourself. Once you have that, you can start looking for a complement, not perfection. You tweak your expectations according to the reality that you find yourself in, so that it fits everyone's agenda, NOT ONLY YOURS.

The negative traits of your Scorpio bits are calling the shots now and causing you a lot of grief - you need to learn to tame and/or dispel those traits, otherwise you will constantly be held at its mercy like a slave. People around you will barely see the positive traits, and even your optimistic Aries sun traits will be overwhelmed. THAT is why you feel more Scorpio than Aries everyday that passes.

Whining on dxp about your "burning intensity" and how people are scared of/intimidated by you is going to do zilch for you, as long as you continue to embrace the negativity, and stubbornly so.

You create threads to ask questions, but don't seem open to suggestions at all. I don't know why you even bother, if you're not interested in the suggestions you receive.

Also, your 12th house placements are whacked and out of control!
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Good insight !!!

I didnt perceive the transformations, i guess you are wrong. When I look back, I see the transformations, I see who I was and who I became, how my mind changed, my emotions, my acts and etc but not in the moment, nobody can do that, it would be insanity.

Im open to everyone suggestions, seriously, maybe I don`t have the words to show my appreciation for everyone that spend a little of their time on this thread to give me some light, including you. English is not my main language so I try to stick to the words that I know and try to be objective.

I only have Venus in my 12th house, I read that it makes me feel unloved and I've always felt like that even by my family.

The bad side of Scorpio is on the spotlight because im passing through a messed phase of my life.

Im not this bad all the time.

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And when I said Care deeply--I was talking about how Scorpios only care deeply about the important ppl in their lives. We're not Pisces who care about everyone. We care about specific people. we don't waste our energy on just anybody.
So, I have all of those positive traits but I have the negatives too.

I dont know if life keep pushing me towards my 8th house but everyday I feel like more a Scorpio and less like an Aries.
I think it's more like your Aries and Scorpio energies combine. You seem quite Aries though. Mars in first house etc. and Mars rules both aries and scorpio.
It's his Scorpio bits overtaking the Aries bits. Doesn't help that his sun and Venus are in a mutable water house too.

I've been in a similar situation more than a decade ago.

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And when I said Care deeply--I was talking about how Scorpios only care deeply about the important ppl in their lives. We're not Pisces who care about everyone. We care about specific people. we don't waste our energy on just anybody.
So, I have all of those positive traits but I have the negatives too.

I dont know if life keep pushing me towards my 8th house but everyday I feel like more a Scorpio and less like an Aries.
I think it's more like your Aries and Scorpio energies combine. You seem quite Aries though. Mars in first house etc. and Mars rules both aries and scorpio.
It's his Scorpio bits overtaking the Aries bits. Doesn't help that his sun and Venus are in a mutable water house too.

I've been in a similar situation more than a decade ago.


He's not understanding that OTHER people actually understand what he's feeling.

His sun is in the 11th house. He'll correct you in a minute, I'm sure. =/
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And when I said Care deeply--I was talking about how Scorpios only care deeply about the important ppl in their lives. We're not Pisces who care about everyone. We care about specific people. we don't waste our energy on just anybody.
So, I have all of those positive traits but I have the negatives too.

I dont know if life keep pushing me towards my 8th house but everyday I feel like more a Scorpio and less like an Aries.
I think it's more like your Aries and Scorpio energies combine. You seem quite Aries though. Mars in first house etc. and Mars rules both aries and scorpio.
I like this combo but its sad, challenging and...lonely.


You irritate me sometimes. You make it sound like NO ONE on EARTH understands you.

I have these energies too. So does Ram

Stop being stuck and grow, move forward, expand, become new, get out of your head, pretend you are not you--you are someone else
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Its not only about the energies, didnt you see how challenged my moon is by bad aspects?

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@raad182 - I don't know man.. I mean, yes we are definitely really paranoid.. Lol

But as far as seeing what others don't.. likely spawns from our high suspicion. For myself at least, I feel many things, gut feelings, intuition if you will, but now it's gotten to the point I don't know if it can be trusted due to how suspicious and paranoid I just naturally am.. It's getting harder to decipher between the two.
Yeahhh

Sometimes I proved myself to be wrong about my intuition that I felt like I was the paranoid crazy one.

But other times, my intuition saved me.

Its hard to know when we are crossing the sanity line
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OK I couldn't read all the replies and post to this thread.. cause it is fecking long.

Did raad182 tell his placements?

I just came to ask that.

LOL
OK. I think you should try dating a Gemini girl with a cancer moon or taurus moon

Or maybe an aquarius... with the same moon placements. tell me how it goes.
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Im dating a Cancer sun, Gemini moon
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OK I couldn't read all the replies and post to this thread.. cause it is fecking long.

Did raad182 tell his placements?

I just came to ask that.

LOL
OK. I think you should try dating a Gemini girl with a cancer moon or taurus moon

Or maybe an aquarius... with the same moon placements. tell me how it goes.
Im dating a Cancer sun, Gemini moon
Oh and try a virgo moon too

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I dislike earth but who knows...im running out hope
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And when I said Care deeply--I was talking about how Scorpios only care deeply about the important ppl in their lives. We're not Pisces who care about everyone. We care about specific people. we don't waste our energy on just anybody.
So, I have all of those positive traits but I have the negatives too.

I dont know if life keep pushing me towards my 8th house but everyday I feel like more a Scorpio and less like an Aries.
I think it's more like your Aries and Scorpio energies combine. You seem quite Aries though. Mars in first house etc. and Mars rules both aries and scorpio.
It's his Scorpio bits overtaking the Aries bits. Doesn't help that his sun and Venus are in a mutable water house too.

I've been in a similar situation more than a decade ago.


He's not understanding that OTHER people actually understand what he's feeling.

His sun is in the 11th house. He'll correct you in a minute, I'm sure. =/
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LOL, so is my sun and Venus.

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OK I couldn't read all the replies and post to this thread.. cause it is fecking long.

Did raad182 tell his placements?

I just came to ask that.

LOL
OK. I think you should try dating a Gemini girl with a cancer moon or taurus moon

Or maybe an aquarius... with the same moon placements. tell me how it goes.
Im dating a Cancer sun, Gemini moon
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Not all Gemini moons are superficial. That depends on the house.

I believe we have one Scorpio moon on dxp who has been married to a Gemini moon for more than a decade, and another Scorpio moon who has been dating a Gemini moon for a few years now.

@Hare

@cheekyfaerie

Inconjunct moons mean nada if you want a relationship to work.
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OK I couldn't read all the replies and post to this thread.. cause it is fecking long.

Did raad182 tell his placements?

I just came to ask that.

LOL
OK. I think you should try dating a Gemini girl with a cancer moon or taurus moon

Or maybe an aquarius... with the same moon placements. tell me how it goes.
Im dating a Cancer sun, Gemini moon
Not all Gemini moons are superficial. That depends on the house.

I believe we have one Scorpio moon on dxp who has been married to a Gemini moon for more than a decade, and another Scorpio moon who has been dating a Gemini moon for a few years now.

@Hare

@cheekyfaerie

Inconjunct moons mean nada if you want a relationship to work.
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Her moon is at home - 3rd house

Superficial af
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Posted by Astrology101
OK I couldn't read all the replies and post to this thread.. cause it is fecking long.

Did raad182 tell his placements?

I just came to ask that.

LOL
OK. I think you should try dating a Gemini girl with a cancer moon or taurus moon

Or maybe an aquarius... with the same moon placements. tell me how it goes.
Im dating a Cancer sun, Gemini moon
Not all Gemini moons are superficial. That depends on the house.

I believe we have one Scorpio moon on dxp who has been married to a Gemini moon for more than a decade, and another Scorpio moon who has been dating a Gemini moon for a few years now.

@Hare

@cheekyfaerie

Inconjunct moons mean nada if you want a relationship to work.


Her moon is at home - 3rd house

Superficial af
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But are you happy and contented with her?

If you are not, then I rest my case.
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Posted by raad182
Posted by Astrology101
OK I couldn't read all the replies and post to this thread.. cause it is fecking long.

Did raad182 tell his placements?

I just came to ask that.

LOL
OK. I think you should try dating a Gemini girl with a cancer moon or taurus moon

Or maybe an aquarius... with the same moon placements. tell me how it goes.
Im dating a Cancer sun, Gemini moon
Not all Gemini moons are superficial. That depends on the house.

I believe we have one Scorpio moon on dxp who has been married to a Gemini moon for more than a decade, and another Scorpio moon who has been dating a Gemini moon for a few years now.

@Hare

@cheekyfaerie

Inconjunct moons mean nada if you want a relationship to work.


Her moon is at home - 3rd house

Superficial af
But are you happy and contented with her?

If you are not, then I rest my case.
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Lets say...yes if I have patience enough to keep talking about superficialities, it could work
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What sun/moon women?

I was dating a Cancer sun Gemini moon but she was too superficial for me and was always complaining about my possessive behavior.

I had a GF who was a Libra (idk her moon) she didn`t care about my possessiveness but I hated her need to be social and popular.

i've seen so many times that scorpio moon takes over the sun, even if it's a fire signs.

capricorn then. with capricorn or cancer moon or taurus.

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Thanks but maybe a Cancer moon is too moody

I've made that Pulen chart and it was like

12% Scorpio

12% Aries

12% Aqua

11% Cap