Are relationships always toxic in at least one way for women

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by Listenlearnteach on Sunday, May 8, 2016 and has 25 replies.

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Posted by Mohini
Why would a relationship be toxic for a woman? Can you give examples?

More so a man needs a woman. Does a woman really need a man?

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...neither. Both can survive alone. The life they live will be limited only by the choices they make and the actions they preform in the world at large. No one HAS to be involved romantically with anyone. However, since it's a desire a large number of people have, quite a few would say it either wouldn't be possible or they hate to live that way.

Furthermore, relationships with the same-gender are no conflict free or safe from toxicity, romance-wise, friendship-wise, co-working-wise, etc. Hell, tons people have stories about being done wrong by someone of the same gender.

In short, no. So long as you meet your own needs, you don't really need someone in a romantic context. However, I'd advise against going hermit, since total isolation from society would have consequences.

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Posted by SirHorns

Posted by Listenlearnteach

Posted by Mohini
Why would a relationship be toxic for a woman? Can you give examples?

More so a man needs a woman. Does a woman really need a man?

...neither. Both can survive alone. The life they live will be limited only by the choices they make and the actions they preform in the world at large. No one HAS to be involved romantically with anyone. However, since it's a desire a large number of people have, quite a few would say it either wouldn't be possible or they hate to live that way.

Furthermore, relationships with the same-gender are no conflict free or safe from toxicity, romance-wise, friendship-wise, co-working-wise, etc. Hell, tons people have stories about being done wrong by someone of the same gender.

In short, no. So long as you meet your own needs, you don't really need someone in a romantic context. However, I'd advise against going hermit, since total isolation from society would have consequences.

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@Op- it is going to be okay you know. Alot of people are doubled up in planet, you have stay true and tried. Have to 3xperience many times what good people have in their souls. And even bad things in their soul. Got to stick to the task at hand and never give up. But then you'll know if the issues is changeable.if not then you have to take time and space and evaluate your own.

We sometimes woman stress out easily or become intense and got to figure a way to be cool, calm, and collected as much as possible. So when problems hit it is clear judgment and proper discussions. Good luck

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@Op- it is going to be okay you know. Alot of people are doubled up in planet, you have stay true and tried. Have to 3xperience many times what good people have in their souls. And even bad things in their soul. Got to stick to the task at hand and never give up. But then you'll know if the issues is changeable.if not then you have to take time and space and evaluate your own.

We sometimes woman stress out easily or become intense and got to figure a way to be cool, calm, and collected as much as possible. So when problems hit it is clear judgment and proper discussions. Good luck

Yeah I'm cool but thanks

I used to agree with your perspective here.

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If this is the question: Are relationships always toxic in at least one way for women, and not a rhetorical stretch toward something else, the answer is no it is not always toxic.

You are responsible for your happiness and no one else, and we should all be able to achieve our own happy when we are in a relationship, out of relationships, with friends, by ourselves, as our happiness is not dependent on other people.

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Posted by Gennie
If this is the question: Are relationships always toxic in at least one way for women, and not a rhetorical stretch toward something else, the answer is no it is not always toxic.

You are responsible for your happiness and no one else, and we should all be able to achieve our own happy when we are in a relationship, out of relationships, with friends, by ourselves, as our happiness is not dependent on other people.

Not in any 1 way?

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Posted by Gennie
If this is the question: Are relationships always toxic in at least one way for women, and not a rhetorical stretch toward something else, the answer is no it is not always toxic.

You are responsible for your happiness and no one else, and we should all be able to achieve our own happy when we are in a relationship, out of relationships, with friends, by ourselves, as our happiness is not dependent on other people.

Not in any 1 way?

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I agree with your second paragraph except for the in a romantic relationship aspect.

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It depends on the woman.

Some woman can have/be in a relationship without any form of toxicity from ones partner?

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Different women, different tolerances.

What may be toxic to one woman may not be toxic to another.

How a woman gets affected by toxicity varies from woman to woman.

How she reacts and deals with toxicity varies from woman to woman.

A woman herself is responsible for guarding or dealing with toxicity.

(assuming that toxic does not include physical violence)

Can some woman not have any toxicity in relationship - sure. But how can we say. Some women themselves make it toxic or see toxicity where there isn't any. Again different levels if tolerance. Not saying that highly tolerant do not have toxicity. Well....that is life. There is positive and negative in everything.

Nothing toxic. We make toxic.

It depends on woman, finally.

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Posted by Listenlearnteach
So toxicity is always going to be present?

What do you meam by "Nothing toxic. We make toxic"?

There is positive and negative in everything. In relationships too.

If we choose to see negative things as toxic - it is toxic... Otherwise, it's all just natural.. normal 🙂

If we do not look at things as toxic, can deal with issues and try to solve them.... Nothing is toxic. It's how we look at things, deal with things, how we allow things to get us.

Sorry, if I'm not being clear with my poor english