why i do not have anyone? HOW TO CHANGE THAT :) PLS ANSWER

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Hello,

basing on my chart can anyone pls tell me why i can not find anyone?

Or even, why i do not date 😉

I am abroad now, my country is Poland. Noone of my male friends write with me.

Its always been me who inniciates.

Maybe there is something in my chart that tells sth more that i know.

Some polish astrological forums told me I would have someone when I will be 27 or 28.. That before I have been too immature to create the relationship or even I have been too impatient. Like I would scare the guy.

I am aries born 21.03.1990 in Lodz.

My last relation with a man was 2 years ago.

Since then I always fail, I am nice, I usually talk to people but I think ALL MEN friendzone me.

Some of you people told me in a previous reading that it is maybe because I am too deep, rational, real.

But maybe I am just ugly or I have a bad immature personality.

What the starts say? What my birth chart say?

The more older I get i see that inside i am immature just with a cover of a different body. There are of course guys , men that are attracted to me but its of course neverending cycle that I must also like or be attracted to someone that is attracted to me.

But i know dating world is more simple.

But even my male friends never wanted to date me 😉

Becayse even if I am aries i have a lot of water placements and i am chill, relaxed and silent, dreamy sometimes.

And a lot of males are attracted to noisy party girls that I am not... I have always been overwhelmed by noisy girls and it was them who always were getting guys not me- even when at 1st a guy liked me... 😉

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Thank you for the answer.

really looking forward to it 😉
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Posted by tcta
you are a dreamy island where you take good care of yourself because you are smart but are surrounded by water

you will have to wait until someone lands on your shores that is suitable - never-mind the noisy girls and the worthless boys

you need a man
who is compatibile with me?

fire signs?

what sign?

i am very stubborn as well ,

i dont know.

i am dreamy but on the other hand very fiery
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Posted by tcta
you are a dreamy island where you take good care of yourself because you are smart but are surrounded by water

you will have to wait until someone lands on your shores that is suitable - never-mind the noisy girls and the worthless boys

you need a man
who is compatibile with me?

fire signs?

what sign?

i am very stubborn as well ,

i dont know.

i am dreamy but on the other hand very fiery

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hmmmm - several signs are compatible but you can't base on signs alone - a real man who is as independent as you and is attracted to a woman who is not dependent

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Posted by tcta
you are a dreamy island where you take good care of yourself because you are smart but are surrounded by water

you will have to wait until someone lands on your shores that is suitable - never-mind the noisy girls and the worthless boys

you need a man
who is compatibile with me?

fire signs?

what sign?

i am very stubborn as well ,

i dont know.

i am dreamy but on the other hand very fiery


hmmmm - several signs are compatible but you can't base on signs alone - a real man who is as independent as you and is attracted to a woman who is not dependent

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Is this man MAYBE an object to focus on—? He is my friend

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Posted by tcta
you are a dreamy island where you take good care of yourself because you are smart but are surrounded by water

you will have to wait until someone lands on your shores that is suitable - never-mind the noisy girls and the worthless boys

you need a man
who is compatibile with me?

fire signs?

what sign?

i am very stubborn as well ,

i dont know.

i am dreamy but on the other hand very fiery


hmmmm - several signs are compatible but you can't base on signs alone - a real man who is as independent as you and is attracted to a woman who is not dependent



Is this man MAYBE an object to focus on—? He is my friend

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@bricklemark might be better at reading this chart - I am not ...

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Posted by tcta
Posted by joanne_p
Posted by tcta
you are a dreamy island where you take good care of yourself because you are smart but are surrounded by water

you will have to wait until someone lands on your shores that is suitable - never-mind the noisy girls and the worthless boys

you need a man
who is compatibile with me?

fire signs?

what sign?

i am very stubborn as well ,

i dont know.

i am dreamy but on the other hand very fiery


hmmmm - several signs are compatible but you can't base on signs alone - a real man who is as independent as you and is attracted to a woman who is not dependent



Is this man MAYBE an object to focus on—? He is my friend

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@bricklemark might be better at reading this chart - I am not ...

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are you sure?

someone else as well?

idk 😢
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Since you're from my old country, I'll help you.

