Why my Scorpio man is so impossible to deal with?

He can be very loving and tender, but sometimes he is ragely jealous and overbearing. I guess it's a Scorpio's trait so be it. But he also flirts with other women from time to time and is beside himself when I express my own jealosy. Isn't it called a hypocrisy? He also is very secretive, this automatically makes me suspicious of him, to which he becomes angry too. His temper is so volatile it gives me a great headache. For example, last week we were out with friends, I bumped into one man and he carelessly told me to watch where I'm going. My tough Scorpio almost ended up being thrown out of the bar for nearly a brawl with that guy. He is protective I get it, but he is pretty aggressive at the same time. Similar situations happen on occasion. He is unpredictable and reckless in his actions and with other people. I wonder if he will settle down some day or other. Otherwise I just don't see a peaceful future with him though I love him very much.

He is a Scorpio Sun/Rising Aries
Moon in Scorpio
Mercury in Sagittarius
Mars in Gemini
Venus in Scorpio
Saturn, Uranus and Neptune in Capricorn
Pluto in Scorpio

P.S. I'm a Cancer woman.

Posted by Everything
If you don't want him I'll be happy to take him 😄

lol

Scorpio sun males are Always in DEMAND when us ladies are into astrology.

😆

it's so cute.

Posted by Everything
And I think his flirting also is because of his mars in gemini. Mars is how men express masculinity. So he'll probably love to flirt and talk and discuss a lot of different things whenever he's flirting.

What's the rest of your chart. Do you have venus in gemini?

oohhh he'd be great for you!! you have a gemini moon. it'd go awesome for his mars in gemini.

and his aries rising goes awesome too for your libra rising for opposite attracts.

tell her to give him to you. 😄 😄

hey she gotta get it while it's hot.

when they're both single....


love is war. It's a battlefield out there.

Pat Benatar, Cap sun/Scorpio moon knew what it means:

Venus in Scorp strikes again. Most people I know with that placement along with other Scorp placements are incredibly intense just as you described.

Posted by Everything
Theres so much warrior and strength in him so you need to counterpart it. You must show that there's resistance and strength in you too. Don't let him do everything and don't ever let him talk like that to you. I mean when he says "watch where you're going". I don't think he's aware of how he's acting. He's just taken by his extreme jealousy in the moment and he simply loves you very much and maybe he's not used to you fighting back. So you need to make him know you're not a dog. He can't talk like that to you. When someone says something like that it makes a person feel horrible. It gives the person feelings of guilt. That's not very romantic or loving. It wasn't your fault. It was the mans. It wasn't even a fault actually. Those things happen all the time in life. He needs to get over himself.


But you've gotta love the way he'd do everything for you 😄 and how he feels you're his and noone even is allowed to come to touch you by mistake. Haha quite fascinating that a person can be that way 😄

No no no! You misunderstood me. It's the man who I bumped into said "watch where you're going". At that my Scorpio man reacted the way I described and almost got into a fight with that man. Believe me I appreciate his protective side, but his way to protect is sometimes very inappropriate. It's me who bumped into that man and my Scorpio boyfriend started to try and make that guy apologize to me very aggressively. Not everyone as weak-minded as my Scorpio probably thinks. That guy could really respond in the similar belligerent way too and there would have been sad consequences. I simply worry for my boyfriend and that someday his temper will lead him in trouble. That's it.

Posted by Everything
How old is he? Like I said I think he'll always be this way. He might get a little little tiny bit cooler with the years. But I don't think he'll be totally different until your both older than at least 40. Everything in his chart tells me he simply is a fighter. I'd think he even loves confrontation. Makes him feel alive.

He is 24 (:

Posted by Everything
And I think his flirting also is because of his mars in gemini. Mars is how men express masculinity. So he'll probably love to flirt and talk and discuss a lot of different things whenever he's flirting.

What's the rest of your chart. Do you have venus in gemini?

I have Moon in Taurus, Venus in Taurus and Mars in Gemini too, can you believe it?

Posted by Arielle83
Wow even on Dxp people trying to steal.

That was sarcasm.

No one forbade people to dream yet, so why not let them (;

Posted by lavalerie

Posted by Arielle83
Wow even on Dxp people trying to steal.

That was sarcasm.

No one forbade people to dream yet, so why not let them (;

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we're just having fun.

i'm already taken, and i'm sure she's just having fun w/you.

take it as a compliment.

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Posted by lavalerie

Posted by Arielle83
Wow even on Dxp people trying to steal.

That was sarcasm.

No one forbade people to dream yet, so why not let them (;

we're just having fun.

i'm already taken, and i'm sure she's just having fun w/you.

take it as a compliment.

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No offence taken actually (:

Posted by Everything

No no no! You misunderstood me. It's the man who I bumped into said "watch where you're going". At that my Scorpio man reacted the way I described and almost got into a fight with that man. Believe me I appreciate his protective side, but his way to protect is sometimes very inappropriate. It's me who bumped into that man and my Scorpio boyfriend started to try and make that guy apologize to me very aggressively. Not everyone as weak-minded as my Scorpio probably thinks. That guy could really respond in the similar belligerent way too and there would have been sad consequences. I simply worry for my boyfriend and that someday his temper will lead him in trouble. That's it.

Ooh okay sorry 🙂 Well, I don't know if it's just me who's a sucker for drama and action but I'd just love it if I was you 😄

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I understand you somehow. Before I met my Scorpio man all I wanted was intense love affair full of drama and fervent moments. I had some kind of deficit of passion. Then I got it all when I met him, I have savoured it all and now I want a little rest from it all to be honest, not the rest from him, but from all that drama and his animalistic jealousy. I feel exhausted sometimes. Even when I try to spend time with my friends he controls it. But for him to spend time with his friends is totally fine, no way you just go and taboo him of doing something. Maybe I just need to throw a jealousy tantrum at him like he always do, maybe he would look at himself then! Of course he would not, what am I talking about. Sigh. I wonder if I'm going to completely lash out at one point or maybe just sit and talk? I can't even imagine if it's of any use. He is too headstrong.
Sorry for my ramblings.

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Posted by lavalerie

Posted by Everything
And I think his flirting also is because of his mars in gemini. Mars is how men express masculinity. So he'll probably love to flirt and talk and discuss a lot of different things whenever he's flirting.

What's the rest of your chart. Do you have venus in gemini?

I have Moon in Taurus, Venus in Taurus and Mars in Gemini too, can you believe it?

Wow both venus and moon in taurus must make you really attracted to him 🙂 Hmm I don't think it's so special that you both have mars in gemini. It would've been more special if you had had venus in gemini since that's how a woman expresses femininity and love etc 🙂 But I guess it is a bit cool that you both have the same dynamics and everything else mars stands for after all. What's really cool is that your moons and venuses compliment eachother 🙂 I don't think you two would be quite okay without each other. Even if you're complaining a bit now. Just appreciate what you have before it's too late 😄

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Like I have a choice! I love him too much to be okay without him, so the appreciating I do! 🙂 Thank you a lot for your help!

lol @ Capricorn ego.

lmao

Boy, you really are clueless about pisceans. It's hilarious.

Well if Arielle stops posting, we'll know the keyboard warrior got her.

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by Damnata
Boy, you really are clueless about pisceans. It's hilarious.

Well if Arielle stops posting, we'll know the keyboard warrior got her.

Or I have a life.
I'm actually laughing because I can't ask a question without being name called. I thought this chick was cool over on the cap board, but now I'm wondering where her animosity comes from.

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Look at the moon and you'll see the change in behavior and consistency. Luckily some Gemini Moons master that..others never do.

Oh my God! I was left with my mouth hanging open when I saw what was going on in my thread! You guys are fun lol

Posted by lavalerie

I simply worry for my boyfriend and that someday his temper will lead him in trouble. That's it.

Well then ... you get what you deserve, since it's you who taught him how to treat you.

You come in here talking shit about him, and how inappropriate some of the things he does is ... and then you make the above declaration. If that were actually "it" .. then you wouldn't have expressed other things about his character with intentions of making him sound unstable.

YOU are the person assigned to direct yourself. You get treated by him exactly as you allow. So, there is no reason to state the things you did ... except for purposes of being bitch, since you later proclaimed that you are merely worried about him getting in trouble. and that is it.


That means, you have no right to say one word in defiance of how he treats you, or how inappropriate you believe he behaves .... but, of course, that concept will likely fly over your head because if you were smart enough to realize it, then this thread wouldn't exist.

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Posted by lavalerie

I simply worry for my boyfriend and that someday his temper will lead him in trouble. That's it.

Well then ... you get what you deserve, since it's you who taught him how to treat you.

You come in here talking shit about him, and how inappropriate some of the things he does is ... and then you make the above declaration. If that were actually "it" .. then you wouldn't have expressed other things about his character with intentions of making him sound unstable.

YOU are the person assigned to direct yourself. You get treated by him exactly as you allow. So, there is no reason to state the things you did ... except for purposes of being bitch, since you later proclaimed that you are merely worried about him getting in trouble. and that is it.


That means, you have no right to say one word in defiance of how he treats you, or how inappropriate you believe he behaves .... but, of course, that concept will likely fly over your head because if you were smart enough to realize it, then this thread wouldn't exist.

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This is an astrology forum, more to that an anonymous astrology forum and I'm free to make threads about anything I want, thank you very much. And I know one thing that will certainly fly over my head - it's your nitwitted comment about how stupid I am and what a bitch I am for making him sound unstable. Applause for your observation.

Posted by Hotbeefy

Posted by lavalerie
He can be very loving and tender, but sometimes he is ragely jealous and overbearing. I guess it's a Scorpio's trait so be it. But he also flirts with other women from time to time and is beside himself when I express my own jealosy. Isn't it called a hypocrisy? He also is very secretive, this automatically makes me suspicious of him, to which he becomes angry too. His temper is so volatile it gives me a great headache. For example, last week we were out with friends, I bumped into one man and he carelessly told me to watch where I'm going. My tough Scorpio almost ended up being thrown out of the bar for nearly a brawl with that guy. He is protective I get it, but he is pretty aggressive at the same time. Similar situations happen on occasion. He is unpredictable and reckless in his actions and with other people. I wonder if he will settle down some day or other. Otherwise I just don't see a peaceful future with him though I love him very much.

He is a Scorpio Sun/Rising Aries
Moon in Scorpio
Mercury in Sagittarius
Mars in Gemini
Venus in Scorpio
Saturn, Uranus and Neptune in Capricorn
Pluto in Scorpio

P.S. I'm a Cancer woman.

He's giving you a taste of medicine to understand his jealousy in what reason you did that made him jealous.

Plus.. how much do you love him? Because those paragraph are mostly negative and few words are loving. Or in other words, I don't see you love him much as he does with you.

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I never flirt with other men like he does with other women. He has a heap of them as his friends. I sometimes talk and hang out with my classmates. He is mad about it. The truth is I'm not even close to be as jealous as he is. I'm quite confident in myself and I believe he is faithful to me, I can feel it. It's only when we go out together he tends to flirt and it irks me. He knows that and like one member said in this thread that this is just the way how he communicates.
Don't doubt the degree of my love for him, don't judge just relying on one post please. I can have concerns like everyone else can.