CANCER MAN AND SEXTING

Do cancer like to talk about sex a lot or it is just my cancer friend?

So, to clarify , yes, we do talk about everything, but most of our conversations is about how he would want to do to me.

He keeps me a little bit confuse, bc he keeps saying he likes me but he doesn't want to hurt me bc he is not ready to have a relationship. He keeps fantasizing about the things he would do to me, but keeps saying we're friends. (which we really are as we are not seeing each other since we stopped dating) but kind of annoys me.

Like do he really wants me or not or is he trying to make me say I just wanna bang and if so, do you guys catch feelings like this? lol Thissss dudes man!

Posted by Onimusha01

Do cancer like to talk about sex a lot or it is just my cancer friend?

So, to clarify , yes, we do talk about everything, but most of our conversations is about how he would want to do to me.

He keeps me a little bit confuse, bc he keeps saying he likes me but he doesn't want to hurt me bc he is not ready to have a relationship. He keeps fantasizing about the things he would do to me, but keeps saying we're friends. (which we really are as we are not seeing each other since we stopped dating) but kind of annoys me.

Like do he really wants me or not or is he trying to make me say I just wanna bang and if so, do you guys catch feelings like this? lol Thissss dudes man!

Not a cancer however I do understand how people speak more freely with each other as they become more comfortable doing so. That falls under cancer's mo for sure.

A serious question. Is there any reason those things he said could all be true at the same time?

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Posted by Onimusha01

Do cancer like to talk about sex a lot or it is just my cancer friend?

So, to clarify , yes, we do talk about everything, but most of our conversations is about how he would want to do to me.

He keeps me a little bit confuse, bc he keeps saying he likes me but he doesn't want to hurt me bc he is not ready to have a relationship. He keeps fantasizing about the things he would do to me, but keeps saying we're friends. (which we really are as we are not seeing each other since we stopped dating) but kind of annoys me.

Like do he really wants me or not or is he trying to make me say I just wanna bang and if so, do you guys catch feelings like this? lol Thissss dudes man!

Not a cancer however I do understand how people speak more freely with each other as they become more comfortable doing so. That falls under cancer's mo for sure.

A serious question. Is there any reason those things he said could all be true at the same time?

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thats why im kinda trying to figure out too. lol..

I know he is hurt and not ready for a relationship. cuz he told me since the first days we met. Which is the reason why he asked me to be friends.

Now, are we real friends, he likes me and is waiting for him to be ready, we just friends, does he likes me... idk... i dont undersand all the sex talk if we just friends. And if you dont want a relationship why do we keep talking.. about sex. just talk...

We dont see each other, he said that the fact that he can talk to me freely made him feel good... We talk and we are very open with each other... but obviously people never said their deeper thoughts or emotions.

he is already clear that Im not doing it if we are not in relationship and he said he completely respect that and understand it. we did intimate one time before when we were dating.. we were both in abstinence for a long time. me bc im single by choice, aka not willing to settle for just anyone. And him bc of a bad break up. so none of us is effin w someone else.

I just never seen someone just feeling satisfied only by sexting. And not really wanting anything else.

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Posted by Onimusha01

Do cancer like to talk about sex a lot or it is just my cancer friend?

So, to clarify , yes, we do talk about everything, but most of our conversations is about how he would want to do to me.

He keeps me a little bit confuse, bc he keeps saying he likes me but he doesn't want to hurt me bc he is not ready to have a relationship. He keeps fantasizing about the things he would do to me, but keeps saying we're friends. (which we really are as we are not seeing each other since we stopped dating) but kind of annoys me.

Like do he really wants me or not or is he trying to make me say I just wanna bang and if so, do you guys catch feelings like this? lol Thissss dudes man!

Not a cancer however I do understand how people speak more freely with each other as they become more comfortable doing so. That falls under cancer's mo for sure.

A serious question. Is there any reason those things he said could all be true at the same time?

thats why im kinda trying to figure out too. lol..

I know he is hurt and not ready for a relationship. cuz he told me since the first days we met. Which is the reason why he asked me to be friends.

Now, are we real friends, he likes me and is waiting for him to be ready, we just friends, does he likes me... idk... i dont undersand all the sex talk if we just friends. And if you dont want a relationship why do we keep talking.. about sex. just talk...

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Think he is tightroping this?

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This is common. He likes your attention. Your texts turn him on. Do you send pictures too? But there’s no chance of a committed relationship. He’s said that pretty clear because he doesn’t want you to get attached to him. There’s also a chance he’s sexting other girls too.

Posted by Arinoaqua

Why are you trying to decipher his intentions when he’s telling you directly?

-not ready to have a relationship

-wants to bang you

Stop feeling flattered by men wanting to bang you. They literally stick their dicks in picnic tables. It doesn’t mean anything deeper than that.

I don't feel flattered and if you read it right, he is just texting, he is not even asking me to go and have sex with him. Do you get it now? its simple talk. like the guy just feels good talking to me about having sex

My question was not if he wants a relationship or if he wants to bang me.... I wanted to know if this was a similar cancer man thing.

Posted by Arinoaqua

Stop feeling flattered by men wanting to bang you. They literally stick their dicks in picnic tables. It doesn’t mean anything deeper than that.

I lol-ed

Posted by GenXgem

Cancer will use good sex to manipulate you emotionally. Be careful how you proceed. If you can handle sex only, ok. But even after good sex he still may not be ready for a relationship. Even after catching feelings he still may not be ready. And it’s entirely possible it’s not even about you. Yeah, it’s annoying but sounds to me like he wants to be sex buddies or whatever that arraignment is called these days, fwb I suppose.

He knows cuz i told him I dont do FWD or f around or without a relationship... He said he understands and respect it , still he enjoys the fact that he can talk about all we could do, even if we dont do it... Sike right ?!

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Why are you trying to decipher his intentions when he’s telling you directly?

-not ready to have a relationship

-wants to bang you

Stop feeling flattered by men wanting to bang you. They literally stick their dicks in picnic tables. It doesn’t mean anything deeper than that.

I don't feel flattered and if you read it right, he is just texting, he is not even asking me to go and have sex with him. Do you get it now? its simple talk. like the guy just feels good talking to me about having sex

My question was not if he wants a relationship or if he wants to bang me.... I wanted to know if this was a similar cancer man thing.

Oh I thought you asked somewhere if they will develop feelings from sex. They do get possessive but doesn’t necessarily mean they’ve fallen in love or have feelings.

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yes, I asked bc Idk, I know some people get attach and catch feelings by having sex (aka me ) reason why I don't do hook ups, fwb with people Im very attracted to... i don't get into that or whatever doesn't seem serious, so I do not get my feet into those waters.... if he wants to be with me he can hit me up when he ready... I have no rush....

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Posted by Onimusha01

We dont see each other, he said that the fact that he can talk to me freely made him feel good... We talk and we are very open with each other... but obviously people never said their deeper thoughts or emotions.

he is already clear that Im not doing it if we are not in relationship and he said he completely respect that and understand it. we did intimate one time before when we were dating.. we were both in abstinence for a long time. me bc im single by choice, aka not willing to settle for just anyone. And him bc of a bad break up. so none of us is effin w someone else.

I just never seen someone just feeling satisfied only by sexting. And not really wanting anything else.

Men and women of other signs try to pull this crap. It's not a Cancer thing. People who's emotionally unavailable do this. Keep you as a "close friend", maybe talk you into an fwb situation and just keep saying things like "I really like you but I really don't want to to hurt you" to make you stay. Convenient for him right?

All the while your gut is telling you this is a bad situation to be in but since he's feeding you crumbs of "what could be" you ignore your intuition. LISTEN TO YOUR GUT, GIRL.

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Nahh! he is not feeding me crumbs of what could be... nor I get excited on uncertain future.... Now, if he was serious, I know what could be... cuz taking away the sexting.... The guy would of make a great husband.

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Why are you trying to decipher his intentions when he’s telling you directly?

-not ready to have a relationship

-wants to bang you

Stop feeling flattered by men wanting to bang you. They literally stick their dicks in picnic tables. It doesn’t mean anything deeper than that.

I don't feel flattered and if you read it right, he is just texting, he is not even asking me to go and have sex with him. Do you get it now? its simple talk. like the guy just feels good talking to me about having sex

My question was not if he wants a relationship or if he wants to bang me.... I wanted to know if this was a similar cancer man thing.

Oh I thought you asked somewhere if they will develop feelings from sex. They do get possessive but doesn’t necessarily mean they’ve fallen in love or have feelings.

yes, I asked bc Idk, I know some people get attach and catch feelings by having sex (aka me ) reason why I don't do hook ups, fwb with people Im very attracted to... i don't get into that or whatever doesn't seem serious, so I do not get my feet into those waters.... if he wants to be with me he can hit me up when he ready... I have no rush....

Sorry if my response was rude. I just get bad vibes that this guy only talks to you about sex because I sense that you really like him. He sounds like a fuckboy

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Yes, I do like the guy a lot... and Noooo, we talk about everything not only sex, we had literally poured our feelings for each other.. he been honest about not wanting to hurt me even before he met me in person. so its not something he just came up with, ... he says he likes me and think about me a lot and he felt things w me he didn't feel in a long time ago so he wants to avoid getting too attach cuz he doesn't want to hurt me in a future by not being 100% the man he knows he can be for me so its best if he don't see me. But that he enjoys that he can talk to me freely without feeling judge and he still likes it even if we don't really do it. soooo maybe he just hand washing his clothes hahahaha.... and i'm his muse. lmao!