The answer to your problems is in your first post. You are lacking confidence and positive believe. It's also possible your heart is closed by pain. You may not know. In life you kind of GET what you PUT out. If I warm up my heart (I have a Leo's heart) I can attract any woman I want. Mostly strong once. If I get angry I attract tons of women as well (hormones). They are the weak once. When I'm in the middle I get nothing.

So the fact you are running low on men for 2 years made you assume in your subconsciousness that it's not going to work out. That you will not be able to get THAT guy. You worry in your head. Men just like Women, feel that. I think it's the basic law of attraction. Once a guy thinks the girl is too good for him, it's over. He will never get her. Once he assumes, fuck it, she is not that great, that girl will be on her knees in front of him. Minds communicate. That's why it's easier for older men to have pretty girls. They just don't care as much anymore.

The Key to you is to change your believe system. Think positive that you can have any men you want for months. Eventually that will become reality. In the spiritual world there is no TIME or LOCATION. Your thoughts become reality. Hence when you're depressed nothing good happens. When you're happy life is easy. Force yourself to be happy for a month and eventually it will become the real YOU. Don't look for men. Let them look for you. When you find one, assume in your head he is already yours. Try it.

2 years is not bad. It's been 2 years for me since the Big Breakup and I still can't commit to a woman. I get numbers, dates, etc, but the pain is still big enough, and I play safe until I can commit fully.

One more thing, last I checked Aries woman seduces you, you don't seduce her.

Powodzenia.
ive never been a girl who is surrounded by man.

maybe because of studes and environment?

all of the men i know were usually interested in a cliche typeof a eastern european girl when i was a teenager - not me.

i stayed serious, focused on my career.

right now i feel and look a way better

but i see men are already engaged or are on their party path , recovering from long past relationships for 2-3 years and only around 30 they will want to setlle and find 10 years younger woman.

i am completly lost.

i need to move to other country where there is much more opportuunities.

in my city everyone almost know each other, everyone troed each other.

so weird.

i didnt know the 'popular' company because i had my own other friends.

since 2 years after the break up with a popular virgo man from that company my life is changed.

since 6 months when i am abroad i am myself,, i stopped comparing to others and i wo my own thing.

i do not wait for anyone.

but i am afraid to come back and again search for new opportunities.

im am so sorry but polish men are lazy.

all of my male friends picked shy girls who then they changed for queens.

usually they always percived me as a man because i was strong, independent and men/guys wanted to protect innocent girls. and i was strong...

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for example i can not stand rude jokes about sex or sth.

a lot of my female friends are very 'hard' like men, they are not subtle, delicate.

they drink like men, smoke like men, they are not feminine when you look at them- only when they are with the one person they open. and boys prefer to approach and spent time with girl liek that because it will not be a failure to dissmiss them. they will not cry.

i am natural and real everywhere everytime, i express emotions which is bad. those people think i am weak.

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for example i can not stand rude jokes about sex or sth.

a lot of my female friends are very 'hard' like men, they are not subtle, delicate.

they drink like men, smoke like men, they are not feminine when you look at them- only when they are with the one person they open. and boys prefer to approach and spent time with girl liek that because it will not be a failure to dissmiss them. they will not cry.

i am natural and real everywhere everytime, i express emotions which is bad. those people think i am weak.




You are coming from a place of ego.

It's a yearning that can't be fulfilled.

Ever.

Sometimes expressing emotions is not what it seems.

It seems that you grew up strict and have not had the time to find out what you like..

Only what you hate.

We do attract our innermost thoughts.

It sucks but it's true.

Or it can be beautiful cuz it's true.







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hmm i must not agree.

i just dont drink as much, dont party like other my friends and i was always failing in the company.

i have never been noisy and party person and they started not to invite me anymore.

i grew up in a good way. never had problems since 2-3 years when i started questioning my life. maybe its because of an environment that i have been into.

party people with light drugs and drinking beer like tea.

maybe that is why.

i have always question why men in my aga are not interested in me.

usually people under 40 or younger than me.

because i didnt and i do not have a drama- like period of my life , heartbreaks and so one.

no idea. my best friend seduced my ex virgo man. he was like a doll. she didnt want anything from him and then he wanted to gave back to me.

is that normal? no.

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Posted by bumboklatt
They told you you will find someone when you're 28 because your Saturn and moon are in Capricorn

Saturn return occurs around 28 years old, it indicates a new level of maturity

You initiate everything because you are an Aries with Mars and Venus Aqua, so overall very masculine in your thought process

Most men are scared of women who have more control because men like to have control

I know it sounds like most men are wussies but it's true especially these days

So relax and keep initiating, one day you will find a man who will like your outgoing personality
i ma interested in that Leo man

is it worth pursuing the friendship or i will have an emotional breakdown because he only sees me as a friend?

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yes i go out when i want i meet new people, but usually i prefer to meet new people at work and then create personal connections.

like at hs or university.



i have only a few friends from parties at clubs that remained in my company because i usually do not feel comfortable meeting people at a party and then develop some connections.

i mean not a bbq or a grill party or a house party- that is ok.

i am saying club party, a lot of women perceive as meat, a lot of hungry guys
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Posted by joanne_p
maybe its about only close environment that i have been to.

maybe
About you, your chart says this:

- very assertive vs very emotional;

- desire for intimacy vs desire for freedom;

- friendly and warm vs cold body language;

- self-absorbed vs people-oriented;

- very blunt vs very subtle;

- mature outlook on life vs strong inner child;

- wanting attention vs not liking attention;

- inviting vs intimidating;

- driven vs lazy;

- physical restrictions vs lack of mental boundaries;

- stubborn vs open-minded;

- desire to fit in vs desire to not conform;

- sharing vs privacy.

How can you be someone and then simultaneously her very same opposite confuse those who cannot accept Janusian thinking as a way of thinking and processing information.
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Posted by Palerio
Posted by joanne_p
maybe its about only close environment that i have been to.

maybe
About you, your chart says this:

- very assertive vs very emotional;

- desire for intimacy vs desire for freedom;

- friendly and warm vs cold body language;

- self-absorbed vs people-oriented;

- very blunt vs very subtle;

- mature outlook on life vs strong inner child;

- wanting attention vs not liking attention;

- inviting vs intimidating;

- driven vs lazy;

- physical restrictions vs lack of mental boundaries;

- stubborn vs open-minded;

- desire to fit in vs desire to not conform;

- sharing vs privacy.

How can you be someone and then simultaneously her very same opposite confuse those who cannot accept Janusian thinking as a way of thinking.
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good list.
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Posted by Palerio
Posted by joanne_p
maybe its about only close environment that i have been to.

maybe
About you, your chart says this:

- very assertive vs very emotional;

- desire for intimacy vs desire for freedom;

- friendly and warm vs cold body language;

- self-absorbed vs people-oriented;

- very blunt vs very subtle;

- mature outlook on life vs strong inner child;

- wanting attention vs not liking attention;

- inviting vs intimidating;

- driven vs lazy;

- physical restrictions vs lack of mental boundaries;

- stubborn vs open-minded;

- desire to fit in vs desire to not conform;

- sharing vs privacy.

How can you be someone and then simultaneously her very same opposite confuse those who cannot accept Janusian thinking as a way of thinking.
good list.
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I know that chart very well, it's easy for me to emphatise.
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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Palerio
Posted by joanne_p
maybe its about only close environment that i have been to.

maybe
About you, your chart says this:

- very assertive vs very emotional;

- desire for intimacy vs desire for freedom;

- friendly and warm vs cold body language;

- self-absorbed vs people-oriented;

- very blunt vs very subtle;

- mature outlook on life vs strong inner child;

- wanting attention vs not liking attention;

- inviting vs intimidating;

- driven vs lazy;

- physical restrictions vs lack of mental boundaries;

- stubborn vs open-minded;

- desire to fit in vs desire to not conform;

- sharing vs privacy.

How can you be someone and then simultaneously her very same opposite confuse those who cannot accept Janusian thinking as a way of thinking.
good list.
I know that chart very well, it's easy for me to emphatise.
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is that your chart? or someone you know?



so that's why....she has problems getting a man? or getting men's attention?
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Posted by Palerio
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Palerio
Posted by joanne_p
maybe its about only close environment that i have been to.

maybe

Its my chart 🙂

About you, your chart says this:

- very assertive vs very emotional;

- desire for intimacy vs desire for freedom;

- friendly and warm vs cold body language;

- self-absorbed vs people-oriented;

- very blunt vs very subtle;

- mature outlook on life vs strong inner child;

- wanting attention vs not liking attention;

- inviting vs intimidating;

- driven vs lazy;

- physical restrictions vs lack of mental boundaries;

- stubborn vs open-minded;

- desire to fit in vs desire to not conform;

- sharing vs privacy.

How can you be someone and then simultaneously her very same opposite confuse those who cannot accept Janusian thinking as a way of thinking.
good list.
I know that chart very well, it's easy for me to emphatise.
is that your chart? or someone you know?



so that's why....she has problems getting a man? or getting men's attention?
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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Palerio
Posted by joanne_p
maybe its about only close environment that i have been to.

maybe
About you, your chart says this:

- very assertive vs very emotional;

- desire for intimacy vs desire for freedom;

- friendly and warm vs cold body language;

- self-absorbed vs people-oriented;

- very blunt vs very subtle;

- mature outlook on life vs strong inner child;

- wanting attention vs not liking attention;

- inviting vs intimidating;

- driven vs lazy;

- physical restrictions vs lack of mental boundaries;

- stubborn vs open-minded;

- desire to fit in vs desire to not conform;

- sharing vs privacy.

How can you be someone and then simultaneously her very same opposite confuse those who cannot accept Janusian thinking as a way of thinking.
good list.
I know that chart very well, it's easy for me to emphatise.
click to expand


How do u know that chart from——?
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Posted by Palerio
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Palerio
Posted by joanne_p
maybe its about only close environment that i have been to.

maybe
About you, your chart says this:

- very assertive vs very emotional;

- desire for intimacy vs desire for freedom;

- friendly and warm vs cold body language;

- self-absorbed vs people-oriented;

- very blunt vs very subtle;

- mature outlook on life vs strong inner child;

- wanting attention vs not liking attention;

- inviting vs intimidating;

- driven vs lazy;

- physical restrictions vs lack of mental boundaries;

- stubborn vs open-minded;

- desire to fit in vs desire to not conform;

- sharing vs privacy.

How can you be someone and then simultaneously her very same opposite confuse those who cannot accept Janusian thinking as a way of thinking.
good list.
I know that chart very well, it's easy for me to emphatise.
is that your chart? or someone you know?



so that's why....she has problems getting a man? or getting men's attention?
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I didn't want to say it; but yes it's my chart sans basically the sun and moon... 😄

I would expect her to struggle getting men more than getting attention from them; especially from peer, because it’s normally not a cakewalk, for a woman of her age, to find men in their mid to late twenties who are fully confident with themselves and ready to accept her for who she is.

For instance, if we had to make a survey, asking a 100 men to read that list of contradictory traits, probably around 90% of them, considering the stage of life they’re in, would rather not date her. But that’s not because (after reading it) they would think she’s uninteresting, quite the opposite, but it’s because they would think all those traits in the same person are “too much, too early”. Significant conflict is perceived and yet they don’t have the confidence nor the mental elasticity to embark on such journey with her.

Not yet.



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maybe its about only close environment that i have been to.

maybe
About you, your chart says this:

- very assertive vs very emotional;

- desire for intimacy vs desire for freedom;

- friendly and warm vs cold body language;

- self-absorbed vs people-oriented;

- very blunt vs very subtle;

- mature outlook on life vs strong inner child;

- wanting attention vs not liking attention;

- inviting vs intimidating;

- driven vs lazy;

- physical restrictions vs lack of mental boundaries;

- stubborn vs open-minded;

- desire to fit in vs desire to not conform;

- sharing vs privacy.

How can you be someone and then simultaneously her very same opposite confuse those who cannot accept Janusian thinking as a way of thinking.
good list.
I know that chart very well, it's easy for me to emphatise.

