Attraction question

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Fluffystuff on Monday, April 16, 2018 and has 15 replies.

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@Fluffystuff
9 Years

Would a Libra Sun ever be able to over look the fact someone is overweight in being attracted to someone?

Other placements : Scorpio Moon, Libra Venus, Sag mars

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@WildatHeart
8 Years

My Libra ex was an equal opportunity lover. Unfortunately that meant he was sleeping with everyone in the neighborhood while I was at work...but he certainly didn't discriminate based on age, weight or race.

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@Fleshpot
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Sure, but only if they're healthy.

If they are overweight as a result of an inactive/sedentary life style or a series of unhealthy choices, AND have zero intention of changing, then we would ultimately be incompatible for anything long-term.

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@euphony
8 Years

Depends on that person’s life style . The sit on the couch all day, every day watching TV, only idea of fun is to go out and eat type person, I can’t.

If that’s not you, I don’t care.

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@GOATAction
8 Years500+ Posts

I don't think this bothers most Libras, or at least the ones I've dated. Honestly, the ones I've dated had more weight around themselves, but carried it great (and I love curves and more cushon for the pushin anyway). But I did notice that all of them followed and liked all the guys pics on IG with like 2% body fat lol smh.

That perfection of beauty that a Libra has I guess haha.

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@fishcrabscale2
8 Years500+ Posts

A little overweight is ok, but big beer belly = no. Must show that he takes care of himself. For a person that we allow in our life, the standard must be higher, no?

*cough* it sounds too much, but if i evaluate this person for relationship, i evaluate the inner + outside including teeth, skin, even nails 😶

Dont we all do this?

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@pisceswoman123
9 Years10,000+ Posts

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This one in particular is not overweight.

In that case chances might be low. click to expand

I kinda have to agree on this. I don't know about other libras but overweight turns me off. I'm just not attracted to it. There are other physical parts that people find unattractive that I can be attracted to if I like him. If he is super skinny, crooked teeth etc. click to expand

On a second thought maybe I will become attracted to it once I turn into a little fatty myself. 😂😂😂

I'm starting to gain weight so who knows lol. click to expand

Sure but not as long as the Libra is still in shape in my experience.

If both are equal it wouldn't be much of a problem. click to expand

It's just with weight that I have this problem. Someone that's a bit on the short side or men that other women might find unattractive I can still find them attractive if I'm in love with them. My attraction towards someone works in mysterious ways. 😁 click to expand

I wouldn't consider this to be mysterious. Sounds pretty normal to me. click to expand

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I agree

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@librasuncapmoon
8 Years

I'll be honest. Both of my exes were not the best looking. One was overweight. If I am into someone, I am into what's on their mind and heart. They bring something unique to the table that my life did not have before they stepped in it. If your Libra is a half decent person, then that should not be an issue.

However, I am a Venus in Virgo, so this might be why.

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@librasuncapmoon
8 Years

Posted by sweethearts
A mature libra can and will because they’ve kissed many toads. Young ones... maybe not

Agreed!!!!!! If I am just looking for something casual, I will pick the most attractive guy in the room who also shines and shows he is the best of the best. In terms of a serious relationship, however, I will go for the one who best suits me and who best shows potential to be a partner for life.