What's your opinion on this? And would or would u not?
When a guy asks to borrow money
Depends on the context.
If he's just some dude I'm seeing, than hell no. I'm no ones meal ticket.
If he's my man and comes to me for help, well I'd have to decide based on the circumstance.
Also if you loan someone money it's an effective way to find out if they are gonna pay you back or if they are just out to use you.
But, no. Typically I'm not one to bring the exchange of money into my relationships. It cheapens everything.
If he's just some dude I'm seeing, than hell no. I'm no ones meal ticket.
If he's my man and comes to me for help, well I'd have to decide based on the circumstance.
Also if you loan someone money it's an effective way to find out if they are gonna pay you back or if they are just out to use you.
But, no. Typically I'm not one to bring the exchange of money into my relationships. It cheapens everything.
Depends how long you have known the person and whether or not you trust them enough to pay you back.
Yeah, I've given money. I didn't expect it back so no problem.
He was a good friend at the time, and needed some help. And no, I didn't get the money back.
He was a good friend at the time, and needed some help. And no, I didn't get the money back.
Posted by missroseProbably not. Reason being, I struggle enough to make rent, pay of cc, and save for a retirement... It's survival for me. If he wants.dinner that's different.
What's your opinion on this? And would or would u not?
If the person was reliable with paying me back, then I would be okay with that. Doesn't really matter if they're a guy or a girl. Right now the leo owes me quite a bit and you better believe I'm keeping track.
It's all about trust for me.
It's all about trust for me.
Depends on how much I know that person and what amount they're asking.
If its a small amount.. I give away.
if it's a big amount.. I will give only if I know him well.
If its a small amount.. I give away.
if it's a big amount.. I will give only if I know him well.
Sounds like a low life likes he's using u men should have their own money
What if it was a girl that you know needed money what would you do@Op?
Sure loan him the money. It's your choice. Be sure to set a payment plan. Also make him think you're in the loan shark business. Start wearing Italian suits and carry a bat.
Posted by missroseif he asks money from you, then he knows you got ALOT and is generous and don't mind.
What's your opinion on this? And would or would u not?
I mean, why else??
Posted by Arielle83love it!!
No one gets my money.
I'll pretend I'm broke just so no one asks me.
However I paid off my car in one year.
Yet I use coupons.
No one knows im sitting on a pot of gold.
we knew this gal, she's a pisces sun/scorpio moon. and she is from a very very wealthy family. I mean mansion worthy with indoor pool wealthy.
and she used to tell everyone she's broke. and she NEVER invited anyone to her home.
so when we saw it, we were like, ohhhh ....if she told and everyone knew.
jealousy, and people asking for money would be evident. true story. and great strategy for her.
the one that brags they have money usually don't. Not always, but most of the time it is, weird how that is with people.
rich people know how the rest of the world thinks of them so they keep quiet.
Posted by Arielle83Imma start acting broke as hell too girl...leave me alone
No one gets my money.
I'll pretend I'm broke just so no one asks me.
However I paid off my car in one year.
Yet I use coupons.
No one knows im sitting on a pot of gold.
Posted by lovely77lol well if you're actualy truly broke. no one's the wiser. and no one will ever ask you to borrow.Posted by Arielle83Imma start acting broke as hell too girl...leave me alone
No one gets my money.
I'll pretend I'm broke just so no one asks me.
However I paid off my car in one year.
Yet I use coupons.
No one knows im sitting on a pot of gold.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83How u pay your car off in a year i want to buy new car but dont want to waste money like that unless i can pay off in year or 2
I've invested since age 10.
I'm good.
Cancers and security is a real thing. I learned young.
Posted by lisabethur8Ppl stay asking me for money i actually do have it. I wish they didnt. They know i have it. Please dont ask me i work hardPosted by lovely77lol well if you're actualy truly broke. no one's the wiser. and no one will ever ask you to borrow.Posted by Arielle83Imma start acting broke as hell too girl...leave me alone
No one gets my money.
I'll pretend I'm broke just so no one asks me.
However I paid off my car in one year.
Yet I use coupons.
No one knows im sitting on a pot of gold.click to expand
Posted by missroseNope
What's your opinion on this? And would or would u not?
I dont do broke dudes
Posted by DMVlol you so remind me of Nicki Minaj. especially in this film. "with this booty and this hair," she never gets denied! ๐Posted by missroseNope
What's your opinion on this? And would or would u not?
I dont do broke dudesclick to expand
Posted by PrincessLouisePosted by lovely77Buy me a coke? :-PPosted by lisabethur8Ppl stay asking me for money i actually do have it. I wish they didnt. They know i have it. Please dont ask me i work hardPosted by lovely77lol well if you're actualy truly broke. no one's the wiser. and no one will ever ask you to borrow.Posted by Arielle83Imma start acting broke as hell too girl...leave me alone
No one gets my money.
I'll pretend I'm broke just so no one asks me.
However I paid off my car in one year.
Yet I use coupons.
No one knows im sitting on a pot of gold.click to expand
รฐลธยคโ i can do that
Posted by Arielle83Dxp does now
No one gets my money.
I'll pretend I'm broke just so no one asks me.
However I paid off my car in one year.
Yet I use coupons.
No one knows im sitting on a pot of gold.
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by DMVlol you so remind me of Nicki Minaj. especially in this film. "with this booty and this hair," she never gets denied! ๐Posted by missroseNope
What's your opinion on this? And would or would u not?
I dont do broke dudes
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I aint gone lie a broke dude i wouldnt do either if i dated men. But i would havw his back if he lost his job etc balance but no he needs to have money
Posted by Sssupeswatch all the PM's to Arielle's inbox flood.Posted by Arielle83Dxp does now
No one gets my money.
I'll pretend I'm broke just so no one asks me.
However I paid off my car in one year.
Yet I use coupons.
No one knows im sitting on a pot of gold.click to expand
No need to ask for money when you can be a gigolรยฒ.
Posted by AriesLovenot that easy.Posted by lisabethur8But who lives in disguise for other people?!? Pretends they're broke so others won't ask. Just say NO!Posted by Arielle83love it!!
No one gets my money.
I'll pretend I'm broke just so no one asks me.
However I paid off my car in one year.
Yet I use coupons.
No one knows im sitting on a pot of gold.
we knew this gal, she's a pisces sun/scorpio moon. and she is from a very very wealthy family. I mean mansion worthy with indoor pool wealthy.
and she used to tell everyone she's broke. and she NEVER invited anyone to her home.
so when we saw it, we were like, ohhhh ....if she told and everyone knew.
jealousy, and people asking for money would be evident. true story. and great strategy for her.
the one that brags they have money usually don't. Not always, but most of the time it is, weird how that is with people.
rich people know how the rest of the world thinks of them so they keep quiet.
It's not bragging or boasting. It's buying the things you like and can afford AND enjoying them, whether people get jealous or not. That's life.
I'm not living under a rug. If you are rich just associate with RICH people then you won't have that problem.click to expand
rich people are snobs.
Posted by AriesLovePosted by lisabethur8They mind their business and don't ask for money.Posted by AriesLovenot that easy.Posted by lisabethur8But who lives in disguise for other people?!? Pretends they're broke so others won't ask. Just say NO!Posted by Arielle83love it!!
No one gets my money.
I'll pretend I'm broke just so no one asks me.
However I paid off my car in one year.
Yet I use coupons.
No one knows im sitting on a pot of gold.
we knew this gal, she's a pisces sun/scorpio moon. and she is from a very very wealthy family. I mean mansion worthy with indoor pool wealthy.
and she used to tell everyone she's broke. and she NEVER invited anyone to her home.
so when we saw it, we were like, ohhhh ....if she told and everyone knew.
jealousy, and people asking for money would be evident. true story. and great strategy for her.
the one that brags they have money usually don't. Not always, but most of the time it is, weird how that is with people.
rich people know how the rest of the world thinks of them so they keep quiet.
It's not bragging or boasting. It's buying the things you like and can afford AND enjoying them, whether people get jealous or not. That's life.
I'm not living under a rug. If you are rich just associate with RICH people then you won't have that problem.
rich people are snobs.click to expand
lol that's true.
but in her case, being as Piscean, they love to hang out with the rest of humanity. not just snobby people. so it's hard, really hard. it's probably a curse.
Posted by Arielle83Thats dope growing ur own vegatable is the best i cant trust grocery store foodPosted by lovely77Just worked a lot and banked it all...pulled extra hours...Posted by Arielle83How u pay your car off in a year i want to buy new car but dont want to waste money like that unless i can pay off in year or 2
I've invested since age 10.
I'm good.
Cancers and security is a real thing. I learned young.
If i go out, my drinks are free because i bartend on wkds...so saving $ , i barely buy clothes, i have my own vegetable garden so saving there...i cook all the time and barely eat out...
I'm just thrifty and a homebody so its easy...plus i have a lot of savings, but i mainly used my wage...
we also get cheap groceries because my husband's family owns market gardens
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Posted by missroseThe Aries guy that I know on campus needed to borrow money. I lent it to him and he paid me back, no biggie. I typically feel it's best to avoid awkward situations my not lending friends money, but he needed help, and that was more important to me than my concern about awkwardness. I thought it was important for the both of us that he pay me back, so I resisted the urge to brush it off and not hold him to paying me back. I didn't need to remind him, and he returned the money a couple of weeks later.
What's your opinion on this? And would or would u not?
As for my boyfriend, he spends money on me and I on him. If we are out and I need something like shower gel or lady products, he'll get them for me. He always wants to get me what I want, and I want to contribute, too, so it just works. I bought him tickets to Captain Amercia: Civil Wat, and he spoiled me with the junk food I wanted. Sometimes I'll pay for something that he feels he should pay for, and he'll tell me he'll get the money back to me. I always dismiss that because he'll end up spending money on food for us, or getting me that sweet I wanted or paying for an event, so I feel it all balances out in the end anyway. I'm an Aries, and I love food, but I don't ask for much else. ๐ #EasilyPleasedRam
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