How do u know that chart from——?

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Do you relate?
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Posted by joanne_p
Posted by Palerio
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Palerio
Posted by joanne_p
maybe its about only close environment that i have been to.

maybe
About you, your chart says this:

- very assertive vs very emotional;

- desire for intimacy vs desire for freedom;

- friendly and warm vs cold body language;

- self-absorbed vs people-oriented;

- very blunt vs very subtle;

- mature outlook on life vs strong inner child;

- wanting attention vs not liking attention;

- inviting vs intimidating;

- driven vs lazy;

- physical restrictions vs lack of mental boundaries;

- stubborn vs open-minded;

- desire to fit in vs desire to not conform;

- sharing vs privacy.

How can you be someone and then simultaneously her very same opposite confuse those who cannot accept Janusian thinking as a way of thinking.
good list.
I know that chart very well, it's easy for me to emphatise.

How do u know that chart from——?


Do you relate?
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yes i do relate 😢
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its the cap moon, imo.

thing is, even though you're real to yourself and you are warm and accepting of others behaviours you may be indifferent too.

see, we cap moons are alright with other people different natures but we dont spend our time thinking of why they're acting the way they do, because its for them to know and we dont care. what we see is what we get. so we expect the same and here were we fail.

even tho we realize people are different we expect them to view us the same way we view our selves and approach us the same way we expect them to.

It's never about changing who you are but the way you look at things and about having a broad open mind.

don't be fake/loud whatever that you're not, be who you are but make sure you're understood.

because most times even the ones you're interested in/close to, see you as indifferent because you're not showing that you care/interested and probably because you treat everyone the same or it seem like it.

it takes 2 people for communication to be A+, you need to discriminate, not everyone is alike to you. make sure the ones who are close to you know their worth.

that what helped me at least.
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its the cap moon, imo.

thing is, even though you're real to yourself and you are warm and accepting of others behaviours you may be indifferent too.

see, we cap moons are alright with other people different natures but we dont spend our time thinking of why they're acting the way they do, because its for them to know and we dont care. what we see is what we get. so we expect the same and here were we fail.

even tho we realize people are different we expect them to view us the same way we view our selves and approach us the same way we expect them to.

It's never about changing who you are but the way you look at things and about having a broad open mind.

don't be fake/loud whatever that you're not, be who you are but make sure you're understood.

because most times even the ones you're interested in/close to, see you as indifferent because you're not showing that you care/interested and probably because you treat everyone the same or it seem like it.

it takes 2 people for communication to be A+, you need to discriminate, not everyone is alike to you. make sure the ones who are close to you know their worth.

that what helped me at least.
i just sometimes think that people do not like me.

even thought on the other hand i have tons of friends and people supporting me.

uts a weird mix like i would have 2 personalisties .

i have realised that about 10-5 years ago and started analysing
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Posted by startwars
its the cap moon, imo.

thing is, even though you're real to yourself and you are warm and accepting of others behaviours you may be indifferent too.

see, we cap moons are alright with other people different natures but we dont spend our time thinking of why they're acting the way they do, because its for them to know and we dont care. what we see is what we get. so we expect the same and here were we fail.

even tho we realize people are different we expect them to view us the same way we view our selves and approach us the same way we expect them to.

It's never about changing who you are but the way you look at things and about having a broad open mind.

don't be fake/loud whatever that you're not, be who you are but make sure you're understood.

because most times even the ones you're interested in/close to, see you as indifferent because you're not showing that you care/interested and probably because you treat everyone the same or it seem like it.

it takes 2 people for communication to be A+, you need to discriminate, not everyone is alike to you. make sure the ones who are close to you know their worth.

that what helped me at least.
i just sometimes think that people do not like me.

even thought on the other hand i have tons of friends and people supporting me.

uts a weird mix like i would have 2 personalisties .

i have realised that about 10-5 years ago and started analysing
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you should really watch Lada astrology videos on masculine energes in women.

they are more like men she says, in that they NEED achievement to feel good. like a man.

i know that sounds bad, but it isn't.

and more feminine energy is receptive to their man's needs...

which is very true.
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You "just" need to figure out what's the most feminine way to express your "masculine" traits.
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i know but how?

what if i usually play a friend role and when it comes to dating and everything its liek 50-50 when it comes to writing and iniciating.

i must make a friendship before dating or sth else.

i do not realize but mayeb i have been fdating a ot in my life but i just didnt knwo that it was a 'date'

i perceived everyone as friends.



and about those videos- yes i know her

she is very ;strong'
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You "just" need to figure out what's the most feminine way to express your "masculine" traits.
LADA astrology here, she's all masculine but she doesn't mind..

i believe she's an Aries sun with Aquarius venus too. and the rest of her is masculine.

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I can see that in her. She's got that assertive way of speaking, which however is not domineering and ultimately makes her, to me, very feminine and sexy in terms of vibe. But with that said (I don't much about her story) I'm quite sure, when younger, she went through a phase where she was perceived as too masculine. It's not much about the looks or being too competitive by nature - from my point of view it's perfectly reasonable for today's women to be that way - but conversely is about being able to express such qualities in a feminine way.

It is the way it is, straight guys are turned off by women who behave too similarly to them. If you're going to dinner and the impression is that you're talking with a dude that it's just not fun.

I also believe another great example, obviously of the opposite scenario, was Heat Ledger, who in addition to his extremely masculine sun and rising in Aries, he also had a Pisces stellium (mercury, venus, mars in 12th) with moon and Jupiter both in Cancer. Saturn was Virgo.

By pretty much all his partners he has been described as an extremely complex man. For instance, here's the words of Michelle Williams about him: "For as long as I'd known him, he had bouts with insomnia. He just had too much energy."His mind was turning, turning, turning - always turning. He had an uncontrollable energy. He buzzed. He would jump out of bed."

"I think that the interesting thing about Heath, which maybe people have only really fully discovered in his death, is how vulnerable he was," the 27-year-old added. "You can pick up on it in his performances, but it's easy to overlook because he was so physical and beautiful and strong and masculine. But there was always that underlying sensitivity.

"That's who he was."



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You "just" need to figure out what's the most feminine way to express your "masculine" traits.
LADA astrology here, she's all masculine but she doesn't mind..

i believe she's an Aries sun with Aquarius venus too. and the rest of her is masculine.


I can see that in her. She's got that assertive way of speaking, which however is not domineering and ultimately makes her, to me, very feminine and sexy in terms of vibe. But with that said (I don't much about her story) I'm quite sure, when younger, she went through a phase where she was perceived as too masculine. It's not much about the looks or being too competitive by nature - from my point of view it's perfectly reasonable for today's women to be that way - but conversely is about being able to express such qualities in a feminine way.

It is the way it is, straight guys are turned off by women who behave too similarly to them. If you're going to dinner and the impression is that you're talking with a dude that it's just not fun.

I also believe another great example, obviously of the opposite scenario, was Heat Ledger, who in addition to his extremely masculine sun and rising in Aries, he also had a Pisces stellium (mercury, venus, mars in 12th) with moon and Jupiter both in Cancer. Saturn was Virgo.

By pretty much all his partners he has been described as an extremely complex man. For instance, here's the words of Michelle Williams about him: "For as long as I'd known him, he had bouts with insomnia. He just had too much energy."His mind was turning, turning, turning - always turning. He had an uncontrollable energy. He buzzed. He would jump out of bed."

"I think that the interesting thing about Heath, which maybe people have only really fully discovered in his death, is how vulnerable he was," the 27-year-old added. "You can pick up on it in his performances, but it's easy to overlook because he was so physical and beautiful and strong and masculine. But there was always that underlying sensitivity.

"That's who he was."



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that's really nice.

he is a man and its expected of him in society, to do those manly masculine things and not be so emotional. if he had acceptance of his sensitive and emotional side, i think, maybe he would be happier. But maybe society pressured him to be more, when he was not. And that might have given him so much anxiety. The anxiety built up when all those around him that loved him just accepted him, but most of all, he has to accept that very part of him.

it looks like Michelle understood his sensitive, sweet side and saw that being in close personal contact.