Why don't you text back?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by taurusgirl9000 on Thursday, April 19, 2018 and has 9 replies.

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@taurusgirl9000
9 Years

A week ago I had a great first date with this guy.

He was an Aqua but had a Scorpio moon, and I have an Aqua moon, etc. so there was a lot of attraction between us based on placements.

We both said we wanted to see each other again. There was no sex or kiss, it was very pleasant and traditional in that sense, which I liked.

I texted him the next day with a suggestion for a plan, and he did reply, but not until like 12 hours later. I thought it was odd because until now we had been texting every day and I assumed that was his normal "texting behavior": to text back relatively quickly. Even when he was busy, he would mention how busy he was but always text me back...

Then nothing more, so a few days later, I texted him again just saying if he was having a busy week, we could try for another day. He didn't read the text for two days and then didn't reply.

The day we were supposed to do something (two days later), he still hadn't replied.

So I sent him a "thanks for everything, no explanation needed, take care" type of text assuming he wasn't interested anymore because my Venus in Aries can't handle non-communication and flakiness. I am understanding that you're busy, but come on.

I always text back, even if it's to tell the guy I'm not interested in a second date, because I'm direct and upfront.

Whaddaboutyou?

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9 Years

Posted by pinkbird03
It’s the easy way out. I think that’s why most guys do it.

Yeah, I mean I guess it’s confusing for the ghostee, but luckily it’s also a huge turn-off, so easy to move on from it🤗

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