2 Virgos 1 Cancer

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Oh shit. So I just found out my arch nemesis is a Virgo!
She's been after this Cancer since high school, but to no avail...
We got into it once years ago when she came over to my place to fight the Cancer's battle (lol he's such a little bitch). Though I didn't beat her ass, I was dearly tempted...

So I saw her last night @ the Crab's man cave... She brought over a bottle of Courvasier (sp?) Courtesy of his/their old job? That bitch was staring me down, almost burned a hole thru me lmao. What a dog. She came marching in all mad when she found out I was napping in his room, so I got out cus she killed my zZz's , they had a little tiff, words were exchanged, dirty looks were given... And she locks herself in the room lol. She didn't wanna leave, so I was like fuck it let's bounce, but my bro convinced me to stay so he and the Crab could take a few more shots, I was pissed and asked the Crab if we should leave cus that bitch was obvs butthurt about something. At this point we were all in the mancave, she was still locked in his room... Then he had the balls to ask if I wanted to sleep in the same bed... I was like fuck no I'm driving home thanks..

Omg... I can already see the drama boiling... She's gunna be over at his house more often now I bet.. Ugh.. she better fall back, that's where we go to chill, relax, and have some stress free times... I don't want the drama.

Should I take her on or not? I really like this guy but not if he's gunna be a minefield ofa mind fuck nor if he's gunna come with drama..

Idk what to do... I just had to let that out I guess...

Crabs, how do I deal with this bs! And how do I know where I stand w/ him?
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Posted by Nemesis
Posted by Peanutbutter
Sweet. He's never liked her like that the 8 or so years they've known one another.
Gawd, wtf is wrong with me hahaha.




does that make sense? maybe i misunderstood something in the equation; but if he NEVER liked her, how does she get into this menage a trois? what is she doing coming to his house with a bottle of alcohol?


there must have been something between them. mark my words 🙂

a lot of people (guys and gals alike) keep a few hot irons glowing - just to be sure if it does not work with one, he/she can turn to the next....i think it's called "friends with benefits". just it's not so much about friendship; it's more about the fucking.


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i didn't say he's never fucked her... just that it didn't/wouldn't go anywhere else. let's be realistic..

PB is in HIS den, with a lot of HIS old/current drama around. At least it's in her face and she knows what she's getting into. Just because he may have hit Virgo #2 a few times in the past and she'd love to continue or get more from him... doesn't say anything about how he feels.

PB and him have only reached hugging stage, and he's doing his observation/ side -step. The whole sleeping in the bed together was just to see her reaction. She basically said, "No thanks..." good move.. probably why he was so into taking the next step of FB friends. (I hate fb btw)

Anyway, If things progress he'll get rid of Virgo #2 but why would he do that now? I'm sure he likes the attention like any guy/girl would.

slow and steady. no expectations. don't flip out.
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Here's some more lol
I'm with Nemesis
I find his involvement with the other Virgo a bit weird if she's liked him for so long and he doesn't like her how come he hasn't blown her off since way back when? Maybe he wants you to see he gets attention from else where to drive your interest for him up or maybe there is something on the side going on with her. I also think it's good you left so you show that you aren't playing into whatever drama he (or she) might be trying to create. Either way if the other Virgo is just a pushy person you come off as the one who is not desperate but ultimately when it comes to other women there's not really anything to get mad at her for. However deep in his life she is, she couldn't get there without him allowing it.
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Shaking my darn head. Two thirst bucket Vigros. Virgo women love to chase men. Stop it! She is not the problem. If he liked you that much, you would not have to ask her to do anything. HE would tell her to kick rocks. You are both acting desperate as hell. You don't like her because you are seeing something you need to change inside yourself in her. Are you his woman? if yes, then act like it and tell HIM to check her. if you are not his woman, stop being so thirsty and fighting over this man that obviously is not that into you or else you would not be in this drama. get a man that is in to you. you deserve that. virgo women are always pretty lovely wonderful women. i am sure you can do better and do not have to put up with this crap.

also, Cancers know what they want when placed side by side. In my opinion he is not that into either of you.
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Posted by LostinmyMind11
Hell yeah fuck that bitch up!!! Lol. I'm kidding...I would have walked too...way to much drama. I mean seriously who locks themselves up in someones room..?!..crazy bitches that's who....it will only get worse...unless he tells her to bounce !



Lmao! Omg Limm, I love ya so much right now! Haha...

You girls are right, I'm way above all this! The fact that he's kept her along as backuo for so long concerns me... He's using her and I'm not cool with that no matter if its with a friend or foe, it speaks badly about his character!
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Posted by Peanutbutter

Ok, I'm over it. Anymore reality checks are more than welcome though!



And this is why Cancers observe behaviour...

PB is this Cancer guys friend's sister, right? There's a complication right there... AND she used to hate him, but now she's seeing him in a different light and is suddenly interested.

Did you think he would drop everything and start pursuing her? Really, I think only a superficial guy out for a fling would try to hit his boy's sister just because she looks his way... Maybe a Sag or a Leo.. but not a Cancer.

A Crab only moves on a sure thing... and PB is already over it.
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(Omg... If any if you have been following my story.......)


I don't think the Cancer likes me because every other word is "Leo this" "Leo that" the Leo is his roommate, he added me on FB the day we met, and my bro and the Crab have been talking shit about him ever since. I swear the Cancer won't say anything to me unless it contains the Leos name.. I don't get it. I feel as though he is pushing me away, and I accept that because apparently (according to the Leo) this Virgo is his gf... Though unofficial, but still if Crabs roomy calls her his gf then wtf am I supposed to think. I dont play around with taken men...

Maybe that's why he is pushing me away? I already know he likes me by the way he looks at me and tries to have my back when it comes to other men (read: his Leo roomy). He doesn't like the fact that Leo is trying to hit it...

Or maybe he doesn't even care and is just being an attention whore douchelord
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Posted by virgodreamz
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I think only a superficial guy out for a fling would try to hit his boy's sister just because she looks his way... Maybe a Sag or a Leo.. but not a Cancer.



Wrong
My cancer's first love was his friend's sister. He was with her until she ended the relationship and still seems to care about her today.

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Pay attention Virgal...

I said, "Just because she looked his way." Long time acquaintances are great for Crabs because they can really get to know someone first, but there can be complications when friends/family are involved. Respect for friends is important, so a Crab wouldn't take the relationship lightly. See what I mean?

btw... i also dated my brother's best friend, but in secret because my brother would have killed him. First love and ya, I still care about him too...

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Pay attention Virgal...

I said, "Just because she looked his way." Long time acquaintances are great for Crabs because they can really get to know someone first, but there can be complications when friends/family are involved. Respect for friends is important, so a Crab wouldn't take the relationship lightly. See what I mean?

btw... i also dated my brother's best friend, but in secret because my brother would have killed him. First love and ya, I still care about him too...

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Okay so to summarize: